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I’m not going to stop fighting until he breaks the microwave.
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artsy fartsy posted:Lol not the greatest AITA but y'all just TRY to guess the spoilered name I'm guessing MIL does not know who Frodo is
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# ? Jun 7, 2022 23:07 |
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Piell posted:AITA for telling my brother my fiancée was right and he should use proper manners while he was eating? Lol, getting pissy about etiquette at Milestones. Save that for your wedding banquet at The Keg!
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# ? Jun 7, 2022 23:09 |
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AITA for my answer when my MIL insisted to know exaclty how my husband and I spent our honeymoon?quote:My husband "Jerry", 31and I, 27 are newly weds, we just got back from our honeymoon and his mom (MIL who is a snoop in nature and who always wants to know about everything going on in her son's life) invited us to her house multiple times for dinner. She kept insisting Jerry tell her evverything that happened on the honeymoon. every single detail. My husband kept giving her vague answers because we really didn't much other than spend time together but he admitted later that he could no longer handle the pressure from her.
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# ? Jun 8, 2022 00:00 |
Midnight Voyager posted:Yeah, I wonder if he was trying to stop them first and they just ignored him until he gave up and got crazy with it? Surely that wasn't the first thing he tried??
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kdrudy posted:All I know is you have to eat every last bit of the Ol' 96er if you want that free meal. r/relationships: eat every last bit of the Ol' Sixer
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# ? Jun 8, 2022 00:04 |
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Neither Emily Post nor Miss Manners tells you to leave a bite uneaten. (Miss Manners specifically says 'Leave a bite for Miss Manners', how it was often phrased, is wrong.) And as for not using steak sauce at a loving steak place, bah. But overall, the rude person is the one that rebukes their host's manners in public.
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AITA for not telling my cousin my fiance works at the same office as her husband?quote:First/only post, I mainly lurk. I thought stuff like this only happened in movies, but it happened and would like some unbiased opinions. More light-hearted than some of the other posts on here.
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# ? Jun 8, 2022 00:23 |
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Steaks must be circumsized to eat properly. If you are served a steak with gristle/fat still attached, do not tip the waiter.
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# ? Jun 8, 2022 00:23 |
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The way I heard it is that supposedly it's good manners in Asian countries to leave some food on the plate, while in Western countries it's the opposite. Or if you clean your plate they'll assume you want seconds, leading to some hilarious misunderstandings. In any case, 'manners' (Beyond like, chew with your mouth closed) are mostly whatever was made up by some fucker in the Victorian era to sell books to the credulous middle class while the upper class they think they're emulating did and continue to do whatever the gently caress they wanted. And they're usually ill-defined and contradictory enough that someone can use them as an excuse to poo poo on you any time they want and not have to explain why.
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# ? Jun 8, 2022 00:27 |
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Ghost Leviathan posted:Or if you clean your plate they'll assume you want seconds, leading to some hilarious misunderstandings. Holy poo poo this explains so much about dinners with my stepdad’s Japanese mother
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# ? Jun 8, 2022 00:35 |
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Yeah it's in the Japanese tourist books to always leave a little bit of what you've ordered, otherwise it seems rude. Also, absolutely don't tip in resteraunts apparently.
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# ? Jun 8, 2022 00:38 |
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Piell posted:AITA for telling my brother my fiancée was right and he should use proper manners while he was eating? I guess if it's got a bone it's probably considered pretty rude to eat that part.
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# ? Jun 8, 2022 00:44 |
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trickybiscuits posted:Bringing the MIL over (DURING A PANDEMIC) was such a horrible idea that I can't remember the rest of the post. to be fair having a newborn baby in a pandemic with no help is, uh, not great
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# ? Jun 8, 2022 00:45 |
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artsy fartsy posted:Lol not the greatest AITA but y'all just TRY to guess the spoilered name BIL said it's a good name (but his daughter is named Wheat, so yeah). Holy poo poo lol
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My son is named Barley
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# ? Jun 8, 2022 00:53 |
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She had a conjoined twin named Chaff
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# ? Jun 8, 2022 00:56 |
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At the start of the meal, I place five pieces of steak on the table. Every time the waiter displeases me, I eat one
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r/relationships: but his daughter is named Wheat, so yeah
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haveblue posted:At the start of the meal, I place five pieces of steak on the table. Every time the waiter displeases me, I eat one Imagine five pieces of steak on the edge of a cliff...
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StrangersInTheNight posted:r/relationships: but his daughter is named Wheat, so yeah They're really going against the grain.
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# ? Jun 8, 2022 01:17 |
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Mx. posted:AITA for insisting my boyfriend’s father call me doctor? Not specific about this one. More a general comment on the older people, (usually men but not always), who feel they must be "respected". But what they really want is subservience. They want you to acknowledge that they are better/higher rank/status/more important than you, and as such to defer to them and take your place under them. These are also the kind of people who say stuff like "Yuo have to give respect in order to get respect" And my actual point is that if you do give them your aquiescence, and bend over for them, kowtowing to their will, (as they want), they immediately will never respect you. Because you have shown yourself to be weak, lesser than, and beneath them. So they will continue to lord over you and expect that you remain in your place of lesserness. But if you actually show some strength, or backbone, (like the bloke in this story saying "I am a biochemist and would appreciate if you called me by my title."), then they get all pissy and whiny and play the victim. Its a game you can't win with these type of people. Either give in, and forever be the spineless peon in their eyes, thus having to endure all that comes along with that. Or push back, and have to endure their pissbaby whining and tantrums about being disrespected etc.
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# ? Jun 8, 2022 01:22 |
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artsy fartsy posted:Lol not the greatest AITA but y'all just TRY to guess the spoilered name Change Daniel’s name to Celebrimbor to assert dominance.
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# ? Jun 8, 2022 01:26 |
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I’ve got cats named buckwheat and pot roast, which I think are pretty good names. Not really seeing the problem with naming your kid Frodo or wheat. Children are basically just pets, right?
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# ? Jun 8, 2022 01:27 |
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unlike wheat over there my kids are gluten free
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# ? Jun 8, 2022 01:31 |
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Quackles posted:Imagine five pieces of steak on the edge of a cliff... Ok Leon, you're in a kitchen. There is a steak in a cast iron pan cooking. You can't see the person who was cooking it. You see the steak is starting to burn but you don't turn it over. Why is that Leon ?
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# ? Jun 8, 2022 01:44 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for my answer when my MIL insisted to know exaclty how my husband and I spent our honeymoon? This is extremely funny. Woman, what did you think your son was going to be doing on his freaking honeymoon?
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# ? Jun 8, 2022 01:45 |
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Mx. posted:AITA for not telling my cousin my fiance works at the same office as her husband? quote:Yep I agree, I actually told him first that he shouldn't have said that. Chris said it was a in-the-moment dig when Henry said something about being up for the next promotion (he's literally new so promotion is still a while to go), and all the crap they spewed about his salary and whatnot. I said I get it, he said it won't happen again, because this is still a workplace. Sounds like Kat found her perfect match.
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# ? Jun 8, 2022 01:47 |
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Olewithmilk posted:Yeah it's in the Japanese tourist books to always leave a little bit of what you've ordered, otherwise it seems rude. Yeah, tipping just isn't as much of a thing in Japanese culture in retail and restaurants. People are paid a regular wage, and tipping is for if they've gone above and beyond what should reasonably be expected of them. So you don't tip the waitress for bringing you your order and making sure your drinks are kept topped up; you tip her for something exceptional like she saved your kid from choking on his fries, or she found a replacement meal when nothing on the menu could fit your dietary needs. They apparently can actually get very offended by being tipped for having just done their job!
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# ? Jun 8, 2022 01:58 |
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My brother is upset that people aren't coming to his wedding. He spoke to me and I didn't know what to say.quote:Background: My brother is having a destination wedding that has snowballed in price. I said I would go but I didn't expect it to be quite so expensive. I had to take a loan from one of my parents who says it is okay if I don't pay them back but I feel I need to. My issue is that besides me and my dad no one else is showing up on his side. Our youngest sibling is at university and our mother had a health issue so they both pulled out. The wedding is taking place in a remote area that is expensive to get to and the hotel the wedding is taking place and that they are staying is so expensive none of us can afford it. So we are staying at another hotel that is farther away. We will see him for part of the wedding day and that is it. Which is fine by me but our father is sad.
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# ? Jun 8, 2022 02:01 |
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Alchenar posted:Hey a superchurch just wants a tithe in exchange for life everlasting, Disney will take all of your money for 30 minutes with a sweaty guy in a costume and there isn't even any sex Sounds like you haven’t been to Disneyland or church.
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Tarkus posted:You should always leave a little bit of steak on the plate, preferably chewed gristle, and never put sauce on it. The chef prepared it to be eaten as it was received. You wouldn't paint over the Mona Lisa would you? Even though you’re being sarcastic go gently caress yourself. Also well done. At a steak house.
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# ? Jun 8, 2022 02:26 |
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Ghost Leviathan posted:The way I heard it is that supposedly it's good manners in Asian countries to leave some food on the plate, while in Western countries it's the opposite. Or if you clean your plate they'll assume you want seconds, leading to some hilarious misunderstandings. In regards to this: Yeah in certain Asian places, it is rude to eat every last morsel on your plate. The implication being that your hosts are poor/or bad hosts and didn't give you enough food. Just as in certain "Western" places it is rude to not eat all that you are given. The implication being that your hosts are bad cooks/poor hosts and gave you bad food/food you didn't like. However in both of these scenarios, taking a bite and saying a simple "That was delicious. Thank you so much. I am full now." will overcome most of any perceived rudeness. And as has been said, anyone who gets offended after that is just a "traditionalist" looking to trip people up on whichever arcane version of the rules of etiquette they have decided they want you to follow today. So can get hosed.
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# ? Jun 8, 2022 02:29 |
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Mx. posted:AITA for not telling my cousin my fiance works at the same office as her husband? What’s hilarious about this one is that OP probably did the most polite thing in this situation which was to nod and smile instead of humiliating her cousin by mentioning their husbands’ relative statuses.
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Mx. posted:My brother is upset that people aren't coming to his wedding. He spoke to me and I didn't know what to say. Tell him he’s a loving rear end in a top hat who can either pay for everyone to stay closer or suck it up for having a wedding in the middle of nowhere.
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Mx. posted:My brother is upset that people aren't coming to his wedding. He spoke to me and I didn't know what to say. Sending said brother a bill for the cost of ride, hotel, food, outfit, etc— payable in advance— would not meaningfully help the situation... but it'd be very funny.
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# ? Jun 8, 2022 03:31 |
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I've been browsing /r/QAnonCasualties, lately. It's usually fairly depressing, but I found these both amusing and heartwarming: My dad quietly deprogrammed my mom quote:Sorry for my poor english, I am not from the USA and I do not regularly use reddit so this is also just an account I made for this one post, I hope that is okay. My QAunt was saved... By BTS?? quote:I have made two posts on this sub in the past about my liberal left-wing QAunt who descended down the rabbit hole of Qlore from cabals who eat kids to democrats/Hollywood celebs trafficking people to Epstein island. One day, it all just... stopped. She stopped sharing Q stuff, stopped believing in it, started talking about liberal stuff again like it never happened. I was baffled. Did she have dementia? A stroke? If you have any family or friends into Q, apparently the answer is to find them a new fandom?
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Sleepy Sheep posted:I've been browsing /r/QAnonCasualties, lately. It's usually fairly depressing, but I found these both amusing and heartwarming: “Individuals aren't naturally paid-up members of the human race, except biologically. They need to be bounced around by the Brownian motion of society, which is a mechanism by which human beings constantly remind one another that they are...well...human beings.” --Terry Pratchett The people we interact with shape how we see the world.
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Quackles posted:Sending said brother a bill for the cost of ride, hotel, food, outfit, etc— payable in advance— would not meaningfully help the situation... but it'd be very funny. Holly Anderson tweeted a phrase that is now burned into my mind for situations like this: "I recognize that this is not helpful, but please understand I am not trying to help."
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artsy fartsy posted:Lol not the greatest AITA but y'all just TRY to guess the spoilered name OP is the AH for not naming the other son Sam.
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