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Really wanna hear someone actually unpack this theory that if someone's a 20-year-old virgin it's because their gently caress power is too strong, you pop the lid on that and you'll unleash an uncontainable rape monster. Feels like CWC talkin about The Beast
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Thinking of meeting somebody my age and them telling me they are a virgin. The warning sign is that I didn’t ask, wtf why are u telling me this on a coffee date.
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I want to see the distribution of where teens lose their virginity. Home is bound to be the top answer, but when?? Right after school? HOW DO THEY SNEAK
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Pope Corky the IX posted:I once knew a kid that tried to keep his eyes open every time he sneezed and ended up making GBS threads his pants on the school bus. Why were you wearing his pants?
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I like that line in american dad where Stan says "isn't being a virgin a good thing?" and Francine coldly deadpans "No. It's terrible."
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Nov 20, 2021 19:14
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Walh Hara posted:Numbers are meaningless though? W.r.t. determining whether it's a red flag you need to know way more about somebody his/her culture and circumstances before you can apply such a ridiculous broad brush. Boom, 90% laid before 22.  So I repeat, if you haven’t had sex at 21, you are an outlier. If you are 25-30 there’s something wrong, and people will wonder what.
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Fruits of the sea posted:Thinking of meeting somebody my age and them telling me they are a virgin. Not the coffee date, but not confessing before getting intimate is a lie of omission. Virgin men need to be up front about their status because their partners have a right to know, and to be able to refuse consent based solely on that fact. carry on then fucked around with this message at 19:23 on Nov 20, 2021 |
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https://twitter.com/caucasianjames/status/1461843582101295106?s=21
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Nov 20, 2021 19:22
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EIDE Van Hagar posted:Boom, 90% laid before 22. I thought it was because I was asexual, I don’t want to be a rapist 
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Skellybones posted:I thought it was because I was asexual, I don’t want to be a rapist sorry, to the morlock tunnels with you.
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I (29F) want to bail before Thanksgiving dinner with familyquote:My 2 brothers and I moved back home with my parents during Covid last year, and it's the first time we've all been home now since a few years. To note: for Thanksgiving we usually prepare the traditional feast and celebrate it just the 5 of us (2 parents, me, 2 brothers). All of us help out, and cook certain dishes, and it just feels really special and loving.
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This virginity thing may be the dumbest derail in this thread and that has a lot of competition.
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EIDE Van Hagar posted:Boom, 90% laid before 22. Wonder how much it varies by country. A lot, I assume.
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CharlestheHammer posted:This virginity thing may be the dumbest derail in this thread and that has a lot of competition. it owns lmao More graphs! More graphs!
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:it owns lmao I think posting graphs about this is a biggest red flag of them all. But I can imagine a goon busting one out on a date
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EIDE Van Hagar posted:Boom, 90% laid before 22. And here I thought it was being a nerd who doesn’t talk to people and also having vulvodyna.
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EIDE Van Hagar posted:If the average age is 17 then you are really really on the tail end by the time you are 20-21, like last 5% or something. EIDE Van Hagar posted:Boom, 90% laid before 22. Hope you realize this is why I said "don"t invent numbers".
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EIDE Van Hagar posted:Numbers don’t lie? If the average age is 17 then you are really really on the tail end by the time you are 20-21, like last 5% or something. Here are two different sets of numbers that have the same numerical average. (16, 17, 30) and (16, 22, 25). Both add up to 63, divide by 3, get 21. There are lots of other sets of numbers that would get the same average. Public statistics usually use the "median", in which you count up how many results you have and pick the value in the middle. "The median age at death was 35" means that half the people died before 35, half after. ( A result that low is usually what you get when a lot of children die of infectious diseases.) So, if I had (15, 15, 21, 30, 40), the median would be 21, because there are two people younger and two people older than 21. If I had (13, 15, 21, 70, 90), the median would also be 21, because again, 2 older, 2 younger. So if all you know is that 17 is the average -- either the numerical average or the median -- you know very little about what the endpoints are.
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Bringing my powerpoint to the first date to show how I got fiddled by my family doctor at 15 and am therefore in the optimal first sex age bracket and scientifically Normal
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EIDE Van Hagar posted:Boom, 90% laid before 22. Nah, nothing wrong, get over that bullshit.
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kdrudy posted:Nah, nothing wrong, get over that bullshit. Most women would disagree, which brings us neatly back to the original posted story, where the OP is NTA due to her very real and valid concerns.
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Arsenic Lupin posted:That's not how statistics work. Let's assume the average is 21, becaunse it makes my life easier; you could fill in the slots with different numbers that average to 17, but my brain is tired. You get the numerical average by adding up all the numbers and dividing by how many numbers you had. I know you need more info than a mean to know the shape of a distribution. look at the graph tho
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carry on then posted:Most women would disagree, which brings us neatly back to the original posted story, where the OP is NTA due to her very real and valid concerns. Are you a woman
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carry on then posted:Most women would disagree, which brings us neatly back to the original posted story, where the OP is NTA due to her very real and valid concerns. You can have whatever reason you want not have a relationship with someone, she's very much NTA, doesn't mean there's necessarily something wrong with the kid for being a virgin is all in saying.
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You've heard of 'fell pregnant'? Well get ready for 'fell married to a huge racist that uses the n word'! WIBTAH if i didnt invite my husband to the holidays with my family? Not the A-hole So for back ground i (f18) am legally married to my husband (m21). Im mixed (mexican and black) and hes white. (this plays into context). The reason we got married was because he did convince me that him being in the army would give me “benefits” and bc im dumb i fell for it and got married. Not to mention he didnt even ask to move into my parents house he just slept over one day and never left. We got our own place and moved out my parents but i left him about 3ish months into out marraige and ofc i ended up pregnant. He was a major narcissist and i feel so dumb that i didnt see it sooner. Anyways hes stationed here but isnt from the state so he has no family or friends here. He really took a liking to my parents but well giving everythings thats happen my parents dont really want him around till my daughter is born. Hes in therapy and it seems to have worked a bit but ill never get back with him after how he treated me and how he called my brother who mainly looks black the hard R. A few days before halloween we came into contact again and my parents and him met up on base and had lunch and spent a little bit of time togethor. He asked my mom what we where doing for halloween and my mom told him however never invited him. He texted me today asking what i did and i told him that i just took my sister trick or treating with my parents and he said “oh you should have told me i wouldve came” i didnt reply bc obviously he wasnt invited. He always has tried to invite himself places with my family and i before we where married even tho he wasnt invited. Now im thinking hell try to invite himself to thanks giving and halloween but i dont want him there at all. I feel bad but at the same time i dont so WIBTA?
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CharlestheHammer posted:Are you a woman Yes, but only if it wins them the argument.
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AITA for not involving myself in my ex-husband's child life? Not the A-hole https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/qxoozs/aita_for_not_involving_myself_in_my_exhusbands/ My (25F) ex-husband (29M) and I divorced a year ago after I found out that he had an affair son, ''C''(1M), by that time we already had ''A'' (3m) and ''B'' (1M). quote:Since my husband had and affair he lost any right to alimony or child-support from my part due prenup stipulations, he also lost his job at my dad's and the car. When he came back begging me for an opportunity he disclosed that C's mom passed away during childbirth and we were the only family he had, I was hurt for his betrayal but yet I still felt love for this man and didn't want to hurt a motherless child so I told him that I would revoke his mandatory child-support payments (because I don't really need them thanks to my dad) so he could focus on doing what was best for C and that anything he did (monetary) for our kids was welcome but not necessary.
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kimbo305 posted:What's the normal place to have sex for teens if they don't go to college and live with their parents? One person's house or the other? I lost my virginity in a house, but wed often just end up doing it in a room when my parents were on tje other side of the house, or outside, or in an alley, or an empty movie theater, etc
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value-brand cereal posted:AITA for not involving myself in my ex-husband's child life? Curious how the mom never offered to raise the kid and is instead guilting OP to do it.
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 “Listen if we don’t have sex by the time I’m 21 somethingawful.com forum user EIDE Van Hagar is going to think I’m an outlier so this needs to happen.”
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kdrudy posted:You can have whatever reason you want not have a relationship with someone, she's very much NTA, doesn't mean there's necessarily something wrong with the kid for being a virgin is all in saying. There is though. Incels prove it. Obviously aside from those who were abused, or those who are dealing with gender or sexuality issues, or those who are physically disabled, among others, there is something very very deeply wrong with a man who isn't attractive enough to have had at least one partner by 20. Because that's always what it comes down to: you just aren't a good person. When the person who you have most in common with is Elliot-loving-Rodger, you don't really deserve love.
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Everything that happens at less than 10% frequency is very bad and a red flag, which is the excuse I use when giving left handers swirlies.
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carry on then posted:There is though. Incels prove it. Obviously aside from those who were abused, or those who are dealing with gender or sexuality issues, or those who are physically disabled, among others, there is something very very deeply wrong with a man who isn't attractive enough to have had at least one partner by 20. Because that's always what it comes down to: you just aren't a good person. When the person who you have most in common with is Elliot-loving-Rodger, you don't really deserve love. Oooooofffff
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EIDE Van Hagar posted:Boom, 90% laid before 22. lol what do u think an outlier is
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carry on then posted:There is though. Incels prove it. Obviously aside from those who were abused, or those who are dealing with gender or sexuality issues, or those who are physically disabled, among others, there is something very very deeply wrong with a man who isn't attractive enough to have had at least one partner by 20. Because that's always what it comes down to: you just aren't a good person. When the person who you have most in common with is Elliot-loving-Rodger, you don't really deserve love. Lol you're a loving psychopath
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carry on then posted:There is though. Incels prove it. Obviously aside from those who were abused, or those who are dealing with gender or sexuality issues, or those who are physically disabled, among others, there is something very very deeply wrong with a man who isn't attractive enough to have had at least one partner by 20. Because that's always what it comes down to: you just aren't a good person. When the person who you have most in common with is Elliot-loving-Rodger, you don't really deserve love. Y I K E S
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sugar free jazz posted:lol what do u think an outlier is You, sitting alone at 25 reading manga and not having sex.
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On one hand, I'm annoyed goons still haven't learned not to touch the poop. On the other hand, it's hilarious how sensitive goons are about sex-having.
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value-brand cereal posted:AITA for not involving myself in my ex-husband's child life? I hope her mom "does the right thing" and shuts the gently caress up.
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