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Improbable Lobster posted:You must realize that is both extremely abnormal, and also sad, right While this could be an auto-response to a lot of Reddit posts, there are good reasons not to type it out and post it.
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Food is one of those things where the 'logical' solutions seem easy but when you have actual needs and moods, let alone actually having problems, suddenly all those solutions just mean more problems. It feels good to eat food.
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# ? Aug 9, 2023 04:51 |
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ApplesandOranges posted:AITA For saying a C cup is not that big?
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# ? Aug 9, 2023 04:57 |
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Midnight Voyager posted:I've worked out something that works and I'm fine with it. I get 7 days worth of frozen meals shipped from BistroMD, I highly recommend this if you want to quit cooking.
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# ? Aug 9, 2023 04:59 |
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actually, let's try to be helpful:Elviscat posted:I'm not getting into it here, but eating meals that are nothing but simple carbs is really, really bad for you, especially if you have one of several medical conditions, and I am concerned about my partner's health, dig? Hey man, I noticed that your fiance keeps picking something even faster to make than your low estimated prep time, so maybe that's why? They might be seeing lower effort, more immediate options and find themselves attracted to that in the heat of the really tired moment. Have you considered keeping something less bad-for-them around that's nearer to a "pick up and eat" level of simplicity? "Don't buy rice" isn't really all that feasible as a solution, I know, but maybe you can find something they can turn to that's just as brainless easy. When I am having a particularly down day and just not able to think about obtaining food, any bump in the road can feel like a roadblock, and I WILL go for an easier option if one is there. I know "aim lazier" isn't usually the best advice, but if the alternative is eating very badly in a way that harms their health? I think it's probably fine.
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# ? Aug 9, 2023 05:02 |
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DACK FAYDEN posted:you know that joke about how you can spot a poly person because they'll tell you? does anyone involved being poly contribute anything to this post? Maybe using it as an excuse for why OP didn't scold her friend for talking about the girlfriend's body.
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# ? Aug 9, 2023 05:02 |
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C cups were considered big back in the 2000s when women were called fat if they wore a size 6.
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# ? Aug 9, 2023 05:04 |
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Poly people need more carbs in their diets.
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AITA for snitching? quote:I (college age, ftm) live in a dorm at a liberal arts college, meaning people smoke a lot of weed: I hate HATE the smell of weed and drugs and alcohol in general make me very uneasy, but I try and be chill about the stuff since I don’t want to be labeled prude or a snitch for telling people to stop. there's an AITA blog on tumblr and quote:every post is either like "I had one negative thought about my cousin's friend's sister's boyfriend but didn't express it. Am I secretly a bad person?" or "I intentionally accused my trans friend of faking it in front of our whole friend group because the vibe was off. I think I did nothing wrong, right?" with literally no in between.
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ChickenOfTomorrow posted:AITA for snitching?
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# ? Aug 9, 2023 06:59 |
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AITA for asking my family to take their shoes of inside of my house?quote:My husband (26M) and I (22F) just bought a home a few weeks ago and we have been decorating and settling in. One of the things we decided on was putting a few rugs down as the whole home is hard wood floors. These rugs are a light gray/white color. My husband and I are very much type A people and like to keep a clean and clutter free home so we figured the color of rugs wouldn’t be an issue since we and all of our friends don’t wear shoes indoors at each others houses.
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# ? Aug 9, 2023 07:05 |
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Mx. posted:AITA for asking my family to take their shoes of inside of my house? quote:The thing though is that we are not allowed to bring shoes into her house either! what an annoying rear end in a top hat. I wouldn't want to invite her to anything either.
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# ? Aug 9, 2023 07:12 |
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kru posted:This guy has to be gay, he's giving a heartfelt speech without notes or anything And he gave the groom, another man, a hug! Totes gay, amirite. What weird things for someone to think, let alone say out loud, multiple times to multiple strangers.
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# ? Aug 9, 2023 07:30 |
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If the best man wiped his arse then that would be the final nail in his beautifully appointed coffin.
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# ? Aug 9, 2023 07:40 |
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Midnight Voyager posted:actually, let's try to be helpful: Against AITA tradition we have talked about it, though it's hard to bring up in a way that's supportive, and not policing what she's eating, or nagging, since that wouldn't be helpful even if it wasn't a dick thing to do. We do really well when we sit down on the weekend and come up with a plan for the week, but it's really easy to get overwhelmed, since we're both really busy, and we only see each other for about 20 minutes every morning during the week. We're still working on it, but we've found ways to make midweek meals easier. I've tried a couple ready made meal services, but she generally doesn't like them and just ignores the fact that they're there. The outside perspective is really useful, it's pretty easy for me to go into robot mode and slam some stuff in the toaster oven to heat while I'm doing other weeknight chores and whatnot, and I can forget other people's brains don't work the same. I do about 90% of the cooking in the relationship, since I enjoy it more, and I've learned a lot of tricks for being faster and more efficient at it over the years. In another year I'll probably be on a normal shift, and I can just make meals during the week, since she'll happily eat almost anything I make. I mostly brought that up to make a point that some people will totally live off nothing but rice, if given their druthers, though.
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Reflections85 posted:Can I ask where? You know the rules, and so do I. dervival posted:isn't that the river in India Ithaca, actually.
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Mx. posted:AITA for asking my family to take their shoes of inside of my house? This is clearly a "Donnie Brasco" situation and the aunt was wearing a tape recorder on her ankle. Also, I initially typed "Donnie Darko", coz I am an idiot and got confused between the two films, and now realize that either Johnny Depp or Al Pacino dressed as a bunny would have made the film much much better.
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Reflections85 posted:Can I ask where? Sorry, missed this yesterday. I was speaking about Latvia, as that's where I'm from. There are other countries that have similar laws for marital and personal property in place, for example, Italy. https://e-justice.europa.eu/36686/EN/matrimonial_property_regimes edit: More userfriendly source with more countries: https://www.coupleseurope.eu/ a podcast for cats fucked around with this message at 09:06 on Aug 9, 2023 |
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a podcast for cats posted:Sorry, missed this yesterday. I was speaking about Latvia, as that's where I'm from. You'll never make it in the AITA big leagues
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AITA for not wanting to take out a car on my name for my boyfriend?quote:I F(25) have been with my boyfriend (27) for 3 years. He sold his car 2 months ago and is currently saving for a new one - or so I thought. We live in the Caribbean.
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# ? Aug 9, 2023 10:11 |
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"You think you're better than me because of your job" It sounds like he's employable, maybe he world get one of that there "jobs" too.
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# ? Aug 9, 2023 10:33 |
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Elviscat posted:It sounds like he's employable, Does it, though?
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# ? Aug 9, 2023 10:42 |
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Between his abusive behaviour and unbridled sense of entitlement he's perfect for a management role
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# ? Aug 9, 2023 10:45 |
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Babe once my car wash/auto detailing business takes off we will both be filthy rich. Why do you have to be so negative?
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# ? Aug 9, 2023 11:28 |
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my girlfriend thinks she's better than me just because she's so much better than me
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# ? Aug 9, 2023 11:53 |
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Elviscat posted:"You think you're better than me because of your job" It's mentioned he has one, he's going to leave it to set up his dream car wash auto detailing business. See, he's making sacrifices why can't she?
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Big Bowie Bonanza posted:Fellas is it gay to be good at public speaking "Friends, Romans, Countryme-" "GAY!"
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Runcible Cat posted:It's mentioned he has one, he's going to leave it to set up his dream car wash auto detailing business. See, he's making sacrifices why can't she? quote:You have no common sense and that’s why people will USE you.
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AITA for responding with “I don’t loving know”quote:My partner (55M) and I (35F) went out to dinner this evening following another unexpected obstacle/ false alarm. My partner has a habit of asking a series of very insistent questions which is anxiety provoking for me. First, he asked what dish was served to a neighboring table asking again in another way after I responded with “I don’t know.” And I had to repeat my response adding “it looks like fettuccini” and that seemed to satisfy him. Then he began asking about the plans for tomorrow that we had already reviewed. He asked about activity A, the starting time, the duration, the ending time and the start time of the next activity. Meanwhile I had just loaded a taco full of delicious food and I was doing my best to respond to all of his questions while attempting to finish the taco before the contents dripped down my arms. Then he asked how far activity A was from activity B and I said: “I don’t know, I can look it up (again) later but right now I am eating.” He seemed to be offended by that and asked again. At this point I started losing my mind saying “I don’t loving know.” And when he still wouldn’t let me finish my taco in peace, I explained: “I have been giving you subtle, nonverbal hints that right now is not the time to ask me these questions because I am eating and you’re not picking up on any of my hints.” quote:Here’s the rest of the story: I finished my meal in peace, ordered dessert, paid the bill and when I left the restaurant I found him parked outside with his headlights on and the driver seat pulled back so he was lounging. I got into the car, turned off the AC because I was cold and said “I’m cold and I want to go home.” He responded with “Who cares?” And seemed to be on the verge of rehashing/ demanding an apology. So, I got out of the car and started walking home. It was going to be a 30 minute walk uphill. Ten minutes into the walk he caught up with me in the car and demanded repeatedly that I get in the car. I was boiling with rage at this point and responded with “park the car, get out of the car and apologize to me ON YOUR loving KNEES” and when he refused I said “Then gently caress off. I never want to see you again”. He followed me with the car demanding that I get in the car but I stuck to my guns and finally he apologized and responded to “What are you sorry for?” With “I am sorry that I left you.” So I got in the car and he drove us home in silence. AITA for refusing to become friends with my husband's former wife after donating bone marrow to my stepson? quote:I've been married to "Chris" for 10 years. Before me, he was married to "Lacey" for 8 but they were together since high school. They have four kids. Chris and I have two.
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# ? Aug 9, 2023 15:50 |
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I mean, some people would refuse the bone marrow transplant over petty reasons. It's your body and you let someone else avail themselves of it to survive. That's not nothing. I see why the mom is forever thankful and think it's weird that OP assumes her asking for the donation means she was making a dig, but there's too much bad blood now for OP to even interpret normal non-aggessive things as anything but jabs.
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StrangersInTheNight posted:I mean, some people would refuse the bone marrow transplant over petty reasons. Because the implication is that Lacey thought that OP was going to refuse for petty reasons (especially since this was after OP voluntarily got tested and found out she was a match--if she had a good reason why she would not be a donation candidate, presumably she would have said so upfront.)
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I think it was more Mom was making a jab thinking that she wouldn't donate because she was the evil harpy who stole away her man. But she did donate which means she's a good person and Mom is just pretending that she didn't treat her like poo poo for ten years because she obviously wouldn't treat a good person like poo poo.
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My partner (33/M) and I (24/F) went on vacation with his kids and my partner was a nightmare.thewetcucumber posted:TLDR Backstory: My partner is separated from his ex-wife, not divorced yet. They share three kids: two from their marriage and one from his ex-wife that he considers his own. We all co-parent well and the kid’s mom has thanked me for being part of their lives because the kids love coming over to their dad’s now that I am there. My partner gets overwhelmed and super angry when the kids are over. (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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# ? Aug 9, 2023 16:12 |
"I don't need a therapist, I used to be even more abusive!"
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Zoya posted:My partner (33/M) and I (24/F) went on vacation with his kids and my partner was a nightmare. That's not fun drama, that just someone abusing their kids
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the holy poopacy posted:Because the implication is that Lacey thought that OP was going to refuse for petty reasons (especially since this was after OP voluntarily got tested and found out she was a match--if she had a good reason why she would not be a donation candidate, presumably she would have said so upfront.) I know why Lacey thinks its a dig, I just don't agree - her not liking the mom is coming into play there. And it's totally possible the mom has earned the dislike, but now it seems like it's narrowed how they can interact. Any time you're asking someone to make a donation of their actual body, you have to ask instead of assume. it's part of consent. yes even after testing for a match - some people do it hoping they won't be and don't plan far enough to if they are. you can't assume a match means they'll follow through with the donation. Asking is the protocol for donations - it's basically the bare minimum of showing someone you respect their bodily autonomy and right to say no, and OP is taking it as a dig at how the mom was obviously assuming she was a witch who wouldn't donate bone marrow to a child. No! You're supposed to ask instead of assume, when it comes to body parts. if the mom had just assumed that Lacey was going to donate the marrow, we'd be hearing about how entitled she was. There's no way the mom could win. It's just poisoned no matter what. StrangersInTheNight fucked around with this message at 16:29 on Aug 9, 2023 |
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partner is physically assaulting me and the kids, i need someone to tell me if this is abusive behavior or notBug Squash posted:That's not fun drama, that just someone abusing their kids
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Zoya posted:My partner (33/M) and I (24/F) went on vacation with his kids and my partner was a nightmare. My [29m] girlfriend [24f] tried to throw me under the bus when the police searched my house quote:First I'd like to start with some background. My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for a bit over a year. She stays at my house about 75% of the time. We have had no major problems before this point.
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# ? Aug 9, 2023 16:31 |
Yeah dump that snitch, what the gently caress
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DeadMansSuspenders posted:My [29m] girlfriend [24f] tried to throw me under the bus when the police searched my house dude's lucky they didn't plant fentanyl and proceed to OD off of it by being within 5 feet of it
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