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dear reddit my girlfriend is too good for me, how i can make her understand this is her fault
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 11:15 |
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DACK FAYDEN posted:...why don't they just find a different cremation process that doesn't evacuate all the carbon, like, add a filter to the exhaust vents or something? That seems like it would solve the problem unless I'm misunderstanding? That would require capital investment for a specialized kiln, a facility to run it and workers to staff it. Then customers would have to ship the body there for processing, unless you build one in every city. Or you could just have them cremate locally, and ship you the ashes in a box to throw away.
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 11:29 |
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DACK FAYDEN posted:...why don't they just find a different cremation process that doesn't evacuate all the carbon, like, add a filter to the exhaust vents or something? That seems like it would solve the problem unless I'm misunderstanding?
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 12:13 |
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DACK FAYDEN posted:...why don't they just find a different cremation process that doesn't evacuate all the carbon, like, add a filter to the exhaust vents or something? That seems like it would solve the problem unless I'm misunderstanding? All crematoriums (at least in the more developed nations) already have an after-chamber that's used for scrubbing pollutants from the exhaust. Venting poo poo into the atmosphere tends to be highly regulated. But the crematorium filters are in place to regulate particulate emissions, with an emphasis on metals (think people with prosthetic joints or mercury dental fillings, or people who get cremated wearing sentimental jewelry). The carbon output is mostly in the form of C02, and the majority of that comes from the fuel used for the cremation; the figures I've seen estimate around 500 lbs of carbon exhaust when cremating a 180 lb body. Even if the gem-makers addressed the issue and were honest about the process, there wouldn't be a lot of market for "a gem made of partly mother but mostly made of kerosene". Yes, there are ways to reduce a human body into its constituent elements and then crystallize them, without adding a bunch of extra carbon from combustion. But all those methods are sort of messy. The most common alternative right now is alkaline hydrolosis, which is essentially putting a body into a pressure cooker filled with lye and turning it into slurry. It's gaining in popularity, much like cremation did in the 60s and 70s, but it will probably take a few more decades before it becomes mainstream. Ultimately, I'm not sure that it really matters. Dead people (presumably) don't give a poo poo, and the survivors are typically more concerned with healing and going through the grieving process. When someone is mourning a loved one, sure, you can tell them that the gem isn't really made from their loved one. You could also tell them that their loved one isn't in heaven because souls don't exist and heaven doesn't exist, but it's cruel and unproductive and saying it pretty much means that you're an rear end in a top hat. There are valid concerns about the cremation gem industry's environmental impact, predatory pricing, and exploitative sales techniques. But all those concerns are applicable to the funeral industries as a whole, regardless of their specific method of corpse disposal.
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 12:35 |
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One of those things where it's a lovely predatory industry, but if it makes someone feel better to be wearing grandma, you don't take that away from them
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 13:20 |
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for calling my gf and her family snobby? Finally. A woman who makes her own cream cheese.
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 13:51 |
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AITA for getting mad at my half sister when she begged me to babysit and telling her I didn't sign up for any of this?quote:My half sister and I are very close in age because my dad cheated on my mom while she was pregnant with me. Mom kicked him to the curb when she found out and dad ended up married to my half sister's mom. When I would ask why my half sister had her parents together and I didn't, they would tell me my mom was a mistake in their relationship. For the longest time they would imply my mom had been the other woman, an affair my dad had. So one day I asked my mom if she had known my dad had been married when she got pregnant with me. My mom told me it had been her she was married to, not my half sister's mom. She even showed me their wedding photos which I had never seen before. My dad and his wife then told me it had worked out for the best. I told him I didn't think so because my half sister had what I never would, her mom and dad together. He tried to convince me I wanted that for my little sister more than myself. I said I didn't. I told him how it would have been nice to have my family all together.
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 13:51 |
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Tobermory posted:
StrangersInTheNight posted:One of those things where it's a lovely predatory industry, but if it makes someone feel better to be wearing grandma, you don't take that away from them This is the same arguments people use against exposing mediums. And I completely disagree. These people are defrauding people while they are vulnerable, taking money from them that they might not have ( because of cause they offer predatory finance options). And it doesn't equate to religion at all.
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 14:02 |
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I don't see it as the same thing. A medium can completely change someone's memories of a loved one, it's loving cruel. This is just "Grandma may be in that ring, she may not, but it makes me feel better to think she is"
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 14:08 |
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Mega Comrade posted:This is the same arguments people use against exposing mediums. And I completely disagree. These people are defrauding people while they are vulnerable, taking money from them that they might not have ( because of cause they offer predatory finance options). telling a person actively grieving right now that the jewelry piece they care a lot about is bullshit lies that they got ripped off for and their beloved family member is loving gone and they're stupid for wasting their money: cruel
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 14:11 |
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I'm not really talking about people who have already bought one. The money is gone, no point rubbing salt in the wound. But anyone thinking of getting one or just talking about it in general? Then it should be described as what it is, fraud.
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 14:13 |
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We should all just do sky burials. We have failed at turning bodies into diamonds, but the process for turning bodies into a bunch of crows has millennia of refinement. And honestly, I'm only kind of joking when I say that, there's something kinda nice about that thought.
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 14:36 |
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The Lord of Hats posted:We should all just do sky burials. We have failed at turning bodies into diamonds, but the process for turning bodies into a bunch of crows has millennia of refinement. Unfortunately due to the amount of medications humans take now a days especially just prior to death, sky burials have a tendency to result in death of the birds and have been scaled back in the places that still practice them.
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 14:50 |
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Pope Corky the IX posted:I don't see it as the same thing. A medium can completely change someone's memories of a loved one, it's loving cruel. This is just "Grandma may be in that ring, she may not, but it makes me feel better to think she is" My dad dumped a poo poo load of money on a medium after my mom died. I was in my 1st year of med school and I barely had time for the funeral. My fiancee's mother was dying of cancer at the same time. What a poo poo year. He didn't tell me that she took her own life for almost a year after her death, and I assume that all the "discussions" my dad says he had with her through the medium were to assuage his own feelings of guilt after her death. I personally was super glad that I had the opportunity to move past her sudden death and then get to start all over when he finally got around to telling me what actually happened. At least the medium convinced him to tell his children how their mom actually died. So thanks I think?
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 14:53 |
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Barudak posted:Unfortunately due to the amount of medications humans take now a days especially just prior to death, sky burials have a tendency to result in death of the birds and have been scaled back in the places that still practice them. Fine, I guess I'll just die into the dirt like a boring person.
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 14:54 |
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I just want my body tossed out of a helicopter. Wherever I land, that's my grave. I don't care if it's White House lawn. Just keep the dogs away.
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 15:01 |
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The Lord of Hats posted:
Just get put into one of those seed pods or some poo poo.
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 15:01 |
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With any luck, my bloated corpse abandoned in my backyard will provide ample incubation for a multitude of parasitoid wasps and maybe some strain of fungi. Like a nice mushroom or whatnot.
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 15:08 |
You can always donate your body to forensic crime labs so they can teach others about decomposition
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 15:09 |
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Seth Pecksniff posted:You can always donate your body to forensic crime labs so they can teach others about decomposition Most of those body donations end up going to the US military for target practice.
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 15:10 |
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Ghost Leviathan posted:Most of those body donations end up going to the US military for target practice. That sounds awesome, cut me to pieces with a 50 cal and then blow me the gently caress up. That’ll be the funeral.
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 15:13 |
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Seth Pecksniff posted:You can always donate your body to forensic crime labs so they can teach others about decomposition Just donate your body to me Seth, I’ll take good care of it.
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Pope Corky the IX posted:Just donate your body to me Seth, I’ll take good care of it.
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 15:15 |
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Pope Corky the IX posted:I just want my body tossed out of a helicopter. Wherever I land, that's my grave. I don't care if it's White House lawn. Just keep the dogs away. what if you land on a person
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 15:16 |
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Andrast posted:what if you land on a person Pope Corky the IX posted:I just want my body tossed out of a helicopter. Wherever I land, that's my grave. I don't care if it's White House lawn. Just keep the dogs away.
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 15:22 |
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It's their grave now too, you have to share
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 15:22 |
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Andrast posted:what if you land on a person You get a thousand points.
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 15:23 |
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Mr. Fall Down Terror posted:i dont think professional attire means exposing one's armpits unless you're like a personal trainer or something, and then it doesn't matter Found video of armpit woman. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h8cXVe6N6Oc
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 15:30 |
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Soylent Pudding posted:She told me I signed up for that stuff when I became a sister. Hahahahahaha gently caress you
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 15:32 |
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That means she could resign from her position as sister.
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 15:38 |
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AITA for telling my colleague that she basically called her newborn daughter Luigi?quote:I'm an Italian woman who works for an Italian company that has a close working relationship with a few American companies. More specifically I am the Italian liaison of a kinda big department in one of these companies, so basically everything that my American colleagues decide comes through me and I relate it to my Italian colleagues. just lean into it imo, buy the baby a bunch of green hats and overalls
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 16:02 |
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why say anything. like, did she want some pasta to go with her foot with how ravenously she devoured it?
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 16:12 |
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Hughlander posted:AITA for refusing to give my girlfriend a ring when I proposed? If we search reddit long enough I guarantee there's the reverse of this post where the girl otherwise would have accepted a proposal, but is freaked out that the guy gave her a dead person ring.
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 16:23 |
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MK-Ultramarathon posted:AITA for telling my colleague that she basically called her newborn daughter Luigi? You wanna name your little girl Ashley? But historically that's a boy's name! You fool. All my friends in the old country are laughing at you.
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 16:25 |
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MK-Ultramarathon posted:AITA for telling my colleague that she basically called her newborn daughter Luigi? This one's so weird. It's tough to really get a read on how OP came across, but I think it'd be pretty easy to sound weird explaining to someone you've never met that "that's a boy's name, they're gonna think you have a little boy". But then, going into hysterics and breaking down over that is just bizarre.
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 16:26 |
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AITA for canceling my date with my boyfriend because he was 7 minutes late?quote:My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 1/2 years. We've always had an issue when we go out to breakfast because he's most always late or isn't awake. I actually have a post on this in my post history. Seven loving minutes. For a morning date? Give me a loving break.
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 16:30 |
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Yeah, everyone's weird in that one. On the one hand, how hard is it to smile blandly and nod when someone you barely know explains their baby's name to you, but on the other hand, why do you care that much what someone you've never met thinks of your baby's name.
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 16:31 |
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Pope Corky the IX posted:I just want my body tossed out of a helicopter. Wherever I land, that's my grave. I don't care if it's White House lawn. Just keep the dogs away. That's what first came to mind when someone said 'sky burial' Either that or burn up in Low Earth Orbit re-entry. I was trying to figure out how boosting someone to space was eco-friendly...
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# ? Oct 14, 2022 16:31 |
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Solkanar512 posted:AITA for canceling my date with my boyfriend because he was 7 minutes late? r/relationships: FOR THOSE WHO ARE CONCERNED ABOUT HOW HEALTHY OUR RELATIONSHIP IS
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