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AITA for saying that my family can visit me at my house?quote:I (30M) own my house, girlfriend (29F) rents an apartment with roommates. quote:YTA OP posted:Why would her family stay at my place? I'm the one that paid for it.
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 12:44 |
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Pope Corky the IX posted:If they stop paying for school then the older daughter will be home more often and they can save even more money by taking the younger daughter out the facility now that someone will be around. quote:I (45f) have two daughters a NT 18 year old who will be going to college in the fall. And I have an autistic high needs nonverbal daughter (16f). quote:since my eldest daughter's 18th birthday 9 months ago she has been "busy" The autistic daughter was only placed in a care facility four years ago, still comes home regularly, and the parent acknowledges that the autistic daughter still has behavioral issues - probably severe ones, even if she has made some improvement. The day the older daughter turned 18 she took every chance she could to escape and avoid her autistic sister. We've seen enough of these stories told from the perspective of the 18 year old to fill in the missing information with educated guesses, and if this one follows the form, presenting the 18 year old with an 'our way or the highway' ultimatum is very likely to result in the 18 year old choosing the highway and going completely no contact on her shocked and baffled parents.
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 14:30 |
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AITA I shouted at the bride's son at her own wedding after he broke my camera.quote:Yeah, I know the title sounds terrible. I've been doing wedding photography for over a year and I think I found my first bridezilla, but people IRL has been on my throat for this. Oh, as a disclaimer, english is not my first language and this didn't happen in the US.I was hired about 3 weeks ago for a wedding.
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 14:50 |
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AITA uninviting my mom from my wedding, she kept insisting I invite my sisterquote:Throwaway, username is random that reddit generated. Usually I despise the "wedding day must be perfect!" stuff but sometimes there are valid points. AITA I shouted at the bride's son at her own wedding after he broke my camera. quote:Yeah, I know the title sounds terrible. I've been doing wedding photography for over a year and I think I found my first bridezilla, but people IRL has been on my throat for this. Oh, as a disclaimer, english is not my first language and this didn't happen in the US.I was hired about 3 weeks ago for a wedding. (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 14:51 |
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA I shouted at the bride's son at her own wedding after he broke my camera. Tuesdayed by a single minute.
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 15:04 |
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Kurieg posted:AITA I shouted at the bride's son at her own wedding after he broke my camera. Lol get that money through the courts then lose the SD card, gently caress that poo poo
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 15:05 |
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA uninviting my mom from my wedding, she kept insisting I invite my sister I was tempted to post this one but I decided to read the comments. quote:This isn't a matter of one kid growing up ignored for a special needs sibling. OP in a comment that the crash happened in 2021. Op was 26, sister was 24. Both fully grown adults.
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 15:07 |
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Cowslips Warren posted:
Well, I'll be! 2 Tuesdays this week! Castaign posted:Tuesdayed by a single minute. Beaten by better
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 15:07 |
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Pirate Radar posted:I thought the burden of dealing with insane family members was part of why a wedding is more expensive to book than an identical non-wedding event Yes, but that doesn’t mean that the venue staff are going to have fond feelings towards the wedding parties who have insane family members that need to be dealt with. Foo Diddley posted:AITA for saying that my family can visit me at my house? Yet another in "how do they type this and not see what they're saying, and realize that they're the rear end in a top hat?" Kurieg posted:AITA I shouted at the bride's son at her own wedding after he broke my camera. Honestly, ESH but that might just be because the OP has managed to write this in a way where despite legit being the wronged party, they're coming off as very unsympathetic. They didn't just shout, they actually legit yelled and were verbally abusive, and threatening to wreck the SD card full of photos if he didn't get paid for a new camera didn't win any points either (and will probably not look great in court). Cowslips Warren posted:AITA uninviting my mom from my wedding, she kept insisting I invite my sister To be fair, it is Tuesday. Or was, anyways.
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 15:13 |
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I am surprised the camera only cost $700 A close family member has become a photographer in the past decade and holy gently caress do ultra precise optics get expensive fast
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 15:39 |
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High quality glass is costly before you get into the mechanical bits
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 15:40 |
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rotinaj posted:I am surprised the camera only cost $700 The kid probably smashed the camera body and not any lenses. Lucky for everyone involved, or we'd be talking four or five digits in dispute
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 15:45 |
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Yeah, and he would have included the obligatory "But they're just little pieces of glass!" when that happens.
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 15:47 |
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haveblue posted:The kid probably smashed the camera body and not any lenses. Lucky for everyone involved, or we'd be talking four or five digits in dispute Still, a fancy camera can get spendy, with or without the ludicrously expensive lenses. I wouldnt expect a wedding photographer to be using a Walmart sale canon rebel, i would expect something a little fancier.
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 15:51 |
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Yeah my experience of all that is from several years ago, but $700 as far as I remember is "pretty nice but not top of the line" territory. If lenses were involved it would have gotten to small claims court territory very fast, and some of the really nice/older ones just like, aren't replaceable.
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 15:54 |
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The Lone Badger posted:Some very specific wording in this entry from BOLA A commenter linked to this post: How can I make a girl at work I used to talk to come talk to me again? Sorry, this post was deleted by the person who originally posted it.
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 16:03 |
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trickybiscuits posted:A commenter linked to this post: How can I make a girl at work I used to talk to come talk to me again? Sorry, this post was deleted by the person who originally posted it. Wasn't even that much there How can I make a girl at work I used to talk to come talk to me again? quote:This is a girl that I had a three months talking stage with and it never went anywhere because all we did was argue. She was the one that stopped talking to me, how can I make her talk to me again so that I can stop talking to her first this time?
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 16:11 |
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Meanwhile, on today's edition of "but aside from that, he's great" 26F my boyfriend 33M has some gross habits quote:My boyfriend has some gross habits Oh, they forgot that last part. Ah well, I'm sure he's a gem otherwise!
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 16:12 |
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What the gently caress is wrong with men Between not wiping their asses and wiping their noses on everything…
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 16:14 |
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tinytort posted:Honestly, ESH but that might just be because the OP has managed to write this in a way where despite legit being the wronged party, they're coming off as very unsympathetic. They didn't just shout, they actually legit yelled and were verbally abusive, and threatening to wreck the SD card full of photos if he didn't get paid for a new camera didn't win any points either (and will probably not look great in court). nah
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 16:15 |
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Hughlander posted:Wasn't even that much there Actually found the full post history and it's so much worse... How could a woman who only knows a man's real first name, fake last name, fake workplace and fake age make the man pay child support? quote:I been talking to this woman who wants another baby alot, but I told her a fake last name, fake age, fake place of worrk. All she knows is my phone number and my first name. What do I 21M do with this woman 32F that I've lied too a lot, that wants a baby with me quote:I met this woman about a month ago, I lied and told her I was thirty years old when I'm really only twenty one. I told her I worked in a town I don't work in, at a place I don't work at. I told her a fake last name but my real first name. She has my tag number probably and pictures of me definitely. I want to have a baby but I don't want to pay child support, but I also don't want to live with her. I also don't want to tell her the truth because if she doesn't forgive all my lies she will make me pay child support. At least from the story it's not slashed tire girl but I think I need a shower for reading his thoughts. (Also notice that it's the woman who wants to have a kid, but the girl who got her tires slashed and that he wants to talk to again.)
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 16:16 |
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Captain Hygiene posted:Meanwhile, on today's edition of "but aside from that, he's great" It's so loving annoying when people who do stuff like this are like, "But I can't help it! My nose is stuffy/I have allergies/whatever!" When I was a kid I used to make this gross throat-clearing sound a lot, because I have bad allergies. One time I was playing with a friend and she was like, "Could you not do that? It's gross." And like, maybe not the best way to approach it I guess, but we were both little kids, and I still remember how embarrassed I was, so I sure as hell stopped immediately. Basically, like, public shaming is bad generally I guess, but also we should feel okay just calling people out when something they do is genuinely gross and off-putting. Because, guess what, you probably can stop doing that specific gross thing if sufficiently motivated.
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 16:22 |
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for telling my brother and SIL if I want to take my nephew out for ice cream then I will? Eshettar posted:TA: For taking the blame for burned down barn, causing my parents to pay for it quote:"Yes it is huge wake up call. I will probably hear more about this at juvenile court. I am so scared about this." Oh hey, it's Women Being Stupid About Romance Day
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 16:27 |
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rotinaj posted:What the gently caress is wrong with men One of my gf’s friends was living with her ex and his brother and they were just randomly talking about our habits. The friend goes “oh you know how you just have to clean up the pee on the floor sometimes because guys just pee on the floor” and my gf was like ???? I read these posts and find out the gross poo poo other guys get away with and wonder if I’m just trying too hard sometimes
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 16:36 |
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My brother-in-law would constantly talk with his mouth full while eating causing food to both fall out and spray across the table. He only got the hint once we started refusing to feed him when we'd have the family over for dinner.
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 16:39 |
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Big Bowie Bonanza posted:One of my gf’s friends was living with her ex and his brother and they were just randomly talking about our habits. The friend goes “oh you know how you just have to clean up the pee on the floor sometimes because guys just pee on the floor” and my gf was like ???? For real I have never gone into a public bathroom and just decided to piss everywhere on the toilet, then shat next to the toilet And yet that is something I regularly see from dudes. The gently caress?
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 16:39 |
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Big Bowie Bonanza posted:“oh you know how you just have to clean up the pee on the floor sometimes because guys just pee on the floor” that's why you put one of those little mats in front of the toilet, which are sold as decorative but which everyone knows are actually the Piss Catcher
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 16:40 |
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You're supposed to sing that little "If you sprinkle when you tinkle..." song.
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 16:42 |
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rotinaj posted:For real I never understood it either then one day I got off of a long flight in a small plane with a non-functioning bathroom that took off from an airline terminal that also lacked a functioning bathroom. I had missed a previous flight due to a dispute with my landlord as I moved out of my apartment that had dragged on for hours. I hadn't slept in nearly 50 hours, and I'd been holding in a piss for nearly 16 hours. I was also a bit drunk. When I got to the urinal after landing, I was extremely out of it. I missed. Completely. For the duration. faced with the prospect of mopping up a gallon of piss with paper towels while everyone else stared on, my moral fiber failed. I fled and never looked back. Now I get it.
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 16:47 |
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cock hero flux posted:that's why you put one of those little electrified mats in front of the toilet, which are sold as decorative but which everyone knows are actually the Piss Catcher
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 16:51 |
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rotinaj posted:What the gently caress is wrong with men The men absolutely cannot stand this, because not only have they been forbidden from Providing, it really gets under their skins to see people who patriarchy insists are weak and dumb and basically subhuman being better at it than they are. They don't know why they're so mad, most of them, so they resentfully smear boogers on the walls and throw away their hardworking female partners' beloved possessions and piss away weeks and months of their lives killing things made of pixels.
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 16:55 |
Smoking weed with matches what the gently caress both TA
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 16:59 |
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spite house posted:They are angry and resentful because per the dominant cultural narrative their worth is defined solely by their ability to Achieve, and nobody can really do that anymore because capitalism is a Ponzi scheme, and they lack the diverse personal-empowerment vectors that second-wave feminism provided to women (for better or worse since many of those play directly into the aforementioned Ponzi scheme) and, also, many women have figured out that being Provided For ain't all it's cracked up to be and would much rather shift for themselves. This is some serious overthinking terminally online poo poo. Some people were just never instilled with the patterns of hygiene or were rebellious to it as children, plain and simple.
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 17:00 |
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I’m a guy and I just sit down to piss at home/other peoples homes. It’s like not a big deal.
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 17:09 |
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Captain Hygiene posted:Meanwhile, on today's edition of "but aside from that, he's great" i find one booger on the wall and i'm killing you in your goddamn sleep. who the gently caress puts up with this poo poo
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 17:12 |
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Foo Diddley posted:i find one booger on the wall and i'm killing you in your goddamn sleep. who the gently caress puts up with this poo poo when i find my wife's boogers on the wall i always smile at how thoughtful she was to leave me a nice little snack
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 17:16 |
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I've never understood the booger eating thing, it's horribly disgusting. I get sometimes you gotta get in there and clear things out but find a drat tissue or napkin or something. I was watching a battletech video on youtube and comments pointed out one guy kept going back to the snack mine. Made me want to puke
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 17:19 |
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rotinaj posted:For real Oh no, this is definitely equal gender territory. I wish it wasn't so, but it is.
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# ? Jun 28, 2023 17:24 |
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Hughlander posted:Wasn't even that much there what the gently caress is a "three month talking stage"
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Boris Galerkin posted:I’m a guy and I just sit down to piss. It’s like not a big deal. I think it's better for one of the dick tubes in there anyway. gently caress stand-pissers, they are always pissing on everything and always lying about it.
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