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Serephina posted:Sounds like a huge fuckin pile of drama that the only right solution is to walk away from. Ex-SIL putting people on blast on social media is a burning-bridges moment, did she honestly think her ex's family would have welcomed her? I think she overestimated her son's "family." If someone in my family disowned their six-year-old child and refused to be in their life, the parent would be out of family events and the kid would be told that they are welcome and part of the family in every way possible, and if someone sided with the parent, there would definitely be some bridge arson happening. When she started putting people other than her ex-husband on blast, I think she was no longer angling for an invite and was just letting people know what kind of family parties they were attending, which, fair, that's something I'd like to be told!
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Apr 23, 2022 12:29
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Malachite_Dragon posted:For the love of god, villains, desist I know, right? There's a time and a place for everything!
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Apr 23, 2022 12:46
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Malachite_Dragon posted:For the love of god, villains, desist Yes, Malachite_Dragon, for the love of god. This isn't a minute argument, hour relationship is in jeopardy at this very second.
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Apr 23, 2022 13:20
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Barudak posted:Yes, Malachite_Dragon, for the love of god. Seconded
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Apr 23, 2022 13:34
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Watch out, it’s time for an acid vat
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Apr 23, 2022 13:41
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Malachite_Dragon posted:For the love of god, villains, desist now it's being done just to wind you up
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Apr 23, 2022 13:43
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therobit posted:AITA for getting mad at my wife's gender reveal prank and ruining the party? 
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Apr 23, 2022 13:55
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mediaphage posted:i mean dude is just gross but she really went overboard imo lol She 100% literally aired their dirty laundry.
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Apr 23, 2022 13:59
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massive spider posted:She 100% literally aired their dirty laundry. 
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Apr 23, 2022 15:15
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Can't believe everyone in reddit thinks it's normal to walk around being an ol dookie booty little boy.
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Apr 23, 2022 15:28
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WIBTA if I remove the "in sickness" part from my marriage vow to my fiance [29M]?quote:This is harsh but I hate taking care of sick people. My siblings and I were always taking care of our parents whenever they get sick and I just hate it, I'm sick of it and I hate feeling bound or obligated to take care of somebody, my life is full of moments and events like this and I just finally want to live my life to the fullest. Good communication up front is the key to a successful marriage
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Apr 23, 2022 15:36
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Your vows aren’t a binding contract
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Apr 23, 2022 15:37
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Upgrade posted:Your vows aren’t a binding contract Yeah, the binding contract you sign is the binding contract.
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Apr 23, 2022 15:44
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Upgrade posted:Your vows aren’t a binding contract Okay but also it's good she's saying this now, because there is an assumption in marriage that you will help each other through hardships. Better than waiting until he gets an easily managed bowel disorder before divorcing him over it.
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Apr 23, 2022 15:44
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Captain Hygiene posted:WIBTA if I remove the "in sickness" part from my marriage vow to my fiance [29M]? Yup. And in this case, I think a healthy helping of therapy too. Upgrade posted:Your vows aren’t a binding contract They aren't, but I think the thread (and society at large) generally agrees that bailing on your chronically or terminally ill spouse just because they're sick is really lovely behaviour. But it's still better to let your would-be spouse know that before they marry you.
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Apr 23, 2022 15:49
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Sisal Two-Step posted:AITA for telling my son that his brother is just simply better at life than him? Daniel is the rear end in a top hat for going to law school. At best, he is a useful tool for people actually doing other things. NTA.
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Apr 23, 2022 16:00
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Upgrade posted:Your vows aren’t a binding contract AITA for wearing this on a T-shirt at a wedding? I know it sounds bad but...
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Apr 23, 2022 16:02
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mediaphage posted:man, in the comments she said they got married when she was 16 because they had sex and their christian family guilted them into it, and she ended up losing that baby. mediaphage posted:ok? this is a dumb derail but op said it would be impossible to trick a dude into thinking a hen laid egg is from a store. i don't think it would be that hard and pasteurization has nothing to do with it SMEGMA_MAIL posted:Alcoholism is a hell of a drug
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Apr 23, 2022 16:55
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Captain Hygiene posted:WIBTA if I remove the "in sickness" part from my marriage vow to my fiance [29M]? This woman should just stay single and spare everyone else the burden of dealing with someone so tedious and useless.
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Apr 23, 2022 17:05
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Sisal Two-Step posted:AITA for telling my son that his brother is just simply better at life than him? The one kid getting married at 20 and the dad telling a 22 year old still in school that "it might be time to settle down" reeks of some ultra-conservative, fundamentalist, backwater family.
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Apr 23, 2022 17:11
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The_Franz posted:The one kid getting married at 20 and the dad telling a 22 year old still in school that "it might be time to settle down" reeks of some ultra-conservative, fundamentalist, backwater family. drat, I forgot about those ages, that just makes it weirder. I wonder how exactly dad's business has been massively flourishing thanks to a 20 year old straight out of high school.
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Apr 23, 2022 17:16
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greazeball posted:I teach at a college and during the week of international women's day I heard this argument in 3 of my 9 classes. There's some kind of online revival happening because 2 of the students said exactly what this guy said: it's not real, it's just different, no I won't be providing any evidence. The other student was a woman (!) and said she just didn't think it was true anymore. At least her friends shushed her and started explaining things. The guys all just kind of looked smug and nobody talked about it at all. We're not in the states and English is a foreign language here.
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Apr 23, 2022 17:16
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greazeball posted:I teach at a college and during the week of international women's day I heard this argument in 3 of my 9 classes. There's some kind of online revival happening because 2 of the students said exactly what this guy said: it's not real, it's just different, no I won't be providing any evidence. The other student was a woman (!) and said she just didn't think it was true anymore. At least her friends shushed her and started explaining things. The guys all just kind of looked smug and nobody talked about it at all. We're not in the states and English is a foreign language here. I’m in the US and have noticed the same thing lately; one of those shithead MAGA talking heads must be pushing the narrative recently.
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Apr 23, 2022 17:22
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tinytort posted:bailing on your chronically or terminally ill spouse just because they're sick is really lovely behaviour. Ah, the Gingrich Maneuver
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Apr 23, 2022 17:31
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Captain Hygiene posted:drat, I forgot about those ages, that just makes it weirder. I wonder how exactly dad's business has been massively flourishing thanks to a 20 year old straight out of high school. I'm guessing it's something that needs a lot of hard physical labor that good old Dad can't do anymore.
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Apr 23, 2022 17:46
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quantumwell posted:I'm guessing it's something that needs a lot of hard physical labor that good old Dad can't do anymore. Tree stump removal.
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Apr 23, 2022 17:58
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Captain Hygiene posted:WIBTA if I remove the "in sickness" part from my marriage vow to my fiance [29M]? This one is a little weird to me because of the repeated references to this woman's parents. If she was forced into the role of a medical caregiver early in life I can see how she would be resentful and not want to repeat that. As written, her attitude sucks, but there definitely seems like more of a backstory here.
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Apr 23, 2022 18:19
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Captain Hygiene posted:WIBTA if I remove the "in sickness" part from my marriage vow to my fiance [29M]? Where did they dig up Newt Gingrich's old advice request?
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Apr 23, 2022 18:21
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vonnegutt posted:This one is a little weird to me because of the repeated references to this woman's parents. If she was forced into the role of a medical caregiver early in life I can see how she would be resentful and not want to repeat that. Yeah, I thought that one was funny as written but it definitely has potential for backstory stuff depending on where it falls on the truthfulness spectrum.
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Apr 23, 2022 18:27
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Captain Hygiene posted:WIBTA if I remove the "in sickness" part from my marriage vow to my fiance [29M]? At least they are figuring this out now instead of years down the line. What she is doing is lovely and I don't agree with it but if that's her line that's her line. Can't even fault her reasoning as it sounds a lot like child free people who decided that because they were forced to parent their siblings from a young age. Either way they should call it off since they have very different views on marriage.
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Apr 23, 2022 18:30
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Mx. posted:My fiancée (33M) told me (27F) that the gender pay gap isn’t real. Imagine being in a relationship in which kicking out the partner is a valid tactic used during arguments. How loving horrible is that dynamic? Edit: although upon reflection, this thread has shown me that yes, some people need to be kicked out. Nevermind. Agrikk fucked around with this message at 18:36 on Apr 23, 2022 |
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Apr 23, 2022 18:30
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vonnegutt posted:This one is a little weird to me because of the repeated references to this woman's parents. If she was forced into the role of a medical caregiver early in life I can see how she would be resentful and not want to repeat that. The bit where she says “I had enough of those in my life.” would certainly lend this credence, especially as she specifically calls out Crohn’s/UC (though as someone with Crohn’s I’d hardly say it’s debilitating enough to need a long-term caregiver)
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Apr 23, 2022 18:54
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Mx. posted:My fiancée (33M) told me (27F) that the gender pay gap isn’t real. Did Reddit show up for this man like they did for the poop smeared ex?
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Apr 23, 2022 19:04
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SMEGMA_MAIL posted:Did Reddit show up for this man like they did for the poop smeared ex? Surprisingly the thread isn't all that much in favor of him, mostly for his lovely attitude and mansplaining.
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Apr 23, 2022 19:38
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quantumwell posted:Surprisingly the thread isn't all that much in favor of him, mostly for his lovely attitude and mansplaining. He committed the ultimate sin of calling Reddit "fake news" so of course they can't agree with anything he says.
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Apr 23, 2022 19:53
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Mustang posted:This woman should just stay single and spare everyone else the burden of dealing with someone so tedious and useless. Yeah, I feel like anyone with this view is just incompatible with marriage. Which is fine but just don’t get married because that is not what marriage is supposed to be about. It’s fuckers like this that are destroying the sanctity of marriage.
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Apr 23, 2022 20:04
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I feel sorry for her, because it seems like being put in a caretaker position at a young age has seriously affected her. At the very least, it's given her an understandable fear of commitment. She should probably see a therapist.
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Apr 23, 2022 20:13
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AITA for refusing to meet with my sisters because my girlfriend told me not to?quote:My girlfriend(f24) of two years recently moved in(moved in 1.5 months ago) with me(m24) to my apartment room. I know it may seem quick, but I think it's an important step in our relationship. Ever since she has moved in, she asked me if it would be okay if I could stop meeting with my sisters(f26, f21) physically for a while. I asked her why, and she said that she would tell me the reason on a different day, but I was excited about us moving in so I didn’t press her more. My older sister only lives like an hour away from me and my little sister is finishing up college in the same state. If my mom and dad or friends come visit me, she doesn't seem to care, which was really weird. What do y'all think is happening here?
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artsy fartsy posted:AITA for refusing to meet with my sisters because my girlfriend told me not to? GF is jealous, insane. Or comedy option: GF dated one of the sisters.
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