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olylifter posted:AITA for giving my sister 13k to pay for her I.V.F cycle without consulting my husband?
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# ? Dec 31, 2021 21:00 |
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gvibes posted:Man, where can you find a 13k IVF cycle? I think mine cost >40k/cycle. Kid's Stuff Superstore ?
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# ? Dec 31, 2021 21:05 |
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The entire IVF thing could just be a grift especially if the husband is a deadbeat and in on it too.
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# ? Dec 31, 2021 21:13 |
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Rescue Toaster posted:The entire IVF thing could just be a grift especially if the husband is a deadbeat and in on it too. Wow, imagine if the I.V.F. could only be done in Puerto Vallarta, or Key West.
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# ? Dec 31, 2021 21:16 |
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Rescue Toaster posted:The entire IVF thing could just be a grift especially if the husband is a deadbeat and in on it too. Yeah, I was gonna say, I doubt that money is being used for IVF.
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# ? Dec 31, 2021 21:18 |
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Sisal Two-Step posted:Yeah, I was gonna say, I doubt that money is being used for IVF. Even if the sister did ask for the 13k with the intention of using it on IVF (she didn't), it won't be used that way.
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# ? Dec 31, 2021 21:23 |
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SMEGMA_MAIL posted:Are you nerds telling me you don’t carry around a bottle of ever clear at work functions? I go Fremen on this: the best place to keep alcohol is inside yourself.
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# ? Dec 31, 2021 21:23 |
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Bruceski posted:I go Fremen on this: the best place to keep alcohol is inside yourself. I can barely fit one bottle in me, that will last me no time at all in the deep desert
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# ? Dec 31, 2021 21:31 |
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BIG FLUFFY DOG posted:i think its something eastern european/russian just from the fact that its associated with new years eve and the only places where that's the big winter holiday over christmas is there and medieval scotland. Sounds like the eastern European peasant recipes my mom shared with me from her side of the family. "Take what you've got, put it in a pot, hope it works." And then Great-Aunt Mavis happens to have some sweet corn and it turns out tasty and that becomes the Secret Family Recipe that everyone swears needs to be done exactly the same way and never revealed.
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# ? Dec 31, 2021 21:31 |
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Biplane posted:I can barely fit one bottle in me, that will last me no time at all in the deep desert Heh, you thought stillsuits were about conserving water
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# ? Dec 31, 2021 21:54 |
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One thing I've never understood is snooping in someone else's stuff. I house sit for a few different families, and I remember after the first time I did, a coworker asked me what kind of cool things I had found in the house. I assumed he meant like the new pool table, but no, he was under the assumption I was digging through the closets and checking the medicine cabinets just to see what the people had. Why. In fact, the only time I ever remember looking in someone's house, was in the kitchen when I was staying over, and my friend specifically told me to dig around and eat whatever I wanted. And hindsight I think he was pranking me, because his wife is Japanese, and the only thing I found in the kitchen and pantries that had any English writing on it was a packet of McDonald's ketchup.
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# ? Dec 31, 2021 22:00 |
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AITA for yelling at my boyfriend that I'm not his friends' personal cook?quote:I F31 have been with my boyfriend M32 for 2 years. We met via a dating site and I moved to his hometown months ago. One new thing I learned about him is that he is extremely sociable. He has a group of 15+ guy friends that he calls 'brothers'. Believe it or not they're all single despite being in their 30s. Not saying it's weird but still...They're military though. Wonder if the BF just went and printed menus...
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# ? Dec 31, 2021 22:18 |
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Lotus Aura posted:I've been reading this thread on an off for a while now and this kinda thing always baffles me. Fake names and stuff, sure, but why do they always dance around such utterly irrelevant details like this? There was one a few pages ago that was blatantly about Amway but they just said something paraphrased as "a well known beauty product MLM". Like, what is the point? Theoretically it keeps the MLM fanatics from finding your post when they search for the company's name, and then flooding your post with pointless comments defending the brand. But in practice it wastes everyone's time, just say your MIL is so into oils she's part of an MLM and leave it at that.
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# ? Dec 31, 2021 22:24 |
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Hughlander posted:AITA for yelling at my boyfriend that I'm not his friends' personal cook? Military, you say? What’s to stop any of these selfish lazy assholes learning how to cook for themselves?
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# ? Dec 31, 2021 22:25 |
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Grape posted:It's a real dialect apart from the insane American wikipedia editor, but lots of people are really really mad if you call it a dialect rather than a language. "A language is a dialect with an army." Per Wikipedia, whether Scots is a language is ambiguous, some scholars going one way, some the other. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scots_language I went and looked this up because I was fairly sure Scots grammar and vocabulary overlap with English, but English is intelligible in Scotland and the reverse is often not true.
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# ? Dec 31, 2021 22:29 |
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AITA for driving my stepchild back to their mother's house even though my husband was against itquote:My stepchild came out as non-binary this week. My husband didn't really understand it but I told him that they needed support right now and to use their pronouns and we can deal with the rest later. My husband clearly didn't listen to me and talked to his sister. I think his sister told her son and her son send my child memes that were horrific and incredibly hurtful. They had only come out to her parents and step-parents and were not ready to come out to anyone else. One more in the "good step-parent" column.
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# ? Dec 31, 2021 22:54 |
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Cowslips Warren posted:One thing I've never understood is snooping in someone else's stuff. I house sit for a few different families, and I remember after the first time I did, a coworker asked me what kind of cool things I had found in the house. I assumed he meant like the new pool table, but no, he was under the assumption I was digging through the closets and checking the medicine cabinets just to see what the people had.
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# ? Dec 31, 2021 22:59 |
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AITA for getting mad at my fiancé because he didn’t put a stop on his dad’s comments?quote:Okay, so me and my fiancé (both 28) invited his parents for dinner at our place. I cooked a meal (not simple but not extravagant because I am not an amazing cook) and it was ready before they arrived. Run fast, run far, and don't look back.
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# ? Dec 31, 2021 23:08 |
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Arsenic Lupin posted:"A language is a dialect with an army." Per Wikipedia, whether Scots is a language is ambiguous, some scholars going one way, some the other. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scots_language Every example of it I've been shown by people is intelligible. Or really not any different from other things people call dialects.
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# ? Dec 31, 2021 23:11 |
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Lots of entertaining ones today. AITA for telling my sister no when she asked to have my house despite knowing she has more children/needs more space? quote:For some context, I (29F) have an older sister (34F). About 5 years ago our mom died and her money was split in between us, the house though was going to go to whoever had a child first. I was 24 at the time of my moms death and clearly didn’t plan to have children any time soon so when my sister announced her pregnancy 1 year after moms death I wasn’t upset, I wasn’t even sure I wanted the house in the first place since it wasn’t my style. "Give me your house!" Also, five kids in four years? Headed to Quiverfull territory, it sounds like. Lemniscate Blue fucked around with this message at 23:15 on Dec 31, 2021 |
# ? Dec 31, 2021 23:13 |
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Give me your house (that I don't really even need)
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# ? Dec 31, 2021 23:15 |
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ArbitraryC posted:Your friend sounds like one of these Reddit man child husband stories if he’s so detached from domestic work that his Asian wife is responsible for all things kitchen related. I mean...maybe he's fluent and they eat mostly Japanese food? No reason to jump to ArbitraryConclusions.
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# ? Dec 31, 2021 23:23 |
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Laopooh posted:I mean...maybe he's fluent and they eat mostly Japanese food? No reason to jump to ArbitraryConclusions. I mean it's also possible it was an intentional prank or they divide labor in the household fairly and it's an arrangement everyone enjoys. It's not unexplainable or inexcusable it just stood out to me as a bad look, particularly in this thread.
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# ? Dec 31, 2021 23:42 |
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Okay one more. AITA for cancelling holiday plans due to what is being called "Petty and childish behaviour"? quote:Every year before the Pandemic there was a group family holiday with extended family (Aunt, Uncles, cousins, grandparents etc) Over the years family member have had kids. I have to wonder what unreasonable things in the past this poster had simply done because it was expected of them, before growing a spine.
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# ? Dec 31, 2021 23:45 |
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Lemniscate Blue posted:AITA for getting mad at my fiancé because he didn’t put a stop on his dad’s comments? In the comments OP says that she does pretty much all the housework because her boyfriend says that's her responsibility as the one who owns the house. But lol if she thinks that division of labor would change if they ever ended up owning a home jointly.
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# ? Dec 31, 2021 23:46 |
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AITA for demanding my sister never enter my home again after destroying my books?quote:I am an avid reader. I have a whole library in one room of my house (wall to wall bookcases, a reading chair, etc etc) I have the whole set of Harry Potter books on my "specials" bookcase (the case where I keep my collectors edition and books that are sentimental to me) . The reason why I keep them is because my grandfather bought me 1-4 in the year the 4th was released. He died of cancer 4 months later a week before Christmas. I bought the rest of the books as they were released due to the fact that they were the last things he ever bought me.
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# ? Jan 1, 2022 00:08 |
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ArbitraryC posted:I mean it's also possible it was an intentional prank or they divide labor in the household fairly and it's an arrangement everyone enjoys. It's not unexplainable or inexcusable it just stood out to me as a bad look, particularly in this thread. Or, y'know, maybe the person married to a japanese woman knows japanese. You literally just made this up in your head to scold it, from like two sentences.
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# ? Jan 1, 2022 00:13 |
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Grape posted:Every example of it I've been shown by people is intelligible. Or really not any different from other things people call dialects. Welp, better get in touch with those scholars and tell them that the matter has been settled by a forums poster with massive amounts of unearned confidence. I'm sure they'll be glad to have the question cleared up.
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# ? Jan 1, 2022 00:15 |
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SiKboy posted:Welp, better get in touch with those scholars and tell them that the matter has been settled by a forums poster with massive amounts of unearned confidence. I'm sure they'll be glad to have the question cleared up. Scots, wha hae wi' Wallace bled, Scots, wham Bruce has aften led; Hark tae whit yon goon has said Ye're jist a dee-a-lect
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# ? Jan 1, 2022 00:24 |
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Mx. posted:AITA for demanding my sister never enter my home again after destroying my books? I wonder why dad and mom can't be in the same room together At this point she should never let her sister back in her house, in her car, or be left unsupervised with any of her things. She will seek revenge knowing she will face no consequences.
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# ? Jan 1, 2022 00:29 |
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Mx. posted:AITA for demanding my sister never enter my home again after destroying my books? I keep getting hung on the "none of them read so they aren't fully comprehending" bit even though she's in the right here.
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# ? Jan 1, 2022 00:32 |
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ShootaBoy posted:Or, y'know, maybe the person married to a japanese woman knows japanese. You literally just made this up in your head to scold it, from like two sentences. ArbitraryC fucked around with this message at 00:35 on Jan 1, 2022 |
# ? Jan 1, 2022 00:32 |
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The Guardian's printed another episode of You Be The Judge The prosecution: Roland quote:James resents paying more rent than me and constantly criticises my spending habits quote:Of course I want to support Roland, because I love him, but this can’t be the case for ever You can vote here. I'm on Roland's side because passive aggressiveness is more irritating than mooching.
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# ? Jan 1, 2022 00:35 |
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Grape posted:Every example of it I've been shown by people is intelligible. Or really not any different from other things people call dialects.
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# ? Jan 1, 2022 00:35 |
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Grape posted:Every example of it I've been shown by people is intelligible. Or really not any different from other things people call dialects. Norwegian speakers can understand Swedish and vice versa. This is literally the point of the 'army and a navy' thing you have totally missed, its not as simple as that.
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# ? Jan 1, 2022 00:36 |
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Midnight Voyager posted:I keep getting hung on the "none of them read so they aren't fully comprehending" bit even though she's in the right here. The profound sentimental value is all I needed to NTA. Should have literally kicked her rear end out the door. Comically, with a huge boot too.
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# ? Jan 1, 2022 00:37 |
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incoherent posted:The profound sentimental value is all I needed to NTA. Should have literally kicked her rear end out the door. Oh yeah, I am fully on her side! I just trip over that line like a wrinkle in a carpet.
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# ? Jan 1, 2022 00:39 |
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codswallop posted:The Guardian's printed another episode of You Be The Judge The takeaway comment is "should have a conversation with money before now" , which I agree is accurate but also probably should have taken place before using the last of your savings to take a long solo vacation then try to transition into being a sugarbaby. That's a huge bait and switch there though no surprise, spoiled rich kid probably just assumes that money rains on his life. e: like it's one thing when someone more well off meets someone, and I fundamentally agree that a couple shouldn't treat their income as individuals but as part of the pair, but when they previously were maintaining an equitable split just unilaterally deciding to blow through all their savings then take a huge paycut out of the assumption the person who makes more will just cover it feels different and bad, it's very mask off. ArbitraryC fucked around with this message at 00:47 on Jan 1, 2022 |
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AITA for demanding a credit check before I get married?quote:I found out my fiance, with who I live and share bills, is being garnished for $30,000 because he co-signed on his sister's car that was repossessed. Never co-sign on a loan!
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for demanding a credit check before I get married?
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# ? Jan 1, 2022 00:53 |