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Heliogabalos posted:back pay child support and show at least a year of therapy receipts, the child is in therapy and has interest, and all adults agree to meet with a therapist moderator present. Yeah, dude who only seems to give a poo poo about how the kid he abandoned should reciprocate his attention really seems like someone who's changed with true intentions.
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Barudak posted:I think the pie photos break the rules of posting gore. Fundamentally, the crispness of a pie top and how the pie cooks at all, actually, are interedependent on both the volume of the cooking chamber they are placed in and the direction of the heat. Recipes for pies are built for western ovens, not the Japanese thing I have. My pie instead of a flaky gold top with hot insides became ashes in one direction ontop of congealing middle ontop of still raw pie crust. LOL I loving knew it would be Japan when you posted that. Full disclosure we did learn how to make pie in our Japanese microwave/convection oven but trying to adapt recipes definitely had a learning curve. Trying to cook a young miniature turkey for Thanksgiving was a trip. It almost touched to top of the oven. Parts came out raw and I had to cut it apart and put it back in for another couple hours longer than estimated. But thanksgiving dinner was so popular with our Japanese and commonwealth friends that the next year I got hooked up with a restaurant owner ‘s gas oven.
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quote:But I think making amends is always possible ______________________/ 
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Midnight Voyager posted:Yeah, dude who only seems to give a poo poo about how the kid he abandoned should reciprocate his attention really seems like someone who's changed with true intentions. It's interesting. He is starting the process from a space of centering himself through an egotistical lens, absolutely, but likely because he is starting to finally address remorse and/or shame. That those no longer trigger the denial he once felt, or the usual anger that these feelings impel in an even more problematic person is a big step forward. I find it quite curious and I wish I knew where these were pulled from because I would like to read if he has anything more to say.
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Nov 17, 2022 04:36
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Hughlander posted:
Stories like this remind me of the indescribable amounts of the pettiest drama I would regularly witness working in a jewelry store. Brings back lots of fond memories/ptsd.
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Nov 17, 2022 04:38
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SulfurMonoxideCute posted:Stories like this remind me of the indescribable amounts of the pettiest drama I would regularly witness working in a jewelry store. Brings back lots of fond memories/ptsd. I will go get coffee if you wanna dish
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Barudak posted:I will go get coffee if you wanna dish I might do an a/t thread, because I've got some doozies. Maybe tomorrow when I'm not too tired to sit at a desk and type.
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SulfurMonoxideCute posted:Stories like this remind me of the indescribable amounts of the pettiest drama I would regularly witness working in a jewelry store. Brings back lots of fond memories/ptsd. I want this A/T in ways I never knew. AITA for not wanting to put bells on my cats, to appease my neighbor and the squirrels and birds she feeds? quote:My neighbor feeds squirrels and birds. My cats like hunting squirrels and birds, and are fairly good at it, apparently. My cats have a cat door, and are free to come and go as they please. This will not change.
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Nov 17, 2022 04:56
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CharlestheHammer posted:I mean he catered to literally the worst of that fanbase but from what I understand De Lancie is a huge rear end in a top hat I'm told that from the scene where Q appears naked on the bridge apparently he has a huge hog.
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Nov 17, 2022 04:58
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Cowslips Warren posted:
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Nov 17, 2022 05:09
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hey now, maybe they just now learned how to read
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People might have said that in OP's vicinity, but OP chose not to hear it.
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i've never owned a pet in my life and even i know you're not supposed to let your cats go running around the neighborhood. even if you don't give a poo poo about the local environment you might give a poo poo about your cat getting run over by a car or mauled by a stray dog or whatever
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AITA for Causing my Autistic Half Brother to Melt Down and Telling Him He Deserved It?quote:So, I was supposed to be a boy. Or at least that's what the OBGYN told my parents. My dad had this big hangup about the first born being a son, and has hated me since the day I was born.
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Nov 17, 2022 05:18
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hosed around and found out but also just block all these people, gently caress em?
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Nov 17, 2022 05:21
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Heliogabalos posted:
Ngl if it wouldn't be so personal I would love to hear your take on trying to forgive my lovely hosed up family 
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Xun posted:Ngl if it wouldn't be so personal I would love to hear your take on trying to forgive my lovely hosed up family You can totally understand what made people do what they did, see their attempts at bettering themselves, forgive them a little or a lot, and then just never interact with them again. It's very freeing. Edit - not to say that your family in particular deserves anything at all
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telling someone they should forgive someone else just seems arrogant to me like, only JC himself can pull that poo poo off
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Nov 17, 2022 05:44
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for not wanting to put bells on my cats, to appease my neighbor and the squirrels and birds she feeds? Reddit comments are almost unanimously YTA.
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Nov 17, 2022 05:47
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for Causing my Autistic Half Brother to Melt Down and Telling Him He Deserved It? I don't get what being autistic has to do with any of this. Half-brother is being a mean petty vindictive arsehole. And a thin skinned one at that, if a "Haha you haven't got a girlfriend!" jab makes him have a meltdown. Autism or no, that's just lovely. Also boo to his "Girls are icky. Congrats to you, my new trans brother because you are no longer a yucky girl." attitude. I mean, I suppose it's nice he is supportive and accepting of his half brother's gender. But for all the wrong reasons and in a terrible way.
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Nov 17, 2022 05:49
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ccubed posted:My mom always said that cooking is art and baking is science. thats what i was looking for. thanks, and also now i'm thinking about a recipe that calls for one banana and a roll of duct tape
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Nov 17, 2022 05:59
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cumpantry posted:thats what i was looking for. thanks, and also now i'm thinking about a recipe that calls for one banana and a roll of duct tape 
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Nov 17, 2022 06:24
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Captain Hygiene posted:Bullshit That's literally the number one thing I hear about owning an indoor cat, that you don't let it stay outside. Props to the OP from long ago who's GF's method of dealing with her cat when traveling was to leave it outside with water and food, and OP went over, took the cat home, and lost his poo poo at her over it. Chamale posted:AITA for not wanting to pay unnecessary money for my cat? She goes hard in the comments saying she doesn't believe her BF actually cares about the cat and it's just some toxic/abusive controlling behavior. pentyne fucked around with this message at 06:30 on Nov 17, 2022 |
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AITA for going off on my cousin after she locked the keys in the car?quote:My cousin {18F} and my aunt {38F} have been with us for the past 2 weeks while they’re on vacation, they are visiting and here resides my brother {40M} my pregnant girlfriend {19F} and myself {22M}. My dad kept locking the keys in my car during a roadtrip we took, over and over, including on a ferry, and let me tell you it never stopped being hilarious (eventually I confiscated the keys)
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Nov 17, 2022 06:32
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Mx. posted:AITA for going off on my cousin after she locked the keys in the car? The bigger picture here is everyone involved spending a cumulative 15 minutes fruitlessly trying to open locked car doors they didn't have the key for
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Nov 17, 2022 06:35
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that guy is gonna have to get better at dealing with dumbshits doing dumb poo poo and yeah, quote:I tried opening the doors for at least 10 minutes lol
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Nov 17, 2022 06:38
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Definitely there's a certain kind of person who think if they express enough anger at a situation towards whoever happens to be nearby for long enough a solution will magically appear. That kid's in for a rough time.
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Nov 17, 2022 06:43
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Wait, so they were at their home. They walked outside, keys are locked in car. Keys are eventually found at same home to open the car, car hasn't moved. They were in danger because they were too stupid to walk back into their home out of the rain?
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Nov 17, 2022 06:45
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Does this person believe that being a little chilly will make them ill? I know that germ theory is out of fashion among idiots, but I thought everyone knew catching a cold is a euphemism.
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Foo Diddley posted:i've never owned a pet in my life and even i know you're not supposed to let your cats go running around the neighborhood. even if you don't give a poo poo about the local environment you might give a poo poo about your cat getting run over by a car or mauled by a stray dog or whatever Unless you're into feeding shelter cats to coyotes, according to that one story.
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Nov 17, 2022 06:46
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my old civic was easier to unlock with a coat hanger than with a key maybe OP should get an old civic
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also 40F is not cold enough to be imposing on people to go warm up your car for you
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I'm wondering if "I lightly moved her away from me" is him downplaying that he shoved her. Also there's this weird disconnect when he talks about how he got more and more upset, and then his girlfriend got upset, which made him even more mad at his cousin. It's got to be all the cousin's fault that OP's girlfriend is getting worried. It can't have anything to do with the fact that her baby's father can't handle minor challenges without having a meltdown.
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oh, i totally missed the "light moving"  some real "calmly explained" vibes there
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Captain Hygiene posted:The bigger picture here is everyone involved spending a cumulative 15 minutes fruitlessly trying to open locked car doors they didn't have the key for Even worse, locked car doors they did have a spare key for just inside the house.
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I’ll side with recipe dude, having had that thing with a partner of agreeing youd have that carbonara recipe tonight but they subbed out the black pepper for garlic salt and the guincale for some chicken she wanted to use but still insisted it’s a carbonara
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Heliogabalos posted:back pay child support and show at least a year of therapy receipts, the child is in therapy and has interest, and all adults agree to meet with a therapist moderator present. Naw dogg, forgiveness is cool and there's nothing wrong with reconciliation. It's just that contrition includes a lot more than saying "I'm sorry;" you have to actually regret your actions and understand how and why you've hurt people. The classic sniff test is that if someone will not take "no I do not forgive you" for an answer, they are not actually sorry or feeling guilt, they just want to stop having to deal with the consequences of their actions, and the beauty of forgiveness is that it cannot be genuinely granted until the other party understands that. You even outlined a series of conditions that would demonstrate genuine contrition, which is entirely sensible and also things OP has given no indication he intends to do. Dude comes off as if he's learned that "I'm at fault and will respect their decision" are better magic words than just "I'm sorry," but if he had actually internalized that lesson he'd back the gently caress off and do something like the things you suggested instead of pressing the issue. I'm a big softie and I'd love for OP to grow into a good dad, but people are dumping on him because he hasn't even begun to put in the work, not because their hearts are too hard to accept him.
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Silly Newbie posted:You can totally understand what made people do what they did, see their attempts at bettering themselves, forgive them a little or a lot, and then just never interact with them again. It's very freeing. or I could not give a poo poo about why they did what they did- that doesn't change that they did it, nor does it change that they only want forgiveness now not for the sake of their victims, but so that they themselves can feel better about what they inflicted upon other people. They are not owed forgiveness or reconciliation. They can ask, certainly, but 'no' is, and will always be, a possible answer and they'll just have to deal with that.
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Captain Hygiene posted:The bigger picture here is everyone involved spending a cumulative 15 minutes fruitlessly trying to open locked car doors they didn't have the key for Tries handle and it's locked Maybe if I pull the handle 300 more times over the next 10 minutes it will open? I think the OP needs his head checked before being angry at his partner.
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Misty Fog posted:Tries handle and it's locked you forgot to scream "must be kidding me!" then the universe will reveal to you it was, in fact, kidding you the whole time and unlock the doors.
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