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AITA for refusing to give my $70 Nikes to my bf homeless friend?quote:Backstory: My (36f) bf (34m) and I have been together almost 5 years. About a year before the pandemic hit, my boyfriend allowed his homeless friend (who is also a meth head, I found out later) and his friends gf (also meth head) stay in a tent in our backyard. Now, we rent and I was not happy that my bf allowed this, because had our landlord found out, we could have been evicted. But my bf pleaded and begged and I finally gave in, wanting to be a good person and help someone.
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Nov 15, 2021 16:03
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Don't see how he refuses to help himself, moving to a tent nextdoor to jail probably saved him a solid hour's commute each day
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quote:She was a meth head and homeless, but she wasn't a slob. Absolutely incredible thread title
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Nov 15, 2021 16:26
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kinda weird op kept emphasizing the very normal $70 price of the shoes. also kinda weird the friend didn't say he needed shoes to interview for jobs or whatever, but instead just said his feet would get cold
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Nov 15, 2021 16:31
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hawowanlawow posted:kinda weird op kept emphasizing the very normal $70 price of the shoes. also kinda weird the friend didn't say he needed shoes to interview for jobs or whatever, but instead just said his feet would get cold Doesn't sound like the guy's been lying to the boyfriend, boyfriend's just doing that to himself
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Nov 15, 2021 16:34
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for refusing to give my $70 Nikes to my bf homeless friend? I'm gonna go ahead and guess OP's boyfriend didn't get his $70 tent back.
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Nov 15, 2021 16:40
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It came from legaladvice I have been served for a case for grandparent companionship and visitation. The name in the filing is incorrect. quote:In Ohio as the title says, my mother has filed a complaint for grandparent companionship against both myself and my fiancée. We are both his biological parents and on his birth certificate. The complaint has my son named as the grandchild. First, his name is spelled differently the two times it is in the document. Secondly, it isn't even his legal name. She used the name she thinks he should have, despite her being told multiple times by us that isn't going to be his name. Would this impact the case, possibly grounds for dismissal?
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Soylent Pudding posted:I have been served for a case for grandparent companionship and visitation. The name in the filing is incorrect.
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Nov 15, 2021 16:54
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Megillah Gorilla posted:But what about the life plan he drew up when he was 19 
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Nov 15, 2021 16:55
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Can you imagine after casually naming your own kid, thinking you have any right to name their subsequent kid? It's already kinda strange that parents get to choose what you're called forever!
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Nov 15, 2021 16:57
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for refusing to give my $70 Nikes to my bf homeless friend? For some reason "His phone only works on wifi and the woods ain't got wifi" just about killed me dead.
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Nov 15, 2021 16:59
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hawowanlawow posted:kinda weird op kept emphasizing the very normal $70 price of the shoes. also kinda weird the friend didn't say he needed shoes to interview for jobs or whatever, but instead just said his feet would get cold $70 is the minimum price for shoes that will keep your feet warm. Barely nice ones.
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Nov 15, 2021 17:12
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Malachite_Dragon posted:Weren't there goons in the very last iteration of the thread trying to defend the whole "not showing the prices is ~fine dining~, you plebians I believe there was a post by a woman about going to an upscale French restaurant with her boyfriend, who was also French, and then being upset that only his menu included prices and she got the lady version of the menu without them. There were definitely people who agreed with the boyfriend that actually that sort of thing is fine and normal in the high cuisine world and it’s actually offensive for her to be offended by that because that’s his culture.
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Brawnfire posted:Can you imagine after casually naming your own kid, thinking you have any right to name their subsequent kid? It's already kinda strange that parents get to choose what you're called forever! We really need to go back to when they wouldn't bother giving you a proper name til you were like twelve minimum and sometimes would just end up going by your mob nickname for the rest of your life to the point where when you become totally not the monarch they use your name for the title for millennia to come.
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Brawnfire posted:It's already kinda strange that parents get to choose what you're called forever! You can change your name whenever you want. Just be like "Hey everyone, call me bob now." Nobody can stop you.
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wizardofloneliness posted:I believe there was a post by a woman about going to an upscale French restaurant with her boyfriend, who was also French, and then being upset that only his menu included prices and she got the lady version of the menu without them. There were definitely people who agreed with the boyfriend that actually that sort of thing is fine and normal in the high cuisine world and it’s actually offensive for her to be offended by that because that’s his culture. it's a really really good story for starting fights
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Nov 15, 2021 17:22
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Scaevolus posted:I really hope their lawyer mounts a successful defense of "I have no son named Mortimer III". A really horrible detail in the comments: Ohio lets you file for grandparent visitation in three cases. "1 Ohio has authorized grandparent companionship or visitation rights by statute in three circumstances: (1) when married parents terminate their marriage or separate, (2) when a parent of a child dies, and (3) when the child is born to an unmarried woman. " So you have legal rights to see the child if the relationship breaks up in some way, or if the mother is a slutty slut slut. "We've been living together for ten years"? Sorry, that doesn't count, Grandma's a comin' round the mountain.
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Scaevolus posted:I really hope their lawyer mounts a successful defense of "I have no son named Mortimer III". The judge would probably really hate it, but the OP's attorney going "No your honor, we have no objections to the grandmother seeing little Onson Sweemey, so long as it doesn't interferes with my clients' time with their only child, Bobson Dugnutt" would be pretty funny. Cthulu Carl fucked around with this message at 18:19 on Nov 15, 2021 |
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Arsenic Lupin posted:A really horrible detail in the comments: Ohio lets you file for grandparent visitation in three cases. "1 Ohio has authorized grandparent companionship or visitation rights by statute in three circumstances: (1) when married parents terminate their marriage or separate, (2) when a parent of a child dies, and (3) when the child is born to an unmarried woman. " expect to see more of this in coming years as america is taken over by a political coalition whose animating principle is grievance over the fact that their kids hate them
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for refusing to give my $70 Nikes to my bf homeless friend? Why is it OP who has to give away her shoes? She's a woman, her shoes probably wouldn't even fit the homeless friend, who is a man. Also, thrift stores exist, where you can probably find some decent sneakers for like $4, maybe try that.
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DAD LOST MY IPOD posted:expect to see more of this in coming years as america is taken over by a political coalition whose animating principle is grievance over the fact that their kids hate them how and why have I never thought about this. like I’m most likely not having a kid but jesus gently caress aaaaaaAAAAA
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Going to be a brief boom in courthouse marriages followed a few days later by very amicable divorces
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haveblue posted:Going to be a brief boom in courthouse marriages followed a few days later by very amicable divorces Nope. Get divorced? Grandma officially has rights.
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Nov 15, 2021 18:07
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My husband [M31] wants to see prostitutes because I [F27] won't perform a certain sex act he likes.quote:TL;DR - My husband loves a certain sex act, I stopped doing it a year ago, he came into a windfall of money last week and wants to use a portion of this money to see prostitutes.
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Nov 15, 2021 18:12
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I found a new contender for biggest doormat. Prepare to be bored and frustrated Recently married. My SIL took my photographer at my reception for an hour and had him do HER ENGAGEMENT PICS!! quote:So my husband and I got married in June. So very happy, beautiful wedding, and it was simple among today's standards... But was perfect for us. My husband and I saved up for over 3yrs for our wedding and reception. I had my bridesmaids come with me to choose their dresses bc i could not afford to buy them (and let's be honest... seldom does the "... and you'll be able to wear it again" apply). We paid for everything except bridesmaid dresses and groomsmen tuxedo rentals. We also asked my bridesmaids and his groomsmen to have the dresses and tuxedos as their wedding gift to us from them. We did not ask our parents to spend anything on our wedding, reception, etc. bc neither of us have come from families of means, and it meant more to us to not burden them when we were extremely happy with a simple, low cost (compared to many weddings of our generation) wedding. Even the bridesmaid dresses were $100 each, and I believe, beautiful. I am not by nature a complainer, and I make a daily conscientious effort not to be (raised to always be grateful for the things you have and not focus on what you do not have). So while I'm new to reddit, i would like advice from you...bc I feel like asking those closer to the situation not only would put them in an uncomfortable situation, but may cause more strife. Okay, that all being said, here is my situation/dilemma: After our wedding we had our reception... I did not realize until much later when we were to have photographs takenof the toasts, garter taken off, first dance, father and bride dance, etc. that we couldn't find the photographer we hired. Later, the photographer reappeared. My sister, (also my matron of honor) approached him and asked where he had been. He responded that that groom's sister (my now SIL) and her recent fiance had requested him in another room of the venue. We finished our beautiful special day/ night and were sooo happy! My sister gave me a heads up about the convo between her and our photographer... but she didn't know why my husband's sister had asked him to go with her. So after a couple of weeks we received our wedding proofs from the photographer. In the middle of the book was SEVERAL PICS of my SIL and her fiance! So I proceeded to call our photographer and ask him about the many photos of them. He responded that my SIL and her (recently engaged) fiance had requested he go with them to get separate pictures taken. When he suggested that he needed to stay at the reception, they lied to him and said MY HUSBAND AND I had told them it was our wish. I was sooo upset! First, we DEFINITELY did not know about this OR say it was fine with us. Secondly, it made the photographer that WE paid deposit, sitting fees, wedding ceremony, and reception for... NOT be there with us for the cake cutting, garter belt taken off by my husband, my father daughter dance, etc. So, after contemplating and allowing time to calm down and reflect, I'M STILL REALLY UPSET. I did call my SIL. She seemed very comfortable with what she and her fiance did. and what that was: having MY PHOTOGRAPHER take THEIR engagement pictures...at MY EXPENSE!!! And, in fact, was quite angry at ME for (at a minimum for my being upset), and for NOT BEING WILLING TO pay for their engagement pictures. I definitely do not want to start my newly married life having problems with his family. But I also know how long we worked to pay for our own special day. And to have my husband's sister take advantage, corner my photographer, and then expect that WE will pay for her engagement photos (bc I'm assuming she just wanted the proofs and to do Heaven knows what with). She thought... well you'll buy all of the proofs anyway... and said I was being selfish for being upset about her photos. I realize this is a long post. But I'm hoping for some clarity. My family thinks it's all B.S.! His family is split, but most of his family feel like we should just "let it go". Esp for the good of everyone. Please help me out here. Am i being out of line? Should i just pay for their engagement photos and let it go? Update: quote:I am sorry! I have been trying to post, but I must make it too long bc it disappears.
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JeremoudCorbynejad posted:*breaks leg* Wait, in early November 2021, I’m supposed to break my phone. Time to ‘accidentally’ drop it onto concrete; it’s the only way to be sure I’m still on schedule!
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hawowanlawow posted:I found a new contender for biggest doormat. Prepare to be bored and frustrated Announce your pregnancy at their wedding
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Soylent Pudding posted:It came from legaladvice quote:While I've enjoyed your wild speculation here tying to justify things, you are so far in left field you've wound up in right. It's his surname. He has my fiancée's surname, and she can't handle it. I'm the man so she thinks he should have my surname. We've argued about it in the past.  She'd also apparently only seen the kid a handful of times by her choice, until they went no contact and she's trying to force visitation out of spite.
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DorkusMalorkus posted:Why is it OP who has to give away her shoes? She's a woman, her shoes probably wouldn't even fit the homeless friend, who is a man. He wants to sell them for meth op
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Nov 15, 2021 18:21
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Hughlander posted:My husband [M31] wants to see prostitutes because I [F27] won't perform a certain sex act he likes. Sexual incompatibility is a reasonable cause to end a relationship, but the husband is an qsshole for leading with getting prostitutes rather than just facing those facts
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Nov 15, 2021 18:23
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op's husband doesn't understand that he doesn't want anal girls, he wants real girls gone anal
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Nov 15, 2021 18:35
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"Hey guys, how do I ask if this business partner who lives with me, spends all her time with me and is carrying my child is into me? Reddit help!!!!"quote:
Somehow one of the densest motherfuckers alive. But in a wholesome way. 
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hawowanlawow posted:I found a new contender for biggest doormat. Prepare to be bored and frustrated what the gently caress, no, you just buy every photo EXCEPT theirs, then send them an invoice in a certified envelope so you can take them to small claims court over the photographer's fees later. husband already is done with his sister so he'll for sure be down
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA For Admitting To My Husband That I Wasn't Actually Happy On Our Wedding Day? Scaevolus posted:The problem is that the vacant homes are Metis of the Hallways posted:AITA for telling my girlfriend that her phobia is ridiculous and she needs treatment? (self.AmItheAsshole)
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Hughlander posted:My husband [M31] wants to see prostitutes because I [F27] won't perform a certain sex act he likes. Food $200 Data $150 Rent $800 Anal $2,000 Utility $150 someone who is good at the economy please help me budget this. my family is dying
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AITA for wanting to bring my favorite wine to dinner?quote:Me (44M) and my wife of 17 years, (39F) were going to her sisters party who is some kind of fancy chef at a 3 Michelin star restaurant. We were sitting in a popular national beverage franchise getting wine for dinner, so I grabbed the thing I drink every night, a popular Canadian red wine. It’s not Barefoot or anything like that, it’s a perfectly serviceable wine. My wife starts to go off like I’m some sort of idiot, that you can’t drink a popular Canadian red wine with dinner. She suggests a white wine instead, because that would pair with dinner best and she didn’t say it, but she implied it would make us look more cultured and distinguished. I hate white wine, but especially the kind she had picked. I didn’t see why it would matter, but she said I’d look like an idiot if I showed up with my choice of Red. Finally, after a few minutes of bickering, I suggested we get both, which she agreed too. AITA for picking my favorite wine?
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There jsn't a single Canadian red worth making a fuss over
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Buzzman posted:"Hey guys, how do I ask if this business partner who lives with me, spends all her time with me and is carrying my child is into me? Reddit help!!!!" There was an update: quote:Short update because I’m supposed to be working. And I don’t expect this to get attention because my original post didn’t but I don’t know who else to tell.
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Me and my wife reached a compromise over a minor disagreement but I decided to bitch about it on the internet anyway. Am I the rear end in a top hat?
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