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DeadMansSuspenders posted:I'm at work so I can't post much but I wanted to say that this thread iteration needs the Timothy story. DeadMansSuspenders posted:Also for the last time, it's DIPAC because you read it like dye pack, like the thing that blows up in your face, much like these relationships 
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AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to dye her hair?quote:My girlfriend approached me and said she wanted to dye the tips of he hair. The problem I had is that I'm not really attracted to dyed hair, and so it bothered me a little bit. Desperate to find positives for dyeing hair I looked it up and the cons definitely outweigh the pros. Knowing this and the fact someone in my family as well as a friend used to have dyed hair and they said they hated it, I confronted her and she got really defensive and started getting very angry at me. I felt very guilty because I didn't want to make the decision for her so I told her we could text this instead of getting very emotional (and potentially hateful) about it. I told her that i found her natural beauty more attractive than anything something like dye could ever do, and that i think she shouldn't change they way she looks because she's already perfect to me. After I told her everything, she said, " regardless of how the argument ends, I'm still going to do it." So, in a fit of immature anger, I said, "gently caress you." (This obviously wasn't a good idea no matter the circumstances) so she was reasonably upset so I kept trying to backtrack and kept saying I was sorry. She eventually responded after I said, "listen to me please" she asked, "what" so I told her. "I’m sorry. I just don’t want you to make a mistake that may or may not even happen. Like I always say, your natural beauty is perfect for me and everyone else, but especially me. I love you the way you are and I just can’t bear you changing." And she said she understood. This was written right after, and I feel bad. (As stated this was written right after so I'm still pretty emotional, like her so please forgive any grammar mistakes.)
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Oct 21, 2021 02:25
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dye your hair and get a new partner who isn't a dumb fuckin rear end in a top hat, win win
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Oct 21, 2021 02:27
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Piell posted:AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to dye her hair? I can understand trying to protect you partner from making a permanent life-altering decision on a whim.
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Oct 21, 2021 02:28
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Rescue Toaster posted:I can understand trying to protect you partner from making a permanent life-altering decision on a whim. But dying your hair is not one...?
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Oct 21, 2021 02:31
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What are you talking about? You can never undo a bad dye job or haircut.
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Oct 21, 2021 02:33
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Rescue Toaster posted:I can understand trying to protect you partner from making a permanent life-altering decision on a whim. Lol YTA
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Oct 21, 2021 02:35
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if you have dark hair and bleach it, it's pretty much hosed
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Oct 21, 2021 02:36
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staying with a dipshit who believes a woman's value is tied to their beauty and shouldn't dye her hair because idk biotruths is a life altering decision but you can make it not permanent, by leaving
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Oct 21, 2021 02:37
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hallo spacedog posted:But dying your hair is not one...? Virigoth posted:Lol YTA You're acting as if there was a process to safely remove the tips of her hair after they've been stained.
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Oct 21, 2021 02:42
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Is it better to send the money and not have any connection with the kid, or is it better to force a connection with a kid he clearly doesn't want and may abandon later in life if he's still adamant he doesn't want a kid? I feel like the kids sake he did the right thing. He is an rear end in a top hat but he did something assholish for the right reason. But the mom sucks too for forcing a connection that would traumatize the kid who would be desperate for attention from a dad who clearly doesn't want to give it All in all I feel really bad for the kid
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Oct 21, 2021 03:04
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That kid's life sucks, and its not their fault, and unironically they should probably have not been born.
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Oct 21, 2021 03:07
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Barudak posted:Trying to figure out what book has the name Cataleya as a name and could not give less of a poo poo about the rest of the story. Google tells me Cataleya is the main character in Columbiana, which is about cartels and revenge murders, and I feel like that's way too cool for OP. That's as close as I can find
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Oct 21, 2021 03:13
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Probably already been posted but if not there’s a lot of good content in here, and also I’m depressed now that I read that and realized I’ve seen and remember like 90% of them. https://reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/qbwi13/redditors_who_fequent_aita_whats_the_biggest/
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Oct 21, 2021 03:14
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Seth Pecksniff posted:Is it better to send the money and not have any connection with the kid, or is it better to force a connection with a kid he clearly doesn't want and may abandon later in life if he's still adamant he doesn't want a kid? I think my answer is that this guy seems like a real sack of poo poo, this wasn’t some drunken hookup that resulted in a pregnancy; it was his wife. I guess he wasn’t real committed to that relationship! But yeah, he should stay away, but don’t go trying to find kudos from the internet for it
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Oct 21, 2021 03:17
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Malkof posted:Just Dew it: Sister has been reading this thread and can't recognize sarcasm.
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Oct 21, 2021 03:48
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quote:AITA for getting my sister arrested?
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Oct 21, 2021 03:50
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Sir DonkeyPunch posted:I think my answer is that this guy seems like a real sack of poo poo, this wasn’t some drunken hookup that resulted in a pregnancy; it was his wife. I guess he wasn’t real committed to that relationship! quote:I had told her that it was due to a contraceptive fail and I don't want to have a child. I wasn't allowed to get a vasectomy done because I was too young then. If she wasn't in agreement with his thoughts about having not children, saying "oops I'm pregnant now, gonna have to be a father" is an rear end in a top hat move. The betrayal probably hurts more in a committed relationship than a drunken hookup because you'd expect your partner to be on the same page. But who knows, maybe he had always said he'd be willing to have kids and changed his tune when it became real.
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Oct 21, 2021 03:54
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Cobalt-60 posted:
How often are people getting pizza and arrested in your town? At that point I assume the cops just follow the pizza guy and arrest everyone they deliver to.
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Oct 21, 2021 03:57
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AITA for waking my roommates up for a snack?quote:I currently live in a two bedroom apartment with two roommates (married couple). For a number of reasons, right now we are temporarily all sleeping in one room. I usually eat a late-night snack around 10 PM or so but regardless, I usually wake up around 2 or 3 AM pretty hungry. The way our situation works (again for a multitude of reasons), one of my roommates has all of the snacks and I don't have any direct/easy access to any food, so I have to wake her up to give me a snack. Usually I end up waking the guy up too since we are all in the same room.
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Oct 21, 2021 04:05
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Yolo Swaggins Esq posted:Google tells me Cataleya is the main character in Columbiana, which is about cartels and revenge murders, and I feel like that's way too cool for OP. Yeah, but isn't that like a 2010s movie? The daughters not gettnig a name change at 11.
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Oct 21, 2021 04:17
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pentyne posted:Wasn't there an AAM about some middle manager who organized a happy hour or something, was encouraging everyone to eat some weed edibles, then surprised then with a drug test the next day? Yeah he took them away to a mountain retreat for the weekend and had them tested on the first day back at work.
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Oct 21, 2021 04:20
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DoubleNegative posted:AITA for waking my roommates up for a snack? what's it called when it's not quite a laugh, but a wheeze of exhausted recognition?
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Oct 21, 2021 04:23
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DoubleNegative posted:AITA for waking my roommates up for a snack? On the internet no one knows you're a dog
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Oct 21, 2021 04:25
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PHIZ KALIFA posted:what's it called when it's not quite a laugh, but a wheeze of exhausted recognition? the letterman
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Oct 21, 2021 04:26
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AITA for being upset that my husband has been taking credit for housework that my daughter has been doing?quote:My husband(65M) and I(47F)have been married for 19 years. I’ve always done virtually 100% of the housework. Even though we both worked full time. Although I did stay home after my daughter was born. He retired a few months ago, and so I expected him to do more housework since he would be home all the time. But he hasn’t. I only specifically asked if he’d pick up the groceries from now on though.
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Oct 21, 2021 04:27
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PHIZ KALIFA posted:what's it called when it's not quite a laugh, but a wheeze of exhausted recognition? Breathing.
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PHIZ KALIFA posted:what's it called when it's not quite a laugh, but a wheeze of exhausted recognition? I was doing more 
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Malkof posted:Just Dew it: Lmao, i did this once at a hotel on a school trip when i was like 14 thinking it was the best idea ever. Wasnt witty enough to think of calling it dewfee though
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Oct 21, 2021 04:28
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limp_cheese posted:How often are people getting pizza and arrested in your town? OP could live anywhere and this would be true. If the pizza guy is late to your house, there are consequences. I don't think she often makes the cops and pizza guy race each other for her amusement. Arresting all the stoners at 2am is a good way to none pizza left beef up your minor possession conviction numbers I guess. If she's going to swat her sister, she should just kind of like, admit what she's doing. It's like she's buying the pizza as an indulgence because she knows she's not actually helping.
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Oct 21, 2021 04:37
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Nooner posted:Lmao, i did this once at a hotel on a school trip when i was like 14 thinking it was the best idea ever. Wasnt witty enough to think of calling it dewfee though Was it romantic was it romantic
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Oct 21, 2021 04:37
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limp_cheese posted:How often are people getting pizza and arrested in your town? It's within driving distance of Arizona, so frequently.
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Oct 21, 2021 04:38
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Lol it’s ok because I thought the cops would bust in after she’d had a couple bites of pizza, not before.
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Oct 21, 2021 04:45
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Cobalt-60 posted:AITA for getting my sister arrested? I had a question about this situation, though I feel I already know the answer. I have next to no experience with the legal system beyond traffic violations. When the cops pick her up for escaping court ordered rehab, will the court most likely send her back to rehab and *then* prison for the violation, or just straight to prison? Also, her sister getting into drugs is very likely because she had to play Anna and never got to be Elsa when they played Frozen. This is all OP's fault.
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Oct 21, 2021 05:01
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Bruceski posted:Fentiman's? That one goes straight to my sinuses and is a bit staggering for the first sip of the bottle.
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Oct 21, 2021 05:04
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spouse posted:I had a question about this situation, though I feel I already know the answer. I have next to no experience with the legal system beyond traffic violations. When the cops pick her up for escaping court ordered rehab, will the court most likely send her back to rehab and *then* prison for the violation, or just straight to prison? I'm just wondering how old they were when they were "little"? OP's in college, so at least 18. Frozen was released in 2013. Saying that you were "little" when you were 10 years old just seems really off to me. Not really the point of the story, but it's just annoying me!
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Halloween Jack posted:Maine Root. I swear, I think they cheat and put a little cayenne in it. I was at my GFs cousins wedding where there was a bar but half of the family doesn’t drink due to their religion and we brought a bunch of cokes + grenadine over to our table for them and a couple of them thought that was booze lol.
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spouse posted:I had a question about this situation, though I feel I already know the answer. I have next to no experience with the legal system beyond traffic violations. When the cops pick her up for escaping court ordered rehab, will the court most likely send her back to rehab and *then* prison for the violation, or just straight to prison? "No, not that kind of snowman. poo poo"
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Tetramin posted:I was at my GFs cousins wedding where there was a bar but half of the family doesn’t drink due to their religion and we brought a bunch of cokes + grenadine over to our table for them and a couple of them thought that was booze lol. PHIZ KALIFA posted:what's it called when it's not quite a laugh, but a wheeze of exhausted recognition?
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Evil Willow posted:I'm just wondering how old they were when they were "little"? OP's in college, so at least 18. Frozen was released in 2013. Saying that you were "little" when you were 10 years old just seems really off to me. Not really the point of the story, but it's just annoying me! "little" is a weird marker for 5th grade (or 10 years old), but then I remember when I was in 5th grade I used to play dragon ball z with my friends on the playground. I was always Trunks. Also, content: Proposed to my (30) GF (35) with a World of Warcraft ring that has the WoW Insignia on it and I've lost her ever since and need her back. quote:Hey y'all, Zug Zug 
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