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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for abandoning my daughter on vacation? Yeah, that is incredibly lame and I hope it isn't true. Lying to a half dozen people and dicking with plans instead of saying "No" is rear end in a top hat behavior.
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I will not adapt to a chud society, no. It will be middle fingers and "gently caress you"s until my dying breath, whether that happens sooner or later as a esult.
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Malachite_Dragon posted:I will not adapt to a chud society, no. It will be middle fingers and "gently caress you"s until my dying breath, whether that happens sooner or later as a esult.
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Tarkus posted:Here's a question. I notice a lot of people here, myself included, claim that as they get older they are going to do their best to adapt to the modern culture and at least be understanding of the new generation. What if, in say 30 years, the culture has swung the other way to being kind of chuddy. It's not an unreasonable thing to expect, poo poo changes in weird ways. Will you adapt? Oh I will do my best to be understanding. I understand chuddery very well. That's why I hate it.
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# ? Oct 17, 2023 03:41 |
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Tarkus posted:Here's a question. I notice a lot of people here, myself included, claim that as they get older they are going to do their best to adapt to the modern culture and at least be understanding of the new generation. What if, in say 30 years, the culture has swung the other way to being kind of chuddy. It's not an unreasonable thing to expect, poo poo changes in weird ways. Will you adapt? A lot of people here claim that they want to adapt to modern culture as it progresses . I don't think anyone on the something awful forums in 2023 is down to go along with culture if it regresses. We're willing to adapt to stuff we don't know about yet that might be discovered in the future, but we are mostly aligned with the idea that the past was lovely.
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Silly Newbie posted:A lot of people here claim that they want to adapt to modern culture as it progresses . I don't think anyone on the something awful forums in 2023 is down to go along with culture if it regresses. We're willing to adapt to stuff we don't know about yet that might be discovered in the future, but we are mostly aligned with the idea that the past was lovely. That's a good point. Though I would say that 'progress' can mean many things to different people. How about instead of saying that things have gotten chuddy, say they have simply progressed to a point that is no longer within your moral framework. You have notions of what people believe but you can't believe in those things simply because they're foreign to you at that point. How about then? I don't have a good answer.
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# ? Oct 17, 2023 04:02 |
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Tarkus posted:That's a good point. Though I would say that 'progress' can mean many things to different people. How about instead of saying that things have gotten chuddy, say they have simply progressed to a point that is no longer within your moral framework. You have notions of what people believe but you can't believe in those things simply because they're foreign to you at that point. How about then? I don't have a good answer. It's like the bible says: stay true to thine own self, and to thine own self stay true
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Biplane posted:It's like the bible says: stay true to thine own self, and to thine own self stay true That's a good answer!
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Unless we experience some kind of rapid drastic shift to crystalline entities or some sci-fi poo poo, we've basically been dealing with the same problems for all of human history in different incarnations and resources tossed around.
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# ? Oct 17, 2023 04:11 |
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Khanstant posted:Unless we experience some kind of rapid drastic shift to crystalline entities or some sci-fi poo poo, we've basically been dealing with the same problems for all of human history in different incarnations and resources tossed around. Are we not living in a time of unprecedented rate of change though? I mean, everything changes year to year and now month to month. It's like a loving whirlwind. Aside from major cataclysms, I don't think we've experienced this kind of sustained rate of change as a species.
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for abandoning my daughter on vacation? This one made me scream "OH MY loving GOD DUDE" numerous times in my head.
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Biplane posted:It's like the bible says: stay true to thine own self, and to thine own self stay true Not to be a pedantic rear end in a top hat but I think that was Shakespeare.
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Tarkus posted:Are we not living in a time of unprecedented rate of change though? I mean, everything changes year to year and now month to month. It's like a loving whirlwind. Disagree. I'd actually say our grandparents had it weirder. Enormous society-shifting wars. Every liberation movement. Going from horses to automobiles to jumbo jets in a lifetime. Travel is mechanically the same, just shittier, over the course of my lifetime. All of the political fuckery and corporate regulatory capture of democracy had happened by the time I was in middle school. Cellphones and internet? Sure, that is different and presents different challenges, but I had a pretty plastic brain when that was happening. I am the old man in my social groups now, and am pretty generation gapped by various transfolk. They are lovely people, and I'm glad to know them, but I keep thinking "That looks like a harder way to live" Don't say that, because nobody is asking, but even if the kids are OK, I don't quite get what they are up to. Slo-Tek fucked around with this message at 05:20 on Oct 17, 2023 |
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Tarkus posted:That's a good point. Though I would say that 'progress' can mean many things to different people. How about instead of saying that things have gotten chuddy, say they have simply progressed to a point that is no longer within your moral framework. You have notions of what people believe but you can't believe in those things simply because they're foreign to you at that point. How about then? I don't have a good answer. For an individual response, things have progressed beyond points within my moral framework in my lifetime, multiple times. I've taken the time and learned about them, and then adjusted my moral framework. That may be the difference between chuds and not-chuds entirely - the ability to take in new experiences and information and adjust your worldview and moral framework around or to include them.
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# ? Oct 17, 2023 05:10 |
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I'll just do the same thing I've always done: act according to what feels right and the most empathetic. That's usually worked out well for me.
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Tarkus posted:That's a good point. Though I would say that 'progress' can mean many things to different people. How about instead of saying that things have gotten chuddy, say they have simply progressed to a point that is no longer within your moral framework. You have notions of what people believe but you can't believe in those things simply because they're foreign to you at that point. How about then? I don't have a good answer. IDK dude "everyone's a chud and has hosed-up alien morality" is just the experience of living as a non-evangelical in like 3/4 of the USA. How did you deal with it when most people were older than you? You don't have to *like* everything the kids are up to these days, but whatever it is your life will probably go a lot more pleasantly if you accept that you aren't owed veto powers over the zeitgeist because you're old and blew your chance to avert this terrible present of tiktok dances and dumb slang A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 05:47 on Oct 17, 2023 |
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for abandoning my daughter on vacation? OP should have put their foot down to begin with but I don't have any sympathy for the daughter who tried to turn her parent's vacation into a romantic vacation for herself while roping OP into free babysitting. Sounds like OP had a great time.
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# ? Oct 17, 2023 05:36 |
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"Sorry for paying for half your vacation, won't happen again"
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FMguru posted:Also, that story from a few days back, where the woman marrying a widower said “I’m happy she died, otherwise I would have never gotten him to myself” at a family dinner got an update Khanstant posted:Caveat emptor. Buyers be wearing eta: Ask Amy: Woman’s desire to rescue guy, teach him to be a decent human, fails spectacularly quote:Dear Amy: I have been in a relationship for the past eight months with a guy. Two months in, he lost his job and moved in with me and my daughter. trickybiscuits fucked around with this message at 06:58 on Oct 17, 2023 |
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"Would you adapt to a society that has become more conservative" is a useless question from where I, a big old queer, am sitting, unless I want to enroll myself in conversion therapy and/or surrender myself to the authorities when my existence is made illegal. We don't all have the luxury of even pretending to agree.
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# ? Oct 17, 2023 07:09 |
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Or you have disabilities. This isn't a hypothetical conversation, we've seen what this looks like.
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trickybiscuits posted:I love it when horrible people realize they're in real trouble and start crying and begging. Especially since it takes them so long to realize it that by the time they do things are usually beyond fixing. But yeah, that moment in these stories when the penny drops and the person realizes "oh poo poo, they really mean it this time" and now here come the waterworks and the apologies, those are always satisfying.
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Bubblyblubber posted:We didn't feel like switching last names, so my wife kept hers. And then we had a son, and he has two names, in honor of one grandfather from each side. And then we gave him both of our last names. And then her mother's maiden name, because my wife always felt bad that she didn't get it, just my father in law's last name. And then to make it fair we also gave him my mother's maiden name. So now my special boy has 6 loving names like Spanish royalty and he'll never be able to fill a form properly. I hate my parents for doing this to me. Your son is hosed, especially if he ever goes to a country where first and last name are switched. I've had people call me by all possible combinations of my names but rarely my actual last name. Plus yeah, filling out forms can be a real pain and lead to actual trouble when e.g. dealing with immigration or work visas.
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BabyFur Denny posted:I hate my parents for doing this to me. Germany has explicit laws to prevent this from happening. If people with a hyphenated name have a child, they have to choose a name to pass on to the kid - it can't be both. Can't risk loving with the forms.
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# ? Oct 17, 2023 08:41 |
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AITA for wearing a dress even though my dad told me not to?quote:I (F16) was getting ready for a party, two days ago. I was wearing a short, kinda tight, black dress. you better believe most of the comments on this one are..... nnnnnnno good
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for losing my temper with my parents and sister and telling them she should just take everything I have including my clothes since she deserves it all so much? As a parent, I cant even imagine the stress and fear of having a child with a deadly illness. But if you ever reach the point of literally ignoring their birthday three years in a row, you have not only failed as a parent but as a human being
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Pomme de Terror posted:Dammit Cowslips, was in the process of pasting that first one in when my page loaded and showed your post It has been a long time since I've been to an amusement park or zoo but I distinctly remember pretty much every single gift shop in them having sunscreen for sale. I would assume that's even more so the case now. Sure it might be $25 for a bottle of Banana Boat that would usually be 2-for-$10 at Target but tough poo poo that's the convenience tax. Anyway the face lotion sunscreen that the sister was trying to mooch was probably even more than what the shops were gouging normal sunscreen for. Sister also could have just hung out in the reptile house with the cool lizards.
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MajorBonnet posted:Assuming it's the same one because the story blew up, they've continued to have Thanksgiving together since last that I heard. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=27Wf4CE7pgo
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hawowanlawow posted:when I'm old teenagers will listen to me and treat me with respect Yeah, well when I'm old they will stay off my damned lawn. Beat that.
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# ? Oct 17, 2023 11:48 |
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You claim to be progressive... and yet, you won't progress to saying Hitler was right? Curious! I am very intelligent.
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Mx. posted:AITA for wearing a dress even though my dad told me not to? Post removed, reddit mods are weird This post violates Rule 5: We do not allow posts which concern violence. This includes any mention of violence in any context.
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keep punching joe posted:Post removed, reddit mods are weird From what the poster said about the comments, the mods probably just wanted creepy gently caress old Redditors to stop sharing their thoughts on a 16 year old girl's bodily autonomy.
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Elviscat posted:From what the poster said about the comments, the mods probably just wanted creepy gently caress old Redditors to stop sharing their thoughts on a 16 year old girl's bodily autonomy. Yeah the mods don't want their own pm's lost in the deluge
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Biplane posted:Yeah the mods don't want their own pm's lost in the deluge
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# ? Oct 17, 2023 12:48 |
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Nothing crazy here, I just really like some of the OP's phrasing AITA for not telling my family im pregnant quote:I do not have a great relationship with my family , nothing crazy no major drama just not very close, im a single child of divorce parents both never remarried or had other kids. other then them my family only consists of a few aunts, uncles, a few cousins and my only living grandparent gramps.
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snergle posted:the original this is very normal in europe was along a similar vein. some wierdo in europe thinking its normal in europe and telling the american op its normal in europe then a parade of europeans saying its not. its just a thread meme at this point when ever anyone says some wild poo poo and someone agrees with them for it to be normal in europe iirc the original "very normal in Europe" thing was a couple that were house-sitting for their relatives and they had sex in the kid's bedroom in the kid's bed.
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The OG normal in europe was walking around the house with your partners cum on your face.
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Ah, the ol Dutch shuffle
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AITA for purposefully "ruining" my gf's date night?quote:I (28M) have been going out with this girl (26F) since St. Patrick's Day in March. It's the best relationship I've ever been in and it's starting to get serious, so I've been considering everything about this girl for the future. She's kind, family oriented, thoughtful, funny and, of course, beautiful. I mean, thats definitely an rear end in a top hat move, but i can't say I blame him
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sephiRoth IRA posted:AITA for purposefully "ruining" my gf's date night? just according to keikaku translators note: keikaku means im single now
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