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Parent who disappeared for more than 20 years suddenly materializes! I wonder if there's a catch or perhaps an ulterior motive? AITA: For not wanting to pay for my sister’s medical bills? quote:My parents had me at 16. They were both in high school. After I was born, my father dropped out to work full-time and take care of me, so my bio mother could stay in school. Eventually, after finishing high school, she realized that motherhood wasn't for her and left my dad and me. I was 2, so I don't really remember her being around.
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This is my daughter Slot Machine, and her health issues are gonna break my knees if I don't get 20 large right now.
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 07:32 |
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Incoherence posted:My boyfriend(23M) has been distant with me for a couple weeks because I(19F) am not a shy pooper. I think I just learned more about this woman's poop than I ever wanted to.
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 07:38 |
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AITA for temporarily lying to family/friends to trap a flying monkey/enabler?quote:I (36f) have been NC with my narcissistic emotionally abusive parents for a year now. quote:NTA. But just imagine the alternate timeline where your parents found out you were moving back home due to your husband kicking you out because of the lesbian affair you had but were still pregnant with his child. Wooo boy
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 07:41 |
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FMguru posted:Parent who disappeared for more than 20 years suddenly materializes! I wonder if there's a catch or perhaps an ulterior motive? Not calling it fake, but seems weird that OP didn't check with their dad about how he thought of the whole situation, given how solid family support seems to be. Was there any comment on that?
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 07:51 |
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Foo Diddley posted:AITA for temporarily lying to family/friends to trap a flying monkey/enabler? Sister can get hosed; OP thought she could trust the cousin, too, and look how that worked out.
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 08:01 |
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Biplane posted:Talk about sprezzatura, god drat lmao
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 08:01 |
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Total Meatlove posted:The husband making unreasonable demands, causing his wife to miss out on two social engagements in the same day with friends and family, seems red flag parade isolationist behaviour or am I being paranoid because of this thread? Yeah, that was my thought too. It's weird power play stuff any way though.
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 08:03 |
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Foo Diddley posted:hey could the next half dozen kids you send out be closer to each other in age? it makes them easier to stack, thanks Stack ranking foster kids and firing the bottom performers every 6 months
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 08:06 |
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FMguru posted:Parent who disappeared for more than 20 years suddenly materializes! I wonder if there's a catch or perhaps an ulterior motive? kimbo305 posted:Not calling it fake, but seems weird that OP didn't check with their dad about how he thought of the whole situation, given how solid family support seems to be. If you won't call it fake, I will; the writer got mixed up at the big reveal whether they were talking in person or over text.
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 08:09 |
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Midnight Voyager posted:Oh, so you missed when there was a big drama over him treating employees like poo poo and then he put out a musical review of The Wall that was just "TLDR: I don't understand any symbolism or literally anything about music and I have no critical thought processes." … I’d blocked that from my mind. Though at that point I think I’d just stumbled upon someone’s critical review video about NC’s video. I need to reblock that again, it was actively terrible.
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 08:12 |
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A HUNGRY MOUTH posted:If you won't call it fake, I will; the writer got mixed up at the big reveal whether they were talking in person or over text. I thought "gave me time to think about it" meant the OP went home and then texted back promptly.
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 08:13 |
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Vim Fuego posted:Stack ranking foster kids and firing the bottom performers every 6 months Agile standup breakfast
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 08:29 |
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kimbo305 posted:I thought "gave me time to think about it" meant the OP went home and then texted back promptly. Reading again it's not as clear-cut as I first thought, but I wouldn't ever say that someone I was talking with in person replied with several sentences "in a quick response"
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 09:05 |
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AITA for not accepting rejection?quote:I'm cutting to the point, i don't like getting rejected. the moment a girl rejects me any relationship or connection we have is dead to me. I know its harsh, but it's the truth. Ever since I started being interested in girls, all they do is reject me or "see me as a brother", Im not interested in sticking around for that tbh. It happened to me last week, with a girl i thought I had a chance of getting with. It crushed me, and i blocked her everywhere. One of her friends went up to me a few days later and got in my face about how i'm immature and how I threw her away and don't value her.
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 10:38 |
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for not accepting rejection? What a lovely chap. I wish him all the best in his further romantic endeavours. Because surely, someone as warm, selfless and not at all bitter must be surrounded by eligible young ladies vying for his affections.
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 10:47 |
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I mean if he's looking to date, being rejected then blocking and moving on is the best for all parties. He's probably a massive twat, obviously, but at least this keeps him out of the way.
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 11:15 |
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I bet he didn't even carry a printer to her house for her smh
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 11:40 |
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Tired Moritz posted:I bet he didn't even carry a printer to her house for her smh My love language is HP printer ink
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 11:54 |
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kru posted:I mean if he's looking to date, being rejected then blocking and moving on is the best for all parties. This, at least he doesn't hang around being "nice" while waiting for his next chance to put the moves on
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 11:58 |
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quote:It happened to me last week, with a girl i thought I had a chance of getting with. Well, there's your problem. I feel sorry for the guy. The message young people get is "if you like someone, and think you might have a chance, be brave and ask them out". This is actually a terrible idea for many reasons. This guy is probably psyching himself up repeatedly and then getting shot down every time because he has romcom poisoning. Maybe the message should be "only ask someone out if you're pretty sure you'll get a yes and you can live with being rejected and ruining your existing relationship." AITA for asking my SO to stop a certain type of swearing? edit: removed, potentially abuse erosion fucked around with this message at 13:41 on Sep 5, 2023 |
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erosion posted:
hmm, holy poo poo
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 13:12 |
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for not accepting rejection? erosion posted:AITA for asking my SO to stop a certain type of swearing?
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 13:32 |
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That's just depressing and not particularly interesting or funny.
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 13:34 |
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erosion posted:Well, there's your problem. Romcom poisoning usually goes the other way though, where you orbit around someone obsessively for years and passive-aggressively criticise their partners until you think they're vulnerable enough to give in to your advances. Because they're your designated Love Interest like in the popular media.
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 14:09 |
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Yeah, this sounds more like Protagonist Syndrome. "I'm the center of the universe and the protagonist of life, how loving dare you reject me, I"M rejecting YOU"
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 14:21 |
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erosion posted:Well, there's your problem. I'm not sure its romcom poisoning exactly. My impression from reading years of both Reddit and this thread is that if there is an opinion that internet misogynists and generally sensible population could agree on, it's that young women are, on average, terrible at picking men. Of course, that's where the commonality ends, as one group tells men they have to become terrible to be desirable, while the other states the opposite.
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 14:26 |
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Malachite_Dragon posted:Yeah, this sounds more like Protagonist Syndrome. "I'm the center of the universe and the protagonist of life, how loving dare you reject me, I"M rejecting YOU" More like "why should I bother to have anything to do with women who won't let me stick my dick in them it's not like they have anything else to offer".
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 14:28 |
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a podcast for cats posted:one group tells men they have to become terrible to be desirable, while the other states the opposite. They have to become desirable to be terrible?
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 14:30 |
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Runcible Cat posted:More like "why should I bother to have anything to do with women who won't let me stick my dick in them it's not like they have anything else to offer". Yeah, this was the reading I got off of that post. Dude's mad that women aren't letting him gently caress them and is throwing away the whole person after getting rejected because he doesn't think they're good for anything else. Explains why he's so angry, he seems to feel entitled to sexual access and is being "denied" it.
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 14:34 |
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Nice Tuckpointing! posted:My brother-in-law's family is always late. Consistently. 7pm dinner party? They're rocking up at 9pm at the earliest, usually slightly high. It's been two decades of this, and we have all just collectively given up on caring if they care. My mom is like this. She missed my wedding ceremony because I guess "ceremony at 4, reception at 6" means you can rock up at 5:30 and be surprised that no one waited for you.
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 14:42 |
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AITA for saying I don't care about being there for my half siblings first time at Disney?quote:My parents are divorced and I (16f) used to bounce between my mom and dad's every other week. But since last year I stay more with my mom than with my dad. Dad's remarried and mom isn't. My stepmom and dad have 3 kids together (8, 6 and 4). My dad's house has more money and they go on more vacations than my mom can afford. This year my mom was able to get money for us to go on vacation but it overlapped with my dad's Disney booking. I wanted to go on vacation with mom and I told dad that mom and I already had the plans. He said it was the first Disney vacation and he figured I wouldn't want to miss out on my half siblings experiencing it for the first time, But this was the first vacation mom and I were able to do since I was 9. Our built-in childcare doesn't want to work!
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 14:49 |
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for saying I don't care about being there for my half siblings first time at Disney? I mean, she can think the world of her siblings while also wanting to spend that time and preference her mum. It's not fair to make the kid have to choose, and then punish her for that choice
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 14:56 |
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for not accepting rejection? Op is… uh… quote:why though? who would willingly be around someone you like while shes going out with other guys and poo poo. might as well chop your cock off or hang from meat hooks while youre at it tbh, torture seems to be some peoples thing yikes
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 15:15 |
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kru posted:I mean if he's looking to date, being rejected then blocking and moving on is the best for all parties. I guess I'm in the minority but moving on after a rejection is the definition of healthy behavior so idk I guess things have changed. I'm all for cutting ties with people I don't want to be around anymore, the reasons hardly matter. I think social media has made people more aware of when it's happening, it used to be you just kinda drifted away and everyone forgot about it and moved on with their lives. It wasn't a "thing" that you had to do, where you block them in social. Blocking may be a bit rough, I think back when I was on Facebook there was an ignore function that did the same thing except they didn't know you had done it. That's probably more appropriate imo. Edit: apparently op is a weirdo, but still, there's nothing wrong with deciding you don't want to be around someone anymore. If he had just phrased it differently, like, good for her I'm just not interested in being around her anymore and wish her the best, the maybe he'd have a better reaction. Cosmik Debris fucked around with this message at 16:01 on Sep 5, 2023 |
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Yeah, I don’t necessarily disagree with the premise of distancing yourself/cutting things off after rejection - especially if it’s not someone you were friends with beforehand - but holy poo poo he couldn’t have worded it worse and it really betrays his underlying motivations
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 16:03 |
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Cosmik Debris posted:I guess I'm in the minority but moving on after a rejection is the definition of healthy behavior so idk I guess things have changed. If it weren’t putting off the ‘I can’t be friends with girls and only interact with them if I want a relationship’ vibes, then yes I would 100% agree with you.
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 16:20 |
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This is from a while ago, but, Vim Fuego posted:AITA for calling out my aunt for criticizing me and my brother for 'sharing a boyfriend' when she did the same? Pope Corky the IX posted:But he can get all kinds of infections from the pools of blood on the shower floor. Because your average guy takes such good care of their feet in the first place. I share a bathroom with roommates and before I shower I spray down the shower floor with disinfectant spray. Not after, but if people want to use the disinfectant it's right there, they're welcome to.
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# ? Sep 5, 2023 16:23 |
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As we're on the other side of the pandemic mostly posts like that Incel really get to me. Like he made that post in 2019. Did he mature at all? How does such toxic incelhood deal with the pandemic? Is he having healthy relationships now or just completely double-downed?
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Hughlander posted:As we're on the other side of the pandemic mostly posts like that Incel really get to me. Like he made that post in 2019. Did he mature at all? How does such toxic incelhood deal with the pandemic? Is he having healthy relationships now or just completely double-downed? What do you think?
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