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Propaniac posted:My [38M] wife [35F] and I have been going through a divorce. She's trying to guilt me into agreeing to withdrawal. "I made a mistake in firing you 13 months ago. Why are you abandoning this job?"
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if you have a lawn, just take care of it and don't pretend you're being a lazy poo poo out of some principle lol. you're not fooling anybody
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Nov 4, 2021 19:24
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sean10mm posted:Some of these AITA threads seem oddly level headed for, you know...reddit? Reddit has millions of users from all walks of life united solely by their love of unfunny meme faces
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Nov 4, 2021 19:26
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Propaniac posted:My [38M] wife [35F] and I have been going through a divorce. She's trying to guilt me into agreeing to withdrawal. This dude is so blameless I'd say this was definitely MRA bait if not for the lack of vitriol.
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Nov 4, 2021 19:26
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:we killed our lawn and let the woods grow in on the quarter-acre we do have, the city lawn police rolled up last month and fined us for having weeds. now we're trying to figure out a raspberry bush and poison ivy hedgerow to slow down the inevitable SWAT team Try blackberry bushes
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Nov 4, 2021 19:29
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sullat posted:Try blackberry bushes raspberries plant themselves here if you turn your back for a week so it's more a matter of strategically relocating the ones we're going to get regardless, vs. killing them all and buying slightly worse-tasting berries to plant in their place the poison ivy, now, we have to cultivate A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 19:38 on Nov 4, 2021 |
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Nov 4, 2021 19:35
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AITA Am I the rear end in a top hat for not letting my aunt's bratty child in my arts roomquote:Let me start by saying that my aunt's son is the WORST, he is a self-centered brat who is extremely rude and has no manners. Well this Monday we did a family gathering at my parents house where I have my arts studio. I have made it clear that I don't want ANYBODY but ME enter that room, now my parents understand me because I have some really precious art pieces to me, delicate stuff and painting that took me days or even years in short that's a place where I can escape reality. Anyway back to the story, I was locking my room when the devil himself appeared, yup my aunt's son. He looked at the door and with the most rude voice that he has said " Open the door right now, I want to see what's inside or else I will make my dad break the door " I looked at him and said "Yeah tough luck buddy, you ain't getting in" and I walked away. I went and sat near my parents and started talking with my relatives, not even 5 seconds passed and the brat enters crying. We all got concerned as why he was crying but then he said that I was a bitch for not letting him in my studio, now everybody laughed saying that no one can enter there but me. BEHOLD my aunt jumps in the conversation and starts asking multiple questions like "What's behind that door?" or " What are you hiding from us?" which made me uncomfortable but I didn't say anything nor did I answer her questions. At this point she got mad and started demanding that she and her son enter or her husband would break the door, I laughed and I repeated what I said to the brat" Tough luck but you ain't getting in", she was MAD, she started slut shaming me and saying nasty words about me. I couldn't take it anymore so I yelled out " I WOULD LIKE THAT YOU RESPECT MY PRIVACY, PLUS, WHY WOULD I LET YOU AND YOUR BRAT GET IN A ROOM WHERE EVEN MY PARENTS DON'T ENTER, MABYE IF YOU AND YOUR SON WEREN'T TWO SELF-CENTERED PIECES OF poo poo THEN WE WOULDN'T EVEN BE DISCUSSING THIS, NO IS NO!". Wellllll she started crying and left the house with her son, her husband followed her but didn't forget to throw me a nasty look. I sat down and many of my family members sided with me by saying that I didn't do anything wrong but some sided with her saying that I could've just opened the door. I don't know what to feel part of me thinks that I could've handled the situation better but part of me thinks that they deserved it, so am I the rear end in a top hat for not letting them in? so he's broken down doors of other peoples' homes in the past, right
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Nov 4, 2021 19:35
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Definitely sounds like they can rely on him to do so...
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Nov 4, 2021 19:38
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it's like one of those bdsm relationships they foist on everyone around them but she's constantly roleplaying genghis khan and he's her little siege engine
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Nov 4, 2021 19:41
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Or the poor guy keeps wondering why everyone thinks he's hyper violent, what is my wife saying about me? Is she talking about breaking doors again?
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Nov 4, 2021 19:44
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Thumbtacks posted:AITA Am I the rear end in a top hat for not letting my aunt's bratty child in my arts room This reads like a fever dream of one of those childfree nutjobs.
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Nov 4, 2021 19:45
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My spouse is an artist and unless I need to close the window or something I never go in her studio because it’s a deeply personal space where she can relax and let her creativity flow without any interruptions.
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Nov 4, 2021 19:46
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:we killed our lawn and let the woods grow in on the quarter-acre we do have, the city lawn police rolled up last month and fined us for having weeds. now we're trying to figure out a raspberry bush and poison ivy hedgerow to slow down the inevitable SWAT team Plants vs Zombies got weird later in the series
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Nov 4, 2021 19:56
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Thumbtacks posted:AITA Am I the rear end in a top hat for not letting my aunt's bratty child in my arts room So the husband is a cop, right?
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Nov 4, 2021 19:59
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Pope Corky the IX posted:My spouse is an artist and unless I need to close the window or something I never go in her studio because it’s a deeply personal space where she can relax and let her creativity flow without any interruptions. Plus it reeks of farts
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Nov 4, 2021 20:00
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Uncle ShortyB posted:AITA for yelling at my mom about replacing me with her new kid?  hey fun fact, OP edited this post once it started gaining traction to make himself not look like an absolute tool. A mod posted it calling him out and he’s quickly deleting his comments and backtracking. ACTUAL ORIGINAL TEXT quote:I know it sounds bad but hear me out. Someone asked why he went no contact with his mom quote:I didn't go no contact or whatever with her. I just wasn't interested in the same conversation over and over. how are you what are you doing how was school how are your friends is literally the same poo poo over and over. I was tired of hearing that so I just stopped picking up her calls.
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Nov 4, 2021 20:15
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Propaniac posted:My [38M] wife [35F] and I have been going through a divorce. She's trying to guilt me into agreeing to withdrawal.
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Nov 4, 2021 20:26
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Thumbtacks posted:
Jesus Christ, guy never grew out of 'surly rear end in a top hat teenager' phase
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Nov 4, 2021 20:33
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sean10mm posted:Some of these AITA threads seem oddly level headed for, you know...reddit? From completely anecdotal experience, AITA seems to trend older (and more female) than the rest of the website. It's relationships and relationship_advice that seem to be full of 20 year old dinguses with no perspective. Propaniac posted:My [38M] wife [35F] and I have been going through a divorce. She's trying to guilt me into agreeing to withdrawal. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oyFQVZ2h0V8 Lookit' this Pete-rear end motherfucker.
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Nov 4, 2021 20:34
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Thumbtacks posted:
Now that's a child with bad vibes, and the mother still tried.
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Nov 4, 2021 20:37
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Yeah, there's a followup comment where he says that the other couple will probably get divorced eventually, but the wife is willing to reconcile because their kids are younger. If the relationship is really as bad as he says, I can't imagine reconciling with someone after spending 3 years living as spouses but not being able to have a conversation or share an intimate moment of any kind.
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Nov 4, 2021 20:38
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Yeah, it's effectively been dead for more than four years. That marriage doesn't need CPR, it needs a necromancer. And tbh, that poo poo about using the kids to sneak in is psycho....so MRA bait sounds bout right
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Nov 4, 2021 20:53
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AITA for yelling at my boyfriend and his mom?quote:I've been dating my boyfriend for one year. I've met his mom (his parents are divorced) and his dad. His dad is an amazing person, he's the most helpful and supportive dad I've met. He's always there for my boyfriend. He's also very supportive towards our relationship and our plans together.
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Nov 4, 2021 21:10
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for yelling at my boyfriend and his mom? gently caress the boyfriend and gently caress the mom, definitely NTA
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Nov 4, 2021 21:20
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for yelling at my boyfriend and his mom? Large Testicles posted:gently caress the boyfriend and gently caress the mom, definitely NTA
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Nov 4, 2021 21:21
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Wait, do you two think the mother was angling for a threesome?
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Nov 4, 2021 21:24
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for yelling at my boyfriend and his mom? "ok, he's not my partner any more, and his mom can go gently caress herself"
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Nov 4, 2021 21:30
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The poo poo that these dudes just let people say to their spouses is unbelievable to me. I don't want to veer into internet tough guy territory here, but saying 1% of that poo poo to my spouse would at a minimum make me INSANELY angry.
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Nov 4, 2021 21:32
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sean10mm posted:The poo poo that these dudes just let people say to their spouses is unbelievable to me. I don't want to veer into internet tough guy territory here, but saying 1% of that poo poo to my spouse would at a minimum make me instantly angry.
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Nov 4, 2021 21:35
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Uncle ShortyB posted:AITA for yelling at my mom about replacing me with her new kid?  (but  at the original version)sean10mm posted:The poo poo that these dudes just let people say to their spouses is unbelievable to me. I don't want to veer into internet tough guy territory here, but saying 1% of that poo poo to my spouse would at a minimum make me INSANELY angry. Yeah same, it's ridiculous the amount of  that seems to happen. Oh yeah, my mother just called you a whore, just nod and smile, i'd hate to upset her. wait, why are you leaving??
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Nov 4, 2021 21:47
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"no matter what you don't curse moms of partners or friends out. AITA?" The gently caress, why not? They're people, ain't they?
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Nov 4, 2021 22:06
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sean10mm posted:The poo poo that these dudes just let people say to their spouses is unbelievable to me. I don't want to veer into internet tough guy territory here, but saying 1% of that poo poo to my spouse would at a minimum make me INSANELY angry. Yeah it's loving insane. Why is the spouse/partner always the disposable one?
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Nov 4, 2021 22:10
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PancakeTransmission posted:
i would really like to know what the relationship between that dude and his mother was like growing up, because before i would blame that on decorum i wanna know if he was raised to placate and coddle his mother, because i've been in many households where upsetting mommy is the worst thing you can do. houses where someone gets hit and immediately you hear "LOOK WHAT YOU MADE ME DO!", and making a woman cry summons men who think they are gonna straighten you out, you must be in the wrong, look at how hard shes crying!
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Nov 4, 2021 22:20
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On the one hand, it's terrible that capitalism continually dissolves all traditional social bonds in favour of the algorithm of profit. On the other hand, being a slave to your parents until they die sounds like it sucks.
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Nov 4, 2021 22:23
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Brawnfire posted:My mom loved to disconnect the router and hide the key to the cabinet it was in My parents would unplug the router and then replug it when my grounding was over. But I knew they'd never remember to plug it back in, so I'd do it myself immediately and they'd just never notice that I had done so. Unmedicated ADHD dad had SOME uses.
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Nov 4, 2021 22:37
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Halloween Jack posted:On the one hand, it's terrible that capitalism continually dissolves all traditional social bonds in favour of the algorithm of profit. On the other hand, being a slave to your parents until they die sounds like it sucks. Some traditional social bonds deserve to die. Filial piety and the daughter in law as slave to her mother in law are at the top.
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Nov 4, 2021 22:53
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for yelling at my boyfriend and his mom? The friends are right that it's inappropriate to be that disrespectful to your partner's family. What they are missing is that if your partner lets it get to that point the relationship should already be over and having some words on the way out is just a bonus. What's baffling is that the OP isn't talking about her ex-boyfriend.
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Nov 4, 2021 22:58
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i'm sorry are we all just going to ignore the post about burning your pubes @ starbucks for a "quick trim"? or have I been shaving the wrong way my whole life?
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Nov 4, 2021 23:24
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I missed that post
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for yelling at my boyfriend and his mom? Pretty convenient your friends are telling you that its never ok to curse out friends. Edit: I'll link to it A Wizard of Goatse posted:agreed I want to watch a day in this guy's life. If its normal for things like getting chased out of starbucks for setting your pubes on fire it should be weird as gently caress. I also don't care how cliché it is but r/relationships: I go back to pooping and lighting my pubes on fire is a hell of a title. limp_cheese fucked around with this message at 23:34 on Nov 4, 2021 |
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