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Pantaloon Pontiff posted:I don't think it's that hard to get some people who you start chatting with interested enough to go on a date a date if you are not concerned with showing your real personality, don't mind lying, and study up on stuff that probably works. I'd also like to know what they use for training data, but it doesn't surprise me that an AI who has no real personality, no problem with lying, and a database of fairly flirty stuff that worked on some people can generate a few lines of text that pique someone's interest. I think most women on dating sites who will go on a date in a reasonable timeframe (as opposed to endlessly chatting or looking to collect messages for an ego boost) are really looking for 'sounds not boring and not red-flagged, I'll figure out the rest in person', so what an AI is good at generating should be good for that. I assume the bot is mostly just a numbers thing, it can message a lot more women without needing to spend extra time. But also yes, people who are serious about online dating generally are more interested in getting to know someone over coffee or drinks than building an online romance via chat, so the AI doesn't really need any elaborate seduction abilities.
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the holy poopacy posted:I assume the bot is mostly just a numbers thing, it can message a lot more women without needing to spend extra time.
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mystes posted:If it's like the one I linked it seems like it doesn't have direct integration with any dating apps and you have to manually copy in the messages you receive to get it to generate responses so it doesn't seem like it goes off and spams people on its own lol, that's pretty bad then! I assumed the bot was at least doing the legwork for him since manually feeding messages into a chatbot seems so much worse than just typing up a couple messages worth of small talk, but I guess I was giving him too much credit
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It’s an AI Cyrano de Bergerac, this isn’t complicated! Brb, getting funding for my new startup cyrAIno
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A classic - estranged, abusive family member suddenly reaches out and is all sweetness and light. Gosh, could it be that they want something? AITAH for not helping my “sister” out of a financial hole because she was a monster to me? quote:I 26F grew up with 2 other siblings. 29M and 34F My sister is 9 years older than me so we never really got to bond? She was also always really mean to me and would hit me and push me around. I still have a scar on my face from her pushing me off of a rock wall in a park when I was 11. I later found out that I am not my fathers kid and he didn’t find out until I was 3 and that’s when my dad divorced my mom and she ultimately blames me for, in her words, “my parents splitting up” I haven’t spoken to my sister since I was… 13? She would call me “bastard baby” and “the home wrecker” Math fans might note that the sister was 20 when she pushed an 11 year old off a rock wall, almost costing OP her eye.
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Captain Yossarian posted:I recommend threatening a politician or posting this picture a whole bunch I will not be busting the krust
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Scathach posted:Wtf is it about weddings that drive people insane? I don't get it. Who cares if your friend has mondo titties, roll with that poo poo. Wear it under the giant suit, then when you get to the alter, rip the suit off in one dramatic motion like Kiryu.
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AITA for telling my in laws that their adopted kid isn't welcome here anymore and that I will kick them out if they go against me?quote:Before anyone comes for me, YES, I'm legally allowed to kick them out whenever. They pay zero bills here and don't even get their mail here. 30F. My MIL and FIL moved in to my home 5 months ago to "help" us. This was immediately following me giving birth to my daughter. They occupy the space above my garage. They pay zero bills (despite both working full time) and as I said, don't even have their mail sent here. The whole point of them moving here was to help with the baby, because my husband is deployed and I had no one.
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i love having beef with a baby and revving my cool motorcycle
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can you take a baby on a motorcycle
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I like that they moved in to supposedly help with the baby (which they presumably haven't done?) and are paying zero bills despite working full time but they can't move out because they have nowhere to go? Also asking the son to not blast the horn for no reason does not exactly seem like an unreasonable request.
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AITA for accidentally doing my friend’s roommate’s laundry?quote:I (AFAB, 18) have a friend, (AFAB, 23). My friend (I’ll refer to her as Tara) moved from Palestine in September and lives in a large house with around eight other people. Tara has been very depressed since moving here as she has little contact with her family who are still in Palestine. Her room has gotten very messy over the last month or two (which is unlike her) so I decided that every Saturday I would go over and help her out with cleaning, laundry, dishes, and making her dinner. This Saturday I came over around four pm, did my usual cleaning while she handled dinner, ate and then got ready to head back around nine pm. The washing machine has been acting up lately in Tara’s house so I offered that I bring home her laundry to my house, clean it and bring it over to her after school on Monday. She was grateful and told me to take the basket that was next to her backdoor on my way out. When I went downstairs to leave, I saw three baskets. I wasn’t sure which one was Tara’s but I was been driven home by my dad so I figured I’d just take all of them. The next day I washed them, dried them and folded them. Some of the clothes didn’t look like Tara’s so I figured some of them were her roommate’s stuff too. On Monday I went over to her house to drop of the clothes and one of her roommates opened the door, and after telling him why I was there he flipped out. He started yelling at me, saying that it was a violation of his privacy and that I shouldn’t have taken them. To put this in perspective, you have a 6’5 grown man yelling at a 5’2 teenager for doing his laundry. Another one of her roommates came over and began yelling at me as well after overhearing apparently i had washed her clothes too. Tara wasn’t there at the time so i dropped the clothes at the door step and walked home. [Jeff Foxworthy voice] If you steal multiple peoples' clothes for the weekend rather than spend half a second clarifying the situation....you might be a redditor
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mystes posted:Also asking the son to not blast the horn for no reason does not exactly seem like an unreasonable request. It's a tick. So she should tell them her tick is putting sugar in his gas tank.
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Admiral Joeslop posted:AITA for telling my in laws that their adopted kid isn't welcome here anymore and that I will kick them out if they go against me? "You have ADHD?" "Yeah." "So that means you gotta sit in the driveway and honk the horn?" "It helps."
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AITA for not including any of the neighbor’s kids into my daycare because of how they acted in the beginning?quote:Let me start this off by saying I have a daycare license and when I got my apartment, a 1 bedroom open space plan (obviously aside from the bedroom) I was very upfront about how I was going to use the space to my landlord. It took some compromising but I have full permission to use the area as a daycare lawfully and locally (landlord). My apartment is on the first floor so all clients have to do is walk through the lobby where I meet them/guide them to the apartment which is the first one on the hallway. Please ask any questions if needed, I’m trying to not give too much details about location.
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Captain Hygiene posted:AITA for accidentally doing my friend’s roommate’s laundry? why wouldn't you just ask and no anxiety isn't a good answer
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Not asking is dumb and she shouldn't have done that (he is right to be unhappy imo) but yelling is a bit excessive, assuming he was actually yelling. I think "please do not do that again" would have sufficed. mystes fucked around with this message at 17:51 on Apr 3, 2024 |
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The_Franz posted:"You have ADHD?"
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Chef Boyardeez Nuts posted:I feel like "living funeral" is a persistent spontaneous invention of dudes in their 20s with the robust and dynamic social circle that entails. My grandma had a living funeral type thing, she was declining from Parkinson's and so all her relatives and all the kids she'd fostered over the decades came out to say goodbye and tell her how much of a positive impact she's been in their lives.
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Admiral Joeslop posted:AITA for telling my in laws that their adopted kid isn't welcome here anymore and that I will kick them out if they go against me? Was the son blasting Guns n Roses while riding away with Budnick from Salute Your Shorts on the back? If so op needs to leave that house immediately
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so long suckers! i rev up my motorcylce and create a huge cloud of smoke. when the cloud dissipates im lying with severe ADHD on the pavement
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DemoneeHo posted:AITA for not including any of the neighbor’s kids into my daycare because of how they acted in the beginning? yta what was the point in putting up the notice, all you're doing is antagonising your neighbours. just saying no in person to anyone who asked would have been fine, could have said "sorry we're full" or whatever. explicitly making it about people in her building was a really dumb move and she's just put herself even further down everyone's poo poo-list
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Captain Hygiene posted:AITA for accidentally doing my friend’s roommate’s laundry? I accidentally deliberately took someone else's laundry on purpose Tijuana-A-Go-Go posted:yta what was the point in putting up the notice, all you're doing is antagonising your neighbours. just saying no in person to anyone who asked would have been fine, could have said "sorry we're full" or whatever. explicitly making it about people in her building was a really dumb move and she's just put herself even further down everyone's poo poo-list Yeah, I think people with kids are probably acquainted with how hard it is to get into daycare on short notice. Nobody would have noticed anything was up if she just said she was booked up and the waitlist was overflowing.
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Captain Hygiene posted:AITA for accidentally doing my friend’s roommate’s laundry? What's AFAB? All Foremen Are Bastards?
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AITAH for telling my husband me and the kids are leaving if he brings home his grandfather's untrained, aggressive dogquote:I 32f have been with my husband 37M for 9 years married for 7 and have 2 kids Amy 6F and Luke 2M. Things have been going well all things considered except for one reoccurring issue about dogs. I don't like them, never have. On our very first date I told him I don't like dogs and under no circumstances would I ever get a dog. He was upset about that and said that would be a deal breaker for him. I had no hard feelings as that wasn't the first time it had happed, however a few weeks later he said he wanted to give us a go anyway.
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Cacator posted:What's AFAB? All Foremen Are Bastards? Assigned Female At Birth
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I bet that idiot could win her over on the concept of dogs if he introduced her to some really nice dogs. A dangerous junkyard dog is only going to further entrench someone's incorrect opinions on dogs.
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Nobody Interesting posted:Honestly really thought after the first few sentences, Jeff was just gonna go impregnate his sister.
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Baronjutter posted:I bet that idiot could win her over on the concept of dogs if he introduced her to some really nice dogs. A dangerous junkyard dog is only going to further entrench someone's incorrect opinions on dogs. Nah, that lady's opinions on dogs are more correct than most dog owners. If you're not going to give a dog the care and attention it needs (which is a lot of work and not for everybody) then don't get a loving dog. The only dog opinions that need correcting in this scenario are the husband and his family.
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the holy poopacy posted:Nah, that lady's opinions on dogs are more correct than most dog owners. If you're not going to give a dog the care and attention it needs (which is a lot of work and not for everybody) then don't get a loving dog. The only dog opinions that need correcting in this scenario are the husband and his family. What makes you think the husband won't take care of the dog
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Baronjutter posted:I bet that idiot could win her over on the concept of dogs if he introduced her to some really nice dogs. She told him when they met that it was a solid boundary and the decided to give it a go anyway. He's spent the last decade trying to force a dog on her to the point they had to see a marriage counselor which he then quit. He even tried to give her the one thing she said she never wants as a gift for her loving birthday.
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Cacator posted:What's AFAB? All Foremen Are Bastards? Assigned Female At Birth. A lot of very young/online people have started saying this instead of just "male" or "female" to acknowledge the impermanence and arbitrariness of gender
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haveblue posted:Assigned Female At Birth. A lot of very young/online people have started saying this instead of just "male" or "female" to acknowledge the impermanence and arbitrariness of gender
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Also  at the backstory of"I do not like dogs, I will never consider owning a dog, there will be zero dogs in my life if this relationship continues" *husband begins scheming to get surprise birthday dog*
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500excf type r posted:What makes you think the husband won't take care of the dog It sounds like the dog has major behavioral issues so taking care of it and retraining it will be a full-time job. It cannot be in the same house as preteens while those issues remain and it already has a history of biting people so it may be a lost cause :/
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Pope Corky the IX posted:She told him when they met that it was a solid boundary and the decided to give it a go anyway. He's spent the last decade trying to force a dog on her to the point they had to see a marriage counselor which he then quit. He even tried to give her the one thing she said she never wants as a gift for her loving birthday. Yeah, he took the entirely wrong approach. He should have respected that boundary and been actually ok with it never changing, but also maybe letting her interact with and meet some really lovely therapy-dog level dogs. Over time from non-forced exposure to good dogs, she MAY have softened. But trying to force it only cements it, and refusing to even entertain the idea that she may never change her opinion on dogs is just loving their marriage. Just give it up dude. My wife HATED dogs when she moved here, but she grew up in a place with dangerous stray dogs and a lot of people who owned dogs not caring for them or training them properly because the purpose of a dog is to guard and intimidate. After spending some time with some very chill small dogs over the years she's become the driving force to perhaps get a dog of our own.
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500excf type r posted:What makes you think the husband won't take care of the dog The op said fairly little about her husband, yet somehow I am absolutely certain that the exact second he was allowed to bring a dog home, he would dump all the actual work taking care of it on his wife.
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AnoHito posted:The op said fairly little about her husband, yet somehow I am absolutely certain that the exact second he was allowed to bring a dog home, he would dump all the actual work taking care of it on his wife. That's your projection tho
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500excf type r posted:That's your projection tho I hate how often people just project and make poo poo up from whole cloth from these stories, but in this case they're 100% correct. I can feel it deep in my bones.
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500excf type r posted:That's your projection tho If you think your spouse is unreasonable for not wanting a dog and don't care about their point of view, and therefore you feel like you should force a dog on them for their own good, maybe after that you will end up thinking they are unreasonable for not willing to take care of the dog and think you should force them to do that for their own good as well. A reasonable person would say "I won't always be available to take care of the dog and would need my spouse to help some of the time, so if they aren't able to do that, I shouldn't get a dog" and not take in the dog in the first place. So if you're already getting a dog with the plan to make them do something they aren't willing to do some of the time, what's to stop you from doing it most or all of the time? mystes fucked around with this message at 19:15 on Apr 3, 2024 |
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