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IDK where I fall on the spectrum. I threw a big fit when I learned about puberty and how I was going to go through menstruation and developing breasts and I was scared and wanted to be a boy instead because they didn't have to go though that. The way I type seems like a shitpost but it's true, I really did go through those feelings of what I wanted for my life at 12 years old. Puberty is difficult. I'm a Cis het woman, I think. I like dudes or male presenting people. I'd like to get the F46 reduced a bit because ow, my back, but other than that I'm comfortable in my skin now. I feel wrong even saying I'm an ally, because maybe I'm not? I don't identify as Trans, but I am...me. Non-binary probably. It's definitely wrong that that legislation can remove your rights as a person.
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Driving with my family to a steak house way out in the sticks earlier and out of nowhere, a rainbow appears in the clouds. It hasn’t rained recently and the clouds were only wispy, but it made me think of our close longtime gay family friend who lost his life to a stroke in 2005. Coincidentally, his birthday is tomorrow during pride month. Happy birthday, Albert 
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All girls are a little bit lesbian is a real thing someone has said to me. If they want to do that they should! He'll yeah, go for it! But I'm not interested. Thanks for asking tho! My husband is bi
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Sorry I'm thinking of the negative side. If I wear my pride clothes am I appropriating gay culture? I have been accused as such.
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Long before the Internet, I saw an extremely brief scene in one of the Sonic The Hedgehog cartoons where Sonic was sleeping with his shoes off. I had Feelings About It that 8-year-old me couldn't quite put into words. (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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Probe me if you must, mods, but that's what knocked me out of the Kinsey 0 slot and slammed the blast doors down behind me forever
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Treecko posted:If I wear my pride clothes am I appropriating gay culture? I have been accused as such. cultural appreciation v cultural appropriation is a line maybe, i dunno fashion is not my strong suit 
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Jun 9, 2023 03:33
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That's one of those things where someone will say you can't and others like me who could care less. People care more about straight people coming into gay safe spaces than what clothes you wear I assure you. Show up, hold hands, it's not complicated.
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They're Target coveralls with rainbow straps. I'll probably wear them to the splash park Sunday
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I could care less let's play and have fun
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much like these forums, i too am dead and gay anyway the zoo nearby is having a pride night on saturday and I'm excited
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les enfants Terrific! posted:much like these forums, i too am dead and gay Another gay penguin wedding. Yes, they’re already wearing tuxedos. We get it.
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Gender is an infinite spectrum and I intend to gently caress ALL OF IT.
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syntaxfunction posted:Gender is an infinite spectrum and I intend to gently caress ALL OF IT. Now THAT'S a mission statement.
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Doing the impossible
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I'm queer as gently caress and I wish for the destruction of my enemies
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beer gas canister posted:Be gay do crimes happy pride
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From a friend: the bear flag contains every natural color of body hair. drat.
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syntaxfunction posted:Gender is an infinite spectrum and I intend to gently caress ALL OF IT. 
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syntaxfunction posted:Gender is an infinite spectrum and I intend to gently caress ALL OF IT. Oh good I can sit my disaster bisexual self over by you
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Grey Cat posted:Idk I'm pretty butch and that thing is hideous. Maybe if you wanted to be a gay pit crew or something. Gay pit crew sounds awesome though. Might dislodge gay tank crew as best cool crew to be gay with.
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Knew I was queer for a fairly long period of time. Really came to fruition in my early 20s when a non-binary person who was on my delivery route asked me out. I wanted to be in a relationship with them so I came out shortly thereafter, didn't want to hide anything and make them feel like they weren't worth it. Been happier ever since. Being queer and as masc as I am has given me some weird hang ups - like there's some litmus test in my head where I'm always asking whether I'm enough to be a part of this community. Invariably, people always make me feel welcome as I am. Relish stealing and binning transphobic and homophobic signs from bigots who protest in front of our legislature on weekends. Be gay, do crimes, All Cats Are Buddies, happy pride.
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Happy Pride from all your nerd allies!
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Szyznyk posted:Another gay penguin wedding. Yes, they’re already wearing tuxedos. We get it. We don't even have penguins at our aquarium. I can only dream that the zoo is going to paint the lions rainbow for a literal gay pride
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Treecko posted:Sorry I'm thinking of the negative side. Just enjoy rainbows like a normal person, don't worry about it. Unless you're being performative about it, it's nice enough to see support from others. 
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Oh yeah for sure, that's how I feel about it. I'm the least preformative person. Some get weird about it tho, idk. Just typing thoughts I guess. Rainbows kick rear end is all and I'm here for it. I have an 11 year old who has expressed interest in being Trans and I don't know how to navigate it. Not because I'm against it but because it's kind of a big decision and legislation is getting really scary lately and I feel like I'm walking a very thin line and it's terrifying sometimes. I just want them to grow up and be a happy person one way or the other, yaknow. Rambling now, it's a lot to think about.
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Like I don't care if you wanna kiss boys or girls, you're 11 you shouldn't be kissing anyone. Go outside and play on the swings and play your minecrafts.
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Treecko posted:Oh yeah for sure, that's how I feel about it. I'm the least preformative person. Some get weird about it tho, idk. Just typing thoughts I guess. The best thing you can do is just be there for them and support them as much as possible. I'm not sure where you live but I'm sure there'll be some sort of organisations or charities both locally and nationally who can you both navigate this in the best way. I'm sure there's some goons who might have more information to help?
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when my daughter said she was moving in with her boyfriend i said wait a minute, i thought you liked boobies? she said yeah i still like boobies. then we high fived and said HELL YEAH BOOBIES!
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I knew I was trans by the time I was 8, long before I was interested in kissing anyone. didn't stop the other kids figuring it out even earlier, or calling me a fag a whole lot just support your kid ig, sounds like you're doing great
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dee eight posted:when my daughter said she was moving in with her boyfriend i said wait a minute, i thought you liked boobies? she said yeah i still like boobies. then we high fived and said HELL YEAH BOOBIES! glad you're enjoying this thread
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Saint Isaias Boner posted:glad you're enjoying this thread tbh, i grew up in the times when racism and homophobia was standard societal fare. my dad and grampa cracked vile jokes and i laughed at them. it took me a long time to see how hosed up and wrong that was, but i did see eventually. i try not to let my past self jump out and say stupid poo poo but sometimes my filters fail.
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olives black posted:Long before the Internet, I saw an extremely brief scene in one of the Sonic The Hedgehog cartoons where Sonic was sleeping with his shoes off. I had Feelings About It that 8-year-old me couldn't quite put into words. I saw enough carefree posting earlier in the thread to feel like sharing one of my own actual not-a-joke early experiences with non-straightness, but I acknowledged that I would probs catch a probe for it given this site's history. Sorry if one or more of y'all took it as an insulting fakepost. Have a Safe and Happy Pride.
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Opinion: The best gay cowboy movie is Wagons East! featuring John C McGinley as the extremely flamboyant rear end-kicking hunky bookseller Please share your opinions on this topic as well. deep dish peat moss fucked around with this message at 20:04 on Jun 9, 2023 |
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Right now, I'm a male presenting goon who is about 60lbs overweight. I have a slight beard and short hair. While I'm not trans, and more power to those who are, this is not who I want to be. This is not me inside. I am far more effeminate than I currently present and I am moving towards being more open with that. I'm slowly losing weight, and I'm growing my hair out. I shave constantly, and am trying my best to take care of my skin. Also, I'm bi, but I feel like I'm... More bi certain times of the month. Does that make any sense? Like most of the time, I question it because I'm so into women.... And then for like a week, I'm all... well, sort of kinda into guys.
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Rupert Buttermilk posted:Right now, I'm a male presenting goon who is about 60lbs overweight. I have a slight beard and short hair. For what it's worth (and I'm not saying this is you, only you can know yourself!) it's totally cool to be agender and just uninterested in things that are explicitly or implicitly gendered in either direction because you don't feel like either one appeals to you. As long as being "agender" doesn't mean "Traditional gender roles and I hate when WOKE people talk about GENDER" to you then agender is cool, no one has to have a gender identity at all, they just need to respect the gender identities of those that do. IMO. deep dish peat moss fucked around with this message at 21:04 on Jun 9, 2023 |
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