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Mom moved out to an apple orchard with one housecat. There was a large feral cat population that her housecat immediately became the boss of. Mom used to go for walks with Silver, and the ferals would all come walk along with her. When Silver finally went to her rest, the ferals stopped following mom on walks because they had never been following her, they were following along with Silver. The boss: 
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AITA if I report a Uni classmate for getting a medical certificate for "mental health and burnout issues" so she could defer an exam to attend a BTS concert?quote:A classmate was out sick last year when we had a mid semester exam.
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Feb 22, 2023 07:36
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mllaneza posted:Mom moved out to an apple orchard with one housecat. There was a large feral cat population that her housecat immediately became the boss of. Mom used to go for walks with Silver, and the ferals would all come walk along with her. When Silver finally went to her rest, the ferals stopped following mom on walks because they had never been following her, they were following along with Silver. Finally, a good boss
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Feb 22, 2023 07:40
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Evil Willow posted:AITA if I report a Uni classmate for getting a medical certificate for "mental health and burnout issues" so she could defer an exam to attend a BTS concert? Yes Moving on.
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Feb 22, 2023 07:44
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Fatty posted:Me (24F) am getting suspicious of my husband (25M) on what he does every Saturday night Working with someone in construction is the traditional way to deal with troublesome evidence. At least that is the conclusion I feel that we're meant to jump to.
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Feb 22, 2023 07:48
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Pirate Radar posted:I can’t figure out what my husband does when he goes out with his friends. They all seem like normal men! He’s a construction worker and his friends are a policeman, a biker, a cowboy, and a Native American.
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Feb 22, 2023 07:55
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Shithouse Dave posted:One of my childhood cats was a tabby and white guy named Arthur, and he would come on walks with us. Cat leashes weren’t a thing in 1980s New Zealand, but he would happily trundle along the bush trails behind our house with us. He was a very good cat. absolutely adorable Evil Willow posted:AITA if I report a Uni classmate for getting a medical certificate for "mental health and burnout issues" so she could defer an exam to attend a BTS concert? yeah how dare classmate do things they like, since when is having a break and doing what you want good for your mental health
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Feb 22, 2023 07:56
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erosion posted:Working with someone in construction is the traditional way to deal with troublesome evidence. At least that is the conclusion I feel that we're meant to jump to. So are they bank robbers or a Gladio cell? Or both.
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Feb 22, 2023 08:10
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Shithouse Dave posted:One of my childhood cats was a tabby and white guy named Arthur, and he would come on walks with us. Cat leashes weren’t a thing in 1980s New Zealand, but he would happily trundle along the bush trails behind our house with us. He was a very good cat. Arthur looks oddly like the cat here! Slightly rounder face and I’m basing it off of memories and an image but wow, also a baby!!! mllaneza posted:Mom moved out to an apple orchard with one housecat. There was a large feral cat population that her housecat immediately became the boss of. Mom used to go for walks with Silver, and the ferals would all come walk along with her. When Silver finally went to her rest, the ferals stopped following mom on walks because they had never been following her, they were following along with Silver. oh goodness someone has started mass food processing onions in my apartment
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Feb 22, 2023 08:11
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Fatty posted:Speaking of loving guys last night. (Long, but at least read the last update) Definitely loving. There's literal sign posted places in Amsterdam and Rotterdam where you can gently caress in the open air. In other spots it's sometimes tolerated, sometimes discouraged. Sometimes they remove access paths to popular places because of nimbys who are bothered by people loving well out of sight and hearing range, outside of city limits etc. It's popular because gay cruising bars have been on the decline since the 2000s (there are essentially no gay bars in any city with less than 250.000 people), and also sad that there are still straight married gay dudes around. But even today, sometimes people only figure out after marriage that they're gay. Strange but a recurring thing. Lack of role models, never had gay friends etc. LimaBiker fucked around with this message at 09:35 on Feb 22, 2023 |
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The Maroon Hawk posted:Finally, a good boss The best. Boss of the people too. Walk past her without paying attention to her? One claw snags you as you go by. Not awake enough to let her under the covers? One claw gently but firmly poking your nose until you did. Silver ruled that orchard. Absolutely 100% her own person, that cat owned so hard. Two of the ferals decided they wanted to sleep with mom. Mr. Fluffer ended up semi-domesticated after a lot of time caring for him after vet visits; Sheba was feral in the streets but "I invented being petted" in the sheets. Video evidence, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uCDmtNSYKfE
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Feb 22, 2023 08:24
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Wasn't there some extensive European far right extremist militia/coup broken up recently?
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Feb 22, 2023 08:26
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ReelBigLizard posted:Wasn't there some extensive European far right extremist militia/coup broken up recently? There was one in Germany. It wasn't going anywhere. https://www.vox.com/2022/12/9/23500307/germany-coup-prince-heinrich-qanon
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Feb 22, 2023 08:28
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ReelBigLizard posted:Wasn't there some extensive European far right extremist militia/coup broken up recently? Yes and their goal was to overthrow the government and install Prince Heinrich XIII to the throne of Germany. I’m just saying my theory is extremely plausible and if we’re being honest with ourselves, true.
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Feb 22, 2023 08:32
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AITA for asking my parents for their entire estate if they want me to be my sister's guardian.quote:I (F23) have been told my entire life that if anything happens to my parents I will be my sister's guardian. She is 33 and has some disabilities. She is currently living in a group home. The government pays for a good portion of the cost but not all. My parents have made sure that they have accessed every resource available for her to make sure she has as good a life as she can. 
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Feb 22, 2023 08:34
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Pomme de Terror posted:AITA for asking my parents for their entire estate if they want me to be my sister's guardian. I really don't understand why option #2 was a no go. Apart from the fact that OP only exists because the parents wanted a caretaker for their real daughter.
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Feb 22, 2023 08:38
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Pomme de Terror posted:AITA for asking my parents for their entire estate if they want me to be my sister's guardian. OP needs to cut contact and loving run. The parents want to stick her with all of the responsibility without any support and neither of her brothers want anything to do with the guardianship. Don't sign anything and get out while you still can.
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Feb 22, 2023 08:45
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Forest guy is probably just looking for some hard wood amongst the trees.
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Feb 22, 2023 08:48
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I dunno the laws where OP is. But I dob't think you can force someone to be a legal guardian without their consent. OPs parents and siblings are trying to guilt her into it. But if she doesnt sign anything, as far as i know she is in the clear. As for leaving ot all on a trust for older sisters care. I would imagine that if they did that the two selfish arsehole brothers would find a way to finagle their disabled sister of her money,and blame OP for being "selfish"
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Feb 22, 2023 08:53
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well why not posted:Forest guy is probably just looking for some hard wood amongst the trees. He’s a lumberjack and he’s okay
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Feb 22, 2023 08:53
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BrigadierSensible posted:I dunno the laws where OP is. But I dob't think you can force someone to be a legal guardian without their consent. There doesn’t have to be legal way to force her to care for the sister, guilt and familial/societal pressure is more than enough sometimes. Also “Where else is she going to go, into the system?” As an example, and I’ve told this story before, but friends of ours are a couple in their early forties. They decided a few years ago to tell her parents that they’re not having children. Mom and dad, in their late seventies, didn’t take the “No grandchildren” news very well and went out and adopted a six month old baby. So with their age and health issues (father has had several strokes) they’ve put our friends in a position where they’ll likely have to take custody before the kid is even in middle school or else she’ll get put in foster care.
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Feb 22, 2023 09:13
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Pretty much everyone in the country of Europe fucks in the forest You go into any given European forest you best be prepared to find at least one instance of europeans piledriving eachother
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Feb 22, 2023 09:21
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AITA for not accommodating my niece?quote:My daughter, Lexi, had her 8th birthday party recently. We invited some of her friends, and some family, including my brother, sister in law, and niece, Claire (6f). Claire has several allergies, gluten and dairy being the main ones.
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Feb 22, 2023 09:23
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Pope Corky the IX posted:There doesn’t have to be legal way to force her to care for the sister, guilt and familial/societal pressure is more than enough sometimes. Also “Where else is she going to go, into the system?” Thats hosed up. As an antidote I will continue cat posting. Meet Mr. Fluffer. He saved me from a panic attack once. I have some hosed up spine things, and sleeping at mom's place triggered enough of them that I was borderline hyperventilating because the attack was telling me I was having a heart attack. The prospect of waking mom up for a 3 am Christmas morning drive to the nearest emergency room for nothing was a panic attack in its own right. I was sitting on the side of the bed trying to talk myself down and failing when Fluff ran in, jumped in my lap and put his front paws on my shoulders to hug me. I hugged the best cat ever until I calmed down and was able to get to sleep. This guy,  What do we say to the god of Death? I want my cat back you son of a bitch.
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Pope Corky the IX posted:There doesn’t have to be legal way to force her to care for the sister, guilt and familial/societal pressure is more than enough sometimes. Also “Where else is she going to go, into the system?” How the gently caress is this even allowed to happen? I can’t wrap my head around how adoption appears to be a prohibitively difficult process and yet also at the same time other idiots can get a 5 pack of babies same day delivery from the adoption store.
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Feb 22, 2023 09:26
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Her parents are Russian expats and definitely pulled some shady poo poo to get a white six month old within a year.
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Feb 22, 2023 09:27
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Oh so they literally went to the adoption store.
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Feb 22, 2023 09:29
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Evil Willow posted:AITA if I report a Uni classmate for getting a medical certificate for "mental health and burnout issues" so she could defer an exam to attend a BTS concert? OP had previously asked the University of Melbourne subreddit for advice on this, and was roundly told to gently caress off. https://www.reddit.com/r/unimelb/comments/118mevp/classmate_deferred_exam_for_a_bts_concert_last/
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Feb 22, 2023 09:34
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mllaneza posted:Thats hosed up. As an antidote I will continue cat posting. Meet Mr. Fluffer. He saved me from a panic attack once. I have some hosed up spine things, and sleeping at mom's place triggered enough of them that I was borderline hyperventilating because the attack was telling me I was having a heart attack. Cats are peculiar like that, but we’re better for it. I’m currently at this moment incredibly anxious about a thing I need to do shortly, and Pikachu is saddled next to me purring away. Now if he could use photoshop…
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mllaneza posted:Thats hosed up. As an antidote I will continue cat posting. Meet Mr. Fluffer. He saved me from a panic attack once. I have some hosed up spine things, and sleeping at mom's place triggered enough of them that I was borderline hyperventilating because the attack was telling me I was having a heart attack. it's hosed up the god o death keeps taking such perfect kitties away from us
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AITA for not turning my alarm off so my BF can sleep?quote:Me and my BF moved in together a few months ago. Our apartment is one bedroom and we have a couch. quote:He's an air traffic controller, and yes I know he's going to work. No need to be cynical. We trust one another. Perhaps the biggest "don't gently caress with peoples sleep" ever.
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Feb 22, 2023 12:02
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I dont like this word "try" in that sentence
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Feb 22, 2023 12:03
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Fatty posted:AITA for not turning my alarm off so my BF can sleep? As someone who works the overnight shift I hope OP stubs their toe every day for the rest of their life.
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Feb 22, 2023 12:14
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Perhaps OP can sleep on the couch with their phone alarm in the living room on those nights. Clearly they see the couch as a viable alternative to sleeping in a bed, right?
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That European woods story is just blowing my mind. Mostly it’s the mental image of this neurotic woman and her friends on a fake scavenger hunt for a Valentines gift in the middle of a forest while 10 dudes randomly standing around glare at her. Like obviously it’s a cruising spot but I’d also like to believe they interrupted a satanic cabal meeting or militia training session.
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Feb 22, 2023 12:54
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Blue Moonlight posted:Is this that insane person who hates everyone in their life for speaking other languages, and is convinced it’s a conspiracy against their ~~true love~~ with a coworker? At this point it's like a female version of Fightman. Except that I can just about understand someone getting turned on by imagining being put in scissor holds by pretty much everyone they meet, but I can't understand how you get turned on by imagining telling people off for speaking other languages only for the spectators to disagree and hate you. Human sexuality is very complex.
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Feb 22, 2023 13:03
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Fightman seems fake but feels real because goddamn are there definitely the kind of dudes who are constantly raging and getting in fights they lose miserably because they're complete twigs and have no pain tolerance, and no sense to even use pocket sand.
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teen witch posted:There’s a spot of woods behind my backyard that I’m floored isn’t used for boning and/or murdering. Definitely has been used for drinking and drugs so not entirely repressed, but it’s mostly people taking their pets up there. One of my neighbors has the most incredibly well behaved tabby who will walk alongside him, leash or no leash. It is a banner day for the Witch household when we get to see that cat just waltz confidently out the woods with his owner following along. My dad used to do this with his cat, Amber, there was a beaver pond near his house and they'd walk down every day and sit by it. When he got sick and couldn't walk anymore he'd feed her eggs off of his plate. One of his last FB posts.  Amber a week ago when I was feeding her while my mom was out of town. She's done with pets but just kinda wants to hang out. 
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The Bramble posted:That European woods story is just blowing my mind. Mostly it’s the mental image of this neurotic woman and her friends on a fake scavenger hunt for a Valentines gift in the middle of a forest while 10 dudes randomly standing around glare at her. Like obviously it’s a cruising spot but I’d also like to believe they interrupted a satanic cabal meeting or militia training session. Because her writing style is so insanely long and hyper detailed I forgot I was reading r/relationships or whatever and got Sir Arthur Conan Doyle/HP Lovecraft vibes. I thought we were setting the scene for a big denouement with a cool mystery, otherworldly horror, or at the very least - hardcore gay sex. What a wet fart of a story lady. Please either make something up in the future or spring for the PI who would probably condense that 20 page essay into a succint. “Followed husband. He hosed 10 guys in a forest/buried stolen jewelry/prayed to an Elder God”.
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Fatty posted:
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