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OP is an rear end in a top hat. Matt may also be an rear end in a top hat, but I can't tell over all the assholishness of OP.
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 23:44 |
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He got disability from the military but he's got some scarring from whatever imperial war chewed him up, so she didn't sleep with him for seven years after his discharge when he was raising her daughter. The OPs comments make it a bit worse. Basically the daughter has mental health issues and no one trusts the mother because she's a Kardashian style train wreck without the money. And they ran the ambush idea past a therapist who told her it could potentially have a very negative outcome. It's either someone who's just wrecked the lives of everyone around them or a creative writing piece from someone ticking things off a list. Cheating on someone deployed, paternity fraud, being delusional and entitled, a home invasion, racism, etc.
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# ? Dec 9, 2021 23:57 |
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pentyne posted:lol "I love you but looking at you is painful therefore I left you 100% unsupported and struggling after 12 years of being in your life" Thundercloud posted:He got disability from the military but he's got some scarring from whatever imperial war chewed him up, so she didn't sleep with him for seven years after his discharge when he was raising her daughter.
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 00:03 |
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A Moose posted:so, with that psycho sister and ex story, who wants to bet OP didn't marry white enough or rich enough? In the story you're talking about the sister was the same piece of poo poo before OP even met her husband. Maybe husband is not white, maybe he's poor, but it's clear that sister's issue is whatever weird mental fantasy of two sisters marrying brothers and has nothing to do with who the husband is. quote:She was sure my ex was the best fit for me and became unbearable when she started dating my ex’s brother. My ex was invited everywhere by my siblings, even to some family holidays, but I didn’t say anything since he was their friend too. That is until my sister started to push for us to get back together.
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 00:07 |
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AITA for not letting my niece borrow my engagement ring?quote:I (28f) recently got engaged to the man of my dreams, and he picked the perfect engagement ring. I can't get over how well he did without asking me any questions about it. It even fits perfectly despite neither of us actually knowing my ring size. Give me your engagement ring! No? Ok I'll take it anyway!
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 00:08 |
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quote:She said I'm being unfair to my niece, who loves my dogs and "just wanted to feel like a princess for a little while."
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 00:10 |
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some of these...like, she knows she's not the rear end in a top hat for having her stuff stolen. she just wants...what exactly? do you get stuff for having "the best" story?
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 00:22 |
ArbitraryC posted:Sounds like the daughter and Matt would have been better off in this hypothetical land! Though it is strange to me if he had suspicions he would have waited so long, why 12 years? Since he got out on disability discharge and is 'disfigured' according to OP, it's possible he had a bunch of mental health issues, possibly related to the OP since he had help in leaving from his ex-NCO and there was then family interventions, then he got a new identity. If there was a chance for the non-dad to be in the girls life OP here has destroyed it by going straight to a confrontation at his home in front of his family for OP to scream at him for leaving. It's either a well written troll or just very bleak, but I know someone very similar to the OP and everyone just works around her to make sure her daughter is fine.
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 00:26 |
InsertPotPun posted:some of these...like, she knows she's not the rear end in a top hat for having her stuff stolen. she just wants...what exactly? do you get stuff for having "the best" story? I imagine to back her up given potentially a lifetime of her sister being whiny and spoilt. She doesn't have a niece problem, she has a sister problem.
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 00:28 |
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InsertPotPun posted:some of these...like, she knows she's not the rear end in a top hat for having her stuff stolen. she just wants...what exactly? do you get stuff for having "the best" story? Some people are really adamant about the situation that it can make you second guess yourself.
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 00:28 |
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Rescue Toaster posted:A travel agent sent an email titled "Our Trip!" ? I’m guessing it was “Re: Our Trip”
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 00:30 |
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AITA for dropping out of the MOH role last minute because of an emergencyquote:My best friend Chloe was getting married last Saturday and I was the maid of honor. For one year straight I was the main planner for her and did the best that I could to fit the standards she had set for the wedding. I even planned an amazing bachelorette party one month before the wedding and I couldn't do this without the gorgeous bridesmaids as well. ur husband's in the ICU?? but it's MY DAY
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 00:30 |
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value-brand cereal posted:I was curious what the comments were and what else the OP had to say. I found that the post was deleted for some reason? Would anyone mind explaining what the hell this means for someone who doesn't use reddit? On Reddit, people can upvote or downvote posts and comments. When someone does this, a point is added or removed from the account that made the post or comment. This score is displayed publicly on a user's profile, so redditors regard having a high karma as a symbol of being a worthy poster. Typically this means the post is very popular or being flamed to heck. However, it's common to upvote posts if you like it, so the limit exists to keep users from boosting their accounts too much by making posts on r/relationships.
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 00:32 |
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InsertPotPun posted:some of these...like, she knows she's not the rear end in a top hat for having her stuff stolen. she just wants...what exactly? do you get stuff for having "the best" story? turns out people who post on the internet like attention, and it's cathartic to have a bunch of randos call your enemies pieces of poo poo did you really think everyone was bringing their conflicts to Redditors for their famous wisdom and sense of fairness
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 00:35 |
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InsertPotPun posted:some of these...like, she knows she's not the rear end in a top hat for having her stuff stolen. she just wants...what exactly? do you get stuff for having "the best" story? A sanity check to remember that they are not the one in the wrong
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 00:48 |
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Bad idea. You might wind up with some weird unrelated phobia. The chance of learning a new spell isn't worth it.
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 00:57 |
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AITA for asking my neighbour to move her craft room to a different bedroomquote:My husband and I live in an upstairs 3 bedroom flat and the flat below us is the same lay out. The house has been for sale for awhile and recently a woman bought it. It turns out she doesn't have any children so I found it strange she bought a 3 bedroom house but I soon found out it's because she runs a craft business from home and needs 2 bedrooms to run it. The problem is unfortunately she has decided to use to main bedroom, which is below us as her main craft room.
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 01:02 |
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for asking my neighbour to move her craft room to a different bedroom Help, my neighbor is at home! What do I do?!
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 01:07 |
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for asking my neighbour to move her craft room to a different bedroom loving lol. I'm insane about noisy neighbours in multi-family situations but it sounds like downstairs is barely making any sounds at all but upstairs is just insane and hyper-fixated on someone daring to work from home. Meanwhile she's got noisy kids bouncing off the walls all day and downstairs doesn't care. Better soundproofing between units should really be standard to avoid these sort of conflicts, but I have a feeling this woman would be driven to a rage just from the idea that a bedroom was being used for filthy low class "work" instead of proper middle class sleeping only.
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 01:08 |
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Ensign Expendable posted:Karma is a scoring system, you can upvote or downvote a post and individual comments. "Reached a karma limit" is code for "this is getting downvoted to poo poo so we're going to take it down to curb the inevitable drama". Same thing for number of comments. Reddit is a massive website, so if people from outside of a subreddit catch wind of a popular post you can get a huge torrent of comments that the mods might be unable or unwilling to deal with. Quackles posted:On Reddit, people can upvote or downvote posts and comments. When someone does this, a point is added or removed from the account that made the post or comment. Ah, thank you both. Once again forums are proven to be superior because gently caress all those restrictions. Just post!
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 01:13 |
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SA locks threads all the time for getting huge/full of insane weirdos. This isn't even the first r/relationships thread
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 01:19 |
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Thundercloud posted:It's either a well written troll or just very bleak, but I know someone very similar to the OP and everyone just works around her to make sure her daughter is fine. I've got something in a similar vein and its just wall to wall low key depressing where you're like "this person has committed to being the maximum detriment to their child as they can legally be" and it sounds crazy when you type it out.
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 01:26 |
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My friend has 3 kids from her ex. He is nearly totally uninvolved and a huge piece of poo poo, just one of the worst people I've even known about personally. Lazy sack of poo poo who won't lift a finger to help the kids, but the moment he finds out there's something he can do to make everyone's lives miserable he will go to the ends of the earth to accomplish it. For instance her kids had a chance to fly across the country to visit their grandparents for a week. He found out and got a lawyer (he has no money but he ponied up for this!) in order to legally block the kids from leaving the province without his permission as is his legal right. Any time an out of province trip is an option for the kids, he does the same thing and jumps through all the legal hoops to block the kids from going as it violates his parental rights and he has a veto. It's not because he wants to see them or spend time with them, he just loves to flex these sort of powers and make life miserable for his ex and kids. And when he DOES spend time with the kids he spends the entire time ranting about his ex, their mom. While she does her best to not totally poison their relationship or tell them he's why they can't go on trips or see family, he uses every chance he can to talk poo poo about her. "Daddy can't afford food because mommy makes daddy give her all his money" (he's too poor to pay child support, she actually pays him) or "I can't afford to buy birthday presents because even though mommy is rich she doesn't let me have enough money to buy you things" (she's a struggling single mom looking after 3 kids). He'll also mention how his ex ruined his life and how one day he'll just kill himself over it. Great poo poo to tell your kids. He's also called the cops on his kids a few times. Just an absolute garbage person. He's too garbage to even off himself, just uses it to manipulate everyone around him.
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 01:37 |
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your friend, hey
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 02:04 |
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ArbitraryC posted:Sounds like the daughter and Matt would have been better off in this hypothetical land! Though it is strange to me if he had suspicions he would have waited so long, why 12 years? Honestly I think there's a decent chance his "suspicians" were not based on reality but instead on "I am unhappy with being a stay at home dad because because its not so much by choice but because I got kicked out of the military after being disabled and disfigured, potentially in that military service, but maybe instead I'm unhappy because she's actually not my kid?" It's just, incidentally it turned out to be correct that he wasn't the bio dad. A case where I don't think completely ditching the kid was, y'know, GOOD but I can easily see how it happened.
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 02:04 |
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Baronjutter posted:loving lol. I'm insane about noisy neighbours in multi-family situations but it sounds like downstairs is barely making any sounds at all but upstairs is just insane and hyper-fixated on someone daring to work from home. Meanwhile she's got noisy kids bouncing off the walls all day and downstairs doesn't care. she's weirdly fixated on her neighbor being childless and single, so it's probably some kind of internalized misogyny thing she'd probably be fine if it was normal, natural noise like babies crying or toddlers running around shrieking, not the infernal murmur of a witch's devil engines
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 02:17 |
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My parents want to take 20% of my (22m) paycheck and I don’t want to give it to them. Any advice?quote:Everyone being harsh about this really needs to chill and stay in their lane. And before you comment, would you want your parents charging you to live in their house when it’s not needed? I know life is hard, life isn’t free, poo poo happens, but I’m in a situation where I can save a decent amount then move out like everyone is saying. I’m trying to save for my future, not go blow my money on dumb poo poo.
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 03:15 |
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Evil Willow posted:My parents want to take 20% of my (22m) paycheck and I don’t want to give it to them. Any advice? I need to see where that first paragraph comes from because I’m strongly leaning on the side of the parents because of it.
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 03:29 |
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MarcusSA posted:I need to see where that first paragraph comes from because I’m strongly leaning on the side of the parents because of it. He added it in as an edit, I added the para break. People are telling him to either suck it up and pay his parents or move out and pay his own rent and bills. One of the comments he really didn't like.... quote:I blame the parents. If they hadn’t raised him to expect everything for free (education, housing, food, etc) then he wouldn’t be on Reddit trying to justify his entitlement. It’s ok man, I bet if you object enough they will finally give in and let you live for free or reduce it to something silly like $100/month. Because I bet that’s how you were raised to get your way. I’m not judging I’m just saying hold your ground and they’ll bend. Promise. Evil Willow fucked around with this message at 03:35 on Dec 10, 2021 |
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for laughing after my sister implied my brother's girlfriend's dish wasn't good at Thanksgiving? UPDATE: AITA for laughing after my sister implied my brother's girlfriend's dish wasn't good at Thanksgiving? quote:Questions/clearing things up in general first.
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 03:43 |
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My (F23) BF (M25) Thinks We Don’t Have Sex Enoughquote:My boyfriend and I have been together (he’s 25 and i’m 23) for five years. We both have fairly high sex drives but his is a bit higher than mine. On average, we have sex twice a day which I thought was good enough considering we’re both med school students and we both work. But yesterday, he sat me down and explained that he thinks we’re not having sex enough. He feels like four or five times a day would satisfy his sex drive, and explained that two times a day wasn’t enough for him.
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 04:14 |
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Waiting for the update where the boyfriend dies from a chronic low jing
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 04:23 |
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The Glumslinger posted:My (F23) BF (M25) Thinks We Don’t Have Sex Enough I literally cannot fathom this dude.
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 04:31 |
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Pope Corky the IX posted:I need to know the name of this cat. Her name is Rain and she is a wonderful cat.
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 04:38 |
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Betazoid posted:I went through something like this. I've told this story before on here... I dated my sister's very close friend for three years. I broke it off because we weren't aligned on children or religion, he was too dependent on his mom, he took me for granted, and I didn't think I should marry the guy I started dating at 18. (I wanted to go have a slutty phase.) sorry your sister's nuts. but also lol also what the hell is a "slutty phase"
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 04:47 |
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A Period of Pronounced Promiscuity
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 04:48 |
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AITA for claiming total control over the thermostat?quote:I know the stakes here aren't as high as many of the stories typically shared here, but I really would like some feedback on my situation, so I appreciate you all bearing with me. Just in case you're curious about the ages..... OP posted:I'm 28, he's 65 and we've been living here together for six years.
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 04:49 |
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I thought old people got cold easier
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 04:53 |
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for claiming total control over the thermostat? she waiting for the old man to die to solve this problem or what
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# ? Dec 10, 2021 04:56 |
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Baronjutter posted:My friend why
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