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Remulak posted:Before reading on this SCREAMS of gender-swapped rage bait. I’ve seen women, generally smaller and with culturally less clothing, being colder than men about a zillion times but never the reverse. Similarly I’ve never seen a woman be a jerk about controlling the thermostat, but it seems to be a standard rear end in a top hat man trait. others have pointed out that it is in fact possible for women to be warmer than men i'd like to point out as an additional aside that while you blamed it on size and clothes there's also a very physical/physiological reason. when i started taking testosterone i went from running cold to running warm without changing anything else including the clothing i was wearing daily. probably related to the hot flashes of menopause. something about an estrogen-based system runs colder than a non-estrogen-rich system for whatever reason apparently. edit: motherfuck. i apologize for starting the page so banally.
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I used to work in an office with a full winter coat on because the woman who demanded temperature control and would threaten HR complaints if you even glanced at it demanded arctic tundra like conditions. I literally wore gloves with heating pads powered by USB so I could type at my job without my fingers going numb, it was ridiculous.
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# ? Nov 4, 2022 03:28 |
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MK-Ultramarathon posted:AITA for wanting a performer to change inappropriate lyrics? I've seen white people described as Mayo people before, so maybe she's making some snarky comment about the audience at Coachella (while comparing it to her piddly little local festival)?
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# ? Nov 4, 2022 03:32 |
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InediblePenguin posted:others have pointed out that it is in fact possible for women to be warmer than men I am never cold in the winter because my wife's body reaches a temperature of no less than 13,000 degrees Fahrenheit while we're sleeping.
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Involuntary Sparkle posted:I've always run really, really warm and I'm a cis woman. Not menopausal yet. I'm too warm in offices, conferences, airports and airplanes. I don't have air conditioning at home (Seattle) but I keep the heat at 58F most of the year and my preferred temperature indoors is no more than 64F. I have my thyroid checked regularly, too. Thank you. feel cold indoors or anywhere? there are millions of products to choose from hell even different product categories. you've got shirts, jackets, sweaters, coats, even thermal underwear. don't subject the rest of us to the consequences of your poor circulation.
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AITA for uninviting my future sister-in-law from my wedding after she told my fiancé I was pregnant?quote:I decided to keep my pregnancy to myself because I don’t know what I’m going to do about it and I knew my fiancé wasn’t going to be happy with the news. My future sister-in-law/best friend is the only other person who knew as I only took the test at her suggestion and at her house. She also agreed that her brother was unlikely to be happy about it but she felt like I should tell him immediately anyway. Reddit: quote:Please explain why y’all are getting married if you can’t even tell him you’re pregnant? Another great marriage tale! AITA for telling my fiance that he ruined our vacation when he decided to take the kids? quote:My fiance (41) is divorced, he shares custody of his 11yo & 7yo with his ex wife. AITA for exposing family secrets after they said my adopted daughter isn't family? quote:I (28F) and my husband (31M) adopted the most amazing girl Mia (7) 10 months ago. Mia has been through a lot and struggles a bit with her behavior. We have been very patient with her and take her to therapy, sometimes she wants us there and sometimes she wants to be alone. The things she says when we are there are awful so I can't imagine what she talks about alone. She has improved so much since we first met and I'm so proud of her. Slight YTA because I want details, damnit! I want some of the secrets! edit: OP added in comments: quote:I started doing it after about the 5th call. I exposed family to each other A was included. Examples; I told my cousin that A stole her expensive necklace and sold it for cash last Christmas. I told my aunt that her sister slept with her boyfriend (I only know this because A found out and told me). I told my uncle that my cousin was the one who stole and crashed his car. I only told secrets about people who were getting involved I didn't drag anyone else into it. I told it to them directly over the phone when they called/text. Cowslips Warren fucked around with this message at 04:12 on Nov 4, 2022 |
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for exposing family secrets after they said my adopted daughter isn't family? OP shot down an entire squadron of flying monkeys, god drat. she should paint little silhouettes on her phone
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Foo Diddley posted:OP shot down an entire squadron of flying monkeys, god drat. she should paint little silhouettes on her phone *stares at the flaming radioactive ruin of OP's family* "The survivors will envy the dead"
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Rocks, nukes, etc. Almost seems too good to be true but you know what people are like, it could and probably has happened.
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I love the smell of napalm in the morning.
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# ? Nov 4, 2022 06:46 |
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Change your callwaiting tone to "Nearer My God to Thee" because there is nothing left but the ruins of the old world after that
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AITA for calling my sister "obsessed" with her (deceased) husband?quote:I (35M) was one of those kids that knew exactly what I wanted to do when I grew up. In order to remain anonymous, I'll simply say I've always dreamed of doing job X at company Y. My whole career has been based on getting this job and working for this company. So needless to say when I finally got an interview with company Y I was ecstatic. One of OP's comments says that his sister and her husband were together since they were in high school.
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# ? Nov 4, 2022 07:36 |
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I saw a TikTok where a guy was handing out canned soup and beans instead of candy, and the kids were stoked. Kids love weird and silly things. I know if I were a kid and got the option to take a potato, I'd take that potato so fast. It's hilarious and creates a core memory. I'd tell the tale of the halloween potato with a smile on my face until the day I died.
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# ? Nov 4, 2022 07:39 |
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Doing idiosyncratic stuff for Halloween is fine, but giving out toothbrushes is literally a classic Halloween Grinch type bullshit. For one, toothbrushes are cheap, the kids already have them. (and if they don't, they have bigger problems)
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SulfurMonoxideCute posted:I saw a TikTok where a guy was handing out canned soup and beans instead of candy, and the kids were stoked. Kids love weird and silly things. I know if I were a kid and got the option to take a potato, I'd take that potato so fast. It's hilarious and creates a core memory. I'd tell the tale of the halloween potato with a smile on my face until the day I died. I had glow sticks and stickers in the bowl along with candy and kids were excited for them.
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# ? Nov 4, 2022 07:59 |
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The Glumslinger posted:I had glow sticks and stickers in the bowl along with candy and kids were excited for them. My sister-in-law collects spooky kids books from thrift stores all year and let kids pick one out along with candy. Kids LOVE it.
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Metaline posted:My sister-in-law collects spooky kids books from thrift stores all year and let kids pick one out along with candy. Kids LOVE it. I am head over heels with this idea. That is absolutely fantastic
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a potato halloween does sound pretty fun... i had imagined a baked potato at first, tho AITA for throwing away my bf’s toast? quote:This is a dumb argument but it’s been bugging me. So I (20f) decided to get up one morning and make my bf (23m) breakfast bc he was very sleepy and I was hungry. I made eggs, toast, and coffee while he slept and brought it to him in bed. He thanked me and then asked me if I could get him jam from the kitchen for his toast. This kind of annoyed me bc I did literally everything else, so I told him he could get his own jam. We argued about this for a little until we decided to just leave it and eat our food. After we finished, I brought our dishes to the kitchen. I asked him if I should throw away the piece of toast he left on his plate, and he said “yes if I wasn’t going to get him jam.” So I threw it away. He then got mad at me saying that I could’ve just gotten the jam since I was in the kitchen and that I make our relationship too transactional. AITA?
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Booky posted:a potato halloween does sound pretty fun... i had imagined a baked potato at first, tho You have to take it out of the oven with your bare hands while explaining that you hate this part
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Batterypowered7 posted:Clearly they meant mayochelada, which I imagine must be when you add mayo to a michelada.
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Ah, a cummy mary
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Barudak posted:Ah, a cummy mary
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My parents live in an area where they get 400+ trick or treaters. They usually have a big cauldron of candy and a platter of glow sticks. I used to think “no self respecting child is going to pick a glow stick over a piece of candy.” I was utterly wrong. The glow sticks were all gone IMMEDIATELY.
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DAD LOST MY IPOD posted:My parents live in an area where they get 400+ trick or treaters. They usually have a big cauldron of candy and a platter of glow sticks. I used to think “no self respecting child is going to pick a glow stick over a piece of candy.” I grew up sweet deprived (birthdays and especially Christmas excepted where it could take weeks to eat through the haul afterwards) and I can't imagine passing up on a glow stick just for some candy. As a child or now.
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Electric Wrigglies posted:I grew up sweet deprived (birthdays and especially Christmas excepted where it could take weeks to eat through the haul afterwards) and I can't imagine passing up on a glow stick just for some candy. As a child or now.
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One year my kid got a package of ramen and it was his absolute best Halloween ever.
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AITA for wanting to tell my BIL and his wife that my wife breastfeeds their baby whenever they leave him with her?quote:It's a bit of a complicated situation, I'm not sure wether I should speak up or not. AITA for telling my husband's aunt I am not responsible for raising his half siblings? quote:My husband was told three months ago that his father, who he was estranged from, and his father's wife, had passed away in an accident and he had been listed as the person to become guardian to their two young children. My husband had no idea his father had done this. He never actually met those children. He was estranged from his father by the time the older of the two was born, though he did know the older child existed. Cowslips Warren fucked around with this message at 14:52 on Nov 4, 2022 |
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Barudak posted:Ah, a cummy mary
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AITA for refusing to give my SIL my bf’s recipes, causing her young children to go hungry?quote:I (27M) have been with my boyfriend (25M) since I was 17 and he was 16. Since I met him he's loved to cook and bake. Since we were both broke teens saving for uni, at all of our early anniversaries he used to cook dinner for us and bake dessert.
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for wanting to tell my BIL and his wife that my wife breastfeeds their baby whenever they leave him with her? He's not the rear end in a top hat but she is right that they will likely freak out and never let them see the kid again, or at least won't bring the kid around for a while because this is a big breech of trust. Our daughter had a lot of trouble with breastfeeding so we switched her over to formula pretty fast since we needed her to get nutrition some how. She's perfectly happy and healthy.
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for refusing to give my SIL my bf’s recipes, causing her young children to go hungry? SIL is being selfish and trampling op's bf's feelings, but i think his boyfriend should share some of the recipes. Not because the kids will magically get over their food sensory issues, but because they need some flavor in their lives. Do the charitable thing and save them from bland food. (Of course this is assuming SIL will actually use spices, and lol no she won't)
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AITA for telling someone that idc about their tw?quote:I (15f) am receivinga punishment at school for telling another kid that I don't really care if my scars trigger them. I was attacked by a dog when I was 7 and now have scars on my arm and face, I used to cover up by wearing hoodies and masks because I was insacure. Recently I have started wearing less hoodies and more tank tops and t-shirts, but yesterday at school some rando at my school came up to me and told me "You should cover up, your scars really trigger me", I immediately got upset which I guess he could tell due to my facial expression, ( I guess I was smiling a lot because nobody seemed to care about my scars), I told him that I wasn't going to cover up just because my scars trigger him and if he doesn't want to see them then maybe not to look at me. He left but today I was called into the office, the principal said I would be receiving an in school suspension for this week due to "making your peers and staff uncomfortable with your physical appearance". I don't know if my principal is actually allowed to suspend me for this and I feel super insecure again... AITA for telling the kid I wasn't going to cover up? Reddit Comment posted:1 week suspension, reason : ugly. AITA for telling my sister I will only watch her kids if she pays me. quote:A few years ago I was going away to a conference so I asked my sister if she could watch my dogs while I was away. She said she would do it if I paid her. So I hired a service instead. Yes I could have paid her but it would have required me to go pick up her unemployed rear end from my parents'house and let her stay at my house eating my food and drinking my booze. The service came in fed and walked my dogs.
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In a lot of the developing world, Nestle and other companies done a lot of advertising on the benefits of formula over breast feeding. It was effective enough that even to this day, families will take out loans for baby formula (it costs the same or more in these places as in the US or Aus but on a $5/day wage, $30 tins of formula don't last as long as it took to earn the money) and don't breast feed out of love for their children (do you love your child enough to buy formula? You may not have much but you have enough to not resort to breast feeding). An absolute scandal that is slowly being tackled by the likes of the UN putting out campaigns on the benefits of breast milk*. Unfortunately, some people get exposed to these campaigns and like a true born again, take it way too far. Good cause, entirely wrong approach. *real, if not pronounced enough to intervene if a family that can afford it choose to formula feed, let alone one having difficulty with breastfeeding.
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Ghost Leviathan posted:Doing idiosyncratic stuff for Halloween is fine, but giving out toothbrushes is literally a classic Halloween Grinch type bullshit. Are they replacing their toothbrushes frequently enough, though? Also candy is cheap.
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Kurieg posted:AITA for telling someone that idc about their tw? Those monkeys only fly on the clock.
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AITA for telling my wife helping our toddler shouldn't be conditional.quote:So my wife has also been the sort of person who sees helping someone as being owed afterwards and will help on her terms. She now does this with pur toddler (3) when she asks for help its either I will do it after I have finished this drink or sending this WhatsApp, or if she does help she will say I will only help if you do this this and this for me. I told my wife helping our toddler shouldn't be conditional she needs to know of she asks for help we will be there and not conditional on something. My wife's response was simply I was being stupid and our toddler can do it herself or wait. Am I in the wrong. Jesus christ. e: Op deleted his account so maybe/hopefully this is fake but according to the comments the Kid is adopted. Kurieg fucked around with this message at 15:41 on Nov 4, 2022 |
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Max posted:He's not the rear end in a top hat but she is right that they will likely freak out and never let them see the kid again, or at least won't bring the kid around for a while because this is a big breech of trust. Our daughter had a lot of trouble with breastfeeding so we switched her over to formula pretty fast since we needed her to get nutrition some how. She's perfectly happy and healthy. They should definitely never let them see the kid again because that is literally psychotic behavior.
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Kurieg posted:AITA for telling someone that idc about their tw? Lol that kid is gonna go to college for free now if the principal actually said that... Also if you live in the US and ever have a problem like that, or the school isn't respecting an IEP or any other issue contact the Education Law Center in your state and they will fix it for you. And by fix it I mean sue the poo poo out of the school if they don't address your complaint. B-Rock452 fucked around with this message at 15:49 on Nov 4, 2022 |
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RenegadeStyle1 posted:They should definitely never let them see the kid again because that is literally psychotic behavior. I don't really see the big deal? Food's food, whether it comes from a titty or not. The biggest rear end in a top hat thing in the story is that the wife has been rude to the BIL's wife for not breastfeeding when it's a medical issue preventing her Kurieg posted:AITA for telling my wife helping our toddler shouldn't be conditional. Why are these people married?
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Kurieg posted:AITA for telling my wife helping our toddler shouldn't be conditional. eeeeeee this is wobbling on my line of abuse, so maybe let’s kinda idk, ease on that.
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