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Invisible Clergy posted:Amazing how these people never seem to exclusively eat healthy food, isn't it? "these people" being children with eating disorders?
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA For wanting my son to be treated equally and able to enjoy family meals with cousins? Absolutely the rear end in a top hat.
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Oct 10, 2022 01:05
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AmiYumi posted:There is no way to explain this to children that age that won’t sound like “he’s special and gets to eat whatever he wants, unlike you losers”; this is fundamentally not going to work. So let the kids eat fast food once a month
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Oct 10, 2022 01:06
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Invisible Clergy posted:Amazing how these people never seem to exclusively eat healthy food, isn't it?
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Oct 10, 2022 01:07
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Yeah your kids aren’t gonna melt from having fast food once a month. It’s literally cheap food so it’s not like it will impact your wallet either
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Oct 10, 2022 01:10
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It’s not too surprising that disordered eaters would focus on food that a global industry has put billions of dollars of research into making tasty and with a pleasant texture
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Oct 10, 2022 01:12
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Invisible Clergy posted:Amazing how these people never seem to exclusively eat healthy food, isn't it? Do you also tell anorexics they just need to eat a sandwich? It’s a serious eating disorder and kids will starve themselves into hospital if not given food they can tolerate. And it’s almost like fast food is the most addictive food on the planet and has an incredibly standardised flavour to help get something around that aversion short-term.
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Oct 10, 2022 01:12
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Yeah fast food garbage is designed to be identical every time you have it, of course that's what the kid is going to go for. That doesn't make it a good idea to try to explain to the other kids that he's special and gets to eat junk food while they don't get to, that would never work out lol
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Oct 10, 2022 01:16
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They should probably just meet at McDonald's because I feel like him getting grilled about eating something different might set back his recovery. Once a month isn't crazy.
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Oct 10, 2022 01:18
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Though the internet gets extremely weird about fast food so it’s probably not the best place to go for advice involving that
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Oct 10, 2022 01:20
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In the comments, OP clarifies he also eats other foods you'd expect including mac and cheese or cheese pizza. Perhaps an italian restaurant would be a good middle ground. AITA for not tipping? quote:Info: I’m British, in England we don’t tip and if we do tip we do it since it was great business or the staff were great!
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Oct 10, 2022 01:26
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Invisible Clergy posted:In the comments, OP clarifies he also eats other foods you'd expect including mac and cheese or cheese pizza. Perhaps an italian restaurant would be a good middle ground.
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Oct 10, 2022 01:30
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Invisible Clergy posted:AITA for not tipping? Seems like a case of a guy taking reasonable actions that result in an unreasonable punishment for the waiter because our society is terrible.
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Oct 10, 2022 01:32
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PetraCore posted:Oh, maybe bring some mac and cheese or pizza back from a place and see if he likes it, and if so they can go. I don’t get what that changes, it’s still junk food. You will probably pay more so it’s a harder sell
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Oct 10, 2022 01:36
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In the comments it’s revealed that the mum has 9 kids, has mentioned no other family going, the SIL has turned him hosting down repeatedly because she likes to cook for them, and the general subtext that this is more of an immediate family mum and the kids dinner that he’s trying to muscle his own kid into to meet his cousins.
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Oct 10, 2022 01:38
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I don’t think you can say muscle to describe hanging out with a dudes own cousins occasionally, lol
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Oct 10, 2022 01:40
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CharlestheHammer posted:I don’t think you can say muscle to describe hanging out with a dudes own cousins occasionally, lol Eh, comments say this is not his first attempt and he’s not taking a no for an answer, hence the “muscle.” quote:The only “resturant” he’ll eat at is mcdonalds, and I have offered to host many a time. She turns us down. quote:We have in the past - when our son could no longer attend we offered to host them here so he’d be more comfortable but we were always turned down. quote:My son is disabled. ARFID disables him - this isn’t poor parenting, its a medical condition. Its also comorbid with autism, which is definitely a disability.
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Oct 10, 2022 01:45
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AITA for saying my wife's sister is my type?quote:My wife has a twin sister, identical.
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Oct 10, 2022 01:52
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Invisible Clergy posted:AITA for saying my wife's sister is my type? I hate poo poo stirrers like that, but especially when people go along with it for an obvious no-win setup. You're not in a courtroom, you can just say "stop being a frickin weirdo about our relationship".
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Oct 10, 2022 02:06
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if your partner ever asks you if you think someone else is hot, always say yes
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Oct 10, 2022 02:18
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blatman posted:if your partner ever asks you if you think someone else is hot, always say yes I swear there was a story posted here where the guy said no and after a couple times his partner started mocking him saying he was gay
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Oct 10, 2022 02:22
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AITA for refusing to "accommodate" my FIL and Bil?quote:throwaway because my BIL uses reddit. I'm sorry, I'm disabled and need an accommodation. What's your disability? I'm a man-child.
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Oct 10, 2022 02:38
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Hughlander posted:AITA for refusing to "accommodate" my FIL and Bil? i know what they can get FIL and BIL for christmas: 
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Oct 10, 2022 02:52
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My (m35) wife (f37) told me this morning that she wants a divorce after yesterdays threewayquote:My wife and I had a threeway yesterday with a woman that I know. It was terrible to tell you the truth. My wife was so awkward and she refused to take off her night gown amongst other things. She never looked at me once and refused to let me touch or kiss her. The girl (f29) we had was more relaxed and she tried to make my wife get comfortable. My wife was more receptive to her advances than to me. She just shut me out completely. I only thought it was because it was my wifes first time and that she was awkward. She is a very shy person. Anyway halfway she just took a more passive role and even didnt let the girl touch her. The FMF is happening on Saturday (or Saturday next). Afterwards I’m serving my husband the divorce papers quote:I made a thrwaway yesterday on this sub about my husband asking me for a threesome with a woman and how it ended my marriage in my heart. I have had mixed reactions about it and many advised me to tell him how I felt. Communicate communicate communicate, well that’s what I’ve been doing since last night.
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Oct 10, 2022 02:59
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Evil Willow posted:My (m35) wife (f37) told me this morning that she wants a divorce after yesterdays threeway This is just depressing. 
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Oct 10, 2022 03:10
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yeah that was sad as hell
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Oct 10, 2022 03:15
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I do think that marriage was probably doomed if she can't even just say "No, and it hurts me that you asked" and had to go straight for the nuclear option. Especially going through with the threesome is really troubling. I hope she gets therapy. On the other hand, he should definitely have known his wife well enough to know this was not a good idea.
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Oct 10, 2022 03:27
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It was sad but why didn’t she just say no, that she was uncomfortable with the situation, or that she was hurt by him talking about this with another woman? Her ex is still a complete poo poo for what he did but she said she was game for it and then hangs around for what exactly? I get that she shuts down when hurt but just before that she starts going on about communicating and then does the exact opposite by not saying anything (and had already decided on divorce).
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Oct 10, 2022 03:33
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yea she's pretty clearly got some poo poo going on if 'shut down and sever' is her default reaction to being hurt but it feels like if your spouse is the type to react like that, fully knowing she reacts like that and not knowing why (seemingly), you probably should know not to go 'hey my poly coworker thinks it'd be hot to gently caress us and I'm open, you in?'
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Oct 10, 2022 03:39
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It sounds like they are both doing themselves a favor.
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Oct 10, 2022 03:53
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That lady is a payload of crazy and her husband is dumb for sticking with a person who by their own admission never vocalizes issues, lies, and goes straight nuclear. Good thing they're divorcing
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Dumpmaster General posted:yea she's pretty clearly got some poo poo going on if 'shut down and sever' is her default reaction to being hurt but it feels like if your spouse is the type to react like that, fully knowing she reacts like that and not knowing why (seemingly), you probably should know not to go 'hey my poly coworker thinks it'd be hot to gently caress us and I'm open, you in?' Not only "shut down and sever", but "shut down, string him along for a while not communicating and then sever at the moment specifically designed to hurt him the most". Coz this bloke, (stupid and oblivious though he may be), did the right thing. He was offered a threesome by a horny ex-coworker. So he asked his wife, to check it was cool and not surprise thrust something she was not into on to her. Laid all the cards on the table, showed that he was asked, and he was not the sexual aggressor. Got the green light, so he went "cool, this should be fun" and went about his business. To be fair to her, she seems like she has major issues either around intimacy, monogamy, or possessiveness, that if you are married to someone for several years should be known. So to her, it was a huge betrayal. But to her husband, he was offered a threesome, tried to do the right thing by asking and being honest about it, then gets punished for it. And, as has been said, it would have all been avoided if she had said "No. And I'm hurt that you even asked." Coz dumb oaf of husband probably would have apologized, and the threesome wouldn't have happened.
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BrigadierSensible posted:Not only "shut down and sever", but "shut down, string him along for a while not communicating and then sever at the moment specifically designed to hurt him the most". I am sympathetic to her just feeling like she will never be able to trust that he's actually fine with her having said "no". But the next step should have been to file the divorce, not go through the threesome pretending she was fine with it.
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Invisible Clergy posted:AITA for not tipping? This is made up by a dumbshit 13 year old.
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Oct 10, 2022 04:26
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Barudak posted:That lady is a payload of crazy and her husband is dumb for sticking with a person who by their own admission never vocalizes issues, lies, and goes straight nuclear. i'm wondering if he's dumb for sticking with someone who never vocalizes issues, or if he's dumb because he just never picked up on it before because its never vocalized
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Oct 10, 2022 04:44
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Communication is important and she should have been completely up front with him to begin with. It still sucks for both of them though. 
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Oct 10, 2022 04:50
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Like I'm trying to scrap my head around this, but assuming you love your partner, and assuming you guys are both on with a threesome, wouldn't you notice if they're not feeling comfortable with it? And wouldn't that make you want to put a stop to everything? Oh cool my wife said yes the threesome, but now that the other woman's here, my wife doesn't want to kiss me or want me to touch her, oh well I'm going to make the most of this and bang this other woman!
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Oct 10, 2022 05:03
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AITA for not backing up for my family after my wife giggled at their newsquote:I 27m have a beautiful wife Amara 26f
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Oct 10, 2022 05:05
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SiKboy posted:"these people" being children with eating disorders? The funny thing about the post that you're responding to is that I have a kid with a mild sensory issue that resulted in him really liking vegetables but really disliking most fruit. It was always really funny picking him up from preschool and we'd ask him what he wants for dinner and he'd be like "I WANT CARROTS AND BROCCOLI MOMMY" and other adults within earshot would be like "wtf"  IIRC the thing about ARFID is that its a diagnosis that is paired with significant nutritional deficiency resulting from refusing to eat non-preferred foods, which goes way beyond mere pickiness. Auntie's meat loaf might not cut it and that's not the kid's fault, but auntie is also correct that the other kids are going to see french fries on the table and go loving nuts. It'd be great if she could accept a compromise where maybe they have a junk food night once a month so that the relative with a diagnosed medical condition can join them
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Hughlander posted:AITA for not backing up for my family after my wife giggled at their news A good opportunity to back up a solid "lmao, no" with derisive laughter
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