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teen witch posted:And like don’t get kvetching to a friend about something lovely someone else did as a narcy narc and the DARVO bunch thing to do. That’s normal. If you have a lovely ex and want to complain to a friend for a bit to just be heard or have a shoulder to cry on, for the most part, is fine. Spill some tea, prep a bong, make fun of your ex’s top heavy dong. r/relationships: narcy narc and the DARVO bunch
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Dentists probably aren't actually any worse or better than the medical profession overall when it comes to being massive pieces of poo poo to anyone they think they can get away with, they're just more obvious about it.
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# ? Jul 15, 2022 15:15 |
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They're in your face about it.
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# ? Jul 15, 2022 15:17 |
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AITA for firing my babysitter for drinking alcohol when she was watching my kids?quote:Since the beginning of summer. My parents convinced me to hire my sister (19F) to babysit my 2 kids while I'm at work. My kids are 5M & 4M. Everything was going well. Until I came home late in the evening and found my sister who was drinking alcohol & was drunk & her heavily drunk boyfriend who was throwing up in my bathroom. This pissed me off because she wasn't supposed to be drinking any alcohol when watching my kids and she brought her boyfriend to my house who I haven't even met yet. When I asked her where my kids were she did not even know. I found them outside digging in the yard.
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# ? Jul 15, 2022 15:19 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for firing my babysitter for drinking alcohol when she was watching my kids? You’re the rear end in a top hat and a lovely parent for going to Reddit over the most obvious situation of “not the loving rear end in a top hat” ever. Surrender your kids. They will be reassigned to someone who doesn’t second guess tossing out a drunk babysitter.
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# ? Jul 15, 2022 15:22 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:AITA for firing my babysitter for drinking alcohol when she was watching my kids? They've never met their house?
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# ? Jul 15, 2022 15:24 |
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Also said before but wow it is true that so many people see 'unattached female over... like, ten' as 'unlimited free babysitting' and will literally hurl their kids at her and run off.
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# ? Jul 15, 2022 15:30 |
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Absurd Alhazred posted:AITA for ruining my brother's marriage because his wife left me at the pool no more. UPDATE: AITA for ruining my brother's marriage because his wife left me at the pool? quote:first, thank you to everyone who read the original post and reassured me. It helped a lot and I understand now that my bros marriage was rocky before bri pulled the stunt in my original post. I'm not good at Reddit (usually just silently read posts) and my update kept getting deleted on the AITA sub but a ton of folks asked for it, so here it is:
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# ? Jul 15, 2022 15:34 |
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I was re-reading the classic posts in the OP because I didn't have anything better to do, and when I got to the story about the lady and her boyfriend with the eagle, it triggered some kind of crazy deja vu. Was there ever a story here where one half of a relationship had a pet wolf? Not dogcloak barbarian, an actual wolf.
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# ? Jul 15, 2022 15:36 |
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There was one in the past couple of months where this dude met a lady and hit it off well and she kept wolves. I can't remember when it was posted, though.
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# ? Jul 15, 2022 15:38 |
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Kurieg posted:no more. Be blessed! Alas, this is more depressing than saucy, but at least the people that need to be taken care of are being taken care of.
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DoubleNegative posted:There was one in the past couple of months where this dude met a lady and hit it off well and she kept wolves. I can't remember when it was posted, though. Eh, it's not really a big deal. Honestly, I'm just relieved I wasn't Mandela Effecting myself.
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DoubleNegative posted:There was one in the past couple of months where this dude met a lady and hit it off well and she kept wolves. I can't remember when it was posted, though. Evil Willow posted:I absolutely love this story!
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# ? Jul 15, 2022 15:48 |
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Sweet, thanks. Gonna be laughing at the woman just casually scolding a wolf all day.
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# ? Jul 15, 2022 15:50 |
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DoubleNegative posted:Sweet, thanks. Gonna be laughing at the woman just casually scolding a wolf all day. Charlotte Anne we do not growl at the guests!
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teen witch posted:Oh, content is what you seek? Well… As the guy who's been in this same situation, I get what you're saying about wanting to feel confident, but at the same time it was originally just a private thing between boyfriend and girlfriend that now all the dudes on her Facebook/Instagram/whatever now get to join in with it too. It can make you feel a little annoyed that you gotta share your girlfriend with everyone else on her socials.
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AITA For Refusing to House My Niece After She Purposely Missed Her Flight?quote:I (25M) and my partner, Lana (28F) moved out of my home country five years ago due to my partner getting a job offer she was passionate about, so I quit my job and moved, I have since also found a good job. My house is a 14h+ flight away from the rest of my family, but since me and my partner have good paying jobs we are able to fly home for important holidays or events (we usually stay at my dad's or her parents' house). quote:Due to having to stay at a hotel, and feed herself, she has burnt through the funds she had and can't afford a ticket back to our home country now - the more she stays here the more money she spends, to she can't even wait for the flights to get cheaper. My brother doesn't want to send her money for a ticket because she might miss the flight again, or use it to spend more time here, I would offer to help but I feel betrayed and angry. AITA not paying any more towards our daughter's wedding after she cut pieces off her mother's wedding dress for her own? quote:My wife made her wedding dress with her mother. Its very sentimental to her and she was very proud of it. It was simple but freaking gorgeous. She has always said she would love for our kids to wear her dress at their wedding. We have 3 daughters (34, 30, 25) and 1 son (28). My wife made it known that the dress was not to be altered except to be taken in/let out so it could be kept and reworn. Our youngest daughter didn't wear it. Our DIL wore it for their reception and our son held it up against him for some pre-wedding bridal pictures so he wasn't left out...he totally rocked it. Oldest daughter wore it for her wedding.
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Kurieg posted:AITA For Refusing to House My Niece After She Purposely Missed Her Flight? Good news! If she stays long enough she'll overstay her visa and may be eligible for deportation!
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holtemon posted:As the guy who's been in this same situation, I get what you're saying about wanting to feel confident, but at the same time it was originally just a private thing between boyfriend and girlfriend that now all the dudes on her Facebook/Instagram/whatever now get to join in with it too. It can make you feel a little annoyed that you gotta share your girlfriend with everyone else on her socials. I agree, which is why I insist my girlfriend wear a frankenstein mask from a halloween store whenever she leaves the house, so I don't need to share her face with anyone else AITA for not making him what he wants? quote:My SiL and her husband arrived last night. As we were helping them get their stuff into the guest room, her husband, who I've met like three times, said "waffles for breakfast would be great." I was a bit taken aback, but then I assumed it was a joke that didn't land well. We don't have a waffle iron anyway. I'm allergic to nonwaffles
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# ? Jul 15, 2022 16:10 |
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Here's a refreshing story for y'all. AITA for telling my mum to gently caress off and refusing to have my sisters kids at my wedding, despite my daughter being there? quote:Title is long so apologies, throwaway and names changed. Minor formatting mine.
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holtemon posted:As the guy who's been in this same situation, I get what you're saying about wanting to feel confident, but at the same time it was originally just a private thing between boyfriend and girlfriend that now all the dudes on her Facebook/Instagram/whatever now get to join in with it too. It can make you feel a little annoyed that you gotta share your girlfriend with everyone else on her socials. Anyone can jerk off to a regular image of myself, should they wish to. I’m not really in control over that (unless you want to know my rates). I signed no contract stating that images of myself are to be kept within messages, nor has it ever been an issue with prior lovers in the past or present, I’ll continue to “share” myself and my undeserved confidence. And what if it isn’t an image? What if I’m merely at the beach and some stranger sees me and gets wet not of seawater? Am I violating an unspoken agreement? Do you look at images of others? Are you stealing from their partners? I’m happy to not have this issue but to have the inverse: my partner adores when I show such images (which as of late have been far and few between, thanks SSRIs and MDD). They’re thrilled that others can see what they get to have. While it’s not for others, and I wouldn’t impose it (that’s what the close friends filter is for), it is the healthiest approach I’ve dealt with in a long time.
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"Just pretend you don't have a mom anymore!" "Don't threaten me with a good time."
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Lottery of Babylon posted:AITA for not making him what he wants? Man, I really want some waffles now, though. This guy might be onto something
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Is there such a thing as generational narcissism? I swear I've seen the pattern in stories of obviously narcissist parents moulding their golden child into a horrible little successor who is often even worse. Those poor kids. Screaming violent kids don't usually have a great future ahead of them I imagine, though I bet there's some that manage to make a break and realise how hosed up they were treated and acted in turn.
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Lottery of Babylon posted:I agree, which is why I insist my girlfriend wear a frankenstein mask from a halloween store whenever she leaves the house, so I don't need to share her face with anyone else Why did the OP not just say "we don't have a waffle iron" I mean obviously the entitled BIL would have told her she should have gone to buy one at the store, but still.
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# ? Jul 15, 2022 16:29 |
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teen witch posted:Anyone can jerk off to a regular image of myself, should they wish to. I’m not really in control over that (unless you want to know my rates). I signed no contract stating that images of myself are to be kept within messages, nor has it ever been an issue with prior lovers in the past or present, I’ll continue to “share” myself and my undeserved confidence. I get what you're saying, I was just responding to the very specific situation that the reddit guy posted about. I can see how he got annoyed with it. Maybe "share" was the wrong word for my post and I wasn't trying to imply ownership or anything. I'll drop out of this argument if that's how it's coming across. Maybe I just don't know how to get the right wording out. Or maybe I'm an rear end in a top hat lol
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Lottery of Babylon posted:AITA for not making him what he wants? That poor SIL . That's probably his standard behavior at home, and him being confused suggests he usually gets what he asks for.
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holtemon posted:Or maybe I'm an rear end in a top hat lol I just so happen to know a place where we can get an answer to that
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Kuros posted:Here's a refreshing story for y'all. Hahaha gently caress that sister, having an autistic child is by no means a free pass to just give up on parenting, it's more exactly the opposite. My brother is autistic and thank god my parents care enough that they worked hard to reinforce good standards of behavior for both of us, in ways that worked for each of us.
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# ? Jul 15, 2022 16:38 |
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AITA for photographing a wedding like a party, when they booked my party package?quote:I'm a photographer. About half a year ago, a couple booked my "informal party" package for their event. It's my cheapest package, with my most expensive one being my wedding package. They were kinda dodgy about what kind of party it was, which was strange, but money is money, so I agreed.
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# ? Jul 15, 2022 16:57 |
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I at first thought "photographing a wedding like a party" meant all the pictures were random drunk people selfies
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# ? Jul 15, 2022 17:00 |
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My first read on reddit was "Photoshopping" rather than "Photographing" so I thought they edited all the pictures to have baloons and party streamers into them and was witholding the 'real' pictures until they paid wedding prices. the reality of "How dare you not show up early and in a tux and tails for something we told you was a small informal get together." is much more disappointing.
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# ? Jul 15, 2022 17:01 |
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This is an example of a very material difference between conventional party service and wedding service! But this time the couple got angry about literally getting the one they paid for.
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# ? Jul 15, 2022 17:05 |
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Like the MUA one, I don't understand why OP, when seeing it was a wedding after all, would continue to provide service without first clarifying the contract. I don't think they should give them a discount or anything I just don't know why these people are just hoping for the best that they're going to get paid what they want when there is a clear misunderstanding with the client from the get-go.
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# ? Jul 15, 2022 17:06 |
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When I was younger, I didn't understand why labeling something as "for a wedding" marked the price up by a lot, but now I understand it's simply a built in rear end in a top hat tax.
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Ghost Leviathan posted:Is there such a thing as generational narcissism? I swear I've seen the pattern in stories of obviously narcissist parents moulding their golden child into a horrible little successor who is often even worse. Yes, that can happen, though usually what happens is the child just grows up to marry a narcissist and continue being abused because they only know how to function when life is about bending over backwards to avoid the ire of the narcissist.
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# ? Jul 15, 2022 17:11 |
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CommissarMega posted:I was re-reading the classic posts in the OP because I didn't have anything better to do, and when I got to the story about the lady and her boyfriend with the eagle, it triggered some kind of crazy deja vu. Was there ever a story here where one half of a relationship had a pet wolf? Not dogcloak barbarian, an actual wolf. You may be thinking of an old Elsa-drawn r/relationships post from a previous thread. I say this because I dimly recall one of Elsa's comics displayed the OP's partner as a wild wolf, but I don't remember the gag (meat eating?). e: WAIT THERE WAS ONE where the woman had some wolves chilling in her house because she ran a rescue. I believe the OP was like "how do I marry this woman immediately" which is the correct response.
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Sisal Two-Step posted:You may be thinking of an old Elsa-drawn r/relationships post from a previous thread. I say this because I dimly recall one of Elsa's comics displayed the OP's partner as a wild wolf, but I don't remember the gag (meat eating?). Earlier this page.
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# ? Jul 15, 2022 17:28 |
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The photographer should invoice them for the wedding amount, then discount it down to the informal party amount. Hopefully they’ll realize they already got a discount (unlikely).
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I agree this is one of those things the photographer should have really sorted out in the moment, but at least if they haven't sent those over yet, there's some leverage left.
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