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Malachite_Dragon posted:Not-My-Kids Kincaid is an outlier and should never have been included in the survey A guy who lives in a cave raising 10,000 children that aren’t his shouldn’t be studied, he should have the police called, or at least, a sizable delivery of bandaids and Lunchables.
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FMguru posted:i’ve always had kind of a crass sense of humor, it’s never really been a problem but i’m the irreverent comedian in our friend group. yta and people tolerate not enjoy you
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# ? Dec 22, 2023 02:59 |
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AITA for comparing women to supply and demand?quote:I (18M) have this friend (18M) who is talking to this girl. We both just finished our first semester in college. Basically he is talking to this girl who is very attractive and he keeps telling me how she takes hours to respond to him, and sometimes even leaves him on read. What, women are things, right? AITA for “Checking Out” of Christmas Cooking? quote:AITA for telling my husband he is on his own with the Christmas cooking?
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# ? Dec 22, 2023 03:56 |
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Vim Fuego posted:Untreated ADHD Possible weaponized incompetence as well
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# ? Dec 22, 2023 04:11 |
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Pirate Radar posted:A guy who lives in a cave raising 10,000 children that aren’t his shouldn’t be studied, he should have the police called, or at least, a sizable delivery of bandaids and Lunchables. The children are baby spiders.
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Pirate Radar posted:A guy who lives in a cave raising 10,000 children that aren’t his shouldn’t be studied, he should have the police called, or at least, a sizable delivery of bandaids and Lunchables. I mean in a way we're all the Emperor's children.
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# ? Dec 22, 2023 04:20 |
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Benagain posted:I mean in a way we're all the Emperor's children. Speak for yourself, pervert.
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# ? Dec 22, 2023 04:25 |
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for telling my wife to stop burning my meals? being reminded of when my 8yo niece spent a weekend at her grandparents' and ended up calling her parents panicking because grandma was out somewhere and grandpa wanted to know what she was gonna make for dinner A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 04:46 on Dec 22, 2023 |
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Foo Diddley posted:AITA? My older sister is refusing to come to Christmas dinner because of our grandpa's inappropriate behavior. i mean of course it wasnt that bad it was directed at sister, not at op
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# ? Dec 22, 2023 04:44 |
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Vim Fuego posted:Untreated ADHD
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# ? Dec 22, 2023 04:45 |
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for telling my wife to stop burning my meals? wife should learn how to use a timer or something but he sounds like a huge rear end in a top hat
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# ? Dec 22, 2023 04:57 |
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Halloween Jack posted:If only there was some sort of electronic device in my kitchen with a built-in stopwatch! Or in my pocket, even! Doesn't everyone just wing it and hope they don't forget they left oil burning in a frypan???
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# ? Dec 22, 2023 04:58 |
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all you need to manage your ADHD is a partner who cares about you enough to set you up to fail and then scream at you until you cry
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# ? Dec 22, 2023 05:02 |
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Teaching somebody to turn the oven off and on does not help them learn to cook steak. That isn't the tricky part. The tricky part is judging the temperature it's cooking at, and when to take it off so that you're accounting for its continuing to cook after it's off the grill. Did OP bother to teach his wife that? No. He's not going to cook because he gets home after 8 (on a Saturday!), he doesn't like her cooking, time to pay for reheatable food to be brought in.
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# ? Dec 22, 2023 05:08 |
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PancakeTransmission posted:The problem with fully untreated and undiagnosed ADHD (even self-diagnosing) is that these people don't think that what they are doing is wrong or abnormal. I'm self-diagnosed mildish ADHD and I can absolutely tell that something is wrong, as my extensive list of alarms and reminders on my phone will attest
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The Maroon Hawk posted:I'm self-diagnosed mildish ADHD and I can absolutely tell that something is wrong, as my extensive list of alarms and reminders on my phone will attest Yeah same, that's my point - I know I have issues with keeping track of time and tasks so I write lists and set alarms. I always aim to leave early to factor in my "oh before I leave I forgot I have to take the trash out, put the dishwasher on" etc.
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# ? Dec 22, 2023 05:24 |
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Benagain posted:I mean in a way we're all the Emperor's children. No, the 10,000 kids living in his cave who he raised to be impossibly stoic nine-foot warrior poets are all definitely his. You can tell because they never explain what they’re doing, they’re just like “trust me” and want you to go along with some convoluted plan involving that language that lets you talk reality into changing.
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# ? Dec 22, 2023 05:24 |
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Evil Willow posted:AITA for telling my wife to stop burning my meals? I know people do weird poo poo when something terrible things happens but I laughed at him being more concerned with the steaks being ruined over his house almost catching on fire.
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# ? Dec 22, 2023 05:38 |
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i wonder who put the grill right next to the house like that
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# ? Dec 22, 2023 05:43 |
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Foo Diddley posted:i wonder who put the grill right next to the house like that
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Space Kablooey posted:wife should learn how to use a timer or something but he sounds like a huge rear end in a top hat "I'm tired of her antics!"
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# ? Dec 22, 2023 06:05 |
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If dude wants fancy steaks cooked how he wants them cooked, he can do it himself. "But I work" Yeah and so does every other guy who makes grilling meat their entire personality.
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SulfurMonoxideCute posted:If dude wants fancy steaks cooked how he wants them cooked, he can do it himself. I thought the point of BBQ Guys is that they could stand there at the grill/smoker all day and avoid helping with any other task?
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# ? Dec 22, 2023 06:10 |
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He didn't mention children. When my husband and I were young DINKs, we just had supper at eight. There's no law saying supper has to be eaten as soon as you get home. Babies' schedules changed that, of course.
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# ? Dec 22, 2023 06:13 |
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PancakeTransmission posted:I thought the point of BBQ Guys is that they could stand there at the grill/smoker all day and avoid helping with any other task? Yeah but you have to also do the quick grills to hide that fact, it's too obvious otherwise.
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# ? Dec 22, 2023 06:19 |
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AITAH for not offering to pay for my husband and his kids leading him to spend all his savings?quote:For a while now my husband, John, has been getting more and more angry over little things and generally moody and distant. I had finally had enough and approached him about separation. telling your wife "it's your fault i pissed all my money away" is a hell of a retirement plan, i gotta say
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# ? Dec 22, 2023 06:32 |
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What a weird relationship dynamic, though. They don't plan vacations as a couple or as a family, deciding where to go and what they can afford? She just says, hey, I'm spending a few weeks on the French Riviera and he sighs and goes back to the ol' rapidly dwindling bank account so he can go along? Communicate, people, ffs.
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SulfurMonoxideCute posted:If dude wants fancy steaks cooked how he wants them cooked, he can do it himself. Yeah, it takes all of five minutes.
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Troublemaker posted:What a weird relationship dynamic, though. They don't plan vacations as a couple or as a family, deciding where to go and what they can afford? She just says, hey, I'm spending a few weeks on the French Riviera and he sighs and goes back to the ol' rapidly dwindling bank account so he can go along? Communicate, people, ffs. And what's with the we haven't legally married because kids' inheritance thing? They couldn't get married then make wills leaving their own stuff to their own kids?
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# ? Dec 22, 2023 09:00 |
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Cowslips Warren posted:
Missing info: why did she inherit a large house where she gets to live alone (or possibly not as she calls it "our" home) when bro has to live in a small apartment?
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Runcible Cat posted:And what's with the we haven't legally married because kids' inheritance thing? They couldn't get married then make wills leaving their own stuff to their own kids? Look up 'Elective Share' AITA for asking my sister's bigot father in law to not come to our family xmas dinner? quote:My sister's (30F) father in law ( 50M) is a sad homophobic man. Top Post: quote:It's kind of infuriating and sad that your parents don't have your back, but this does free you up to take off the gloves without compunction. OP: quote:A lot of comments are rightfully saying I should do my own thing, but I'm not ready for that and unable to do that this year. Looks like I'll be ing through Monday!
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Hughlander posted:Looks like I'll be ing through Monday! "gently caress off! I have to see if a bigot gets owned." Head buried in my phone, as my small niece offers me a cracker.
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Foo Diddley posted:i wonder who put the grill right next to the house like that I thought the same thing, and he would have mentioned it if she did it so he’s obviously also pissed off at himself despite the “This is ALL on you”
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FMguru posted:I posted this one some months back: People who tell you that they're funny very rarely are, in my experience. And the ones who explicitly tell you that "I've a dark/sarcastic/crass sense of humour" or "I'm a smart-rear end" are the same people whose jokes most often consist of a series of slurs and a wink. People can definitely have a dark or sarcastic or sardonic sense of humour, but those who genuinely do rarely bring it up (when was the last time you talked to someone about your sense of humour?). The bigots bring it up because they want to give themselves an out if they get pushback for their bigotry.
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# ? Dec 22, 2023 14:05 |
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I’m an extremely funny person. All of my friends are just out of frame, laughing at my jokes
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# ? Dec 22, 2023 14:08 |
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Cowslips Warren posted:AITA for Not Allowing My Brother to Host His Book Club at My House? I don't know why, but the OP's use of "private retreat," "sanctuary," and "peaceful environment" to describe the house is giving me weird vibes. I mean a home could be all those things, I guess, but it just sounds really contrived.
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The Maroon Hawk posted:I’m an extremely funny person. All of my friends hate me
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Shanghaied posted:I don't know why, but the OP's use of "private retreat," "sanctuary," and "peaceful environment" to describe the house is giving me weird vibes. I mean a home could be all those things, I guess, but it just sounds really contrived. to be fair, he never said what the book club was actually reading. Maybe it's something like Fight Club or Mein Kampf. AITA For kicking my sister out for Thanksgiving dinner when she announced my pregnancy without my permission? quote:With my family, we have a tradition. When me and my siblings grow old enough and get our own houses, we decide who will do Thanksgiving dinner at our house. I have 2 other younger siblings. The middle child, Jack, and the youngest, Amy. This year, I was chosen and very excited because I was pregnant! Only Amy knew because I told her. I warned Amy not to tell our family members and she promised not to tell.
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AITA for making my nephew apologize immediately in front of his friendsquote:I (33m) am staying at my grandparents’ house for the holidays. My grandparents passed away and the house was maintained by their children, making it into communal space for all family members to use. The rooms are usually saved for those who visit from out of town like me. bolding mine.
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Don’t scold my child when he’s acting childish and saying childish things in front of his fellow children friends.
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