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The Diddler posted:I looked over this a few times trying to figure out how OP was basically mind controlled into never seeing those kids or whatever and realized that child support ends at 18, right? Look, like OP said, communication is a two way street. It was as much their fault as it was the fault of a literal child (until very recently). All you neglected and abandoned children out there, how much have you yourself done to reconnect with your parents, hmmmmm?
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DemoneeHo posted:AITA for telling my stepson he is an unchristian spoiled brat? Okay i went back and checked on this post again, because op kept responding to comments and defending herself. She was regretful, the courts are biased against the father, or she was only pointing out the ex-wife's family of being hypocritical christians, blah blah blah. But now she's taking a new tactic and claiming to be the ex-wife, pretending to be the stepmother as a means of validation. quote:Edit to answer a lot of comments- I call bullshit and she's pretending to be the other side because people were making GBS threads on her. That, and her previous posts listed her age of being 35 instead of 40, which is age of the ex-wife.
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Dear Abby messes up again posted:DEAR ABBY: My son and his fiancée are getting married next month. They’re calling it an elopement, but although they have been telling everyone when and where the wedding is, they are not formally inviting anyone. I have come to terms with that. I realize the day is about them, not me. However, this is my only child, and I have always dreamed about being part of this milestone in his life. I know this is like six pages back, but this one has been bothering me. Abbey tells the mother to show up anyway, even though the couple is eloping and not asking for anyone to be involved. Am I reading this wrong? It sounds like the mom isn't invited at all, and for obvious reasons.
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Hughlander posted:AITAH for my reaction after finding out my ex cheated on me? Already getting a date within 2 weeks is still a bit weird, after a 6 year relationship. Like did you jump on tinder the day after you caught her?
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Hyuk hyuk! It's sexy time! Look into the dolls eyes while you gently caress me!
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Scathach posted:I know this is like six pages back, but this one has been bothering me. Abbey tells the mother to show up anyway, even though the couple is eloping and not asking for anyone to be involved. No it's hosed up and wrong and I was going to question it and forgot about it. Assumed someone else would notice eventually. Show up with a smile and and a clear indication you can't respect boundaries.
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Scathach posted:I know this is like six pages back, but this one has been bothering me. Abbey tells the mother to show up anyway, even though the couple is eloping and not asking for anyone to be involved. Depends very much on the tone of the conversation, I suppose. They've been telling everyone the exact time and the place, but didn't "formally" invite anyone, which could be read as they were just playing coy, like they wanted friends and family to show up and "surprise them". If they really didn't want anyone there they would've kept quiet. The mother in this case is stuck up on the fact that she didn't get a formal invitation and/or it wasn't a traditional wedding. In that case the advice "oh get over yourself, and just go there" is not unreasonable. But yeah, it's impossible to tell just from the letter.
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PancakeTransmission posted:Already getting a date within 2 weeks is still a bit weird, after a 6 year relationship. Like did you jump on tinder the day after you caught her? Why wouldn't you?
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Elviscat posted:Why wouldn't you? It seems possible that someone in OP's extended friend group or workplace (who already had a bit of a crush on or interest in him) found out about OP dumping his GF for cheating, and decided to shoot her shot.
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Elviscat posted:Why wouldn't you? I did after my long term girlfriend after college cheated on me. I think the relationship was around 4 to 5 years. Wasn't any point in trying to salvage it
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Shanghaied posted:They've been telling everyone the exact time and the place, but didn't "formally" invite anyone That’s how I read it — the offense taking was all decorum poisoning over it not being a full on wedding with rsvp and pride of place for the parents.
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DeeplyConcerned posted:Hyuk hyuk! It's sexy time! Look into the dolls eyes while you gently caress me! *as I stumble backwards, trip on my glasses and fall comedically out a window* YA-HOO-HOO-HOO-HOOooooeeey!
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Elviscat posted:I feel like he's also projecting a lot of his hurt and emotions from an acrimonious divorce on his daughter. I agree with both. I think the Dad's major beef with both the ex and the daughter is that they see someone else's success as their own. So he's working his rear end off to give her nice things and she's walking around mocking others for not having those nice things as if she accomplished it herself. By taking her out of the private school where she was getting all kinds of steps up over the kids who don't have those opportunities, she's now on a level playing field with those nonprivileged kids, and she's going to have to work her rear end off just like they do to try to compete with kids like the former her who get everything handed to them. She gets to see what she can accomplish instead of claiming someone else's accomplishments for her own and acting like she did something to deserve it. Instead, she's got to rely on her own character, and so far she's shown her character is poo poo. If she can pull out of it and get good grades and show some empathy instead of throwing a poo poo fit, I'd consider eventually moving her to another private school, but I wouldn't put her back at the same one with the same lovely friends. And if she's coming from a public school the kids at her new private one might treat her lovely, too, so she gets the bonus of being on the other end of her entitled behavior.
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kimbo305 posted:That’s how I read it — the offense taking was all decorum poisoning over it not being a full on wedding with rsvp and pride of place for the parents. That's just stupid as hell. God this woman sucks. Her poor kids. We almost eloped to Vegas because the little person Elvis was priced at half-off so we could afford him. No joke. Our family is lucky we didn't disappear for a week to hang with a bunch of different Elvises instead of inviting them to our yard for a BBQ.
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Troublemaker posted:I agree with both. I think the Dad's major beef with both the ex and the daughter is that they see someone else's success as their own. So he's working his rear end off to give her nice things and she's walking around mocking others for not having those nice things as if she accomplished it herself. By taking her out of the private school where she was getting all kinds of steps up over the kids who don't have those opportunities, she's now on a level playing field with those nonprivileged kids, and she's going to have to work her rear end off just like they do to try to compete with kids like the former her who get everything handed to them. She gets to see what she can accomplish instead of claiming someone else's accomplishments for her own and acting like she did something to deserve it. How long do you think high school lasts that you'd 'eventually move her' again? How many schools in 4 years do you expect her to go to? What she did is lovely yes. But she's already: Grounded Forbidden from seeing her friends Lost tens of thousands of dollars in an asset and now you and he wants to add: Complete removal of social net, move into a new school in the middle of the school year and refusal to consider how despite all of the punishment already done it's going to have an echoing punishment for the next 6-8 years of her life if not longer. Remember she's driving and have a job, that puts her at least at 16 and a Junior right? She's going to be applying to schools and accepted or not in the next 12 months. Everyone is telling the father that he's overreacting and his literal words is he doesn't care. He just wants to hurt his daughter at this point.
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DemoneeHo posted:Okay i went back and checked on this post again, because op kept responding to comments and defending herself. She was regretful, the courts are biased against the father, or she was only pointing out the ex-wife's family of being hypocritical christians, blah blah blah.
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The Spirit of Pete is strong in this one… Go to TwoHotTakes r/TwoHotTakes 2 hr. ago This_Owl_5544 Join My boyfriend suggested a polyamorous relationship so I left him I 24F was dating my 27M ex boyfriend for 2 years. Last year we started talking about getting married. If we wanted to stay in the state. Regular future stuff. The past few months I've tried to bring up engagement, rings, time frames and he doesn't seem interested at all. He shuts me down and says we have enough time. He was once so excited about it. Which brings me to 2 weeks ago, he sat me down and out of the blue asked about a polyamory and that he thinks it'll be good for US so WE can build OUR bond closer. I'm like "How does bringing someone else in a relationship... for you... work on us" and he goes "She wouldn't interfere with us, Jess knows I love you and want to get married to you, she will bow out at any moment" "Jess" is a girl he's known since they were in middle school. She recently started working at his company and I guess their "friendship" has rekindled. I got up and went to pack a bag. He asked me what I was doing and I told him I was done. He started panicking and saying it was a Joke, She was interested in one but he wasn't. I didn't want to hear anymore. He asked why was I freaking out and I told him "I know how this goes, you randomly bringing up polyamory, you've already cheated or you're going to cheat if I say no, so I'm done" I left to go back to my place. (I am working on my masters so I decided to keep my apartment to study even after we moved in and I was going to move in permanently 2 months before I graduated because my lease would be over) He was blowing up my phone and telling me he's sorry, then he'd flip to calling me all types of nasty names, to "I should have had sex with her when I had the chance" I blocked him. He showed up at my place two days later begging me to come back. I asked him to let me search his phone and his face went pale. He let me check and he was good at deleting things but not deleting what he deleted. They were flirting, he brought it up after she got feelings for him and he "felt bad" so he told her I'd be okay with an open relationship (surprise surprise) I told him to get out and I'm done. Our mutual friends (I should say only 3 people three were MY friends and the other 4 and him I met through my best friends brother. No one was on my side except my best friend, her girlfriend, and my best friends brother) are telling me I’m overreacting and it was Just a suggestion and a suggestion doesn’t mean he’s cheated or is going to cheat and a lot of people open up their relationship. I told them “when we got together it was clear I was looking for a monogamous relationship and partner and he feels like I’m not enough and I won’t wait to find out in 5 years that he’s been cheating and I have to go through divorce.” I told them if any of them bring him up to me after this, I’ll cut contact with them too.
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# ? Mar 24, 2024 00:06 |
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Ah opening a relationship, an r/r classic.
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Pigsfeet on Rye posted:I got up and went to pack a bag. Wasting precious seconds she could've saved if only she had a go bag packed and ready for action
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kimbo305 posted:That’s how I read it — the offense taking was all decorum poisoning over it not being a full on wedding with rsvp and pride of place for the parents. Yea, like if it means this much to them have they just asked if they could be there? Just accept it's non-traditional and ask.
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Scathach posted:That's just stupid as hell. God this woman sucks. Her poor kids. I don't know you, but I am now disproportionately angry at you for NOT having an Elvis BBQ wedding. And not inviting me.
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My (26f) friend (26f) has accused me of stealing her boyfriend. Boyfriend (25m) had no idea they were datingquote:Names changed to respect privacy and throwaway account.
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AITA for offering to wrap up left over steak that my wife's bosses wife couldn't finish?quote:My wife invited her boss and his wife over for dinner. She's a lawyer and works at a law firm. I was in a good mood so I decided to slice some nice prime rib into 2 inch thick steaks, one for each of us and reverse seared them and then basted in butter with garlic and rosemary. They came over and we all had a good time, but my wife and her bosses wife could only really finish half of their steaks since they were thicc bois. I offered to wrap up the remaining steak that our guest couldn't finish and said she could take it home and slice it for tacos or stir fry or something since it was good quality beef. They seemed cool with it. However, after they left and I handed them the leftover steak, my wife got kind of angry with me and told me that by offering to wrap up leftovers for our guests, I was insinuating that they were cheap and/or poor and couldn't buy steak themselves any time they wanted to and it was insulting. This never crossed my mind whatsoever. I just didn't want to waste good meat. I grew up in a working class home and my wife grew up in more of an upper-middle class environment so I guess there are some upper crust social customs that I'm really not aware of? Anyways, what do you guys think? AITA for telling my boyfriend that artists can't save her life and she's only wasting his money? quote:I (26M)have been with my boyfriend (23M)for 4 years now. He is a HUGE fan of Rihanna,Nicki Minaj and Beyonce even claims they saved his life when he was younger and struggling to accept himself due to his family.He struggled with thoughts of offing himself when he was a teenager due to the stress of coming out and his religious family. He never misses a chance to say that had he not discovered these 3 artists he wouldn't be here with us now. I almost already want to call this one out as fanfiction since aside from the terrible grammar/mistakes, how are you 23 and 'money isn't an issue for you' already to spend so many thousands of dollars on this.
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ApplesandOranges posted:AITA for offering to wrap up left over steak that my wife's bosses wife couldn't finish? FAANG computer toucher who thinks the signing bonus is a sign of riches?
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Was it Dear Abbey or Ann Landers who used to give out lovely advice, and then backtrack a couple weeks later when people sent in angry responses and talk about self flagellation with a wet noodle? Like when I was young I never missed those columns and I swear it used to happen all the time. It was mind-blowing how many precious column inches they would devote to saying "wow I really hosed that one up, 30 lashes with a wet noodle for me!" Why a wet noodle?
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artsy fartsy posted:Was it Dear Abbey or Ann Landers who used to give out lovely advice, and then backtrack a couple weeks later when people sent in angry responses and talk about self flagellation with a wet noodle? A dry noodle wouldn't work
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ApplesandOranges posted:AITA for offering to wrap up left over steak that my wife's bosses wife couldn't finish? Pretty sure you can get 2 Beyonce tickets for less than 4 million dollars??
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Mx. posted:My (26f) friend (26f) has accused me of stealing her boyfriend. Boyfriend (25m) had no idea they were dating If they were legitimately going out I feel like she would probably be more angry at the boyfriend for cheating on her
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artsy fartsy posted:Was it Dear Abbey or Ann Landers who used to give out lovely advice, and then backtrack a couple weeks later when people sent in angry responses and talk about self flagellation with a wet noodle? ann landers is a boring old biddy
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Hughlander posted:Everyone is telling the father that he's overreacting and his literal words is he doesn't care. He just wants to hurt his daughter at this point. Well, It's hard for me to have a firm opinion about this one because he doesn't really go into details on the extent of the bullying. Is she just a dumb kid that doesn't know any better who needs a wakeup call, or do we need to bring out the Oompa Loompas for a cautionary song after a horrific yet cartoonish industrial accident? I think sitting her down for a long hard talk is definitely a good starting point, but I don't think that pulling her out of school needs to be off the table.
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the holy poopacy posted:Well,
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Tomfoolery posted:Pretty sure you can get 2 Beyonce tickets for less than 4 million dollars?? I was just going to snark about the price
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the holy poopacy posted:Well, Yeah given that there are a plethora of examples of bullied kids doing a bunch of self-harm because of it, let alone bullies doing like, direct physical harm to their victims idk that “but what if it was just a little nice bullying” is my first response to the original post
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artsy fartsy posted:Was it Dear Abbey or Ann Landers who used to give out lovely advice, and then backtrack a couple weeks later when people sent in angry responses and talk about self flagellation with a wet noodle? It's an old idiom, basically back when giving someone lashes (striking them with a whip or rope) was a punishment you could imagine that rather than a whip you were stroke with a wet noodle instead it wouldn't hurt. It's become a cutsey "oops my bad" or "Did I do that?" to mean you're not really sorry. hth if not wet noodle for me!
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/me slaps u around with a large trout
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haveblue posted:/me slaps u around with a large trout I too come from MUDs AITAH for not quitting my job after my boyfriend asked me to quote:I (f20) work as a financial dominatrix and I’ve been doing it for about a year now. My boyfriend (m24) and I live together and while he was studying I was paying for most of the bills and expenses. He recently got himself a pretty well paying job and he’d dropped a few hints about me stopping my work which I just figured weren’t really serious. Cue the Castle animated gif...
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# ? Mar 24, 2024 02:35 |
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The age also raises an eyebrow or two.
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# ? Mar 24, 2024 03:09 |
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he just wants to be the one doing the findom now that he has a well paying job
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# ? Mar 24, 2024 03:33 |
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quote:DEAR MISS MANNERS: I am a 50-year-old man, a manager in a field where the majority of staff are women.
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Is there a paragraph missing or something?
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