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John Wick of Dogs posted:Yeah for our pregnancy we both thought knowing was going to be more trouble than it was worth and being annoyance from family members and friends like projecting a whole person onto the baby so we just told them we wanted it to be a surprise.
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John Wick of Dogs posted:Yeah for our pregnancy we both thought knowing was going to be more trouble than it was worth and being annoyance from family members and friends like projecting a whole person onto the baby so we just told them we wanted it to be a surprise. It's nice knowing, so you can start planning on a name. You don't have to tell anyone else. I wouldn't pay for a special gender scan, that seems like a waste of time
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Evil Willow posted:I'm amazed this one hasn't been removed for breaking the "no violence" rule! loving lol. Imagine being 78 and absolutely torching your relationship with your son and grandson for $1000. I hope those two ps5s make your deathbed more comfortable.
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DrManiac posted:loving lol. Imagine being 78 and absolutely torching your relationship with your son and grandson for $1000. I hope those two ps5s make your deathbed more comfortable. "Fine, dad, here's your $1000. Take good care of it, I'll inherit it back soon"
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QuarkJets posted:It's nice knowing, so you can start planning on a name. You don't have to tell anyone else. I wouldn't pay for a special gender scan, that seems like a waste of time We just chose a name for each. Xyborgbaron if a boy and Techno Mechanicus is it was a girl
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snergle posted:i look like my dad but im super pale. all of my siblings look like my mom and are also super pale. when ever my dad was pissed he would scream about how how my mom and her kids are haunting the house. its super hosed up but its a memory that always makes me laugh. From a few payes back but I got a good laugh imagining this.
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haveblue posted:"Fine, dad, here's your $1000. Take good care of it, I'll inherit it back soon" i wouldn't say that out loud, someone petty enough to demand emotional distress compensation for a hug gone wrong might well cut them out of the will (if he hasn't already)
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for telling my son he either has to sell his car or move out. quote:He says that he was just a little over the limit and that it is a first offense and that I'm being unreasonable. "i was just a little bit impaired, while i was driving a car that i can't even handle sober" omg i'd pay money to watch him tell that to a judge
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Baron Zephyrus posted:Naturally, being told that the church would refuse to ever marry us was taken as a blessing in disguise. By your BIL’s family? Why did it even come up?
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Cowslips Warren posted:Man, I wish I could find large pieces of canvas just thrown out, I can't imagine the dirty pour I would make with that. You can sometimes find huge canvases in the art section of secondhand stores and just gesso over them. You probably already knew that, but I like secondhand shopping. boofhead posted:behind every tyrant is a bureaucracy of enablers This is a great line. Here's another good line, bolded below: quote:The question My husband has been unemployed for two years and I feel like he’s fading away. He’s proved himself to be good at what he does in most aspects of his chosen field. He’s worked at a senior level (CEO, partner, etc) but he struggles with relating to people and, because of that, he’s eventually been let go from every job he’s had. He’s never had a leaving card. He’s an intelligent, experienced and educated man (PhD level). He can make a great first impression, yet he doesn’t know how to navigate the complexities of relationships and that keeps being his downfall. trickybiscuits fucked around with this message at 18:57 on Oct 1, 2023 |
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trickybiscuits posted:Here's another good line: Isn’t part of the point of making partner/CEO that you’ve more or less “won” and don’t need to play that game anymore? She says money isn’t a problem, let him keep a few board seats warm and find some hobbies that hopefully aren’t too harmful to society.
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AITA for beating my GF in a tennis matchquote:Hello everyone! Been a couple of days since this happened and I need a new perspective (sorry in advance if I make any grammar mistakes since English is not my first language). Redditor posted:INFO. Who suggested the bet? OP posted:I think I suggested it when she was bragging that she is going to beat me to one of our friends. Sorry honey, I'm just kinda too tired to feel like talking after all that work putting you in your place
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Captain Hygiene posted:AITA for beating my GF in a tennis match I initially interpreted "played tennis in college" as "was a D1 college tennis player" and was lolling hard at the idea of this dude crushing 90mph serves at his rank amateur girlfriend to win a bet
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I wish I had the kind of confidence that allows you to preemptively boast about beating an experienced tennis player despite having never held a racket in your life.
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Captain Hygiene posted:AITA for beating my GF in a tennis match Well, he called her loose, so of course she's upset.
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Human Tornada posted:I wish I had the kind of confidence that allows you to preemptively boast about beating an experienced tennis player despite having never held a racket in your life.
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Husband wants me to get an abortion because he thinks I'll not love my stepkids anymorequote:My husband Alex was previously married with his late wife, Lana for 16 years. They had three kid Jeremy(14M), Nora(12F) and Luke(3M). Lana died when Luke was 5 months old. I met Alex a few months after Lana's death, we got married January of this year. From the start I loved his children like mine. I always wanted children and I was so overjoyed when I suddenly got to be a stepmom. I love each of these children so so much. None of them calls me mom but I wish they did. Alex doesn't want me to "erase Lana" or "take her place". I always respected Lana and her memories. Sometimes Luke calls me mom and I love it but if he does that infront of Alex, he corrects Luke and shows Lana's photo that that's his mom,not me . I told him it's way too confusing for a 3 year old. He basically doesn't remember his "actual mom" and only knew me since he was 10 months old. I understand Lana was/is his love of life and I can't ever replace her but it seems little too much.
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trickybiscuits posted:You can sometimes find huge canvases in the art section of secondhand stores and just gesso over them. You probably already knew that, but I like secondhand shopping. You can also ask around at art supply stores to see if they have any rejects laying around. When I worked at Blick we'd reduce prices on canvases (or just outright chuck them) for minor frame issues and tiny imperfections in the weave. Still perfectly fine if you're doing big pours or heavy impasto or whatever.
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AreWeDrunkYet posted:Isn’t part of the point of making partner/CEO that you’ve more or less “won” and don’t need to play that game anymore? according to every CEO ever, no.
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Cowslips Warren posted:Husband wants me to get an abortion because he thinks I'll not love my stepkids anymore This guy sucks.
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Human Tornada posted:I wish I had the kind of confidence that allows you to preemptively boast about beating an experienced tennis player despite having never held a racket in your life. She would obviously be saying it as a joke, but I guess you and the OP couldn't pick up on that
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AreWeDrunkYet posted:Isn’t part of the point of making partner/CEO that you’ve more or less “won” and don’t need to play that game anymore? She says money isn’t a problem, let him keep a few board seats warm and find some hobbies that hopefully aren’t too harmful to society. Seems like the problem isn't that he is incompetent, it's that he's deeply unlikable. It's not like he didn't fit in in one company/organization, he's gotten let go from everywhere. I'm thinking that if he are competent enough to get to partner/CEO level while being that unpleasant to have around, he must be genuinely skillful and since he can't hang on to any of the gigs, he must be extraordinarily obnoxious. I've never been anywhere near that level, but I am at the "call around former colleagues to look for openings" level, and I know I have plenty of those to have openings all over the place, not because I'm some super-genius at what I do, but because I was always on harmonious/friendly terms with most of the people I worked with. It helps very much that I've never had to work with assholes/bigots/racists. (or if they were, they kept it very secret) In my experience, it's at least as important to get on with your colleagues as it is to be very good at your job.
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Cowslips Warren posted:Husband wants me to get an abortion because he thinks I'll not love my stepkids anymore I was concerned about math so I looked for the post. quote:Edit: I'm 23, he's 38. I was away and I saw some notifications with this question. Initially I didn't say the ages because it doesn't matter to me,we're adults.
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Is that general population or competitive Tennis players? I don't believe 12% of men have ever played a game of Tennis Latter is bit more believable.
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And that’s after two-ish years of dating, going by Luke’s given age at present and when his mom died
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Solenna posted:I was concerned about math so I looked for the post. also they knew each other only a few months before they got married. dude just wanted a bangnanny. AITA for taking food my coworker was eating and throwing it in the bin? quote:I F(27) recently started working with James (20). It is very obvious that James has a crush on me - and he has told me that himself numerous times. Only since May? Oh well that's fine. Jesus gently caress HR should have been her first visit.
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# ? Oct 1, 2023 20:53 |
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Challenge her to a charity marathon match and line up rich backers. If I play conservatively I can stay awake long enough for her to get tired enough to double fault It just says I have to take a point, a score of 80,000 to 1 should still count
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Cloacamazing! posted:
My husband has done the same for me, and I agree - it's such a huge feeling of gratitude. I've def got complex and complicated feelings about my own family and the way they interact with me, but I really hadn't realized how much I would appreciate someone letting me infodump on them. (Meanwhile, my sister doesn't understand why she should ask about my interests of she doesn't care about them. Why, yes! She has been a frequent topic with my therapist, how did you know?)
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I think I could, but only in very specific circumstances where there's some sort of freak incident like she gets struck by lightning, gets shot by a sniper, spontaneously combusts, etc. This reminds me of my students from a couple of years ago, who asked me if I think I could beat a woman who's been trained in martial arts in a fight. I asked if they meant like someone who competes professionally, like Holly Holm or Amanda Nunez, to which they said "sure." I told them I was 100% confident that I'd get my head punched in, and that I'd probably do well to last about 5 seconds, and that I'd be wondering about the decisions I'd made in my life that led me to that point, and where I'd gone wrong.
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haveblue posted:Challenge her to a charity marathon match and line up rich backers. If I play conservatively I can stay awake long enough for her to get tired enough to double fault The problem is she knows that she's so much better that she doesn't have to be aggressive with her second serve, so her double fault rate is going to be much, much lower than when she plays against other professional players.
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Cowslips Warren posted:
This lady is doesn’t deserve to have been harassed but holy gently caress she could not have handled this any worse if she tried.
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Haschel Cedricson posted:The problem is she knows that she's so much better that she doesn't have to be aggressive with her second serve, so her double fault rate is going to be much, much lower than when she plays against other professional players. Yeah I’m imagining this happens after, say, 72 hours of continuous play
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There's a chance I look so pathetic out there that she sandbags for the laughs. That counts right?
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haveblue posted:Yeah I’m imagining this happens after, say, 72 hours of continuous play That's not how tennis matches work, you would lose every point and be walking off the court after an hour, tops. Probably more like half an hour
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for taking food my coworker was eating and throwing it in the bin? Yeah, hopefully her supervisors and HR are aware enough to make sure that HR meeting has the correct outcome (creeper getting fired for cause), but if they aren't, OP has an uphill battle since he can control the narrative. Always be reporting creepers to HR and/or your manager, even if they're not crossing the line to termination when it first happens, a mountain of paperwork makes it easy to get legal to buy off on throwing someone out on their rear end. If it appears to be an isolated incident, HR and legal might insist on giving the perpetrator a second chance. I'm not endorsing any of that bullshit btw.
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She threw some creep who shouldn't even work there's sandwich away. It'll be fine.
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Yeah I don’t think the guy reporting to HR “she threw my food in the garbage after I yanked her water bottle out of her mouth because she refuses to talk about our obviously mutual attraction” is going to go like he seems to expect
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It's weird how often people who are 100% the victim of something, specially at work, will just handle it in the worst way possible to the point where THEY end up being the one who gets canned or in trouble with HR. I knew someone who worked a standard office job and she had this extremely right wing religious coworker who was outright trying to convert her away from the gay and into god's embrace. Everyone told her to go to HR, go to HR, go to HR. The company takes this stuff actually seriously. She kept just brushing this lady's harassment off because she didn't want to make waves or "cause drama". This went on for a solid year with her just constantly trying to brush it off and turn the other cheek while her coworkers continued to beg her to go to HR. She forbid them from even going to HR on her behalf. Again "I don't want to make drama". One day she snapped and pushed the bigot lady onto the floor and tried to just go back to work like nothing happened. Guess who got fired. She even tried to use the fact that she didn't go to HR for over a year as part of her defense, like she was earning HR-points or something for trying to tank the abuse. HR was double pissed at her for assaulting a coworker and not reporting it right away, specially since the obvious harassment was making the entire team extremely uncomfortable. Of course she made it out that "my company fired me for being gay"
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Evil Willow posted:I 28M told my fiance 25F that our wedding won’t be like her coworker’s. Now she won’t speak to me. This was literally my wedding scenario. Well, minus the accusations of being in love with someone else. My wife and I got married at 25 which, in hindsight, we both say “what the gently caress were we thinking?” But it’s been 27 years now and life is good. But the wedding: holy poo poo. My wife wanted a small,outdoor wedding with close friends, and my parents wanted a traditional wedding in our family cathedral and 200 (!!) guests and I was too much of a chickenshit to stand up to my parents. The compromise was the cathedral, 200 guests but we had the reception outdoors nearby. What was insane about it was how many people we had at our wedding that we didn’t know. Months later I’d introduce myself to someone and they’d say, “yeah, I was at your wedding”. It was so weird that my wife got on the mic and made an announcement that we weren’t going table to table to say hello but if you wanted to say hello she’d be the one in the wedding dress and would be easy to find. I’ve since found my backbone and poo poo like that hadn’t happened since, but that wedding was so much nonsense. A friend of mine was married later and they ended up having two weddings: a backyard barbecue and a big-rear end Indian wedding complete with white mustang and sword.
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