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AITA for kicking my estranged brother out of my house?quote:My mom died 6 years ago and she left her estate to me, my sister and my brother. My sister was the executor of the estate and she stole a lot of money. My brother and I ended up with only $500 each and my sister took home something like $100,000. At least in this case it's only $100,000 instead of nearly $1,000,000!
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Nov 9, 2021 07:05
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Pope Corky the IX posted:Everyone post your favorite soda! Champagne Kola. It tastes exactly like dubble bubble bubblegum but spicier. It's loving great. It's sometimes at Kroger or Publix in the international aisles. Or at Asian markets. The only place I can order it with food is Merengue Café. They make some loving good chicken empanadas and house beans.
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Nov 9, 2021 07:09
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OnlyBans posted:No need to investigate: it's her towel. OP's boyfriend backpedaled in the comments: poo poo towel posted:She's misrepresenting, I don't hang it on the door knob we have a towel hanging rack that sits on top of the door where all the towels go. I use my towel every time..
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Nov 9, 2021 07:16
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for kicking my estranged brother out of my house? $33,000 can buy a lot of baby sitter time. Just sayin.
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Nov 9, 2021 07:24
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for kicking my estranged brother out of my house? This person takes "my sister forged documentation to become executor of my parent's estate and gave me $500 usd" like they eat clonazepam by the handful.
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Nov 9, 2021 07:36
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Invisible Clergy posted:OP's boyfriend backpedaled in the comments: Towel rack with all the other non poop-smell towels is somehow worse than the doorknob
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Nov 9, 2021 07:36
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for kicking my estranged brother out of my house? This OP is bending over backwards so hard she should be working for Cirque de Soleil. quote:If she is so torn up why doesn't she return the money?? quote:So she stole 100k for selfish reasons but yet can't get a mortgage to pay back 1/3? Really? quote:I said in my post that my sister has issues. She's somewhat ego centric and she can be really mean sometimes. She picked on my brother when we were kids because he's the youngest in the family and it was just normal sibling rivalry. My brother became "woke" after he moved away. He knows all the buzzwords like gaslighting, mental abuse, trauma and etc. Our childhood wasn't perfect but he was well taken care of. He told us that he has PTSD from my sister's "abuse" and honestly that sounds like a big exaggeration to me. quote:My kids already have a college fund lol. They'll be fine. ... She won't steal it. She knows that the money is for my kids and she isn't entitled too it. quote:I see your point. She's always complaining about this because she can't afford to pay my brother. She used the money to buy a car, pay off some bills and buy a house and she doesn't want to lose these things. If she loses these she'll be homeless. My brother doesn't have anything to lose. I know that my sister did a very wrong thing but I can't help but sympathize with her because it's very scary to lose your home and car at once. I was a little grumpy and overwhelmed when my brother came over so I was a little short with him and I know it was wrong. I'm just tired of him bringing this up when he could've just cut his losses and moved on. It's in the past and it's all done. The money is gone. There's not much he can do now. quote:I did not choose my sister. I stayed out of it and made it clear to both of them. I'm only closer to my sister because she lives near me and she's very involved in my kids' lives. My brother is in his own world. And I'm not enabling her. She's very torn up over this and I'm offering her support whenever she needs it. That's what siblings do.
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Nov 9, 2021 07:39
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AreWeDrunkYet posted:This OP is bending over backwards so hard she should be working for Cirque de Soleil. lol what a moron. She deserves all of it.
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Nov 9, 2021 07:40
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AreWeDrunkYet posted:This OP is bending over backwards so hard she should be working for Cirque de Soleil. Is... is this the thieving sister writing it and also why or how does her sister have access to her kids college fund???
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Nov 9, 2021 07:41
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Barudak posted:This person takes "my sister forged documentation to become executor of my parent's estate and gave me $500 usd" like they eat clonazepam by the handful. Ain't nobody that mellow about so much cash. I wonder what undisclosed asset they got their mitts on without anyone noticing.
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Nov 9, 2021 07:47
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I’d say it’s a terminal case of but family, only she clearly does not give a poo poo about her brother’s well-being.
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Nov 9, 2021 07:49
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Blastedhellscape posted:Yeah, that jumped out at me. "We can never trust my parents again because they were both going to babysit my kids, but my father couldn't go so my cousin went in his place and...helped my mom babysit my kids." Like, so what?
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Nov 9, 2021 07:58
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Xlorp posted:Ain't nobody that mellow about so much cash. I wonder what undisclosed asset they got their mitts on without anyone noticing. Either sibling would only get their chunk, which is guessed at 100k but could definitely be lower or higher, if they dropped five figures suing their sister into the ground. She'd lose a ton of money to her lawyer and have her assets liquidated at below market rate to pay them. OP decided her relationship with her sister is more important that a few thousand dollars she doesn't need and the brother just seems happier to see his sister punished than to get a few thousand dollars that he also doesn't need. theflyingexecutive fucked around with this message at 08:35 on Nov 9, 2021 |
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Nov 9, 2021 08:26
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theflyingexecutive posted:Either sibling would only get their chunk, which is guessed at 100k but could definitely be lower or higher, if they dropped five figures suing their sister into the ground. She'd lose a ton of money to her lawyer and have her assets liquidated at below market rate to pay them. OP decided her relationship with her sister is more important that a few thousand dollars she doesn't need and the brother just seems happier to see his sister punished than to get a few thousand dollars that he also doesn't need. It appears the felony fraud apologist has logged on.
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Nov 9, 2021 08:42
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AreWeDrunkYet posted:This OP is bending over backwards so hard she should be working for Cirque de Soleil. jesus is the implication that her brother is homeless and mentally ill because of her sister?? and she's like "yeah thats fine"
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Nov 9, 2021 08:43
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Mx. posted:jesus is the implication that her brother is homeless and mentally ill because of her sister?? and she's like "yeah thats fine" Yeah, sounds like abusive sister really did a number on both her siblings.
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Nov 9, 2021 08:55
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My neighbors want to build a sex trafficking rehab “under the radar”quote:They are working with a charity. But they won’t really answer questions because I’ve run into either “how could you question this, don’t you want to save victims” or super idealistic people at the charity who don’t have a clue.
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Nov 9, 2021 08:59
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Yeah she's got some pretty deep brain worms. "My sister fully admits to absolutely loving me and my brother over expressly against the wishes of our dead mother, but she would never possibly steal from my children because they are... family, like all the other people she steals from."
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Nov 9, 2021 09:03
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AITA I am turning my kids into picky eatersquote:I and my wife have 2 kids aged 10F and 8F.
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Nov 9, 2021 09:56
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I realised recently that there are two dimensions to picky eating. My in-laws described themselves as “not fussy eaters” which made my jaw drop, until I realised they meant that they will eat the same low quality food, day in day out. To them, we children are fussy eaters because we want to eat different foods all the time, and might complain if the quality is poor. Seems like this lunch wife is in the former category. Or is feeling called out about her laziness.
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Nov 9, 2021 10:11
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Mx. posted:jesus is the implication that her brother is homeless and mentally ill because of her sister?? and she's like "yeah thats fine" Nah, her other reply said her brother doesn't need the money. "Nothing to lose" means he wouldn't stand to lose anything but lawyer fees in a trial. AreWeDrunkYet posted:It appears the felony fraud apologist has logged on. It's only a felony in the eyes of the law. It's not a life-changing amount of money for the op nor the brother. "All my kids get equal amounts" sounds great on paper, but one of those woman's kids had a bunch of debt, a rented apartment, and a lovely car, while the other ones have college funds and enough money to readily hire a lawyer. Either way, while the sister may apparently deserve destitution and maybe jail time for stealing, her kid certainly didn't do anything wrong.
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Nov 9, 2021 10:15
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I mean, they’re not even complaining about the quality of the food. She could rather easily address the issue by packing larger lunches.
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Nov 9, 2021 10:16
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They're probably the saddest sandwiches. Like just meat cheese and maybe mayo on white bread. And there is no way there's enough pizza when that's the option either, this kind of parent puts in like 2 slices, which is a fine snack, but not enough for someone to live off of for a full day including an hour or two of intense physical activity for their practices (plus they probably have PE too). 100% the mom is lazy and not liking being called out about it. It's picky eating, not because the kids are actually being picky, but because they don't want what mom is offering (because it's bad).
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Nov 9, 2021 10:21
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From the last thread, but there's an update!Evil Willow posted:I (22M) got my girlfriends (21F) mom (42F) pregnant and she won't get an abortion. UPDATE: I (22M) got my girlfriends (21F) mom (42F) pregnant and she won't get an abortion. quote:I wasn't going to do an update do to all the backlash of hate I got both on my post and even worse in my inbox on top of people just calling my problem fake but there were people who gave good advice and really helped me during a hard time so this update is for them.
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Nov 9, 2021 10:25
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Evil Willow posted:AITA I am turning my kids into picky eaters Man if they're feeding kids literal crap in the cafeteria you should probably just pull them out of that school entirely
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Nov 9, 2021 10:44
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Zulily Zoetrope posted:I’d say it’s a terminal case of but family, only she clearly does not give a poo poo about her brother’s well-being. But you see, it's not fair. Her sister could lose the house she bought*. Her brother has nothing to lose**. * with stolen money ** because he doesn't have a house because sister stole his inheritance.
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Nov 9, 2021 11:10
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theflyingexecutive posted:It's only a felony in the eyes of the law. Just quoting this, no reason.
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Nov 9, 2021 11:13
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It's pretty magical
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Nov 9, 2021 11:17
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r/relationships: It's only a felony in the eyes of the law. AITA for throwing trash in the neighbours bin? quote:Hi guys, Putting trash in a neighbor's trashcan is I think the highest risk for the lowest reward. Suburban zombies are nuts about their loving trash cans. Put your trash in your own trash can. If it's 100% full and it's nothing time sensitive like shrimp or dogshit, just let it sit in your garage or laundry room til garbage day next week. .
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Nov 9, 2021 11:23
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theflyingexecutive posted:Nah, her other reply said her brother doesn't need the money. "Nothing to lose" means he wouldn't stand to lose anything but lawyer fees in a trial. Hmm yes, the only moral crime is my crime. She treated her brother like poo poo for his childhood and because of that he should just let her get away with fraud because gently caress him she has debts.
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Nov 9, 2021 11:28
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theflyingexecutive posted:It's only a felony in the eyes of the law. It's only a crime because...it's a crime?  I can't blame the brother for wanting to punish her, if that's what he's even doing.
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Nov 9, 2021 11:46
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Nov 9, 2021 11:55
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theflyingexecutive posted:Either way, while the sister may apparently deserve destitution and maybe jail time for stealing, her kid certainly didn't do anything wrong. ? Sister doesn't have any kids. She's fun auntie who buys OP's kids "exactly what they want for Christmas and their birthdays" but mysteriously doesn't have any money to pay back what she stole. ETA and "knows how to hide her nasty side around my children". I'm not so convinced of that considering how OP minimises what she did to their brother. Sounds like OP wants to stay on the sister's side pissing out rather than risking what might happen if she starts pissing in... Runcible Cat fucked around with this message at 12:01 on Nov 9, 2021 |
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Nov 9, 2021 11:56
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It must be really nice to be as laid-back and/or spineless as some of these people. There's nothing to be done. That's life. ...and I just realized that's my mom. So meek she wouldn't raise her hand when it was time to inherit the earth.
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Nov 9, 2021 12:25
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Invisible Clergy posted:r/relationships: It's only a felony in the eyes of the law.
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Nov 9, 2021 12:39
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Invisible Clergy posted:r/relationships: It's only a felony in the eyes of the law.
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Nov 9, 2021 12:42
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I mean flyingexecutive is correct in that it’s a felony in the eyes of the law. So why not file a police report and have her charged with a felony if the civil suit won’t get him the money anyway? Perhaps she and her lawyer would agree to a plea deal wherein thief sister sells all her assets to pay restitution, then her house wouldn’t be repossessed and sold below market rate. Or just refuse any pleas and continue with the civil suit. After all, she doesn’t need that house or car if she’s in prison :taps head knowingly: E: Invisible Clergy posted:r/relationships: It's only a felony in the eyes of the law.
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Nov 9, 2021 12:48
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killerwhat posted:I realised recently that there are two dimensions to picky eating. My in-laws described themselves as “not fussy eaters” which made my jaw drop, until I realised they meant that they will eat the same low quality food, day in day out. Kinda surprised to hear that definition, but sadly makes sense. And comes to mind that I think a lot of picky eating habits come from kids whose parents are legitimately terrible cooks, which is pretty common for a certain generation or two, and things like fast food takeout are the only reliably tasty food they're used to getting. And parents get sick of the complaining and just take the path of least resistance, or just find the kids are too old to berate them into choking down the boiled mush anymore.
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Nov 9, 2021 13:11
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AITA for telling my son the truth that the reason I had zero contact with him while he grew up is because I hate kids?quote:I won't beat around the bush. I hate kids. Hate is literally the smallest word I could use to describe my feelings for kids. Kids, in my definition, ends roughly at 25. Growing up, I had a lot of anger management issues because of kids. I was expelled, repeatedly, for how I coped with it until I was home schooled. When I turned 19, I got a job in a mine way up north so I wouldn't have to even see kids. To be more blunt, if I found a genies lamp, my very first wish would be to get rid of kids in their entirety. My second wish would be to have all humans come into this world as adults. I. Hate. Kids. I feel anger just thinking about them. I literally lived very far removed from society just to avoid them. Most of you will likely call me TA for that alone, but I'm not here for that.
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