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Dik Hz
Feb 22, 2004

Fun with Science

Koala Food posted:

Third house we lost to a higher bid, despite offering 10k over with no contingencies. I'm so tired of docusign.

Our budget is up to 310k - our agent says that earnest money doesn't matter and says there is no reason to put more than 1k if it's a short due diligence period. From talking to a friend who just sold her house, a higher earnest money amount made her feel like the buyer was more "serious." Thoughts on this either way? We see it as it's going to downpayment anyway, so who cares if it's 10k versus 1k if we can meet our due diligence deadlines. We've been a little more conservative with 4-5k due diligence money, but the market here means anything livable is gone in a week, tops.

Also, our agent is a Redfin agent who we don't have a whole lot of confidence in after he's said multiple times that he's taken classes on things like escalation clauses and appraising for over sales price but never actually experienced them and hasn't given us proper comps yet. So we're also on the hunt for a new agent.

Someone please sell me their house so we can be done with this nonsense. We have 'til April or we have to sign another lease.
I sold a house recently. It takes 4-6 weeks for a conventional buyer with a mortgage to close. If they fail to close and the house goes back on the market, it is substantially devalued in the minds of a lot of buyers. The earnest money should, at the very least, cover the carrying cost of the property for those 6 weeks. If I saw an earnest money amount of 0.32% of the transaction, I'd think they weren't earnest at all, tbh. Even if the due diligence period is short.

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Hadlock
Nov 9, 2004

In our area the earnest money deposit was closer to 10%, and the sellers agent would still bristle at getting less than 15%

Shouldn't really matter, that money goes to the seller anyways, and you get it back if you have sane contingencies like inspection, appraisal, and financing

Nybble
Jun 28, 2008

praise chuck, raise heck
Our Earnest money was around 2%. Northern Virginia. 10-15% just seems so absurd, but I'm guessing it's where folks are more likely to be going in with 20% down, if not full cash?

Chad Sexington
May 26, 2005

I think he made a beautiful post and did a great job and he is good.

Koala Food posted:

Third house we lost to a higher bid, despite offering 10k over with no contingencies. I'm so tired of docusign.

Our budget is up to 310k - our agent says that earnest money doesn't matter and says there is no reason to put more than 1k if it's a short due diligence period. From talking to a friend who just sold her house, a higher earnest money amount made her feel like the buyer was more "serious." Thoughts on this either way? We see it as it's going to downpayment anyway, so who cares if it's 10k versus 1k if we can meet our due diligence deadlines. We've been a little more conservative with 4-5k due diligence money, but the market here means anything livable is gone in a week, tops.

Also, our agent is a Redfin agent who we don't have a whole lot of confidence in after he's said multiple times that he's taken classes on things like escalation clauses and appraising for over sales price but never actually experienced them and hasn't given us proper comps yet. So we're also on the hunt for a new agent.

Someone please sell me their house so we can be done with this nonsense. We have 'til April or we have to sign another lease.

We got the line that more earnest money = more serious. For our purchase in December we put up about 5%.

You do still have to weigh how devastating a hit it would be to lose the earnest money. It's unlikely that a seller is just going to try and walk if your lender misses a deadline, for example, but it's not impossible. I was pretty thoroughly puckered when my lender couldn't get their appraiser in on time, at least until the seller signed an extension. But we also waived all but a modified appraisal contingency.

Infinotize
Sep 5, 2003

In Austin where the market is complete insanity the earnest standard is still 1%

Hadlock
Nov 9, 2004

If you drag out the purchase for 90-120 days I can see the seller taking you EMD and putting it back on the market. If your contract says 30 day close and you're at day 32 and your agent can't forward an email from the lender saying "we're working on it" to keep your deal going you picked the wrong agent

Our deal went 30 days over but our agent was in contact with our lender and the sellers agent showing them that progress was happening and we finally closed after about 60 days, largely due to covid things

Maybe if you accidentally ran over the sellers dog, they might come after your EMD out of spite, but I've not heard anyone in this thread lose their emd for standard deal speed bumps (and there's a lot of speed bumps)

Hadlock fucked around with this message at 19:58 on Jan 13, 2021

Infinotize
Sep 5, 2003

Motronic posted:

... standards vary ... depending on the lender, the reviewer's mood/suspicion, the size of the deal, the amount of your down payment, your credit score, your documented assets........

... the mortgage industry is a poo poo show of low achievers doing the bare minimum at the last minute ....

I keep thinking about this post and how incredibly accurate it is

canyoneer
Sep 13, 2005


I only have canyoneyes for you

Infinotize posted:

I keep thinking about this post and how incredibly accurate it is

It's true, all of it.

Hadlock
Nov 9, 2004

Motronic posted:

No such documentation exists (in an accurate form) for several reasons, not the least of which is that the person you are talking to isn't the one who is evaluating the deal. Underwriting standards vary from lender to lender and more or fewer docs will be requested depending on the lender, the reviewer's mood/suspicion, the size of the deal, the amount of your down payment, your credit score, your documented assets........

I get that it really "fells like" this is a reasonable ask, but the mortgage industry is a poo poo show of low achievers doing the bare minimum at the last minute in a fairly standard overall process that treats day to day details as mostly ad-hoc.

OP please put this in the first post

Hawkeye
Jun 2, 2003
Earnest money chat, Seattle: Our realtor told us 3-5% of our max price based on the escalation clause to show you are serious.

If I were selling this place and someone offered under 10k earnest, I’d think they had finance issues if they can’t have some of their deposit unavailable for a few weeks.

Nice and hot piss
Feb 1, 2004

Hawkeye posted:

Earnest money chat, Seattle: Our realtor told us 3-5% of our max price based on the escalation clause to show you are serious.

If I were selling this place and someone offered under 10k earnest, I’d think they had finance issues if they can’t have some of their deposit unavailable for a few weeks.

How often is it that someone puts down like, 5% of earnest money only to not get their mortgage approved? I mean losing 20 grand plus because some underwriter didn't like how much you made the last year and declines your loan would suck lol

Cassius Belli
May 22, 2010

horny is prohibited

Nice and hot piss posted:

How often is it that someone puts down like, 5% of earnest money only to not get their mortgage approved? I mean losing 20 grand plus because some underwriter didn't like how much you made the last year and declines your loan would suck lol

That would fall under your financing contingency; you'd get it back (unless you waived it, which would be... dumb).

ntan1
Apr 29, 2009

sempai noticed me
3%, no contingency.

Cassius Belli
May 22, 2010

horny is prohibited

ntan1 posted:

3%, no contingency.

I think the proper syntax is "No Contingencies, 3% only, Final Offer."

Motronic
Nov 6, 2009

Yond Cassius posted:

I think the proper syntax is "No Contingencies, 3% only, Final Offer."

"No. Money down!"

Sundae
Dec 1, 2005
My realtor was sort of perplexed that I wasn't willing to waive contingencies. She was like "but it's the bay area, you HAVE to," and I was like "Nope, it's the bay area during a pandemic where people are losing their jobs and missing mortgage payments. I'll keep my contingencies, thanks."

I only agreed to waive my inspection contingency on my current place after the seller produced a previous offer's inspection report from a month earlier (because that's close enough that I was fine with it). They still got all the other financing / disclosure contingencies, plus I gave them an acceptance deadline on the offer in exchange for 24-hr earnest money. "I can have the earnest money to you literally EOB within one day of accepting my offer. You get one day to accept or reject." Maybe I gave them 2 days? I think it was just one, though.

Got my condo, they got out, and now I regret everything own a mortgage. :v:

Motronic
Nov 6, 2009

Sundae posted:

My realtor was sort of perplexed that I wasn't willing to waive contingencies. She was like "but it's the bay area, you HAVE to," and I was like "Nope, it's the bay area during a pandemic where people are losing their jobs and missing mortgage payments. I'll keep my contingencies, thanks."

I only agreed to waive my inspection contingency on my current place after the seller produced a previous offer's inspection report from a month earlier (because that's close enough that I was fine with it). They still got all the other financing / disclosure contingencies, plus I gave them an acceptance deadline on the offer in exchange for 24-hr earnest money. "I can have the earnest money to you literally EOB within one day of accepting my offer. You get one day to accept or reject." Maybe I gave them 2 days? I think it was just one, though.

Got my condo, they got out, and now I regret everything own a mortgage. :v:

This is the difference between feeling like buying a home/getting a mortgage is a privilege you barely deserve and must grovel to all the service providers involved (as most people do) and what it actually is: I'm the customer, we'll do this my way (within reason).

Xguard86
Nov 22, 2004

"You don't understand his pain. Everywhere he goes he sees women working, wearing pants, speaking in gatherings, voting. Surely they will burn in the white hot flames of Hell"
Interesting point you have there because my wife and I frequently bristled early on in our process because of that vibe.

After a couple rounds we got to a good point and our mortgage provider was actually very competent so it ended well.

mega dy
Dec 6, 2003

The unfortunate truth about not waiving contingencies on a desirable single family home in a red-hot market like the Bay Area is that pretty much means you're not going to get it, or you'll have to pay more to do so. Realtors are advising you to do that because the seller will get multiple above-asking offers with all/most contingencies waived. It's not like a "my way or the highway" thing.

Source: this happened to me 6 times.

Motronic
Nov 6, 2009

dy. posted:

The unfortunate truth about not waiving contingencies on a desirable single family home in a red-hot market like the Bay Area is that pretty much means you're not going to get it, or you'll have to pay more to do so. Realtors are advising you to do that because the seller will get multiple above-asking offers with all/most contingencies waived. It's not like a "my way or the highway" thing.

Source: this happened to me 6 times.

As has been discussed in this thread and as I've found with friends in the bay area: that depends on the house. There are only so many A list properties and those are the ones you're talking about. It's the minority of properties available, but you and others describe it as if "that's just bay areal real estate, full stop" and it's not the case at all.

Sundae
Dec 1, 2005

dy. posted:

The unfortunate truth about not waiving contingencies on a desirable single family home in a red-hot market like the Bay Area is that pretty much means you're not going to get it, or you'll have to pay more to do so. Realtors are advising you to do that because the seller will get multiple above-asking offers with all/most contingencies waived. It's not like a "my way or the highway" thing.

Source: this happened to me 6 times.

:shrug: I have a condo now, on terms I liked, in the bay area. Anecdotal N=1 and all, but I did it my way with only one offer. (But seriously - at any time other than a pandemic, I'd 100% agree with you. The market just wasn't as hot at the start of the pandemic, briefly.)

mega dy
Dec 6, 2003

Motronic posted:

As has been discussed in this thread and as I've found with friends in the bay area: that depends on the house. There are only so many A list properties and those are the ones you're talking about. It's the minority of properties available, but you and others describe it as if "that's just bay areal real estate, full stop" and it's not the case at all.
Not to waste too much breath on semantics, but I very much did not say the second part of this. My post specifically called out a desirable SFH in a red-hot market. It absolutely depends on the market and the house. My point is just that there's a reason that the realtor would advise you to do this.

Obviously a realtor's incentives are more about winning the deal than making sure it is a good financial decision for you, so they're always going to push you towards a riskier bid that will more likely win the deal and get them paid faster and with less work. But also, sometimes you do need to do that to get the property you want.

ntan1
Apr 29, 2009

sempai noticed me
Also at a certain price in the SFBA, it just ends up being worth it to fix the issues the previous owner left (thereby mitigating the inspection contingency).

mega dy
Dec 6, 2003

ntan1 posted:

Also at a certain price in the SFBA, it just ends up being worth it to fix the issues the previous owner left (thereby mitigating the inspection contingency).
Personally the inspection contingency was the one I was least likely to waive (among inspection, loan, and appraisal). "Issues the previous owner left there" can be pretty severe. The only time we did it was when there was a comprehensive, existing report available and the property was obviously in excellent condition (which was I think one time). We had it on the house we eventually won, which was a life-saver since it ended up having a plethora of major issues, which is why there are plumbers banging around under my house as I write this.

There was one really cool older house that we lost out on that needed a lot of work and sat on a hill held up by a retaining wall. The seller's inspection report noted that the retaining wall was in danger of failing and should be looked at by a specialist. We lost because we put in an inspection contingency to get that issue examined further (this kind of work can run into six figures), and we know that the winning bid had zero contingencies. The winner was either a real dummy or an expert in retaining walls, my guess is the former.

ntan1
Apr 29, 2009

sempai noticed me
Likely real dumb.

But from a sellers perspective, besides cheating the heck out of the buyer, the other reason they would want inspection contingencies waved in the SFBA is that there has been a pattern of buyers using the inspection contingency as a crazy negotiation tactic to try to screw the seller over. Eventually the law of tragedy of the commons followed and now the money that you would lose from having somebody maliciously use a inspection contingency is factored into the bid price.

YMMV obviously, but when a house costs $2.0m, most even larger maintenance tasks (ie, even things like plumbing the sewer lateral on the street, full electrical replacement, structural changes) are going to be a max of $15k and can be amortized into the cost of buying. The exception is going to be something (indeed) like a retaining wall, or house location (ie, below sea level/in a flooding zone/fire risk/susceptible to landslides).

B-Nasty
May 25, 2005

ntan1 posted:

YMMV obviously, but when a house costs $2.0m, most even larger maintenance tasks (ie, even things like plumbing the sewer lateral on the street, full electrical replacement, structural changes) are going to be a max of $15k and can be amortized into the cost of buying. The exception is going to be something (indeed) like a retaining wall, or house location (ie, below sea level/in a flooding zone/fire risk/susceptible to landslides).

This is what many people seem to miss about not having an inspection contingency in these looney-toon housing markets. It's pretty silly to worry about 4-figure defects when you're talking about paying millions for a 1700 sq ft house constructed in the 60s.

Many of the major (5-figure+) defects are also pretty readily apparent to anyone with even some basic construction knowledge.

Motronic
Nov 6, 2009

B-Nasty posted:

This is what many people seem to miss about not having an inspection contingency in these looney-toon housing markets. It's pretty silly to worry about 4-figure defects when you're talking about paying millions for a 1700 sq ft house constructed in the 60s.

Guess what else is looney in those markets? People buying these homes spending so much of their savings and income that they can't afford a $15k problem.

mega dy
Dec 6, 2003

B-Nasty posted:

This is what many people seem to miss about not having an inspection contingency in these looney-toon housing markets. It's pretty silly to worry about 4-figure defects when you're talking about paying millions for a 1700 sq ft house constructed in the 60s.

Many of the major (5-figure+) defects are also pretty readily apparent to anyone with even some basic construction knowledge.
My inspection contingency uncovered ~60k of work. None of it was obvious.

From the seller's perspective, I get that it's particularly dangerous. We could have walked away for literally any reason penalty-free. It would have massively screwed her over because her own purchase was contingent on the sale. It gave us a great deal of negotiating power to adjust the price based on the inspection results.

mega dy fucked around with this message at 21:06 on Jan 14, 2021

Epitope
Nov 27, 2006

Grimey Drawer

B-Nasty posted:

Many of the major (5-figure+) defects are also pretty readily apparent to anyone with even some basic construction knowledge.

I don't doubt there's people who are better at this than me, but I don't think I'm a total dunce and I got nailed (with an inspection...)

Inner Light
Jan 2, 2020



Yeah gonna disagree with the goon that said most inspection issues are readily apparent. I would have to stretch to purchase a used car without a professional inspection -- a residence is gonna be a no from me.

Pilfered Pallbearers
Aug 2, 2007

ntan1 posted:

Likely real dumb.

But from a sellers perspective, besides cheating the heck out of the buyer, the other reason they would want inspection contingencies waved in the SFBA is that there has been a pattern of buyers using the inspection contingency as a crazy negotiation tactic to try to screw the seller over. Eventually the law of tragedy of the commons followed and now the money that you would lose from having somebody maliciously use a inspection contingency is factored into the bid price.

YMMV obviously, but when a house costs $2.0m, most even larger maintenance tasks (ie, even things like plumbing the sewer lateral on the street, full electrical replacement, structural changes) are going to be a max of $15k and can be amortized into the cost of buying. The exception is going to be something (indeed) like a retaining wall, or house location (ie, below sea level/in a flooding zone/fire risk/susceptible to landslides).

I mean, for most if they wanna buy there only option is to stretch and fully deplete savings. To have to drop 15k directly after that is brutal, especially when a $600 inspection could have saved you that 15k in the cost of the house.

Epitope
Nov 27, 2006

Grimey Drawer

Pilfered Pallbearers posted:

a $600 inspection could* have saved you that 15k in the cost of the house.

*results may vary. No guarantee expressed or implied. In the event of an error or omission, take a hike sucker

pmchem
Jan 22, 2010


my inspection easily paid for itself. there weren't even any huge "$15k" sort of issues, just a bunch of minor stuff. but having an inspection gives you a document to club the sellers with in final negotiations, even if it mostly contains issues you already noticed yourself.

ntan1
Apr 29, 2009

sempai noticed me

Motronic posted:

Guess what else is looney in those markets? People buying these homes spending so much of their savings and income that they can't afford a $15k problem.

Indeed.

Pilfered Pallbearers posted:

I mean, for most if they wanna buy there only option is to stretch and fully deplete savings. To have to drop 15k directly after that is brutal, especially when a $600 inspection could have saved you that 15k in the cost of the house.

You're making the assumption that everybody who is buying is doing this. There's definitely a lot of folks doing this but never underestimate how rich people are in the SFBA.

pmchem posted:

my inspection easily paid for itself. there weren't even any huge "$15k" sort of issues, just a bunch of minor stuff. but having an inspection gives you a document to club the sellers with in final negotiations, even if it mostly contains issues you already noticed yourself.

And this is why the tragedy of commons exists. Enough people hated buyers doing this that they stopped accepting offers with the inspection contingency.

Motronic
Nov 6, 2009

ntan1 posted:

You're making the assumption that everybody who is buying is doing this. There's definitely a lot of folks doing this but never underestimate how rich people are in the SFBA.

Yeah, this goes back to the poster that literally can't accept that "cash offer" means "I have cash to buy this house" as opposed to some convoluted definition where they are getting a mortgage but not talking about it during the buying process.

B-Nasty
May 25, 2005

dy. posted:

My inspection contingency uncovered ~60k of work. None of it was obvious.

Our definitions or level of experience must differ if a home inspector (not a true expert) uncovered 60K of defects.

I think waving the inspection contingency is lunacy, but my experience is in a market where 70+% of the purchase price isn't the land itself. I didn't badger any of the sellers I bought from with piddly fixes. If I scale that up to the ultra hot markets, I can see why many buyers care more about getting the (million dollar, fast moving) house than worrying about a couple thousand bucks.

Chad Sexington
May 26, 2005

I think he made a beautiful post and did a great job and he is good.
Hello, idiot in a hot market who waived inspection contingency here.

SOP is still to do a pre-inspection. It's not going to uncover all possible problems, but you're still likely to spot most that would cost you five figures.

Motronic
Nov 6, 2009

B-Nasty posted:

I think waving the inspection contingency is lunacy, but my experience is in a market where 70+% of the purchase price isn't the land itself. I didn't badger any of the sellers I bought from with piddly fixes. If I scale that up to the ultra hot markets, I can see why many buyers care more about getting the (million dollar, fast moving) house than worrying about a couple thousand bucks.

I think the part you're missing here is that you think the people buying these million + homes in ultra hot markets can actually afford them by traditional sanity metrics like percent of income vs. PITI payment.

A lot, if not most, literally can't. They're trying to grab the tail of the dragon so they're not left behind. They may "own" a million+ house but they are hosed if anything goes wrong, and "going wrong" includes "not everything in the same direction" where they can keep getting raises/equity that pays out.

It's not everyone.....but it's a lot of them.

spf3million
Sep 27, 2007

hit 'em with the rhythm

Motronic posted:

I think the part you're missing here is that you think the people buying these million + homes in ultra hot markets can actually afford them by traditional sanity metrics like percent of income vs. PITI payment.

A lot, if not most, literally can't. They're trying to grab the tail of the dragon so they're not left behind. They may "own" a million+ house but they are hosed if anything goes wrong, and "going wrong" includes "not everything in the same direction" where they can keep getting raises/equity that pays out.

It's not everyone.....but it's a lot of them.
drat this hits so close to home. $200k in my bank account for down payment + closing costs, currently looking at houses from $850k-$1.1MM.

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Hadlock
Nov 9, 2004

If you're buying a 2 million house and it needs $15,000 in repairs, assuming the economy does not completely crater, at 2% inflation it'll appreciate by $40,000 (- $15,000 = 25,000 appreciation) assuming you can even get the work done in the first year, the way home repair wait lists are going these days. Or just wait for your property tax return the following april ($12,000) and pay the repairs out of that. Unless the roof is caving in, or you have black mold for carpets.

There's a weird situation with a house in los gatos (really rich, really white suburb of san jose) I keep stumbling upon, it's ~300,000 for a 2700 sq ft house on a creek, every other house in the neighborhood is $1.5 million or higher, the problem is that it is sitting downhill from a fresh landslide, needs ~$1mm in earthworks/retaining wall, and has less than 8 months left to finish city required rennovations or it loses it's occupancy permit, or something

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