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Hughlander posted:AITA for telling my sister off for saying she “dodged a bullet” when it comes to her ex. OP isn't necessarily wrong, but "flipping out" to side with a sister's ex that they don't mention any personal connections with is ... suspicious. It feels like Leta escaped an arranged marriage.
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I feel like she's projecting hard on this being about their infertility. She dodged the bullet of a dull, suburban lifestyle that she clearly doesn't want for herself.
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wheatpuppy posted:P. sure he was lying to you. Nah it's just that the parks definition of 'falling in' is closer to 'skidded down a slope and required assistance to get out' as opposed to 'plummeted 100 stories and left a wile e coyote imprint on the ground'
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AITA for letting my husband sleep on the floor?quote:My husband has recently developed a really bad habit. We split the chores but whenever it’s time for him to do his, he “falls asleep”. girl u could at least throw out ALL the trash
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# ? May 27, 2022 02:35 |
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Mx. posted:AITA for letting my husband sleep on the floor? The thing she is describing is either a legitimate medical issue, or faked. But just falling asleep on the floor is in no way a "I'm just a little tired" thing lol
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Mx. posted:AITA for letting my husband sleep on the floor? trying my hardest to figure out a way to say "congrats, you married a toddler" that won't get me banned from AITA
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Foo Diddley posted:trying my hardest to figure out a way to say "congrats, you married a toddler" that won't get me banned from AITA "It seems like he may be narcoleptic. Take him to his pediatrician"
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Hughlander posted:AITA for telling my sister off for saying she “dodged a bullet” when it comes to her ex. Is there more to this or are they trying to gatekeep the expression 'dodged a bullet'?
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Party Ape posted:Is there more to this or are they trying to gatekeep the expression 'dodged a bullet'? Too soon for the obvious joke
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Blastedhellscape posted:People who can never just say "Oh, I suppose I was wrong about that minor fact, guess I've learned something new" and move on always puzzle me. Are some people just born with double-down-if-they're-corrected-and-make-it-a-hill-to-die-on syndrome, or was there some formative childhood event that gave them that pathology? I read an article that posited two major communication styles existed: one where looking right is most important, and being seen to be wrong lowers your status, and one where being right is most important, and it's somewhat orthogonal to status (so being corrected is usually gratefully accepted if there's no obvious ill intent).
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# ? May 27, 2022 02:59 |
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Captain Hygiene posted:Wow, that's nuts. We went there when I was a teen and I had no recollection the rim was that high up. We went there on a lengthy camping road trip though, so it's not like we just hopped off a plane and showed up. I didn't notice anything when we went up Pike's or Wheeler Peak either, first time I noticed the effect was when I went down to near sea level for a trip and was suddenly full of energy and out ahead of the tour group when usually I was the slow guy. Talking to other people over the years there seems to be a lot of variety both in how severely folks are affected and how much they notice, assuming you're not usually pushing your limits. My hometown had a celebrity guest dancer from New York come visit for the Nutcracker every winter and he needed an oxygen tank kept in the wings, but the stuff he was doing was so far beyond typical exercise. Bruceski fucked around with this message at 03:05 on May 27, 2022 |
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Foo Diddley posted:AITA for what I (18M) told my dad after I got tired with his stupid pranks? Every. Single. Time. The ones saying "just a joke" when they hurt someone also have the thinnest loving skins.
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AITA for bringing up “failing up the chain of command” in police agencies to my friend who’s dead dad was a police officer? quote:So for context, this happened earlier today. I come from a family of cops, and I’m a civilian who works for a police agency in the US. I hate my job, I want out, but nothing pays nearly as good as what I’m making now with my education and experience.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for bringing up “failing up the chain of command” in police agencies to my friend who’s dead dad was a police officer? quote:school resource officer positions to remove them from public contact
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# ? May 27, 2022 04:26 |
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Kenshin posted:Looks like it, a quick Google search turns this up: eta: Plebian Parasite posted:Nah it's just that the parks definition of 'falling in' is closer to 'skidded down a slope and required assistance to get out' as opposed to 'plummeted 100 stories and left a wile e coyote imprint on the ground' e:f;b trickybiscuits fucked around with this message at 05:03 on May 27, 2022 |
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I'd imagine a lot probably fall down slopes while descending, which means more abrasions and less free falling
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AITA for expecting my husband to pay help with expenses with his moneyquote:My husband is a stay at home dad to our 2 kids. He's been in this position for around 6-7 years, since our son was born. When our son was born, both of us decided on this agreement that I would do the work outside the home and he would around the house, and each month he'd get a portion of "fun money" to use as he wants. My money my money my money! I do remember the balls on my dad, trying to get my mom's inheritance since she got some of it while the divorce was not quite done legally yet. The judge at least refused that poo poo on grounds that my dad got to keep pretty much everything else but the house (and that he had to be convinced to by his new wife, that it would Look Bad before the judge to make his ex and their two kids homeless).
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Molten Llama posted:People legitimately die from this poo poo at the Canyon on a regular basis. There is not an NTA big enough for this post.
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Hughlander posted:AITA for moving out suddenly and financially screwing my roommate/best friend?
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# ? May 27, 2022 05:35 |
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yeah im afraid of heights. if somebody did the fake shove To me around the Grand Canyon I would probably congeal into a useless blob of Jell-O. The acid vat is too good for this chuckle gently caress. let him be devoured by Hell hounds and buried in a giant pile of bat Guano.
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DeeplyConcerned posted:The acid vat is too good for this chuckle gently caress. let him be devoured by Hell hounds and buried in a giant pile of bat Guano. ehhhhh that seems like a lot of work when there's a perfectly good cliff RIGHT there
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Doc Hawkins posted:ehhhhh that seems like a lot of work when there's a perfectly good cliff RIGHT there Acid vat at the bottom of the cliff
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E: never mind.
Quackles fucked around with this message at 08:54 on Mar 29, 2023 |
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Charity Porno posted:"It seems like he may be narcoleptic. Take him to his pediatrician"
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for expecting my husband to pay help with expenses with his money In case anyone is interested, here's the similar story she referred to... AITA for expecting my wife to help me pay back my student loans from her inheritance? quote:My wife is a SAHM for our 2 kids and I work full-time as the sole income provider for the family. I am slowly working on paying back my student loans. My wife recently received a relatively large inheritance, about 5x the amount of my student loans.
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for expecting my wife to help me pay back my student loans from her inheritance? gently caress the prenup, sounds like these guys are angling for a midnup? Cowslips Warren posted:I do remember the balls on my dad, trying to get my mom's inheritance since she got some of it while the divorce was not quite done legally yet. The judge at least refused that poo poo on grounds that my dad got to keep pretty much everything else but the house (and that he had to be convinced to by his new wife, that it would Look Bad before the judge to make his ex and their two kids homeless). A friend recently went through an acrimonious divorce which lasted a while and rendered him quite unhappy. The day that it was all finalised, his dad (who is a judge) let him know that actually during the middle of the process he'd got a sizeable inheritance. His dad had kept the inheritance secret such that my friend didn't know and so didn't have to declare it, and it worked. Sir Sidney Poitier fucked around with this message at 08:29 on May 27, 2022 |
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AITA for being honest about not being excited for my mom's wedding when she is marrying my bully's dad?quote:My mom and I have always been super close, which is why I feel like a bit of an rear end in a top hat. When I was 13, she moved in with her BF "Tyler" who had a 14 year old "Riley" who hated me and my mom. Riley was catty and constantly taking digs at me and trying to lower my self esteem. "I am sorry I am marrying the person who enabled your bullying, but I want his dick soooo bad! Can't you just act like it never happened?" edgeman83 fucked around with this message at 08:35 on May 27, 2022 |
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Sir Sidney Poitier posted:gently caress the prenup, sounds like these guys are angling for a midnup? In a lot of states an inheritance does not become marital property unless you commingle it with shared money.
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Maybe im just weird, but I think I would be happy to pay off my spouse's loans with a windfall like that? Like very clearly these people are all in awful marriages. I think absent more information (was the breadwinner being a piece of controlling poo poo all the time etc) its an ESH situation. If your first instinct with an inheritance like that is "I'm gonna live it up, gently caress everything else" then you are an rear end in a top hat. *Obviously threatening to take money away from the unemployed spouse after the fact is an rear end in a top hat move as well* They all sound like selfish people
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edgeman83 posted:AITA for being honest about not being excited for my mom's wedding when she is marrying my bully's dad? How is this your takeaway lmao "I prioritized you by waiting on this relationship until you were old enough to not be directly impacted by it. You're an adult, it's time to move on" seems well and perfectly reasonable to me
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Judge Schnoopy posted:How is this your takeaway lmao It's a bit more complicated than that. She's being irretrievably yoked to these people she doesn't like, someone who traumatized her and the enabler, and her mom is asking her to be super pumped about it. Yes, she should be happy for her moms happiness, but she also doesn't need to be super involved or enthusiastic about these people being family. If I were her I'd probably help plan things but start to pull away afterwards.
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I particularly like the stepsister chiming in "I got over me bullying you, it's time for you to grow up and do the same." can you imagine losing that family dynamic, what a blow
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Cthulu Carl posted:Most people use the Thompson training method I might have researched it wrong but I'm not letting a seal anywhere near nipples
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Yeah that's not how you do it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q7K5LSsJN90&t=57s
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sephiRoth IRA posted:Maybe im just weird, but I think I would be happy to pay off my spouse's loans with a windfall like that? When Dad gave up his job they decided to co-mingle income but not wealth, with the income bringer setting the terms on which it was shared. Mum was happy with the deal when it put her in control.
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Alchenar posted:When Dad gave up his job they decided to co-mingle income but not wealth, with the income bringer setting the terms on which it was shared. Eh. The fun money agreement could run the gamut from super abusive and controlling to shared decisions for financial obligations and making sure dad can blow off steam with discretionary income. Without more info I still say ESH.
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sephiRoth IRA posted:Maybe im just weird, but I think I would be happy to pay off my spouse's loans with a windfall like that? I had an inheritance recently and the first thing I did was discuss it with my partner and then we payed off a bunch of her outstanding credit, because we didn't NEED anything, interest rates are low, and paying off higher interest debts to free up her income from paying those debts off monthly just made sense. I assumed this is what grown ups in healthy relationships just do. If you're lucky enough to suddenly have a large wodge of cash lying around you're an rear end in a top hat if you just go 'oh this? This is mine".
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Judge Schnoopy posted:How is this your takeaway lmao "You've grown up and left, it doesn't affect you, move on. Now get back over here into the wedding party and spend months planning my wedding with them." Also, the fact that she can forgive and love him despite his remorseless bullying-enabling of her daughter is understandably not doing to look good to her daughter. Guess mommy dearest doesn't see cruelty to her child as a deal-breaking character flaw. WIBTA if I uninvited a mutual friend to a birthday party? quote:I’m currently a high school student and am quite sociable so I’m quite friendly with others. This created my current major friend group, a group of 8 (including me) and I’m close with 6 of them; the one I am not, I’ll call E. E is an student from Europe who has been in the US for quite a while, so he’s aware of culture clashes and boundaries because of the diversity in our school. I’m hosting quite a large birthday party which includes a lot of my close (and huge) family and I invited the whole friend group, but I started reconsidering after I tried getting to know E better. Wonder why he doesn't have any other friends. Acid vats for him and for the "not inviting rude racists into your home is the real rudeness" git.
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AITA for saying my brother is married to our "precious mom" to his girlfriend?quote:I really don't think I was an rear end in a top hat but even my dad said I hosed up so I had the need to write this to here.
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for saying my brother is married to our "precious mom" to his girlfriend? OP could use an ounce of sympathy for his brother that got spouse-ified and ensnared in an abusive codependent relationship while he was still a kid. But otherwise they didn't do anything wrong.
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