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AITA for asking my friend to not propose on my birthday tripquote:Many of my friends are turning 40 next year, so I asked my closest friend Jenn in the group if she wanted to do a shared birthday and make a big trip out of it. She said yes, yay, and I planned and booked a trip for the group. Researched destinations and flights and accommodations and activities, booked and organized everything, coordinated schedules for 16 people, etc (all with her blessing).
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Jun 16, 2021 06:33
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She's absolutely not the rear end in a top hat, imo. If you co-opt somebody else's planned event into your engagement event, you're the rear end in a top hat. Doesn't matter what it is. Wedding, birthday, holiday party, whatever. Also, lol at "You don't want me to make this trip into my engagement party, you only think about yourself."
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Jun 16, 2021 07:01
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for asking my friend to not propose on my birthday trip Thanks for planning my engagement vacation, that sure would have been a lot of work if I had cared about my soon to be fiancé enough to do it.
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Jun 16, 2021 07:20
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Edit: On second thought, here’s a less sad one:quote:I always like to carry wet wipes with me in my purse. Problem is that every wipe brand i find has either alcohol (antiseptic), or doesn't clean well enough because it is not moist enough. Due to my busy schedule, i eat on the go a lot, so i need something to temporarily clean my face, without water involved. The mini shop in my neighborhood has brought some pretty nice baby wipes. They come in small package, are perfectly moist and have a wonderful aroma. Not many people buy from that shop as it is not in a central place in the city, so there are lots to go around. I didn't think much of it until the day before yesterday. ibntumart fucked around with this message at 09:29 on Jun 16, 2021 |
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Jun 16, 2021 09:02
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The gently caress is wrong with your friend? Why are they your friend? Why haven't you let the crows take them away to lands of hel?
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Jun 16, 2021 09:42
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ibntumart posted:Edit: On second thought, here’s a less sad one: This just reminds me how Howard Stern would spend upwards of an hour talking about his making GBS threads regimen, including using baby wipes and a little platform so he could squat over his toilet, to an audience of millions without shame.
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Jun 16, 2021 09:46
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ibntumart posted:Edit: On second thought, here’s a less sad one: It never ceases to amaze me what people consciously choose to get mad about, but gatekeeping baby wipes is a trip. Don't want to sleep in the same bed my gf had sex with someone else in while we were apart quote:Me(26) and my gf(24) broke up because she didn't see a future with me after a long line of poor communication and I had distanced myself from her. She didn't want to give it another go. Ah yes, clearly the bed is the problem.
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Jun 16, 2021 09:47
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ibntumart posted:Edit: On second thought, here’s a less sad one: The entire armed forces deployed in OEF/OIF/WTF would disagree with your friend.
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Jun 16, 2021 09:52
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What about if she gets Dude Wipes, is she depriving dudes of sufficiently masculine cleanliness
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Jun 16, 2021 09:59
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Cobalt-60 posted:The entire armed forces deployed in OEF/OIF/WTF would disagree with your friend. Not having baby wipes even for a dumbfuck weekend field op is a rookie mistake.
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Jun 16, 2021 10:16
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MagusofStars posted:Also lol at the fact he's barely even bought the present and her friends/her are already thinking of the resale value once they break up. No red flags there buddy.
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Jun 16, 2021 10:49
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Arsenic Lupin posted:AITA dressing my son with the girls clothes his dad's family brought him He'll probably write some good stories, but don't get him a cat.
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Jun 16, 2021 12:33
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Theophany posted:...had this been a mutual breakup... the fact op is bringing that up doesn't make me feel great. gf should run.
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Jun 16, 2021 12:36
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artsy fartsy posted:AITA for insisting that my wife’s friends stay in a hotel? So am I the only one wondering how a rabbit accidentally gets that close to your junk?
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Jun 16, 2021 13:10
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My (23F) boyfriend (23M) showed his mom our sex painting and I’m embarrassed.quote:His mother (63F) was talking about getting something framed, and he said “oh, I got something framed once, it’s not cheap.” His mom asked what it was, he sent the painting to his mom. Here’s where it gets weird. His mom showed the painting to a random woman in her office. That woman was like, “hmmm, that looks like a sex painting.” So my bf never actually told his mom it was a sex painting, but he sent it to her and she figured it out. Next thing you know, we meet his mom and some of her friends at a bar and they were looking at our painting and discussing it. When I sat down she started asking me all about it and getting all excited, saying I need to show her where I got it so her and her husband can do it. She then wanted me to go sit next to one of her coworkers and tell them about it as well. The whole time I was extremely embarrassed and my bf was trying to get his mother to shut up. quote:INFO: tf is a sex painting? quote:My bad, a sex painting is where you put non-toxic paint on each other’s bodies and have sex on the canvas.
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Jun 16, 2021 13:26
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Is it sad that I both immediately knew what it was and thought it was kind of tacky in an outdated kitschy way?
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Jun 16, 2021 13:39
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How does that like, work? You just lay out a canvas, throw some paint, and gently caress on it?
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Jun 16, 2021 13:49
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SMEGMA_MAIL posted:How does that like, work? You just lay out a canvas, throw some paint, and gently caress on it? Yeah, basically. It results in basically one of two things; really dull canvases where its a butt, spread legs, a back and two legs in between or a messy pile of knee caps, legs and errant hands all over. Its one of those things that mentally sounds really cool but often comes out looking bad and having all the same quality as having to over explain an inside joke that is funny to no one else, but its how the artist hosed. Usually you streak different paints on yourselves to give more flair but it can result in the canvas quickly looking like someone took a heinous poo poo if done wrong. Someone showed me theres in college and the dudes nutsack painted a blurry brown streak coming from the butt print and it looked like someone trying to give gun girl a run for her poo poo size money. Barudak fucked around with this message at 13:55 on Jun 16, 2021 |
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Jun 16, 2021 13:52
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SMEGMA_MAIL posted:How does that like, work? You just lay out a canvas, throw some paint, and gently caress on it? I always thought you put the paint on yourself/each other, then gently caress on a blank canvas
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Jun 16, 2021 13:53
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whats the proper canvas size for a gently caress painting, does it need to be as big as a mattress or can I just dip my cock into some blue paint and mash it around on a nice portrait
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Jun 16, 2021 14:00
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Tiberius Christ posted:whats the proper canvas size for a gently caress painting, does it need to be as big as a mattress or can I just dip my cock into some blue paint and mash it around on a nice portrait You can do whatever you want, miniatures can be very valuable in art.
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Jun 16, 2021 14:13
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Tiberius Christ posted:whats the proper canvas size for a gently caress painting, does it need to be as big as a mattress or can I just dip my cock into some blue paint and mash it around on a nice portrait What blows my mind is that these people went and got their mattress-sized canvas professionally framed
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Jun 16, 2021 14:25
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what if paint ends up inside someone like i dont see how you can possibly avoid that happening if you've been adequately pre-painted but I also refuse to google this
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Jun 16, 2021 14:31
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The Bramble posted:What blows my mind is that these people went and got their mattress-sized canvas professionally framed No wonder framing wasn’t cheap. Loki Kunti posted:You can do whatever you want, miniatures can be very valuable in art. 
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Jun 16, 2021 14:32
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Loki Kunti posted:You can do whatever you want, miniatures can be very valuable in art. lol
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Jun 16, 2021 14:34
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thotsky posted:He'll probably write some good stories, but don't get him a cat. LMAO this is a Good Joke
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Jun 16, 2021 14:47
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He's not mentally disabled or a predator, he just wants to be friends with a girl half his age! AITA for defending my brother after he was catfished? quote:My brother has never had a girlfriend. He is 28 and lives with my parents on disability. He was born with osteogenesis imperfecta. He is not mentally disabled, but lacks social skills due to his lack of friends. He found a girl on a dating app who's profile said she was 19. After chatting for about a day, she revealed that she was 14, to which he said he would like to stay friends. He did not say anything sexual to her; he said was that he wanted to hug and watch anime.
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Jun 16, 2021 14:54
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for defending my brother after he was catfished? You could do a master's thesis in anthro on this post
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Jun 16, 2021 15:02
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Don’t try to gently caress kids hope that helps!
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Jun 16, 2021 15:07
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Cowslips Warren posted:He's not mentally disabled or a predator, he just wants to be friends with a girl half his age! Did the guy want to gently caress the fourteen year old? Maybe. Did he want a friend regardless? Definitely. Is this a great example of why vigilante tactics done by some random fuckin’ guy are bad, rather than the people being accountable in any way? Absolutely.
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Jun 16, 2021 15:08
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Cowslips Warren posted:the group said that our town was "crawling with sickos" and that they were "going to clean poo poo up this week". Ah yes, just cleaning up the town with the very normal and totally not warped behaviour of posing as a 14-year old girl online and having inappropriate conversations with weirdos because on some level we actually get off on it. That should solve the sicko problem blighting our picturesque little hick town.
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Jun 16, 2021 15:11
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Theophany posted:Ah yes, just cleaning up the town with the very normal and totally not warped behaviour of posing as a 14-year old girl online and having inappropriate conversations with weirdos because on some level we actually get off on it. That should solve the sicko problem blighting our picturesque little hick town. Plus nothing they do is actionable in court so they're not even removing predators from the community.
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Jun 16, 2021 15:13
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Yeah regardless of the intent of the guy (who I am inclined to be sympathetic towards - that's a severe and unpleasant condition he has) anyone who involves themselves with this kind of group is a piece of poo poo just looking for an acceptable target.Atticus_1354 posted:Plus nothing they do is actionable in court so they're not even removing predators from the community. That's actually not true here in the UK, don't know about elsewhere. Sanford fucked around with this message at 15:42 on Jun 16, 2021 |
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Jun 16, 2021 15:17
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Atticus_1354 posted:Plus nothing they do is actionable in court so they're not even removing predators from the community. Locally there is a woman sitting in prison who attempted some vigilante catfishing, but used her daughter and friend as the bait, and went so far as to drive then across state lines for one of her "stings." None of the predators she was going after went to prison, but she sure did.
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Jun 16, 2021 15:19
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I feel like I need to shower having read this. Reminds me of so many people I had the misfortune of working with. How do I (early 20s F) politely reject someone (40+ M) in this situation? quote:Tldr: A man in his 40s(?) whose service I used has asked me out and I want to say no, but I'm not sure how because I am anxious and I don't feel at ease with his money and influence.
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Jun 16, 2021 15:23
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Cowslips Warren posted:He's not mentally disabled or a predator, he just wants to be friends with a girl half his age! I don't like people who predate on the young but I also don't like these weird sickos who get their jollies by catfishing and attempting to destroy people's lives. I'm always remind of that guy on TV in the 90's who would go around parking lots and catch people loving in their cars at midnight. He would wait around and watch for a bit and you could hear the almost orgasmic delight in his voice when he would surprise them. A lot of these predator hunters aren't trying to protect kids, they're doing it out some sort of sick pleasure.
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Jun 16, 2021 15:27
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This may be all well and true about the creepiness of the predator hunters, but he was still trying to gently caress a 14 year old
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Jun 16, 2021 15:36
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Tarkus posted:I don't like people who predate on the young but I also don't like these weird sickos who get their jollies by catfishing and attempting to destroy people's lives. I'm always remind of that guy on TV in the 90's who would go around parking lots and catch people loving in their cars at midnight. He would wait around and watch for a bit and you could hear the almost orgasmic delight in his voice when he would surprise them. A lot of these predator hunters aren't trying to protect kids, they're doing it out some sort of sick pleasure. Somewhere between weird power trip fantasy to reverse their dads berating them, and whataboutism to identify a worse predator to make up for their secret attraction to 16 year olds.
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Jun 16, 2021 15:43
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SMEGMA_MAIL posted:This may be all well and true about the creepiness of the predator hunters, but he was still trying to gently caress a 14 year old And now nothing has been done to prevent that happening in the future.
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Different states have different laws regarding those types of stings done by citizens. You'll notice these groups flourish in areas where the law can't do anything with their chat logs and videos, instead they just put everything on YouTube with a terrible intro rap performed by one of their friends. They're often anti-LGBTQ and love to target people that are obviously mentally challenged.
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