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Link? Also does anyone have a link to the thread from the guy whose wife woke up one day with an entirely different personality and just ran off? I think she vanished for like s month.
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Aug 13, 2021 03:54
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someone did a little research in 2017:DoctorTristan posted:P[arachutePatty]'s not been seen since her thread. hoping the "my wife is in a persistent vegetative state" goon is doing well ChickenOfTomorrow has a new favorite as of 04:15 on Aug 13, 2021 |
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Aug 13, 2021 04:13
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Upgrade posted:Link? Also does anyone have a link to the thread from the guy whose wife woke up one day with an entirely different personality and just ran off? I think she vanished for like s month. Are you thinking of Agatha Christie?
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Aug 13, 2021 04:30
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ChickenOfTomorrow posted:someone did a little research in 2017: Well, Parachute Patty was a parachute account for another poster, so she wouldn't be posting outside of that one thread anyway. I poked around a bit on google/bing/duckduckgo and didn't find the thread, I wonder if it got memory holed.
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Aug 13, 2021 04:35
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HelloIAmYourHeart posted:Well, Parachute Patty was a parachute account for another poster, so she wouldn't be posting outside of that one thread anyway. I think E/N isn't public so generally inaccessible to google and other search crawlers: trying to help myself Hub Cat has a new favorite as of 04:57 on Aug 13, 2021 |
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Aug 13, 2021 04:45
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https://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?threadid=3741111quote:Mindy has special dietary needs. I cook natural foods because processed foods contain things she isn't supposed to eat. There are some restaurant meals that she can have but they're very limited. She's also cautious regarding all kinds of foods so there are additional things she tries to avoid if they're not healthy enough. The real difficulty is how hard she takes it if anything goes wrong. This isn't only regarding food but anything that goes wrong at all. Her illness has made her reactions severe. Here's an example. Basically an entire thread of responses going "you're being abused" come to this in the space of a few pages quote:Regarding your story - yes to destroying objects, although this is rare, maybe an average of once a year, although one year when she was really stressed out about something it happened around 6 times. The part that ticks me off most, oddly enough, is that the majority of the time I'm the one who ended up cleaning up the debris in order to help her calm down. Otherwise the moody aftermath will be worse / last longer. Near the end of the thread someone summarized the previous 70 pages quote:But she absolutely does know it. Just a few examples, from what you've said in the thread: It basically ends with PP being all "well some abusers don't ever change, but Mindy is changing and I'm willing to stand up to her now" like holy poo poo you realize this is literally part of the cycle of abuse. not great. pentyne has a new favorite as of 04:54 on Aug 13, 2021 |
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Aug 13, 2021 04:49
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Aug 13, 2021 04:58
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Did she ever say explicitly what her illness was?
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Aug 13, 2021 05:06
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pentyne posted:It basically ends with PP being all "well some abusers don't ever change, but Mindy is changing and I'm willing to stand up to her now" like holy poo poo you realize this is literally part of the cycle of abuse.
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Aug 13, 2021 06:01
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Jesus christ that's depressing.
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Aug 13, 2021 07:02
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I'm so sorry for that person, I sincerely hope they managed to break free in the end
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Aug 13, 2021 07:06
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It's made worse by the fact that same-sex relationships are often not treated seriously by law enforcement or the courts. Abusive same-sex relationships are about as common as they are in any other relationships, and the abuse often takes the same forms. Lesbian relationships can often include physical abuse that gets ignored by authorities, same with those of gay men. Female-on-male abuse is often glossed over or invisible, because it doesn't fit societal expectations, either. Trauma is so drat common I'd like to see trauma-informed care forced into the training for every cop and healthcare worker, and then additional training on top of that.
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Aug 13, 2021 07:12
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it would be more effective if it was targeted at cop's wives
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Aug 13, 2021 08:37
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CaptainSarcastic posted:It's made worse by the fact that same-sex relationships are often not treated seriously by law enforcement or the courts. Abusive same-sex relationships are about as common as they are in any other relationships, and the abuse often takes the same forms. Lesbian relationships can often include physical abuse that gets ignored by authorities, same with those of gay men. Female-on-male abuse is often glossed over or invisible, because it doesn't fit societal expectations, either. In the female on male scenarios its usually almost impossible to spot from the inside because it usually takes the forms of emotional abuse, which is invisible by default before you add a dash of 'men aren't the abused partner'
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Aug 13, 2021 16:39
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There was a guy from my old town that everyone teased for being "henpecked" and "whipped" until his wife killed him and herself. Kinda changed all the public screaming and yelling matches our town saw from funny/embarrassing to "oh gently caress, how did we not see that coming." That all happened before I was born, but even in retellings a lot of the blame was put on him for "not being able to control her."
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Aug 13, 2021 16:46
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RFC2324 posted:In the female on male scenarios its usually almost impossible to spot from the inside because it usually takes the forms of emotional abuse, which is invisible by default before you add a dash of 'men aren't the abused partner' As someone who has been there, yeah. There's also the "What sort of wuss are you?" thing that society does with abused men. I look back on that time in my life now and wonder how the hell I didn't see what was going on.
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Aug 13, 2021 18:09
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They'll always find another victim within weeks. You can't protect someone who doesn't feel instinctive outrage at being treated like poo poo. The priority should be to to find abusive personalities on a second offence and remove them from society until they are safe (so being realistic, for the rest of their lives)
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Aug 13, 2021 18:11
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https://twitter.com/redditships/status/1426244579502739463 Congratulations, we've destroyed someone's relationship
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Aug 13, 2021 19:35
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Nuns with Guns posted:https://twitter.com/redditships/status/1426244579502739463 Look, we don't know that. With a quick googling I couldn't find that thread unfortunately cause I really wanted to know how that situation unfolds.
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Aug 13, 2021 19:46
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https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/p3gun0/me_28m_with_my_girlfriend_28f_found_out_shes/
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Aug 13, 2021 19:52
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tight aspirations posted:https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/p3gun0/me_28m_with_my_girlfriend_28f_found_out_shes/ Aw man, it's a bit disappointing that most comments are just "nah it's fine" I was hoping they'd link the vice article about FYAD being Nazis or something.
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Aug 13, 2021 19:55
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IGgy IGsen posted:Aw man, it's a bit disappointing that most comments are just "nah it's fine" I was hoping they'd link the vice article about FYAD being Nazis or something. Be the change you want to see in this world. edit: I should be clear this is a joke, don't really do this. Zil has a new favorite as of 20:08 on Aug 13, 2021 |
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Aug 13, 2021 19:56
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Lol @ being a redditor in 2021 and being more worried about a forum of 40-year-olds whose main hobbies are posting cats and slapfighting about whether Bukharin or Hohxa was the true inheritor of the revolution
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Aug 13, 2021 20:01
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Zil posted:Be the change you want to see in this world. Please don't
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Aug 13, 2021 20:01
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I commented that I post here and I'm a stand-up individual instead. That last part may not be true but they don't need to know that. First time I used my reddit account in ages.
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Aug 13, 2021 20:05
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IGgy IGsen posted:Aw man, it's a bit disappointing that most comments are just "nah it's fine" I was hoping they'd link the vice article about FYAD being Nazis or something. I do like that most of the comments are essentially "you're posting this on reddit....."
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Aug 13, 2021 20:11
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 it was posted by a goon to gauge reddit sentiment but only goon redditors posted replies so we will never know
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Aug 13, 2021 22:11
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Reveal yourself ladygoon
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Aug 13, 2021 22:51
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Someone with a reddit account and disposable income buy the dude an account too
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Aug 13, 2021 23:07
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no dont buy one for jon stewart so he can finally explain whether the phrase "comedy gold" was a reference or not
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Aug 13, 2021 23:18
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Carthag Tuek posted:no dont
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Aug 13, 2021 23:27
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Robin Williams already has an account and he still posts 
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Aug 14, 2021 00:42
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OK now it makes sense why he named his daughter Zelda. Only a goon would do that!
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Aug 14, 2021 00:48
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Spooky!
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Aug 14, 2021 00:52
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Robobot posted:There was a guy from my old town that everyone teased for being "henpecked" and "whipped" until his wife killed him and herself. Kinda changed all the public screaming and yelling matches our town saw from funny/embarrassing to "oh gently caress, how did we not see that coming." It's a throwback to medieval/early modern european peasant morality. In rural France, if a husband was 'henpecked' eventually the whole community would gather around their house and harass them until he beat his wife. Patriarchy does and always has required incredible and ugly social pressure to maintain.
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Aug 14, 2021 00:53
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I haven’t heard “whipped” in years. Glad it’s gone
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Aug 14, 2021 01:05
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pentyne posted:https://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?threadid=3741111 Augh dangit. PP's partner's behavior reminds me of a (former) friend of mine who had a self-diagnosed extremely specific health condition that would google constantly. It would flare up occasionally and she would make everyone turn their lives upside down because pity poor me. Because it was environmental she'd destroy apartments and then crash on people's couches and then destroy their homes. We repeatedly told her to stop listening to internet doctors and start working with real doctors to get to the bottom of it. After she basically lost all of her friends and burned every bridge it turned out that it wasn't a super rare super special morgellans-tier undiagnosable super disease that only internet people know about because doctors are idiots: it was a personality disorder layered with anxiety attacks.
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Hodgepodge posted:It's a throwback to medieval/early modern european peasant morality. In rural France, if a husband was 'henpecked' eventually the whole community would gather around their house and harass them until he beat his wife.
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FactsAreUseless posted:I think this still happens on Dr. Phil I'm sure Dr. Phil uses only the best euphemisms and quack psychology to promote and encourage domestic abuse.
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