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SUPERMAN'S GAL PAL posted:
She's selfish because she wants to have a relationship with another adult that isn't her ex-husband? I'm pretty sure a 12-year old girl is manipulative enough to know that she can do whatever she wants at one parent's house, and the other has some rules, and she knows which she'd rather be in.
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Kurieg posted:I mean, yeah? If people hurt you and play it off as a joke you aren't supposed to forgive them. Particularly if they're planning to convalesce at your house. Yeah, that's an insanely lovely prank. Have something with a sweet ending to take the taste away: AITA for telling my wife to stop acting like we're not in a movie? (*just noticed title, should be "acting like we're in a movie") quote:Throwaway account, writing this quickly before I have to go home to know whether I'm in the wrong or not. Long time follower, first time poster.
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Apr 11, 2023 14:23
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Chef Boyardeez Nuts posted:loving hate it when my parenting strats are disrupted by someone (a judge) who will listen to my daughter's wants, needs and fears. Lol no. She needs counseling. Absent abuse or neglect, judges are really hesitant to modify custody arrangements. Especially on the whim of a 12 year old. I'd be much more concerned about dad's parenting.
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Apr 11, 2023 14:26
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Runcible Cat posted:Yeah, that's an insanely lovely prank. Awww, now I kinda want my wife to do these with me. Not to post online, just to do them 
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Apr 11, 2023 14:26
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for telling my daughter that custody isn't changing? quote:When my ex-husband and I divorced three years ago, my daughter took it fairly well. She (unfortunately) understood why, so it wasn't a shock, I feel like there’s some very relevant info hidden behind the bolded word here
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Apr 11, 2023 14:30
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GrandmaParty posted:Lol no. She needs counseling. Absent abuse or neglect, judges are really hesitant to modify custody arrangements. Especially on the whim of a 12 year old. They are and one of the few instances where reappraisal is proper is when there's a significant life event, such as remarriage or cohabitation with a new family. The "whims" of a 12 year old are given moderate to significant weight depending on the basis and the judge. "I want to live with my dad because my mom makes me do my homework" isn't going to fly but I want to live with my dad because being forced into a blended family is something that causes me great anxiety" is another. Nocheez posted:She's selfish because she wants to have a relationship with another adult that isn't her ex-husband? I'm pretty sure a 12-year old girl is manipulative enough to know that she can do whatever she wants at one parent's house, and the other has some rules, and she knows which she'd rather be in. She's selfish because she made a promise to her kid that was existentially important to said kid and is now aggrieved at the consequences. By her own admission mom dated and that was fine. The line that she and her daughter agreed to draw was a blended family. quote:I know I stupidly agreed to not remarry in that moment, but that wasn't a realistic thing to promise and she has to know that. Your honor, this is all a simple misunderstanding. My daughter somehow mistook my promise for something other than bullshit intended to shut her up. Chef Boyardeez Nuts fucked around with this message at 14:52 on Apr 11, 2023 |
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Apr 11, 2023 14:47
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The Maroon Hawk posted:I feel like there’s some very relevant info hidden behind the bolded word here I assumed on first readthru that dad was gettin some on the side, but maybe it was mom?
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Apr 11, 2023 14:48
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I keep getting confused when stories are edited into existing posts and people start responding to stuff that wasn't there when I last saw the thread. Is there a better way to find those edits other than loading the next page then going back to look for what other posters are talking about?
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Apr 11, 2023 14:53
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Nocheez posted:She's selfish because she wants to have a relationship with another adult that isn't her ex-husband? I'm pretty sure a 12-year old girl is manipulative enough to know that she can do whatever she wants at one parent's house, and the other has some rules, and she knows which she'd rather be in. Daughter: "I do not want any new siblings." Mom: "I agree to this term." -years later- Mom: "I am getting remarried, and he has other children." Daughter: "I do not want any new siblings." Mom: "This is a completely unexpected turn of events."
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Apr 11, 2023 14:58
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Traxus IV posted:I keep getting confused when stories are edited into existing posts and people start responding to stuff that wasn't there when I last saw the thread. Is there a better way to find those edits other than loading the next page then going back to look for what other posters are talking about? Some people seem to be afraid of posting too little content or sniping a page so they'll edit in a story afterwards. But I really don't give a poo poo and I'm certainly not going to hand out probations because someone didn't realize their post would be at the top of the next page so there's no need to worry. Hopefully this helps.
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Apr 11, 2023 15:03
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Electric Wrigglies posted:eh, some mates and I went to Japan to go skiing/visit Toyota factory in Nagoya / Tokyo and the overweight fellow in our group did get repeatedly asked why he is so fat by almost complete strangers. Done in a polite matter-a-fact way but my mate still got his nose out of joint about it as it was obvious he was marked down compared to the rest of us (who were obviously marked down for being foreigners). He was about 260 pounds, six feet and could do a standing flip. Oh thats absolutely the case, just he plans to live their long term aka get an apartment, so in my experience the bigger issue will be his foreignness and being an ESL foreigner to boot.
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Apr 11, 2023 15:17
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Malachite_Dragon posted:Daughter: "I do not want any new siblings." It's amazing how stupid a lot of parents think their kids are. They don't have goldfish memories. If anything, they remember things far more vividly than many adults do.
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Apr 11, 2023 15:34
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Ok for real this time, I present someone who's turbofucked. Drug driving trial? What should I expect? quote:Hello I pleaded not guilty for drug driving, has anybody had a drug driving trial ? What should I expect? My defences was unknowingly consumed a weed cake & also I didn’t give the nurse consent to take my blood. I will be representing myself has this case is not entitled to legal aid, and the solicitors are expensive redditor posted:You should expect a conviction. OP posted:How I sure the test result is reliable , theres been lots of scandals surround forensic labs manipulating with blood tests OP posted:This is just another example of why evidence must be challenged. It highlights the increasing number of cases that the Crown Prosecution Service fail to provide simple and basic evidence within a timely manner, in order to prove a case against the accused. The Crown Prosecution Service are relying more and more on guilty pleas being entered without such evidence being required and to be disclosed to those accused of motoring offences. redditor posted:Stop quoting from that MAJ Laws website, they're literally trying to sell you their services, they're not suggesting that you can run it yourself OP posted:Is it possible for the prosecution to make a mistake or one of the witnesses to not turn up which result in case being dropped also it's been adjourned once already which may have a strain on prosecution redditor posted:Seriously, listen to the advice you are getting and follow it. OP posted:No chance. I got nothing to lose. If I get convicted for this it will have a very negative impact on my life so I might aswell test the integrity of the evidence, so I can say at least I tried. All it takes is 1 chain from their side to break then everything crumbles, I'll even get the forensic scientist to come to court if I have to. I will not assist the prosecution to convict me, they need to find me guilty beyond reasonable doubt and I'm not helping them to do that OP posted:The court can't make you pay what you can't afford, so because I'm not rich I should just bend over and plead guilty ? I still have the right to defend my self redditor posted:Your defense is non existent expect a conviction, don't attempt to drag a registered professional nurse down with you. OP posted:I'm hoping she won't make it to trial and the case gets dropped redditor posted:Did they pin you down and force the blood test? OP posted:No but I told the officer before I went in to the room I have a fear of needles and he said that's fine, they will take my urine. but when I went in it was a blood test so I went into shock and complied due to duress , I am now showing symptoms of ptsd due to this incident OP posted:My defence was unknowingly consumed came containing thc without my knowledge, my other defence was I didn't give the nurse consent to take my blood(I was coerced, was taken under duress) the prosecution witness is 1. Nurse 2. Police 3.police 4.police all 3 officers had different roles in the proceedings OP's profile picture is a Guy Fawkes mask. Moon Slayer fucked around with this message at 16:14 on Apr 11, 2023 |
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Apr 11, 2023 16:09
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Ghost Leviathan posted:It's amazing how stupid a lot of parents think their kids are. They don't have goldfish memories. If anything, they remember things far more vividly than many adults do. Aged about 10 my older sister really wanted a pig so my mother said she could have one when she turned 13, then turned to me and said "she won't remember". She did, in fact, remember.
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Apr 11, 2023 16:17
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Moon Slayer posted:Ok for real this time, I present someone who's turbofucked. I’m surprised the Brits don’t give you a lawyer for something like this. Kind of a perfect demonstration of why you should...
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Apr 11, 2023 16:17
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AnoHito posted:I’m surprised the Brits don’t give you a lawyer for something like this. Kind of a perfect demonstration of why you should... They do, OP probably got rid of their solicitor for recommending them to plead guilty.
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Apr 11, 2023 16:28
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The OP by his own admission fully complied with the blood draw so it's probably going to be tough to argue it was taken under duress.
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Apr 11, 2023 16:30
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Ghost Leviathan posted:It's amazing how stupid a lot of parents think their kids are. They don't have goldfish memories. If anything, they remember things far more vividly than many adults do. I can honestly say my 9 year old has a better memory than me, like by a significant margin.
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Apr 11, 2023 16:32
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Wurzag posted:They do, OP probably got rid of their solicitor for recommending them to plead guilty. OP posted:I will be representing myself has this case is not entitled to legal aid, and the solicitors are expensive Am I missing something?
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Apr 11, 2023 16:32
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His mistake was admitting to driving at all. Should have told the cops he was traveling, not driving.
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Apr 11, 2023 16:34
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AnoHito posted:Am I missing something? The delusional drug driver trying to make themselves look good is probably not a reliable source of information on legal matters.
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Apr 11, 2023 16:36
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OP posted:If the prosecution and police don’t make mistakes, they already failing to comply with disclosure, the offence happened in November 2021 and I’m still yet to see my streamed lined forensic report 2 evidence OP posted:Yes when I first got charged I got a specialist drug driving Solictor to request the intial prosecution case , I paid £240 for it. When it came back it didn’t even contain the basic sfr1 , this is an abuse of process. I brought this up in court on the day of trial then they adjourned it until 4 months later No idea what happened to the solicitor in the last 4 months, but I'm guessing Wurzag posted:They do, OP probably got rid of their solicitor for recommending them to plead guilty.
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Apr 11, 2023 16:41
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The whole court system in the UK is in such a shambles currently it's not impossible that they just get away with this nonsense. This guy is so incredibly stupid though it could go either way.
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Apr 11, 2023 17:07
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r/relationships: UPDATE: not speaking with a solicitor
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Apr 11, 2023 17:09
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The Crown prosecution is just fronting for the queen. The stoned idiot can request trial adjournment by single combat in which he will have to square off against the queen. Problem is the queen can move in any direction any number of spaces so she's really tough to beat one on one. You're going to want to take a couple of bong hits before taking her on.
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Apr 11, 2023 17:12
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DeeplyConcerned posted:The Crown prosecution is just fronting for the queen. The stoned idiot can request trial adjournment by single combat in which he will have to square off against the queen. Problem is the queen can move in any direction any number of spaces so she's really tough to beat one on one. You're going to want to take a couple of bong hits before taking her on. The actual problem is the queen is dead.
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Apr 11, 2023 17:14
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Rescue Toaster posted:The actual problem is the queen is dead. Heh, you really believe that, don't you? 
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Apr 11, 2023 17:16
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Rescue Toaster posted:The actual problem is the queen is dead. Queen Charles
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Apr 11, 2023 17:16
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Not sure on UK plea deals but it’s only up to six months in prison so if they offered me 0 prison with driving privileges revoked and classes or something I would just take that and not drive high anymore
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Apr 11, 2023 17:17
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Rescue Toaster posted:The actual problem is the queen is dead. Oh poo poo! *coughs*
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Rescue Toaster posted:The actual problem is the queen is dead. flawless victory!
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Apr 11, 2023 17:18
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That just makes it better, the king has much more limited movement and if he wins he rules the UK
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Apr 11, 2023 17:20
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Evil Willow posted:An old story, but not one that is ringing any bells of being posted before. i remember a similar one but i think this one is different. its a big lol though.
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Apr 11, 2023 17:21
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snergle posted:i remember a similar one but i think this one is different. its a big lol though. Yeah, the "I'm not stalking her, I just know where she lives" bit is  .Weirdo delusional kid doubling down in the comments is amazingly on point for being a dumb teen. "I'll make money and she can stay at home and raise our kids"  I'd love to find an update about what happened with this kid just so I can feel better about my dumb life.
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Apr 11, 2023 17:29
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Evil Willow posted:An old story, but not one that is ringing any bells of being posted before. OP's previous post from the relationships side of things: I [17M] am in love with the GM of my weekly D&D group [32F]. How do I tell her? 
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Apr 11, 2023 17:34
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i am a moron posted:Not sure on UK plea deals but it’s only up to six months in prison so if they offered me 0 prison with driving privileges revoked and classes or something I would just take that and not drive high anymore We don't really have plea deals , which is good because they're bullshit. But the maximum is 6 months in jail. Unless he caused an accident there's no way that's happening so he'd be looking at a fine and driving ban. But if you needed to drive for his job, then he might not even get the ban just get a suspended sentence. If this is his first offence it's hard to see this being the right course of action for him.
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General Bullshit › r/relationships: it's hard to see this being the right course of action for him
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Apr 11, 2023 17:49
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Aramoro posted:We don't really have plea deals , which is good because they're bullshit. Do you get a more lenient sentence if you plead guilty compared to what you would get pleading innocent then getting convicted?
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Aramoro posted:We don't really have plea deals , which is good because they're bullshit. But the maximum is 6 months in jail. Unless he caused an accident there's no way that's happening so he'd be looking at a fine and driving ban. But if you needed to drive for his job, then he might not even get the ban just get a suspended sentence. is sentencing largely only in the hands of the judge who can decide your
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Bright Bart posted:Do you get a more lenient sentence if you plead guilty compared to what you would get pleading innocent then getting convicted? Yeah you get a third off your sentence if you plead guilty straight away, so at your first court appearance. It's still bullshit and shouldn't be in there but it's not as egregious as plea deals. That 1/3 can be substituted for other things like community service rather than in prison etc. quote:is sentencing largely only in the hands of the judge who can decide your skin tone attitude pissed him off and hes sending you to jail for the max anyways? plea deals are bs because the public defenders want you to take one every time because youre his 20th case. so the da just offers em out unless they have a slam dunk case. so people who are innocent get pressured by their free attorney into taking it. legal aid in the us is as bad / good as our health care. Yes but there are strict sentencing guidelines. Our court system is horribly broken but its largely pre-broken by our politicians rather than by our judges.
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