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Foo Diddley posted:i like how OP says the kid "had to go to the doctor's" and later says "when i visited him", just trying to minimize that the kid was loving hospitalized over this Hospitalized for something serious enough that multiple people sent flowers & cards, even
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FoolyCharged posted:I mean, if you want to be technical the cousin could have filed to be be an emancipated minor and been a legal adult for longer.
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# ? Jul 13, 2023 21:54 |
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Nurglings posted:Where do you draw the line between supporting a partners dreams and not indulging in their fantasies? This is what I kept asking my brother-in-law who married my oldest sister. She wanted to be an opera singer all her life. She spent 10 years at university perusing this and getting a teaching degree as backup. Every summer she used all her money from student loans, scholarships and begging friends and family to go to germany and look for a permanent opera singing gig. She was a fine singer, but not good enough to overlook the language barrier and the fact that the hiring process would be a huge headache when their are 15 local and better singers a block away. After school she immediately lucked in to a full time teaching position in her preferred city. She never subbed once. She married a few years later. She did this just long enough to be forever in the union and immediatly claimed fibro mialgia and use the disability paymebts to go back to germany. She would go there, use up all her money and then come back tonsave for the next trip. She would do this a couple times a year. She would not listen to everyone telling her to give up or that the teaching job was a miracle she gave up or that she could just audition online instead of going back constantly. She "knew how the industy worked and we just don't get it". Eventually, her husband got testicular cancer. He had to take sick leave from work and he lost a testicle. This would not interfere with her big break and she still went back to Germany 2 days before his scheduled surgery. When she came back, so did the cancer and now he also had it in his limpnoids. There was a real chance of him losing his other testicle. Her biggest concern now? She still wanted kids (she was 41 at the time) so she froze her husband's sperm and then a few months later while he was still bed ridden, went back to germany. Against all that is good in the universe, after the last failed germany trip they paid for invitro ( which she used gofundme to fund) and even though he had a low sperm count and the doctor said they only had one shot at this, she somehow got pregnant. So now she's 43 with a 6 month old, a partially bed-ridden husband and a plane ticket to germany in 2 months which she bought the second our grandmother died and left her a small inheritance. No, she is not taking the kid or husband who, by the way, has never been on one of these trips because he would "just get in the way".
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See if you can count the red flags! AITA for being upset about my husband taking a female co worker to get food after he said he’ll be a the gym quote:So basically what the title says my (25f) caught my husband (26m) at a Chinese place with his co-worker after he told me he was going to the gym. My husband has this tendency of lying about little and big things. I really did not notice until we were married because I was not catching him in lies. Anyways my husband has been sponsoring a new co-worker at his job and I knew of this. But he started acting differently, keeping his phone from me, checking in less often and he decided to go back to the gym. The gym was obviously fine. But he always tells me he does not feel like working out more than 30-45 minutes. On Monday he went and was gone for almost 2 hours and we live 3 minutes from the gym. I asked what took long he said he was dropping a friend off that he meet at the gym. Fine. Next day Tuesday, he goes to the gym again and leaves and says I’ll be home much earlier today. I was like okay bye. After he was gone for 1.5 hours I decided to take a walk to boost my energy. Later on the walk I checked his location which he chooses to leave on ( I have never asked for this and often has told him to turn it off because I think it drains battery). Location was not at the gym, I noticed I am close to the location he is at so I walk there thinking I’ll meet him. Instead he is at the Chinese place with his co worker. He thinks I should not be upset because “I didn’t give him a chance to tell me.” But normally he would invite me to go or tell me before hand.. he said they meet at the gym by accident and she wanted to get food so he took her. I don’t know of think he is cheating I just don’t think it okay. We both only have the same sex friends since we been married. It is not that I am opposed to having opposite sex friends but I think there should be open communication about it. Also the girl was laughing about it and I felt that to be disrespectful as no one was making a joke. I had asked my husband about the gym. Advice is always appreciated as well, thanks.
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AITA for getting my wife a dog?quote:For some context, my wife (26) has always been a cat person. She has always helped at animal shelters, fostered cats, etc.. She also has a plethora of cat related items. I (26M), on the other hand, don’t consider myself to be a cat or dog person. I like them both.
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That's a total dick move but I'm finding it hard to take the side of someone who's "very active in anti-dog subreddits" so ESH I guess
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yes it’s bad to buy someone a pet they don’t want but also wife seems insane that she’s participating in anti dog subreddits
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happy birthday!! i blatantly disregarded your express wishes and pretended it was a gift so that i can call you ungrateful when you get pissed off! love you!
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Upgrade posted:yes it’s bad to buy someone a pet they don’t want but also wife seems insane that she’s participating in anti dog subreddits I'd give a lot of weirdo personality issues a pass when the other person thinks giving a living animal as a surprise gift is a good idea.
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Dogs killed 63 Americans in 2022. Cats? Too smart to get caught.
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FMguru posted:I think she saw her cousin's life get completely derailed at age 17 with a new baby and suddenly disappeared boyfriend/babydaddy and decided that her life wasn't going to go down like that - so she's focusing on school and working and planning for the future. Her family is interpreting this as her thinking she's better than them so they take every chance they can to run her down. I'm sure mine wasn't the only high school that had a daycare on site for the teen parents, but honestly I am totally down for that. I think. If more kids got experience with just how freaking insane babies and toddlers are, that is literally one of the best forms of birth control ever. Also, barring a very few special circumstances, never ever give someone a live animal as a gift. Well now when I say special circumstance I mean like in my case, years ago I bought my mom a baby Kenyan sand boa. Now this would be our 6th sand boa at the time, but this one was specifically for her, so she got to name him. However, since I already took care of the other boas, it was no big deal to take care of one more, which was the idea when I bought the guy in the first place.
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FMguru posted:See if you can count the red flags! quote:Also the girl was laughing about it and I felt that to be disrespectful as no one was making a joke. lmao imagine being so oblivious about your partner's cheating that the side piece is laughing in your face about it
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Clocks posted:they said that she’s “crazy” for not liking dogs.
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Pookah posted:You've just reminded me how, on my very first day of University, less than an hour into the day, a really cheery group of girls basically scooped me up and said that we should all be first day friends to make it a bit less scary. Three years later, and I was still friends with some of them, it was an incredibly blessed start That is indeed a lovely story. Yay for lasting friendship. But my counter to it is the old saying "You will spend all of your second year at Uni trying to ditch the losers you made friends with in first year." Which was more how my Uni experience went. Although, to be fair I am still very good friends with one of the people I met during my first month at Uni, so I guess I am a hypocrite.
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Clocks posted:AITA for getting my wife a dog? i mean you dont go hardmode on someone for their first dog. should of gone for a different toy breed that isnt considered satan in dog form. ive actually only met one poo poo head chiuahuah the rest were chill as gently caress once you let them smell your hand but they were all ugly as sin with hosed up teeth and it would be 120 degrees out and they would shake non stop. i still think they are a cool breed but i think they have entered pug territory where they are over bred to look ugly and shake with big eyes. Cowslips Warren posted:I'm sure mine wasn't the only high school that had a daycare on site for the teen parents, but honestly I am totally down for that. I think. If more kids got experience with just how freaking insane babies and toddlers are, that is literally one of the best forms of birth control ever. in mine the daycare was run by the teen moms. all of their elective periods were spent in the day care taking care of all the infant / toddlers while the other teen moms did core subjects. if they were a senior this is 3 periods subjects 2 periods day care and 1 period taking care of your kid they also hid them away in one of the trailer class rooms out by 4h. snergle fucked around with this message at 23:21 on Jul 13, 2023 |
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who in their right mind tries and convince someone who doesn't like dogs to like them using a chihuahua puppy of all things e: f; b
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AITA For making fun of my sister after her fiance broke up with her (post has been edited for humor purposes) quote:Last fall, my sister got engaged to her BF (25M) of 3 years. To celebrate their engagement, they got matching tattoos of each other's names. On their necks. Just the headline: AITA for telling my niece about her dad’s nipple piercing
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MettleRamiel posted:This is what I kept asking my brother-in-law who married my oldest sister. Holy poo poo! My sister has been addicted to meth in the past and I'd take that over what this poo poo is!
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MettleRamiel posted:This is what I kept asking my brother-in-law who married my oldest sister. aaaaaaaaaaaAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
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Hellblazer187 posted:I bet you could start an acting career in your 40s if your ambition is to get like "mom in a commercial" type roles. Blowing up a family for that is kinda nuts, though. Yes, if you have an agent or connections in the business. Commercial shoots don’t require you to move to Atlanta for six months though. Anyways hoping she’s enjoying the massive writers and actors strike that has shut down all production for basically the next year, the perfect time to start a career as a big acting star. The year or three after that will be all the work in the pipeline that didn’t get made due to the strike and is now back on. If she is SUPER attractive (not “I kind of look like Margot Robbie” but “I am often mistaken for Margot Robbie despite being a full decade older”) and INCREDIBLY talented and has a deep pool of money to draw from where she can devote all her time to auditions/acting class/meeting the right people she can definitely lose the audition to be Barbie’s grandmother in Barbie 2: Hardly Pinkin’ to Heather Graham.
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MettleRamiel posted:This is what I kept asking my brother-in-law who married my oldest sister. Has anyone from the union or disability office ever checked up on her? This seems like one of those clear-cut cases of fraud. Or does she claim that she goes to Germany to "visit a specialty clinic" or some bullshit like that?
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BrigadierSensible posted:"You will spend all of your second year at Uni trying to ditch the losers you made friends with in first year." Which was more how my Uni experience went. Although, to be fair I am still very good friends with one of the people I met during my first month at Uni, so I guess I am a hypocrite.
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Arsenic Lupin posted:Freshman week I walked into the computer center (this was in the mainframe days) and essentially never left. Still in touch with a bunch of my fellow geeks, including my husband, 30+ years later. Blest be the bytes that bind. Did you work writing Fortran for all those companies that didn't want to replace their old mainframes for newer hardware?
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FMguru posted:See if you can count the red flags! People like this are why when you buy a bag of boiling water it's covered with warning labels not to stick your hands in there.
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FMguru posted:See if you can count the red flags! Another starter marriage bites the dust. At least she found out that he's a compulsive liar and probably a cheater before any kids came along. The_Franz fucked around with this message at 00:23 on Jul 14, 2023 |
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Midnight Voyager posted:aaaaaaaaaaaAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA Thank you for auditioning, we'll be in touch. And enjoy your stay in Germany.
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Khanstant posted:People like this are why when you buy a bag of boiling water it's covered with warning labels not to stick your hands in there. Are bags of boiling water available for purchase a Canadian thing?
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Husband got a “married sex” education and I don’t know what I think about itquote:My husband (30m) and I (27f) were virgins when we got married (five years ago). We were both raised in a religious tradition that valued waiting until marriage, and we did.
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Pope Corky the IX posted:Are bags of boiling water available for purchase a Canadian thing? Yeah americans sell it in jugs.
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The Lone Badger posted:Yeah americans sell it in jugs. In Europe it's ultraboiling and sold in tetrapaks. Tobermory posted:Husband got a “married sex” education and I don’t know what I think about it Between the title and the opening, I definitely thought this was going in another, very different, direction.
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The Lone Badger posted:Yeah americans sell it in jugs. Uh you don't boil breast implants what is wrong with you
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Give me your life! AIW for not giving my sister my baby? quote:I am aware how insane this title is but hear me out. It’s me F28, my husband Lucas (39) and my younger half sister (dads side) Lia (24).
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I really dig the idea of "flaunting" your pregnancy. Like, OP was really rubbing it in everyone's faces by not going into reclusive seclusion for nine months. Boy, what a selfish show-off. Also, the husband being excited to be a girl dad is pretty .
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Batterypowered7 posted:Did you work writing Fortran for all those companies that didn't want to replace their old mainframes for newer hardware?
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Evil Willow posted:Give me your life! Restraining order! Go no contact with all three of them. Move to Sweden.
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AITA for doing what I said I would do?quote:I know people won’t agree with me and say I should’ve just left. I guess I’m revengeful and probably childish but I did warn him. Long story short, my boyfriend is a cheater and the first time he cheated I warned him that if he cheats again, I will find out and I won’t say a word to him and assume the relationship is open since he desperately wanted us to work it out. Well he did it again. More than once. He thought I wouldn’t find out and thought he didn’t leave any evidence. He was sloppy. He kept it up for years and for years I said not a word. Some of his friends from his job told me he was bragging about the things he’s done to me and showed me the texts of him telling them everything and how he was able to have his cake and eat it so I decided it was time. We were laying in bed and I asked if he’s proud of his infidelity and he was confused and was saying it was the biggest mistake of his life and regrets it everyday. Lies. All I could do was smile when he said that. spacing mine. AITA for making my son give back a birthday gift quote:Short and simple. My brother gave my son an Indiana Jones LEGO set. It has a literal idol of an Egyptian god.
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Evil Willow posted:Give me your life! Lia is certifiably insane and needs an appointment with the guys in white coats with the net. Op should just move to Sweden anyways. Why would you raise kids in a country where schools have active shooter drills if you have a better option?
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wilderthanmild posted:So this post isn't THAT interesting on it's own. Bog standard bullshit where some guy is trying to get his wife to sign a child support agreement and is upset that lawyers wont sign it without drafting an actual legal document instead of one he wrote himself. Most likely it's some kind of non-standard unenforceable nonsense he got chatGPT to poo poo out. He is of course angrily responding to every poster telling him the myriad reasons that no lawyer will just sign his self written document. So I love to follow up on these a week later and oh man, this guy is digging himself deeper again after deleting all his old posts. He's doubling down on never having a lawyer even in his hit an run criminal case. worlds dumbest Australian posted:Can I apply for the witness and victim statement before going to court and pleading not guilty? some redditor posted:Yes, you are entitled to the evidence before you are required to make a plea. Seek legal advice. worlds dumbest Australian posted:What if I'm representing myself? some redditor posted:A man who represents himself has a fool for a client Bonus: worlds dumbest Australian posted:Nsw, alleged to have damaged a vehicle then fled the scene.
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FMguru posted:I really dig the idea of "flaunting" your pregnancy. Like, OP was really rubbing it in everyone's faces by not going into reclusive seclusion for nine months. Boy, what a selfish show-off. I've been a girl dad for 10 years now and I love it and now that we're about to have an unplanned son, allow me to share with the thread some things people feel free to say that make me feel stabby: Hyuk Hyuk kept trying until you got a son! Finally, you got your son! Now you'll have someone to talk to! Finally one you can connect to!
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tactlessbastard posted:I've been a girl dad for 10 years now and I love it and now that we're about to have an unplanned son, allow me to share with the thread some things people feel free to say that make me feel stabby: Congrats to you, and to your daughter who will soon have a li'l brother to fuss over and look out for.
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