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Also the partner saying you're "playing" parent is definitely going to treat your new child well. Probably the best thing to do is get married right away and have another kid together that definitely won't be treated as the "real" child
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Crocobile posted:Whattup dysfunctional childhood friends. Yeah as someone who was his dad's primary therapist for like 10 years the SIL needs therapy and boundaries not playdates
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# ? Apr 13, 2024 22:23 |
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The SiL sounds like she's getting fantastically overwhelmed, and the person who said this is a cry for help was right. I wonder how much support she's getting from her spouse and when the last time she's been able to take a day for herself was
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# ? Apr 13, 2024 22:26 |
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probably built her whole future in her head around the idea of being a certain sort of parent and has since discovered that she will never have that future and instead has to be a much harder and more difficult version of a parent, forever
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# ? Apr 13, 2024 22:28 |
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Most Power Alex posted:Probably because the bars in the area don't allow outside food and he can't enjoy his crab cakes without getting smashed on sparkling brut at the same time. He could sit in his car in the parking lot, eat crab cakes from the bag, and swill Brut straight from the bottle.
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Pigsfeet on Rye posted:He could sit in his car in the parking lot, eat crab cakes from the bag, and swill Brut straight from the bottle. Rollin down the street, smokin indo Sippin' on 'cakes and brut Laid back Got my mind on American Girl Dolls and American Girl Dolls on my mind
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Shanghaied posted:AITA for refusing to lend my daughter out to my SIL for a “mommy and me tea”? They can handle basketball games but not restaurants? Maybe the mom just has bad vibes.
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# ? Apr 14, 2024 00:51 |
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mystes posted:lmao at "I have no idea what to do". I think what she means is "I know exactly what I should do but I'm not going to do it" drat, trapped by the supremacist pussy.
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# ? Apr 14, 2024 01:06 |
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big black turnout posted:Also the partner saying you're "playing" parent is definitely going to treat your new child well. Probably the best thing to do is get married right away and have another kid together that definitely won't be treated as the "real" child It could also just be a turn of phrase given that nothing else actually indicates she wants anything beyond a single date night?
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# ? Apr 14, 2024 01:24 |
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wrt to the trans Nazi, what I'd like to know from OP is if there is any chance of extricating the two of them from the Nazi's family. I guess I'm kind of sympathetic because I was exactly that kind of shithead in my teenage years, thanks to being raised in a similar kind of environment, and I do wish I had an easy way out instead of having to figure things out on my own from info I picked up here and there on the Internet.
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# ? Apr 14, 2024 01:28 |
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AITA for telling my father “I do know about that”?quote:I (F28) am a wildlife biologist. I have a master’s degree in Wildlife Conservation and am hoping to go for my doctorate soon. I have worked in this field since I was 16, and am very passionate about it. quote:OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the rear end in a top hat: OP says this bullshit is a pattern with the dad. I like all the comments saying to reply to everything he says from now on with , "Hm, I don't know about that ...."
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# ? Apr 14, 2024 01:31 |
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Pleads posted:They can handle basketball games but not restaurants? Maybe the mom just has bad vibes. I'ma let the kids have that one. At basketball games you don't have to sit quietly and not stim.
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# ? Apr 14, 2024 01:32 |
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mllaneza posted:I'ma let the kids have that one. At basketball games you don't have to sit quietly and not stim. I feel sympathy for her having two special needs kids, but to be honest that part had me eyeing her a little askance. She apparently never goes on these outings, not because wrangling the kids is hard, but just because they are "boy" things. Which makes me wonder a) why she can't go fishing just because she lacks a penis, and b) whether they have tried any other more "gender-neutral" family outings like going to the park or something where the boys don't have to sit quietly.
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# ? Apr 14, 2024 01:40 |
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Strap in. AITA for refusing to host Easter dinner if nephew is invited? quote:Throwaway bc wife knows my account. RELEVANT COMMENTS quote:Reddit Commenter: He has a history of poisoning. He has a history of hating women. He has a history of mentally abusing your wife. He has a history of saying the baby will have birth defects. quote:Reddit Commenter: Yes, the animal cruelty is a clear sign of him being an actual psychopath. The issue is how to make your wife see this without pushing it. Most people don’t want to believe their family is capable of such cruelty. You’ll have to be very very gentle if you intend to discuss it at all. Worst comes to worst, very carefully watch the food and drink. quote:Reddit Commenter: NTA but honestly the whole family are for allowing this to continue. How long has he behaved like this for? I can’t believe no one has taken him to a doctor I mean just the fact that this adult man is carrying around a stinky stained plushie of a fictional character is bad enough but the trying to hurt a horse thing? And no one thinks that’s worth looking into? quote:Reddit Commenter: Do you know if he has harmed other animals/wife's safety? MINI-UPDATE quote:My wife and I had a long talk this morning in which I made it clear that I was more concerned about her and our baby's safety than anything (I also apologized for resorting to name calling last night. Wife isn't a doormat, she just has a lot of love and patience for her family). FULL UPDATE (two weeks later) quote:This bizarre series of events started on Easter and has only gotten weirder since. For those of you who did not read/don't remember my original post, my Nephew was banned from our recent Easter dinner due to a concerning pattern of behavior, including recent disturbing text messages to my pregnant wife about her unborn child. quote:Reddit Commenter: NTA, Look for all I care you can be a rabbit identifying as a frog, or believe you are Superman, if you aren't hurting anyone and can function in society, have at it...BUT, This guy is scary AND dangerous. He hurts animals, hates woman, and has a false sense of reality. The family has enabled this behavior for years. This lead people to FIND THE NEPHEW'S TUMBLR ACCOUNT Random Commentor posted:https://www.tumblr.com/the-muppet-joker Another Random Redditor posted:Ohgods. THIS AH. He's caused some drama in the Hazbin and a few other communities. I know he's been banned from several more. I've had to ban him from a couple gaming communities.
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Troublemaker posted:AITA for telling my father “I do know about that”? https://youtu.be/YvT_gqs5ETk
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Cythereal posted:i (20/f) hooked up with another girl (18) 2 days ago and she is a neo-nazi. I think the wildest thing is I know at least like three people who have done this poo poo as well lol Turns out young and vulnerable people who have been in the closet their entire life can sometimes make bad judgement calls when offered a shred of intimacy, compassion or empathy. Also for anyone who thinks it's actually fine to "borrow the daughter" for mother's day, imagine if someone asked to borrow your partner for Valentine's Day because they have a lot of issues with their partner and they just wanted to do "normal partner things". The removal of autonomy plus the clearly bigger issues should be pretty obvious.
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Big Bowie Bonanza posted:WIBTA for breaking up with my girlfriend because she "asked for a date night"? Bros before hoes, man. But for real, she should break up with him. She didn't ask for any of this, and doesn't seem like she's on board. As soon as you have a kid, you can kiss your world goodbye, because it's not about you anymore.
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Cythereal posted:i (20/f) hooked up with another girl (18) 2 days ago and she is a neo-nazi. what's the phrase - if there's 9 people loving, and one nazi joins them, there's 10 nazis loving?
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Mordiceius posted:This led people to FIND THE NEPHEW'S TUMBLR ACCOUNT Ho-ly poo poo.
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Mordiceius posted:Strap in. Christ That kid needs to be committed. Like, yes, that kid REALLY loving NEEDS therapy but sometimes therapy needs to come from a place where they have drugs available and patients aren't able to open the doors.
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Mordiceius posted:
Oh my. That's so on-the-nose crazy it doesn't feel real.
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# ? Apr 14, 2024 02:27 |
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I just enjoy a good “OP had a spine” story.
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# ? Apr 14, 2024 02:33 |
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Was he dressed as Leto joker. Phoenix Joker, Ledger Joker, Nicholson Joker, or one of the other ones? And my prediction when I started reading was incorrect, I thought one of the characters he insisted on being called would be Sephiroth. That would fit better. When he showed up with the sword and they opened the door he could say "Welcome to the reunion"
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# ? Apr 14, 2024 02:35 |
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Yeah that kid is going to kill someone and it probably won’t be himself
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# ? Apr 14, 2024 02:36 |
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So he's fuckin a Kermit, right?
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# ? Apr 14, 2024 02:41 |
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He probably heard jordan peterson and thought kermit was telling him to join the alt right
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Chef Boyardeez Nuts posted:So he's fuckin a Kermit, right?
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Mordiceius posted:This lead people to FIND THE NEPHEW'S TUMBLR ACCOUNT quote:Mother believes tumblr is fueling my "delusion" that I am the Joker (she does not respect my kin identity). Forget therapy, that train left long ago. They need the old-fashioned guys with the white coats and a net. That blog is the kind of thing that is dug up after someone goes on a killing spree and has everyone asking "HOW DID THEY NOT NOTICE THE GIANT FLASHING WARNING SIGNS!?"
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The_Franz posted:Forget therapy, that train left long ago. They need the old-fashioned guys with the white coats and a net. I'm surprised the parents didn't buy him a gun for his birthday, what could go wrong?
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# ? Apr 14, 2024 03:04 |
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Please don't kermit horse murder
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# ? Apr 14, 2024 03:13 |
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the internet makes you stupid
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# ? Apr 14, 2024 03:21 |
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Maybe those millennial parents could afford therapy for their disturbed child if they weren't buying so many avocados
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John Wick of Dogs posted:Maybe those millennial parents could afford therapy for their disturbed child if they weren't buying so many avocados do you have any idea how many avocados horses eat??!
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quote:DEAR MISS MANNERS: At a restaurant, I was attempting to enjoy a meal with friends while taking in the beautiful ocean view. When I glanced to my right, I saw that the guy at the table next to us was wearing low-hanging shorts that revealed his butt. He was a young guy and appeared to be with family. So was this actually someone's bare rear end, or did this woman feel threatened by sagged pants, a fashion that has been around for over three decades and is associated with gangsters and the inner city?
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wheatpuppy posted:I feel sympathy for her having two special needs kids, but to be honest that part had me eyeing her a little askance. She apparently never goes on these outings, not because wrangling the kids is hard, but just because they are "boy" things. Which makes me wonder a) why she can't go fishing just because she lacks a penis, and b) whether they have tried any other more "gender-neutral" family outings like going to the park or something where the boys don't have to sit quietly. You don't have to wonder that hard, swapping the genders of a story is still a pretty useful thought exercise for a reason. I've seen that kind of thing before, and it's usually just as well that they never get to have their perfect little daughter because we drat well know the mom will see them as nothing but their little doll for their entire lives.
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trickybiscuits posted:So was this actually someone's bare rear end, or did this woman feel threatened by sagged pants, a fashion that has been around for over three decades and is associated with gangsters and the inner city? r/relationships: what exactly did you think the butt was going to do to you?
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# ? Apr 14, 2024 04:06 |
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Having just recently gone through outpatient therapy, that muppet joker needs to be committed like a year ago. I'm not surprised by his comments about feeling overshadowed by a horse, though. Op said he was "treated well" by his parents, and that always feels like for rich parents who just throw money at everything. That tumblr is loving surreal though.
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# ? Apr 14, 2024 04:14 |
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lol my best employee quit on the spot because I wouldn’t let her go to her college graduation quote:I manage a team, and part of their jobs is to provide customer support over the phone. Due to a new product launch, we are expected to provide service outside of our normal hours for a time. This includes some of my team coming in on a day our office is normally closed (based on lowest seniority because no one volunteered).
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trickybiscuits posted:So was this actually someone's bare rear end, or did this woman feel threatened by sagged pants, a fashion that has been around for over three decades and is associated with gangsters and the inner city? Probably OP got spooked because it was a nonwhite asscrack.
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My Spirit Otter posted:lol lol get hosed, especially at "I did intervene and switch one person’s end time because they had concert tickets that they had already paid for, but this was a special circumstance because there was cost involved" you piece of poo poo.
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