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Invisible Clergy posted:One of the all time thread villains. Post is here for newcomers but as you said is pretty rough. Yeah, that post is pretty disturbing to read because he hits so many abuse checkboxes. Just acts like he doesn't even know why he did what he did, like it wasn't even him screaming at her and smashing her stuff. I'm sure it's been brought up before but I read Why Does He Do That? after my recent breakup (thanks thread!) and one of the points he makes in that book is, when the guy gets mad, does he only break your stuff, never his? Then maybe he's not as "out of control" as he says he is.
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 15:39 |
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I have a knack for event planning, so it always shocks me at how utterly bad other people can be at it When you throw a party for a small child, you take RSVPs. Everyone does it, literally every party I've thrown for my sons and every party they've been invited to does it. So these 7 year old's family members just... didn't take RSVPs? They also didn't text other families to see if they were coming? That, I just... that's like scuba diving without a tank and expecting to breathe underwater. I'm really struggling to come up with a metaphor here. I'm shook. They had the foresight to decorate, even. How do you just assume people will show up and not send a text or two?
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 15:39 |
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If you can have a knack for something, you can have whatever the opposite of a knack is
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 15:42 |
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Content for my lovely page snipe: AITA for laughing when my boyfriend gave me a self help book quote:TLDR: Boyfriend gifted me a self help book out of the blue and I found it funny. Tragically the comments don't seem to mention what the book was, so now I'm trying to think of the worst self-help book that you could give a significant other.
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 15:46 |
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The funniest would be a dude giving his long term girlfriend a copy of The Rules It's probably The Secret or some other "manifest positivity" bullshit which is still actively insulting to give to someone with depression like she describes
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 15:51 |
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Drunk Nerds posted:I have a knack for event planning, so it always shocks me at how utterly bad other people can be at it The reaction makes me wonder if they deliberately "forgot" to invite, or disinvited, the kid's friends.
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 15:57 |
Drunk Nerds posted:I have a knack for event planning, so it always shocks me at how utterly bad other people can be at it 100% although I think it also might be a cultural thing too. My daughter had a Mexican classmate (not guessing or anything, they actually recently moved back to Mexico) who showed up to class with hand written notes inviting people to their house for a party. No mention of RSVPs or even a number to call. It greatly agitated the folks in my kids circle who plan this kinda thing. We took our kid anyways cause I was worried no one would show up, they invited the entire class though and it was alright. Not knowing that kinda cultural norm I’m assuming is a middle class white people thing could be a stumbling block
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 16:03 |
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I can remember destroying things in anger only one time in my adult life, and it was poo poo I was already planning on replacing (very old clothes baskets that were already in pretty rough shape). It did feel pretty good, in retrospect. Maybe I need to break more poo poo.
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 16:05 |
quote:Lawyers keep saying they need to write the agreement themselves So this post isn't THAT interesting on it's own. Bog standard bullshit where some guy is trying to get his wife to sign a child support agreement and is upset that lawyers wont sign it without drafting an actual legal document instead of one he wrote himself. Most likely it's some kind of non-standard unenforceable nonsense he got chatGPT to poo poo out. He is of course angrily responding to every poster telling him the myriad reasons that no lawyer will just sign his self written document. However, this guy's post history has some amazing details about the kind of person he is. quote:Being charged for something I didn't do quote:Is it a sign of guilt if I do this? A few other highlights, just as titles: Where are the negative reports or articles regarding covid vaccines? Why is there no bad news about covid or the vaccine online? What opener do you use when meeting a stranger on an online dating site? Note this is well before he starts mentioning divorce and he says he's looking for "Something casual" Also lots of posts claim his ex agreed to everything and it's amicable, but this sure doesn't sound like it: quote:OK so the issue I'm having is my ex has gone and tried to put a 2 year ADVO on me with false allegations. Obviously I'm fighting it but I was tempted to agree to the advo but not the admissions which would mean I don't have to talk or see her for 2 years. Beyond that just standard internet dipshit stuff where he's really into crypto, specifically the knockoff of doge coin, shiba inu coin lol I just fell completely down this rabbit hole. Absolute shocker this guy is getting divorced.
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 16:06 |
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Invisible Clergy posted:One of the all time thread villains. Post is here for newcomers but as you said is pretty rough. quote:I guess it isn't as black and white as I thought. Uhhh I think smashing someone's wedding ring is exactly as black and white as you might think. Competing with a ghost is hard but if it's not in a healthy place then that's the cue to move on from the relationship, not attempt to bully their former life out of it.
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 16:07 |
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for telling my family that my kids and I will not be visiting if we can't bring my husband's sister? quote:Now they're saying I'm a bad mom to my bio kids for taking away their grandparents "taking away" assholes like this is exactly what good parents are supposed to do
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 16:10 |
RSVP sounds like something a fancy rich guy who pays someone to park their car would do, so I simply never do it.
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 16:12 |
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I missed this last night but the I wouldn’t take my kids to a 5.5 hour birthday party, either.
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 16:33 |
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wilderthanmild posted:So this post isn't THAT interesting on it's own. Bog standard bullshit where some guy is trying to get his wife to sign a child support agreement and is upset that lawyers wont sign it without drafting an actual legal document instead of one he wrote himself. Most likely it's some kind of non-standard unenforceable nonsense he got chatGPT to poo poo out. He is of course angrily responding to every poster telling him the myriad reasons that no lawyer will just sign his self written document. lol this guy is going to represent himself in court and get absolutely reamed that is, if he doesn't go to jail first: OP posted:I cant believe the officer can't just let me pay and move on. Is that normal? quote:Yes that’s normal, as this is a crime, not just a traffic violation.
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 16:39 |
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wilderthanmild posted:So this post isn't THAT interesting on it's own. Bog standard bullshit where some guy is trying to get his wife to sign a child support agreement and is upset that lawyers wont sign it without drafting an actual legal document instead of one he wrote himself. Most likely it's some kind of non-standard unenforceable nonsense he got chatGPT to poo poo out. He is of course angrily responding to every poster telling him the myriad reasons that no lawyer will just sign his self written document. This guy seems like a real piece of poo poo
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 16:43 |
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Foo Diddley posted:lol this guy is going to represent himself in court and get absolutely reamed I think my favorite part is that in trying to pay he's almost certainly admitted fault to the police at some point, so not even hiring a lawyer could help him now.
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 16:46 |
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tactlessbastard posted:I missed this last night but the I wouldn’t take my kids to a 5.5 hour birthday party, either. I did this a couple weekends ago, except it was 3 separate parties for 5/6-year olds, back to back to back. It was a long day.
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 16:47 |
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Looking through the australian hit and run guy's comments and guess what else came up: Is it wrong to hold onto gifts given by previous partners when you're in a relationship with someone new and if so why? quote:What about an engagement ring?
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 16:51 |
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Pages ago but r/relationships: My code may be flawed, but it's my code.
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 17:42 |
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Kitfox88 posted:Pages ago but r/relationships: My code may be flawed, but it's my code. The code is the Konami code
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MK-Ultramarathon posted:I don't know if that's exactly what's going on here, it could be the girlfriend is more just covering for her bf not wanting to hang out with this person anymore either, since OP is like "oh yeah whoopsie doodle I accidentally told him I loved him then accidentally went right off and hooked up with somebody else". OP is absolutely the villain of this one and the new gf is in no way controlling. New gf is probably just telling bf "You don't have to do everything just because these assholes do it". OP admits to stringing this guy along who she knew had a thing for her and is just mad that the new gf is taking time away from her admirer.
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 17:52 |
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AITA for not putting my partners name on the house?quote:So for context we're both 27M and have been together for around 8 years. I work a job that pays 60K a year and he is unemployed and collects 'benefits' off of his parents. He's been unemployed since covid when he was fired and never got round to finding a job again.
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 18:04 |
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Kitfox88 posted:Pages ago but r/relationships: My code may be flawed, but it's my code. Agreed
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 18:08 |
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Pomme de Terror posted:AITA for not putting my partners name on the house? This is easy, if you want to stay with the guy put him on the mortgage, if you don't tell him to pound sand.
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greazeball posted:She dumped you for the afterlife, babe! Just get over it already!
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 18:17 |
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Fil5000 posted:This is easy,
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 18:24 |
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I don't think you can have your name on the deed (in the UK) if you aren't responsible for the mortgage.
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Fil5000 posted:This is easy,
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keep punching joe posted:I don't think you can have your name on the deed (in the UK) if you aren't responsible for the mortgage. In the US you can. I'm on the mortgage solo because of wife's lack of credit while we're both on the deed.
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 18:30 |
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SOME of us like to use subtext and implication
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 18:31 |
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Kitfox88 posted:Pages ago but r/relationships: My code may be flawed, but it's my code. Can you link me to the story when you get a chance? I'm not finding it in a search.
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tactlessbastard posted:I missed this last night but the I wouldn’t take my kids to a 5.5 hour birthday party, either. Why? That's 5.5 hours of free babysitting. It's not like you have to stay there yourself.
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 18:39 |
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run on sentience posted:Why? That's 5.5 hours of free babysitting. It's not like you have to stay there yourself. This heavily depends on the ages of the kids and local culture. Near me, 7 is about the age where most parents are okay with just dropping them off but some might stay, and younger you usually have most or all of them sticking around.
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 18:40 |
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Gimme half your house for free or you're financially abusive!
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 18:41 |
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Pope Corky the IX posted:Can you link me to the story when you get a chance? I'm not finding it in a search. It's not a link, but it was the guy who argued with his girlfriend about killing a spider because of HONOR.
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 18:45 |
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AITA for confronting my gf for lying?quote:Some background is required before I start the post. So my (M21) gf (F22) grew up in multiple foster homes. She is also white. When she was 15, she got pregnant by her boyfriend (M16 at the time) and her (at the time) foster father kicked her out of the home. She moved in with her boyfriend's parents. She ended up miscarrying and her boyfriend passed away when she was 17, but since she did not have a real family to go back to, she stayed with her ex's parents even after he passed. you left the "ex" off of "gf" there, OP
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# ? Jul 6, 2023 18:48 |
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Foo Diddley posted:AITA for confronting my gf for lying? oh my gooood
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Pomme de Terror posted:AITA for not putting my partners name on the house? When my longtime boyfriend decided to not work and lived off his parents for three years, I knew I needed to lock this poo poo down! Presumably OP has been paying all the 'crazy' rent as well during this period. ^^ETA 'Come on babe, if we just talk like adults I'm sure together we can resolve the fact that your family is the wrong colour!' Peg Sliderskew fucked around with this message at 18:55 on Jul 6, 2023 |
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Akratic Method posted:It's not a link, but it was the guy who argued with his girlfriend about killing a spider because of HONOR. Thank you, I appreciate it.
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Foo Diddley posted:AITA for confronting my gf for lying? I'm
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