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I’m clearly outnumbered here and made my case as best I could with the given information, but it’s bleak. Both sisters are clearly in the wrong for stealing and for covering up for it. The brother is rightfully outraged and is doing what he thinks is right against the injustices his sisters and family at large brought on him. However, it has and will continue to be a tremendous burden on him psychologically for the rest of his life, even if his sister getting punished makes him (and us, the audience) happy in the short term.
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 15:40 |
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theflyingexecutive posted:I’m clearly outnumbered here and made my case as best I could with the given information, but it’s bleak. Both sisters are clearly in the wrong for stealing and for covering up for it. The brother is rightfully outraged and is doing what he thinks is right against the injustices his sisters and family at large brought on him. However, it has and will continue to be a tremendous burden on him psychologically for the rest of his life, even if his sister getting punished makes him (and us, the audience) happy in the short term. His sister has been a tremendous psychological burden on him his whole life.
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 15:45 |
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theflyingexecutive posted:However, it has and will continue to be a tremendous burden on him psychologically for the rest of his life, even if his sister getting punished makes him (and us, the audience) happy in the short term. boy, that really sucks for him! if only there was some way to bring the person responsible for this psychological burden to justice
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 15:45 |
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theflyingexecutive posted:I’m clearly outnumbered here and made my case as best I could with the given information, but it’s bleak. Both sisters are clearly in the wrong for stealing and for covering up for it. The brother is rightfully outraged and is doing what he thinks is right against the injustices his sisters and family at large brought on him. However, it has and will continue to be a tremendous burden on him psychologically for the rest of his life, even if his sister getting punished makes him (and us, the audience) happy in the short term. Real talk, you're absolutely right that "living well" would 100% be more of a healthy alternative for this poor guy. unfortunately, like most humans, his tragic bitter husk lacks the Buddha's more enlightened qualities and so he's doing what he can: seeking justice through the machinery put in place (for better or worse) to help him attain that justice. But I'm sure he would appreciate your incisive perspective on his mental health. All he needs to understand is that theflyingexecutive posted:It's only a felony in the eyes of the law.
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 15:47 |
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Feed the inheritance thief feet-first into a woodchipper.
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 15:51 |
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theflyingexecutive posted:I’m clearly outnumbered here and made my case as best I could with the given information, but it’s bleak. Both sisters are clearly in the wrong for stealing and for covering up for it. The brother is rightfully outraged and is doing what he thinks is right against the injustices his sisters and family at large brought on him. However, it has and will continue to be a tremendous burden on him psychologically for the rest of his life, even if his sister getting punished makes him (and us, the audience) happy in the short term. Well I’m sure that if he does nothing it won’t be a psychological burden that his one sister traumatically bullied him his whole childhood and then stole tens of thousands of dollars from him, his other sister cares so little about him that the babysitting she gets from the cruel thief makes makes her shrug and say drop it, and that he did nothing to stand up for himself and continued to get abused into adulthood he’ll be fine
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 15:52 |
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EIDE Van Hagar posted:That’s peanuts. I have been in a group chat with just 8 elder millennials ever since ios messages moved off of sms, and it still gets 400-500 messages per day, like 16-20 messages per hour. I remember in a systems class we did a small case study on communications during 9/11. IIRC, the NYC area at the time could handle about 2000 SMS messages per minute.
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 15:52 |
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This is the weirdest thing ever
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 15:52 |
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kimbo305 posted:I remember in a systems class we did a small case study on communications during 9/11. In intro to comp sci we learned that when Victoria secret put its catalog online for the first time it shut down all websites that used adjacent server space.
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 15:57 |
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Any more chat about this inheritance situation without new content gets a sixer Them and their descendants
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 15:58 |
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teen witch posted:Any more chat about this inheritance situation without new content gets a sixer It's only a 6'er in the eyes of the mods.
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 15:58 |
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E: just caught up with the thread
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 16:01 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for telling my son the truth that the reason I had zero contact with him while he grew up is because I hate kids? Tell me you were abused without telling me you were abused. This is sad, guy needs badly
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 16:04 |
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He needs a sad egg?
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teen witch posted:Any more chat about this inheritance situation without new content gets a sixer Excuse me, the United States Constitution, where the SA servers are based, clearly says quote:No Bill of attainder or Ex post facto law shall be passed. therefore you cannot sixer descendants
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 16:07 |
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AITA? For telling my brother and his wife that I will be suing them for selling the nursery I gave them?quote:I (f36) lost my 3 year old son from a chronic condition that he was born with. I struggled a lot with his illness and receieved a lot of support from my family when my ex husband was too busy with work than care for his son.
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 16:08 |
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Propaniac posted:My [20M] girlfriend [19F] asked me what I see in her and I responded as bad as you can respond Your partner probably can't and probably shouldn't be meeting all your social needs. I can't expect what kind of answer she was expecting.
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 16:12 |
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Family inheritance drama makes me super glad I'm an only child.
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 16:18 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA? For telling my brother and his wife that I will be suing them for selling the nursery I gave them? now this one just loaded the decorum train up with coal
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 16:18 |
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kntfkr posted:Family inheritance drama makes me super glad I'm an only child. Don't underestimate the ability of parent's siblings and your cousins to still somehow make it miserable.
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 16:21 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA? For telling my brother and his wife that I will be suing them for selling the nursery I gave them? If she couldn't stand to part with the furniture why did she ship it to someone else?? Also It's not a life-changing amount of money to destroy a relationship over. OP should drop it.
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 16:23 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:Don't underestimate the ability of parent's siblings and your cousins to still somehow make it miserable. yeah, in most of the inheritance stories that end up in this thread it seems like it's the older generations that hijack the inheritance (either because I LOST A CHILD/SIBLING or because well billy bob's kids were already doing ok for themselves but poor cousin jimbo's being eaten alive by five different child support payments.) for starters, they're more likely to be on the will as executors without the extra step of forging their appointment paperwork
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 16:25 |
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The nursery is obviously cursed and kills children. It was incredibly irresponsible to sell it instead of having it destroyed under the supervision of an exorcist.
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 16:25 |
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 16:26 |
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yeah don't bring strangers over when you're babysitting someone's kid. open and shut case, Johnson
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 16:28 |
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I have a difficult time believing anything other than the brother trying to rush things and maybe even forcing her so they could get it over with before the kid woke up and/or the OP came home.
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 16:30 |
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Kurieg posted:Your partner probably can't and probably shouldn't be meeting all your social needs. I can't expect what kind of answer she was expecting. yeah this one is really toxic. If your partner is all things to you, that's actually bad.
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 16:30 |
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There is definitely an amount of money that it's worth tanking a relationship over. It depends on the relationship though too, the degree of malice or incompetence, and the other costs like emotional harm and opportunity costs borne by the wronged party.
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 16:34 |
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Kurieg posted:Your partner probably can't and probably shouldn't be meeting all your social needs. I can't expect what kind of answer she was expecting. “You’re meeting all my needs as a partner.” Who knows if that was the answer she was looking for, but that’s the goalpost.
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 16:44 |
Soylent Pudding posted:Don't underestimate the ability of parent's siblings and your cousins to still somehow make it miserable. Exactly. The real winning move is to die completely destitute and leave no inheritance behind! That's what both my parents did and it made everything pain free! Actually, it still managed to be a nightmare. I have relatives I've never even met coming out of the woodwork trying to get some of my mom's ashes and they don't take "she wanted them spread at X location" as an acceptable answer.
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 16:52 |
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Kurieg posted:Your partner probably can't and probably shouldn't be meeting all your social needs. I can't expect what kind of answer she was expecting. sounds like they're just kids fumbling through communication problems. she's looking for reassurance and he tried to play it off cool and gave a terrible answer, damaging the relationship. these things happen when you're new to romance
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 17:02 |
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Soysaucebeast posted:Exactly. The real winning move is to die completely destitute and leave no inheritance behind! That's what both my parents did and it made everything pain free! Actually, it still managed to be a nightmare. I have relatives I've never even met coming out of the woodwork trying to get some of my mom's ashes and they don't take "she wanted them spread at X location" as an acceptable answer. Wait, what does everyone want a part of the ashes for?
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 17:06 |
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the combination of young 'comfort me' anxiety radiating from her with the totally obtuse mis-step of 'mediocrates' from him is *chef's kiss*'
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 17:08 |
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AITA for getting frustrated my girlfriend doesn't take activities seriously at all?quote:A lot of my hobbies are semi competitive, gaming, tabletop gaming, triathlon, etc. My girlfriend's hobbies are hiking, camping, painting, and yoga.
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 17:09 |
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Lmao, she should swirlie him
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 17:12 |
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MagusofStars posted:Wait, what does everyone want a part of the ashes for? they're just being greedy, it's not like it's even a life-changing amount of ashes
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 17:12 |
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Speaking of uncle's ruining estate fights: AITA for selling a family home while my grandpa is still alive? quote:My mom has been helping my grandfather(her father-in-law) out for almost 20 years. He’s been sick for a while now, and she has been taking care of his finances and things like that.
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 17:21 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for getting frustrated my girlfriend doesn't take activities seriously at all? loving around while playing board games or card games does pretty much ruin the game. I'm ambivalent about the pub trivia, and don't give a poo poo about the charity race some people definitely do that because they didn't want to play the game, so they undermine it to manipulate the situation. it's frustrating because even if it's obvious that's what they're doing, you can't really call them out on it without looking like a prick. I don't think op's girlfriend is doing this, but in my experience, they're just getting rid of distractions from what they really want to do: get shitfaced drunk
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# ? Nov 9, 2021 17:22 |
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MagusofStars posted:Wait, what does everyone want a part of the ashes for?
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