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The most telling thing with this guy is "I don't see how going to the library where she studies is stalking her. I could have easily just been going there to study myself." Like he's not even defending himself as innocent, he's defending that his stalking was plausibly deniable as not stalking. Take that same kind of sleaze logic apply it to everything that he's weaseling around, especially the issue of physical contact. Ain't a pretty picture!
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value-brand cereal posted:AITA For not allowing family to see my daughter until after they explain why she wet herself? This guy tried to post an update but reddit mods removed it.
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# ? Feb 12, 2022 01:58 |
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His grades aren't enough. I need his career sabotaged. I want him fleeing society, shunned and pariahed, living in an abandoned lighthouse which inexplicable still sounds its horn.
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# ? Feb 12, 2022 01:59 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for blowing up at my wife for going to her gender-reveal appointment without me? rear end in a top hat posted:My wife and I are expecting our first baby together, We made an appointment to find out the gender of the baby. To me, this is very important (I had hopes for a boy) Don't need to go further, YTA.
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# ? Feb 12, 2022 02:15 |
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Lots of redditors in the comments of the necklace thief story had anecdotes about relatives who were stealing for drug money pulling the same stunt, where if anyone said anything they would "find" it and if no one said anything they would instead figure the could get away with stealing it, it really does just sound like the bare minimum amount of bet hedging.
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# ? Feb 12, 2022 02:19 |
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Hellblazer187 posted:This guy tried to post an update but reddit mods removed it. gdi i hate those mods so much. i hope the kid is ok
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# ? Feb 12, 2022 02:19 |
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Augh I need to know too, is that one of those things that gets backed up somewhere?
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# ? Feb 12, 2022 02:41 |
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Hellblazer187 posted:I'm kinda NTA on gym boyfriend. She wants someone who prioritizes her and her daughter, so they aren't going to be a compatible couple. But it's kind of OK if he has different priorities. They should split up, though. I had a similar impression. His real problem is that he works a ten hour night-shift and doesn't have enough hours in the day to spend time with his girlfriend and her kid *and* pursue his hobbies the way he wants to. Time to make a choice. And seems like he made it.
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Blastedhellscape posted:I had a similar impression. His real problem is that he works a ten hour night-shift and doesn't have enough hours in the day to spend time with his girlfriend and her kid *and* pursue his hobbies the way he wants to. Time to make a choice. And seems like he made it. He also says that this results in him having more full days off, though, which he specifically said he'd love to spend with them.
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# ? Feb 12, 2022 02:51 |
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The title also makes it sound way, way worse. I admit I skimmed and just assumed he was a dick for: "AITA for telling my girlfriend that yes, the gym is more important to me than her and her daughter?" If he actually did that he would suck, which he didn't.
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# ? Feb 12, 2022 03:14 |
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titles in AITA are always the opposite of the body. If the title's outrageous the body will be extremely sensible and mild. If the title immediately makes you go "What's the problem" the body will reveal a person who committed several felonies and doesn't realize it.
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# ? Feb 12, 2022 03:22 |
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BIG FLUFFY DOG posted:titles in AITA are always the opposite of the body. If the title's outrageous the body will be extremely sensible and mild. If the title immediately makes you go "What's the problem" the body will reveal a person who committed several felonies and doesn't realize it. Is this in any way shaped by the OP beginning with 'I know this sounds bad but hear me out'?
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# ? Feb 12, 2022 03:32 |
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If they start like that the OP is almost certainly an irredeemable shitstain of the highest order. Always one or two exceptions, though.
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# ? Feb 12, 2022 03:45 |
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AITA for limiting financial support to my daughter [23F] upon finding out she wants to live "child free"?quote:I have two children, a son [26M] who was recently married and plans to have children, and a daughter [23F] who is still studying.
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# ? Feb 12, 2022 03:59 |
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She found a way to be a bigger jerk than someone calling themselves child free Good on her
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# ? Feb 12, 2022 04:08 |
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Mx. posted:AITA for limiting financial support to my daughter [23F] upon finding out she wants to live "child free"? Going to be controversial and say NTA. OP can unequally support their adult children on whatever arbitrary basis they want to. The inevitable rear end in a top hat judgment is going to come when OP complains that the daughter cut off contact because she accurately sees her uterus as transactional. AreWeDrunkYet fucked around with this message at 04:11 on Feb 12, 2022 |
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Having children is just an investment into getting future grandchildren, I don't know why the daughter can't see this
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Invisible Clergy posted:AITA for telling dirty jokes to someone, resulting in them sabotaging my grades? r/relationships: If people could stop calling me stalker and a rapist that would be great. EDIT: pentyne posted:The "Please stop calling me a rapist and a stalker" boy just won't quit Goddamn, so much worse that I thought, while simultaneously being exactly what I expected. Megillah Gorilla fucked around with this message at 04:22 on Feb 12, 2022 |
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reignonyourparade posted:Lots of redditors in the comments of the necklace thief story had anecdotes about relatives who were stealing for drug money pulling the same stunt, where if anyone said anything they would "find" it and if no one said anything they would instead figure the could get away with stealing it, it really does just sound like the bare minimum amount of bet hedging. Yeah, there's like an invisible playbook druggies go through. You see the same behaviour over and over again. "Surely no one will see through my foolproof plan," says the person whose brain is 99% mush from meth/heroin/etc. Still hurts when you see a friend or family member fall to addiction like that. Once they're at the point of everyone they know cutting them out of their lives and they're stealing from the last people they have left who will put up with their bullshit, you know their fall is only going to get faster and faster. Next step in the 'playbook' is the kid being thrown out and then smashing his way back in through a window to steal anything he thinks he can fence. Megillah Gorilla fucked around with this message at 04:35 on Feb 12, 2022 |
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CharlestheHammer posted:She found a way to be a bigger jerk than someone calling themselves child free It's honestly a Herculean feat to be a bigger rear end in a top hat than someone who constantly describes themselves as childfree so you gotta give props on that
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# ? Feb 12, 2022 04:50 |
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Husband won’t cut ties with female.quote:My husband wants me to basically tell him to cut all ties with another woman. I’ve told him he has to make that decision on his own. He’s been texting another woman ALOT lately and basically about a month ago he told me he may be developing feelings but he wasn’t sure. As he felt confused about developing a friendship with a female.So I told him ok I’m hurt and your keeping the contact and I’m not sure how I feel about this. He slowed contact down but is now she is texting daily. I’ve not told him to cut contact I’ve just asked him to do wha he feels is right. Why won’t he do it from himself? Is this a red flag?
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# ? Feb 12, 2022 05:08 |
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r/relationships: I touched her rear end and poo poo AITA for commenting "I'm sorry your dad didn't use a condom"? quote:A person on reddit was saying that British did a lot of good for india without looking at all the bad stuff. He was being an rear end in a top hat about it, he even name called people
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Mx. posted:Husband won’t cut ties with female. quote:There’s one huge problem though that I probably should have mentioned. She’s going to move next door to us! How on earth do you cut ties and keep peace as a neighbour? And the fact our kids get along.I feel extremely lost!
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# ? Feb 12, 2022 05:12 |
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pentyne posted:The "Please stop calling me a rapist and a stalker" boy just won't quit Whole thing: What can I do to ask for forgiveness and minimize damage? quote:A classmate has reported me for sexual harassment, and I have no idea how to proceed. I didn’t touch her in a sexual way but I did make some jokes that I admit looking back are inappropriate and in poor taste. I want to apologize to her so she feels safe again. Apparently she has experienced something like this before with a classmate which is likely what made my jokes triggering, and I didn’t know at the time. I know I made a mistake and scared her and I want to be able to make amends. I posted about this situation somewhere else and many people recommended therapy. If I tell them I’m going to start getting therapy for boundary issues, will they look at my situation less harshly? Right now I don’t know what my standing is in my program or the uni but my meeting with the professor and lab staff was really awkward and they weren’t that interested in what I had to say.
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# ? Feb 12, 2022 05:13 |
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he's still only admitting that his jokes were crass, completely ignoring trapping her in a small room and refusing to let her have her phone, touching her inappropriately, etc
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Hughlander posted:Whole thing: quote:If I tell them I’m going to start getting therapy for boundary issues, will they look at my situation less harshly? This fucker is still trying to bargain with this situation instead of actually admitting he hosed up and taking the consequences. I reiterate: to the acid vat!
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Absurd Alhazred posted:This fucker is still trying to bargain with this situation instead of actually admitting he hosed up and taking the consequences. I reiterate: to the acid vat!
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# ? Feb 12, 2022 05:32 |
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In today's episode of "you're actually single right now but you went to Reddit for guidance"quote:My (M28) wife (F27) of 2 years takes off the wedding ring in a night club. Now it's 3 AM and I can't contact her. How do I confront her whenever she gets back?
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# ? Feb 12, 2022 05:38 |
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Seth Pecksniff posted:It's honestly a Herculean feat to be a bigger rear end in a top hat than someone who constantly describes themselves as childfree so you gotta give props on that
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# ? Feb 12, 2022 05:43 |
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AITA for suggesting my ex's daughter stop coming over for a while after she purposely messed up my relationshipsquote:I (35f) used to date a guy we'll call jacob (37m) we dated for 9 months before we mutually agreed to break up. Jacob has a 16 year old daughter we'll call Emma, Emma's mom is not in her life and apparently all previous ex's treated her horribly. Emma calls me mom, I never had an issue with it even after the break up since I knew she didn't really have one and I cared for her. Emma often comes to visit me and stays over. About 2 months ago I went on a date, Emma found out but acted really excited for me and even insisted on helping me pick out a dress we had a blast and even went to for some ice cream after. The date went well and I thought things were going good however about week later I received a text from my date call me a horrible person and telling me to never talk to him again, This happened for the next 3 dates I went on and at this point I knew something was up.
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Hughlander posted:AITA for suggesting my ex's daughter stop coming over for a while after she purposely messed up my relationships
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# ? Feb 12, 2022 06:33 |
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Here, a palate-cleanser from NextDoor, filtered through Twitter:
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# ? Feb 12, 2022 06:46 |
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Dudes just putting in the prep work to swap wives with minimal downtime. Really good project management in my opinion. Hughlander posted:AITA for suggesting my ex's daughter stop coming over for a while after she purposely messed up my relationships Got called mom in less time than it takes to make a baby
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Absurd Alhazred posted:Here, a palate-cleanser from NextDoor, filtered through Twitter: Now I want to know how old the son is. I'm thinking either 38 or 19.
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# ? Feb 12, 2022 06:48 |
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That twist that it was the dad of the cyber-stalker-psycho-kid who'd first come up with the idea to start bugging this woman's devices...jesus christ.
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Blastedhellscape posted:That twist that it was the dad of the cyber-stalker-psycho-kid who'd first come up with the idea to start bugging this woman's devices...jesus christ. The kid should be in therapy, the ex should be in handcuffs.
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AITA for getting a tattoo that says “rot in hell” over my ex wife’s namequote:When me (39m) and my wife (41f) first got married we got matching tattoos of each other names. Well recently she cheated on me and we got a divorce. She got her tattoo of my name removed, and I was planning on getting mine removed but then I got a better idea. I called my tattoo artist and I got a tombstone on her name and under it, it says “rot in hell”. When I went over to her apartment to pick up my daughter (8f) she pointed out the work I got on my Tattoo. I asked if she liked, she just laughed awkwardly and that was the end of it for now. Later that night I’m watching TV with my daughter and my phone start going off like crazy, it was my ex. She was saying how hurtful it was to see what I did to the tattoo, and how I should’ve gotten it removed. I feel kinda bad after talking to her about the tattoo, so was I the rear end in a top hat?
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Mx. posted:AITA for getting a tattoo that says “rot in hell” over my ex wife’s name Yes, you kind of were an rear end in a top hat, but that’s OK because it’s small potatoes.
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