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It sounds like this thread needs some sort of Hoe Union.
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run on sentience posted:Do you get upset that you're not supposed to call people the r-word anymore as well? You can take "revanchist" from my cold, dead hands.
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Jun 9, 2022 18:49
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Baronjutter posted:It sounds like this thread needs some sort of Hoe Union. My [1? Witch] thread [0-99 Porpoise] has unionized
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Jun 9, 2022 18:52
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Absurd Alhazred posted:It's not if you're distinguishing different types of sex work, which is relevant in this context. If you've got a better term for "sex worker who picks up clients at bars to have sex with them for money", I'm all ears, though. A few minutes of googling didn't come up with anything more appropriate than "prostitute". Full Service Sex Worker, often abbreviated to FSSW, is what you mean. Sex workers vary in what they offer, and all of them are still sex workers regardless. A cam girl/boy/person may not offer penetrative or physical intimacy services, while someone else is just fine unionizing with other sex workers to offer physical, in service services out of a shared airbnb. Yeah I might be taking the bait here, but the more you know, workers of the world unite, etc. And to note for this conversation, I'm not a SW, but sex workers shouldn't be the only ones clarifying and defending their hard work. Now go visit a strip club and throw hundies at the hunnies.
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Jun 9, 2022 19:01
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Tarkus posted:And he didn't. The dying person asked him to. dying people don't have to cheat on their partners either
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Jun 9, 2022 19:02
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When you think about it it's basically like denying a dying child his wish to see spider man. And you monsters want to take that away from her
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Jun 9, 2022 19:07
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Bonster posted:We're getting into cultural differences here. Everyone in grandpa's culture would have known exactly what it meant, so it was direct communication. You're not from the same culture, so it doesn't make sense. We all do hundreds of gestures of indirect communication every day when we're out among people. Should we be continually narrating our lives because someone might misunderstand something? Yeah but it's weird how between leaving food on your plate being good or bad, no amount of food left on your plate ever means "that was wonderful, I enjoyed it so much that I couldn't leave a morsel on left on the plate but I couldn't eat another bite either; it was the perfect amount of food"
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Jun 9, 2022 19:09
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value-brand cereal posted:Full Service Sex Worker, often abbreviated to FSSW, is what you mean. Sex workers vary in what they offer, and all of them are still sex workers regardless. A cam girl/boy/person may not offer penetrative or physical intimacy services, while someone else is just fine unionizing with other sex workers to offer physical, in service services out of a shared airbnb. Sure, that seems reasonable. I'll edit that into my post.
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Jun 9, 2022 19:10
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rain dogs posted:When you think about it it's basically like denying a dying child his wish to see spider man. her mistake was not going through the make a wish foundation to gently caress the married guy
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Jun 9, 2022 19:16
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rain dogs posted:When you think about it it's basically like denying a dying child his wish to see spider man. I'll do it if she dresses up as spider-man for it
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Jun 9, 2022 19:17
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I thought we were going to be discussing the probability that she was lying to him about her illness to try and steal him away. The ethics of loving someone without telling your partner, predicated on how soon that person will die, is probably a bit too heavy for this thread.
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Jun 9, 2022 19:21
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StrangersInTheNight posted:He did it in the dumbest way possible, but ultimately it's clear he felt stuck between a rock and a hard place and panicked, and ended up losing both people he cared for, which is a shame. He was going to lose one of those people regardless, seems like it'd be an easy play to not lose the other one.
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Jun 9, 2022 19:27
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value-brand cereal posted:Full Service Sex Worker, often abbreviated to FSSW, is what you mean. Sex workers vary in what they offer, and all of them are still sex workers regardless. A cam girl/boy/person may not offer penetrative or physical intimacy services, while someone else is just fine unionizing with other sex workers to offer physical, in service services out of a shared airbnb. Thank youuuuu!!! This is well worth knowing
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Jun 9, 2022 19:28
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value-brand cereal posted:Full Service Sex Worker, often abbreviated to FSSW, is what you mean. Sex workers vary in what they offer, and all of them are still sex workers regardless. A cam girl/boy/person may not offer penetrative or physical intimacy services, while someone else is just fine unionizing with other sex workers to offer physical, in service services out of a shared airbnb. Thank you cereal person.
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Jun 9, 2022 19:33
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If my choice was to lose one love interest between the two I'd probably lose the dying one.
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Jun 9, 2022 19:56
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RenegadeStyle1 posted:If my choice was to lose one love interest between the two I'd probably lose the dying one. Oh but you could have em both as long as you don't mind engaging in and living with your deceit.
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Jun 9, 2022 20:07
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AITA for having rules for my bridesmaids to follow for the wedding?quote:I'm not really sure about this so let's get it over with. (any moment now, AITA is going to decide "bridezilla" is a slur.)
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Jun 9, 2022 20:09
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Arsenic Lupin posted:AITA for having rules for my bridesmaids to follow for the wedding? It doesn't insult immature or rapey men, so it's never going to be a problem for AmITheAsshole's mods.
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Jun 9, 2022 20:11
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bltzn posted:Yeah but it's weird how between leaving food on your plate being good or bad, no amount of food left on your plate ever means "that was wonderful, I enjoyed it so much that I couldn't leave a morsel on left on the plate but I couldn't eat another bite either; it was the perfect amount of food" That's the "logic" behind leaving a couple peas or whatever else is a non-zero amount of food while being insignificant. Leaving more means you didn't like the food, eating it all means you want more. Down the same etiquette rabbit hole, the host will then be obligated to give you more food, even if it means they won't have enough food for their next meal. And you turning it down once they offer would be insulting to the hosts, implying you didn't like it enough to want more even though you are clearly not full (see the empty plate) or that you don't think they can afford to give you more. A lot of etiquette rules are about saving face around poverty, or doing the same for the people around you. Even as most western countries are seeing obesity epidemics, especially among poor populations, a lot of those social norms are not so simple to bury.
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Jun 9, 2022 20:41
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Arsenic Lupin posted:AITA for having rules for my bridesmaids to follow for the wedding? She's allowed to set any rules she wants, but she shouldn't be surprised or upset if anyone declines to be in her bridal party or honestly cuts contact.
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Jun 9, 2022 20:53
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rain dogs posted:When you think about it it's basically like denying a dying child his wish to see spider man. Make a wish but for getting laid. Wonder if John Cena would still hold the record for most wishes granted...
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Jun 9, 2022 21:06
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Arsenic Lupin posted:AITA for having rules for my bridesmaids to follow for the wedding? Wow, that's a whole story in one sentence 
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Jun 9, 2022 21:19
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Arsenic Lupin posted:AITA for having rules for my bridesmaids to follow for the wedding? quote:First of all I set a specific budget I expect them to spend for the bachelorette party. what. is that even a thing?
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Jun 9, 2022 21:26
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I guess it depends on who is paying
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Jun 9, 2022 21:28
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i expect you all to spend at least $100 each on this party you're throwing for me. i will be collecting reciepts
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Jun 9, 2022 21:29
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Foo Diddley posted:what. is that even a thing? It's been popping up lately in buzzfeed articles and crazy bride stories. Usually some expected minimum gift (like $500 or more), or expense and if they are too cheap they are told they aren't wanted.
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Jun 9, 2022 21:32
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I'm glad I don't
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Jun 9, 2022 21:33
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Foo Diddley posted:what. is that even a thing? I've never seen it phrased that way, but I have seen situations where everyone in the bridal party is expected to cough up their share of the AirBnB / restaurants / entertainment prices ahead of time so reservations can be made for the bachelorette party. Usually bridesmaids are expected to cover the cost of their own bridesmaid dress. It's rarer but not unheard of to expect the bridesmaids to pitch in on a shared service like the hairstylist hired to do everyone's hairstyles. I've been in weddings where all the bridesmaids were expected to have matching updo hairstyles where it would be difficult if not impossible for the women to be able to do them on themselves, so the bride hired a stylist for the day. In that situation the bride paid. I've never heard of requiring bridesmaids to hire their own stylist or makeup artists.
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Jun 9, 2022 21:34
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BAD rear end: THE FORMATIVE YEARSquote:Age 9.
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Jun 9, 2022 21:48
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AITA for “ruining” my cousins wedding by planning a trip that same weekend after I refused to attend?quote:Some good ole family drama and I (28M) need a verdict. My cousin Emily (27F) is getting married in a few months. Our family is a large American-Italian family. I’ve been dubbed the “ring leader” by my uncles/aunts because I’m the oldest. Most of my cousins are 18-28 and we are all really close besides Emily. We didn’t have a ton in common and she made 0 effort to ever hangout with us. We always tried including her but she just sat on her phone or read. We all played sports and she wasn’t about that.
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Jun 9, 2022 21:51
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Ugh. I did that once, and it was to someone younger, not to mention it was while staying with their family who was kind enough to host us for a few weeks' vacation. A big instant realization exactly when it was too late of "there's no way this is going to be anything but mean, why the gently caress did I even think of doing it?!" Still one of the things I cringe hardest over, a good 25 years later :/
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Jun 9, 2022 21:56
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for “ruining” my cousins wedding by planning a trip that same weekend after I refused to attend? Family family family family WELL WHAT ABOUT THE FAMILY COUSIN EMILY RUINED, EH, OLD FARTS?!
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Jun 9, 2022 21:59
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Not their family, not their problem.
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Jun 9, 2022 22:00
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They're Italian-American and Emily's ex doesn't have puttanesca running through his veins.
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Jun 9, 2022 22:00
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Heartwarming that there's a whole new generation of that family (minus Emily) that is just giving the previous generations the fica in mano.
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Jun 9, 2022 22:03
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AITA for not wanting to learn Japanese for my Japanese girlfriend?quote:My girlfriend is from Japan and we've been together for about a year now. She's often trying to convince me that I should learn Japanese. According to her that would help if I got to talk to her parents, and help me gain points with them. Also she said if we want to live in Japan later it would be very beneficial, and also when we have kids later they would be learning Japanese so I should be able to understand them too then.
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Jun 9, 2022 22:11
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Invisible Clergy posted:AITA for not wanting to learn Japanese for my Japanese girlfriend? I don't know who's the rear end in a top hat here but I can't imagine dating someone, having them offer me to teach me their language, and not whooping and yelling some "hell yeah"s.
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Jun 9, 2022 22:13
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Absurd Alhazred posted:I don't know who's the rear end in a top hat here but I can't imagine dating someone, having them offer me to teach me their language, and not whooping and yelling some "hell yeah"s. 何?!
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Invisible Clergy posted:AITA for not wanting to learn Japanese for my Japanese girlfriend? Dude is living the weeb dream and is a stupid lazy gently caress.
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