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Malachite_Dragon posted:I dimly recall some study or other that found actual Italian-born people did not give nearly as much of a poo poo about the "sanctity" of it as their descendants with hairs up their rear end about it overseas. Is it edible? Does it taste okay? Good enough! That's fairly standard, immigrant communities of any stripe tend to end up a bit weird and insular and hyper-nationalist about wherever they came from. Like the guy posting on here, I think, who as an <x>-American and going on his own community thought putting actually-Irish and English people next to each other at the dinner table must inevitably result in a fistfight or possibly a stabbing.
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for telling my best friend he is lonely because his hygiene is disgusting? I'm not sure what there is to set the record straight about, if you could legitimately be referred to as "crunchy clothes guy" you're either lying about showering or have somehow learned to shower wrong.
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feedmegin posted:That's fairly standard, immigrant communities of any stripe tend to end up a bit weird and insular and hyper-nationalist about wherever they came from. Like the guy posting on here, I think, who as an <x>-American and going on his own community thought putting actually-Irish and English people next to each other at the dinner table must inevitably result in a fistfight or possibly a stabbing. IIRC he was also claiming that Anglo-Irish intermarriage was almost unheard of, which made me lol even harder.
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Captain Hygiene posted:I'm not sure what there is to set the record straight about, if you could legitimately be referred to as "crunchy clothes guy" you're either lying about showering or have somehow learned to shower wrong. The post doesn't mention laundry but he's probably never done that either (and why would he, he has a woman now)
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Barudak posted:Sriracha tastes gross and sweet to me, but like, if a guest wanted it on their food after trying it how I prepared it, have at it. I want you to eat, then eat more, then as you are begging for mercy, desert will come. You....dump them off in the Sahara? Harsh dude.
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Captain Hygiene posted:I'm not sure what there is to set the record straight about, if you could legitimately be referred to as "crunchy clothes guy" you're either lying about showering or have somehow learned to shower wrong. I knew a guy like this and he did shower but he didn’t use soap, and he also washed his clothes without detergent. The reasoning for this was his horrible skin condition which he claimed was soap sensitivity.
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AreWeDrunkYet posted:The glaring lack of information is whether the book was assigned for that class. Like if he's just getting some homework done in the car while she's sleeping, that's a weird reaction. If he's seeking out the book on his own that's, uh, problematic at best. Yeah there is a LOT of missing information, and the way he words it makes it sound like he sought out the book separately, because he was already taking an econ class. All the comments are saying that he's NTA because "she should listen to other perspectives" and "she shouldn't be screaming at you" while I'm wondering 1, what really happened, and 2, was this the last straw of him being an absolute rear end in a top hat about things.
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Captain Hygiene posted:I'm not sure what there is to set the record straight about, if you could legitimately be referred to as "crunchy clothes guy" you're either lying about showering or have somehow learned to shower wrong. His options are to be 'right' and single or admit he's wrong and get a date. He's made his decision.
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BAGS FLY AT NOON posted:I knew a guy like this and he did shower but he didn’t use soap, and he also washed his clothes without detergent. The reasoning for this was his horrible skin condition which he claimed was soap sensitivity. That's a terrible solution to a legitimate problem. I had years of lovely skin reaction to most soaps/bodywashes/shampoos until I figured out my dermatitis was flared by products containing SDS/SLS. But uhhh...I still washed
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Involuntary Sparkle posted:Yeah there is a LOT of missing information, and the way he words it makes it sound like he sought out the book separately, because he was already taking an econ class. I think the question of whether it's required reading is secondary to the question of whether he agrees with it. If I felt compelled to take an econ class I'd probably wind up going out of my way to read some real stupid poo poo just out of morbid curiosity, although tbf I can't imagine subjecting my wife to it.
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there's a level of mental illness where one avoids hygiene in oneself and one's household, and then acclimate such that they turn their senses off to live with it. depending on what they have, some can get kinda resentful of others for pointing out that isn't normal. Admitting it isn't normal would shatter the status quo and force change. Instead, they'll lie they are normal or partaking in normal hygiene rituals (when obviously not) to cover over.
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Failed Imagineer posted:That's a terrible solution to a legitimate problem. I had years of lovely skin reaction to most soaps/bodywashes/shampoos until I figured out my dermatitis was flared by products containing SDS/SLS. Yeah none of the things he was doing were actually beneficial to his problem, it was just an excuse to be monumentally lazy. He’s in his 40’s now, still lives at home, still wears clothes from 20 years ago. Somehow ekes out a living tutoring under the table.
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Failed Imagineer posted:That's a terrible solution to a legitimate problem. I had years of lovely skin reaction to most soaps/bodywashes/shampoos until I figured out my dermatitis was flared by products containing SDS/SLS. What products did you end up settling on?
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the holy poopacy posted:I think the question of whether it's required reading is secondary to the question of whether he agrees with it. If I felt compelled to take an econ class I'd probably wind up going out of my way to read some real stupid poo poo just out of morbid curiosity, although tbf I can't imagine subjecting my wife to it. I wrote a paper one time that required me, based on curricula I designed to write the paper, to read Cheney and Rumsfeld's autobiographies in full. Multiple times in a semester. I only planned on once each, but that's not how it worked out. I was a miserable gently caress that semester, and then I graduated. I still won't talk about those books to anyone because of how angry they made me, a decade on.
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Kurieg posted:I imagine they'd ding "AITA for moving through space as a perfectly round frictionless sphere and not interacting with any other object" for some bullshit rule or another. Your post has been removed. Do not repost this without contacting the mods for approval. This post violates Rule 7: There is no interpersonal conflict here for our community to make a judgment about. AITA posts should not be about feelings or opinions. AITA posts should be about recent specific conflicts you have had with other people. If you’re receiving this message your post is likely about feelings, opinions, or desires rather than a concrete conflict.
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In senior year of high school my AP Environmental Science teacher started the year by making everyone read The Tragedy of The Commons, easily the dumbest thing I've had to take as true
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Zero One posted:3am Discord guy needs this: If it also alerts you that your infant's vital signs are dropping, this device would solve a good 75% of r/relationships dilemmas.
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therobit posted:What products did you end up settling on? I have yet to see it stateside, but I use Aveeno’s Dermexa body wash and layer with perfume. Garbage skin runs through my blood so I’ve dealt with some dryyyyyyyy skin issues. Anything Aveeno has worked pretty well, BUT don’t discount plain ol Vaseline for really lovely patches. If you’re looking for an A++ lip balm, yes you can use it as a mask but no, no god or man will stop me from using it when I don’t have lipstick on. It’s a vegan dupe of the Laniege mask, and cheaper. https://www.amazon.com/W7-Overnight-Soothing-Strawberry-Contains/dp/B086DSRNR8 This has been another episode of teen witch reviews: poo poo she slops on her skin
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Aveeno has worked well for my Dry Skin Issues too. I've also had good luck with Ivory for body wash. Cetaphil is also great for super sensitive skin although yes it does have a really weird texture to some people.sullat posted:Yeah, famous crank JRR Tolkien used to write letters in latin to the pope, complaining about 'these newfangled languages' and how they had no place in the Catholic church. This is legit hilarious and seems really on-brand for Tokien. Solkanar512 posted:AITA for being disappointed in my SO for not taking a day off, getting into a fight and spoiling a surprise proposal? This person is super loving annoying even aside from the fact that obviously they're kind of an idiot. Some people have specific days of the week where it sucks to be off work, some people have really limited PTO and have to plan way in advance, etc. I just find really grating that attitude of "oh I was going to do something nice for you, all of this was for you, but now that it's not working out exactly 100% the way I envisioned, you're so selfish and I am so hurt." Like, if you want to do something nice for somebody, surprisingly that involves taking their wants and needs into consideration too.
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teen witch posted:I have yet to see it stateside, but I use Aveeno’s Dermexa body wash and layer with perfume. Garbage skin runs through my blood so I’ve dealt with some dryyyyyyyy skin issues. Anything Aveeno has worked pretty well, BUT don’t discount plain ol Vaseline for really lovely patches. Yeah I'll third the suggestion of Aveeno, as well as the Sanex Zero range. But even within those brands you have to check the ingredients to see if they contain SDS/SLS/laureth sulfate/lauryl sulfate/dodecyl sulfate (all the same thing). It can vary from product to product and between geographic regions. Of course, you may not have the same sensitivity in which case I recommend these brands regardless. And wash your clothes and sheets with non-bio detergents, can't stress that one enough. And invest in a few sets of silk pillowcases If you're using some CVS brand or Dial bodywash you shouldn't be surprised that it absolutely strips your skin of all oils and kills you - you'd be better off washing in dish soap at that point. And finally, for the love of god get a nice simple, SPF30 moisturizer like CeraVe and use it every day. People will tell you "hey your skin looks really nice" . Failed Imagineer fucked around with this message at 18:12 on Jan 25, 2023 |
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i wash my clothes with sriracha
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cumpantry posted:i wash my clothes with sriracha So you keep your cum in the pantry and your condiments in the laundry. A true original thinker
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AITA for telling my friend she was undermining my work by having extravagant centerpieces for the bridal table at her wedding, compared to guest tables (which I made centerpieces for?)quote:Throwaway. Basically the title.
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I must have titanium skin because Dial men's body wash and suave hand lotion are all I use.
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Turpentine and steel wool like a real man you loving wimps.
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Pope Corky the IX posted:Turpentine and steel wool like a real man you loving wimps. A real man doesn't wash.
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Tradcaths blaming Vatican 2 for the drying up of vocations is old news, the new hotness is saying allowing girls to be altar servers discouraged boys from doing it and no altar boys now means no priests later
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Pope Corky the IX posted:Turpentine and steel wool like a real man you loving wimps. I thought we were talking about bathing, not rear end wiping
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I thought the whole "he never trademarked siracha" thing was a myth but it isn't and now I feel bad lol
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Technocrat posted:Hot sauce guy was trying to subtly pitch his own new recipe by complaining loudly about the lack of flavour in this carbonara, but had to pop home to grab a bottle He would've pulled it off if he'd remembered to make a trumpeting noise with his hands.
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AITA for helping my daughter’s boyfriend against his parents wishes? https://www.rareddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ke0xs3/aita_for_helping_my_daughters_boyfriend_against/ quote:EDIT UPDATE: WOW!! First, thank you all so much for the love and confidence-boosting responses!! Seriously way more than I expected!! I'm sorry, I didn't realize there was implied csa. value-brand cereal fucked around with this message at 20:13 on Jan 25, 2023 |
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MrQwerty posted:I wrote a paper one time that required me, based on curricula I designed to write the paper, to read Cheney and Rumsfeld's autobiographies in full. Multiple times in a semester. I only planned on once each, but that's not how it worked out. I’m guessing the multiple times is because each time you read them, your brain would just push large portions of the book out because so much stupid hurt? Then you’d start working on your paper and realize you needed to amalgam something you only vaguely remembered, but had no clue where it was? Like, you kept disassociating every time you read it?
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I love my daughter very much no, my adult children do not speak to me, but I don't see what that has to do with anything
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Bored posted:I’m guessing the multiple times is because each time you read them, your brain would just push large portions of the book out because so much stupid hurt? Then you’d start working on your paper and realize you needed to amalgam something you only vaguely remembered, but had no clue where it was? Like, you kept disassociating every time you read it? It was more connecting dots on what they did in the Reagan and Bush admins, what their stances were with their stated goals of PNAC, how everything coalesced after 9/11 into finishing their unfinished war under any circumstances including falsification, how neither seemed that surprised by 9/11, and just losing myself in their mindset reading that poo poo over and over and over again. There was a lot of other stuff outside those books, but those books are just two absolute monsters patting themselves on the back for how awesome they are. You only recommend books you like to people, unless there's a professional context to do so. MrQwerty fucked around with this message at 19:58 on Jan 25, 2023 |
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From the comments:OP posted:I got a DUI about a year and a half ago, so I had to quit cold turkey or risk going to jail (I had a blow machine) and my licence was recoked. That was my wake up call. When I got off of probation in September of last year, I did start drinking again but not as nearly much or as heavily as I used to. There was one incident which I'm not proud of that has happened since then but nothing serious other than that. I feel like I'm doing much better. I haven't really talked to my daughter about it. Don't worry, OP's alcoholism is totally in the past! Why can't the daughter get over her depression in two years like her drunken mother got over her drinking after 35?
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Wtf with that 2nd story. Implied sexual abuse not funny.
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nashona posted:Wtf with that 2nd story. Implied sexual abuse not funny. I apologize, I didn't catch there was implications of child sexual abuse. It's removed. Thank you for catching that.
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Lottery of Babylon posted:From the comments: Well, except for the liiiiiiittle bit of drinking she does, but that's not a problem. Okay, there was one incident, but that's not a problem. Now the fourteen year old, she really needs to get her poo poo together.
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value-brand cereal posted:I apologize, I didn't catch there was implications of child sexual abuse. It's removed. Thank you for catching that. Thank you, I appreciate it.
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value-brand cereal posted:I apologize, I didn't catch there was implications of child sexual abuse. It's removed. Thank you for catching that. Thank you for taking it down.
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