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AngryRobotsInc posted:It has been a minute since I last took a child psychology course (and in full disclosure, I never finished the psychology program, and dipped out fairly early), but RAD was pretty much solely considered to be caused by some form of incorrect caretaking. Like, if an infant is consistently made to "cry it out" (not a one shot time, but just consistently failing to provide the reassurance and comfort needed), or the sort. It was not considered a biological condition, but a condition caused by circumstances, in this case the child-parent/guardian bond not appropriately forming.
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 17:39 |
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Combo posted:Yeah, obviously OP doesn't get to claim a person, but what the roommate did was still a douche move. Well you can, you just have to rub your face on them so you can mark them with your scent glands first.
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 17:42 |
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sullat posted:Well you can, you just have to rub your face on them so you can mark them with your scent glands first. Oh, I thought it was spraying your butthole scents on them?
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PetraCore posted:Wasn't it super commonly diagnosed in orphans from Eastern European countries post Cold War where bc of the tight resources it was all caregivers could do to try and meet all the infants' physical needs, and thus the infants usually ended up severely psychologically neglected, eg, never being held, talked to, etc? Really sad situation, because it meant a lot of children ended up at serious disadvantages and it's not like their caregivers were really trying to harm them, there was just a lack of resources and understanding of what babies need at minimum. Ceausescu’s children. It's really loving tragic and sad.
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 17:48 |
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for Banning My Son From Trick or Treating for Framing our Dog? when i was like 4 years old i didnt want to miss sesame street to take a piss so i pissed into the sound hole of my dad’s acoustic guitar that was sitting on a guitar stand in the living room. I knew it was an extremely bad move and i didn’t even need any other punishment than my mom coming back in the room while i was mid piss and saying “what the HELL are you doing??” but I remember he had to replace the guitar and I felt really lovely about it and I have only pissed in piss-appropriate places since!* And i still remember this at age 40 today. Canceling trick or treating is pretty severe but at 8 you *definitely* know you’re playing with fire (fire means turds in this context). *some exceptions in college
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 17:52 |
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EIDE Van Hagar posted:when i was like 4 years old i didnt want to miss sesame street to take a piss so i pissed into the sound hole of my dad’s acoustic guitar that was sitting on a guitar stand in the living room. I knew it was an extremely bad move and i didn’t even need any other punishment than my mom coming back in the room while i was mid piss and saying “what the HELL are you doing??” but I remember he had to replace the guitar and I felt really lovely about it and I have only pissed in piss-appropriate places since!* And i still remember this at age 40 today. Ok that’s loving hilarious, not gonna lie
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EIDE Van Hagar posted:when i was like 4 years old i didnt want to miss sesame street to take a piss so i pissed into the sound hole of my dad’s acoustic guitar that was sitting on a guitar stand in the living room. I knew it was an extremely bad move and i didn’t even need any other punishment than my mom coming back in the room while i was mid piss and saying “what the HELL are you doing??” but I remember he had to replace the guitar and I felt really lovely about it and I have only pissed in piss-appropriate places since!* And i still remember this at age 40 today. A minor does a P major in his dad's instrument...nice
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for making my son pass out the candy he got from trick or treating because he was being rude? I feel like making your kid sit there and give away all the candy he just got is pretty hosed up. Kid clearly needed to get checked, but he's loving 9 and it's halloween. The dad sounds like a pushover, though, but OP might be editing his response a bit.
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 18:56 |
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Just eat all the kids peanut butter cups
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 18:58 |
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Or make that the retroactive excuse for why you've already eaten the kids peanut butter cups
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 18:59 |
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spouse posted:There is a lot of back and forth on the comments, but there's one very interesting story about a kid with Reactive Attachment Disorder, which I had never heard of, that made its way into the thread: It's a response to neglect or abuse (predominately neglect) in infancy and early childhood. You sometimes see it in children who have experienced extensive hospitalizations or other types of institutional care, where the neglect may not be intentional but is just a case of too many children per caregiver, or in children who have experienced severe traumatic adjustments. It is not considered to have organic causes, but may be influenced by neurological changes that occur due to neglect (so the neglect causes the brain to develop differently which both causes and is influenced by the child's ability to attach). RAD is uncommon, and in some cases symptoms are better explained by PTSD, oppositional defiant disorder and other anxiety disorders, although it can also be comorbid with them. RAD was very popular as a diagnosis in "attachment therapy", a pseudo-therapy that has resulted in multiple deaths. Life's hard for some kids.
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Bonster posted:It's a response to neglect or abuse (predominately neglect) in infancy and early childhood. You sometimes see it in children who have experienced extensive hospitalizations or other types of institutional care, where the neglect may not be intentional but is just a case of too many children per caregiver, or in children who have experienced severe traumatic adjustments. It is not considered to have organic causes, but may be influenced by neurological changes that occur due to neglect (so the neglect causes the brain to develop differently which both causes and is influenced by the child's ability to attach). RAD is uncommon, and in some cases symptoms are better explained by PTSD, oppositional defiant disorder and other anxiety disorders, although it can also be comorbid with them.
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 19:32 |
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PetraCore posted:It's very hosed up with attachment therapy because any attempt by kids to not be abused is then just treated as a symptom of their illness that must be pseudo-scientifically wrung out of them harder. Yep. "I've physically restrained you and goaded you into a frenzy of rage, causing you terrible anxiety, traumatic flashbacks and brand new trauma, now tell me you love me! What? I'm helping! You love me!"
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 19:40 |
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quote:I am the manager of a customer service team of about 10-12 members. Most of the team members are right out of school and this is their first professional job and their ages range from 22-24. I am about 10 years older than all of my employees. We have a great team and great working relationships. They all do great work and we have established a great team culture.
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 20:11 |
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Tbh that sounds like a way better duck club than the ones that just sit on the edge of a lake all day waiting to shoot a duck
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 20:13 |
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I mean, OP has to say something, that's how they know when to total up the scores and find out who won.
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 20:15 |
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New category: caught by manager - 1000pts
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Combo posted:Yeah, obviously OP doesn't get to claim a person, but what the roommate did was still a douche move. How so? Even by the OP's admission, they immediately hit it off due to a mutual attraction. There's no indication any part of it had anything to do with the roommate knowing about the OP's crush. I don't really see any way to read the story that jives with both the notion that you can't claim a person and that the roommate did anything wrong. What is the non-douche move when the dibsee expresses obvious interest in someone other than the dibser, and the interest is reciprocated?
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 20:24 |
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Kinda gotta respect a manager who's like "Welp, poo poo, y'all were clocked out, so I guess porkin' in the copy room is fine?"
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 20:24 |
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I'd just tell people to knock it off.
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 20:25 |
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I guess the new employee handbook will have rules about loving on company property now. Or it'll legitimize the game and make the point awards consistent, because you just KNOW some rear end in a top hat is going to take something innocuous and assign a shitload of points to it to game the system.
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Baronjutter posted:I'd just tell people to knock it off. "Hey guys, toner down some"
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 20:33 |
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Just add "with manager - 1000 points" to the sheet Obvs
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 20:37 |
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Goose!
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 20:37 |
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This situation has sexual harassment lawsuit written all over it. Twenty year olds + sex = drama, I’m no physicist but that’s like, a fundamental law of nature. And now when the poo poo invariably hits the fan the manager can’t even claim to have been unaware of what was going on. He needs to be the adult in the room and tell them to knock it off, stat. Obviously they won’t stop and they’ll just double all the points for the on-site categories, but still.
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 20:44 |
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The follow-up letter is equally weird (hope I'm not stepping on your toes with this, A Wizard of Goatse)quote:I first want to defend something I said in my original letter against some of the comments of your posters. I said originally that at my job we had a great work culture and that basically the team I led worked well together and got along. It seems some of the commenters took exception to this because of what turned out to be going on behind the scenes. Just because this was going on, doesn’t make what I said any less true. We do get along great. We are all high performers. So I take exception to some of the comments that suggested this was untrue or that I was being naïve.
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 20:47 |
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r/relationships: Young People Quacking
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 20:51 |
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coronatae posted:The follow-up letter is equally weird (hope I'm not stepping on your toes with this, A Wizard of Goatse) tell me you don't have an HR department without telling me you don't have an HR department the head guy is absolutely going to start hitting on all the 22 year old women and expecting them to gently caress him for some quick duck points.
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 20:55 |
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pentyne posted:tell me you don't have an HR department without telling me you don't have an HR department what do you mean "start"?
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 21:00 |
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Quack quack indeed. I hope everybody working for that company finds Jesus. Let me help. Is there a term for being obsessed with priests? Hot under the [Roman] collar? My relative (60f) has unhealthy relationship with Catholic Priest and I’m (25f) worried. quote:On mobile so sorry for any formatting issues. This is cracking me up. Young atheist household looks like every Catholic grandma's bedroom. Saint Anthony in the cupboards. Saint Michael watching over the garage. I (M38) can't stand all the Catholic stuff my Wife's (F38) mother keeps giving us and our daughters quote:TL;DR Wife's mother keeps giving us Catholic stuff I really don't want and my wife is too nice to say anything. Our house has too much of this stuff.
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William Bear posted:Is there a term for being obsessed with priests? Hot under the [Roman] collar?
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Luigi's Discount Porn Bin posted:berth ell pope r/relationships: berth ell pope
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 21:09 |
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I watched the sopranos to
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 21:09 |
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Bringing dark lights to the duck club office and gouging your eyes out afterwards.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for leaving a family without childcare because the child called the police on me? Barudak posted:Haha whats a little attempted murder between friends. Heliotrope posted:I'm wondering if John's parents know about this attempted murder their son tried to commit. Of course it's possible they do and are fine with it, but maybe it's worth a shot to tell them why their relatives are going to have trouble finding people to watch over him while they're busy. They know. They just don't want to admit that OP is very lucky not to have been shot or arrested, just like they don't want to admit that John isn't just playing, he's harassing and assaulting the younger kids. spouse posted:There is a lot of back and forth on the comments, but there's one very interesting story about a kid with Reactive Attachment Disorder, which I had never heard of, that made its way into the thread: Not a psych goon, but afaik, Reactive Attachment Disorder is usually the result of neglect. But sometimes, brains are just fucky and the connections don't form properly, or there's comorbidities (ADHD's rejection-sensitive dysphoria could definitely gently caress up a kid's sense of security even if there's no abuse or neglect), and you have to work with the hand you got dealt.
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 21:11 |
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I wonder if the duck thing came from someone texting a coworker "wanna duck in the copier room?" then "lolol drat autocorrect but that's a good code"
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# ? Nov 1, 2021 21:15 |
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Kuiperdolin posted:Bringing dark lights to the duck club office and gouging your eyes out afterwards. You won't need to gouge out your eyes, just don't wear sunglasses and have your eyes combust into flames from how bright it is.
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Pigsfeet on Rye posted:ESH This one had a link to another one of my favorites... AITA for sending my family an angry email because they still speak to my ex-husband and even have him over, especially in light of his present “relationship” with a girl 20 years younger than him? quote:So basic background is I’m 42, two kids age 14 and 12 and signed divorce papers in April after almost 2 years of it being drug out trying to get my fair share from him. The details of “why” are not important but I’m angry, embarrassed, lost and sad any given moment of the day. A lot of this has to do with feeling like I’ve been “replaced” by a 23 year old surfing instructor who is everything I’m not. My husband and kids claims that she is just his friend and helping him learn his life long desire to surf but Jesus Christ...give me a break. Info - why don’t you and your family get along? OP quote:Very condensed version I was seduced and basically mind controlled (like I said very condensed version) into a having an affair with a supplier at my company Why couldn't you say no? OP quote:Ask any victim of #metoo why they couldn’t say no OP quote:My husband told me flat of he was not attracted to me since I was fat. The supplier said everything I wanted/needed to hear to feel like a person again and manipulated me into the affair Being told you're pretty and cheating on your husband is exactly what the #metoo movement is all about! That's why your entire family is siding with your husband and his hot new surf instructor girlfriend!
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Hughlander posted:This one had a link to another one of my favorites... i was seduced and basically mind controlled, haven't you heard of #metoo?
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