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ClamdestineBoyster posted:Yeah real life could be more like porn if people were emotionless dildos and never fell in love.
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:"This party will pay this much at this time and this party will pay this much at this time" is bog standard as far as contracts go. I have no idea why that wouldn't be legally enforceable. and yet, it wasn't? Occam's razor here, does this ridiculous agreement sound like something that actually happened and courts simply decided to say no cause they're big meanieheads, or does the 29 year old who still thinks they should get a stipend from their bankrupt and cancer ridden dad sound like a greedy and unreliable narrator.
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Jun 13, 2017 03:39
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I have a scar derived from a wound requiring eight stitches from when a woman hit me with a hotel room phone reciever because she was hosed up on benzos and opiates and went crazy on me. I was drunk and thus bled a lot. It didn't really hurt for the aforementioned reason luckily E: it's above my right eyebrow
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Jun 13, 2017 03:41
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ClamdestineBoyster posted:Yeah real life could be more like porn if people were emotionless dildos and never fell in love. Getting cougared meaninglessly is one of lifes experiences man. 
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Jun 13, 2017 03:42
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ArbitraryC posted:and yet, it wasn't? Occam's razor here, does this ridiculous agreement sound like something that actually happened and courts simply decided to say no cause they're big meanieheads, or does the 29 year old who still thinks they should get a stipend from their bankrupt and cancer ridden dad sound like a greedy and unreliable narrator.
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Jun 13, 2017 03:52
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Khorne posted:I learned this the hard way. Multiple times. "This will be fun for a while" *gets attached to the worst person in the world, wastes more time than a while* Hey you know what would fix that? More sex! 
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Wait are you suggesting that the agreement didn't really exist in the first place? Arrangements on who pays for college in divorce settlements are extremely common, dude. I...didn't think that was up for discussion, what a weird thought. It said in the op that whatever agreement they did or did not have was not legally binding so I dunno what you are arguing here. I feel like the super easy explanation is that cancer dad offered to help but was not legally obligated to and mrs "I need two cars and a grad degree for a major that can't offer financial support" is not being entirely honest about the nature of the agreement.
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Jun 13, 2017 04:11
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ArbitraryC posted:It said in the op that whatever agreement they did or did not have was not legally binding so I dunno what you are arguing here. I feel like the super easy explanation is that cancer dad offered to help but was not legally obligated to and mrs "I need two cars and a grad degree for a major that can't offer financial support" is not being entirely honest about the nature of the agreement.
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Jun 13, 2017 04:31
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Okay but "aha, the story isn't real you see" doesn't really make much of a difference, we can't discuss it beyond the text. The situation is entirely plausible and I think that anyone in that guy's position is a big jerk if they promise to pay and then don't, regardless of this particular OP's situation. I'm done!! we do it all the time tho, like when the op looks bad even when they're describing a situation where the world aligned to put them down we generally call that out, it's all I'm doin here. And even then i'm only goin with the info given in the OP, the courts agreed whatever agreement they did or did not have wasn't legally binding and that's a factual statement made in the post itself.
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Jun 13, 2017 04:48
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ArbitraryC posted:we do it all the time tho, like when the op looks bad even when they're describing a situation where the world aligned to put them down we generally call that out, it's all I'm doin here. And even then i'm only goin with the info given in the OP, the courts agreed whatever agreement they did or did not have wasn't legally binding and that's a factual statement made in the post itself. "does this ridiculous agreement sound like something that actually happened" you asked, like, "did this actually happen at all," like, "this is ridiculous and i don't think this agreement ever actually happened because the entire idea of the agreement is ridiculous" when agreements like that actually do happen a lot, even if this specific one happened to have been declared not legally binding for whatever reason
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Jun 13, 2017 04:51
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I apologize then, that's not how I intended to come across but I can see how I did and that's my bad.
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Wait are you suggesting that the agreement didn't really exist in the first place? Arrangements on who pays for college in divorce settlements are extremely common, dude. I...didn't think that was up for discussion, what a weird thought. There's, like, a billion ways that contract could not be enforceable, bullshit handshake agreements two morons drew up thinking they were gonna save money by not consulting no lawyer man getting voided when they hit the court system is exceedingly common. Given the utter lack of details provided by an unreliable narrator who's only been clear on that they have less fiscal sense than the average labradoodle, IDK what you'd stand on to argue with the judge that it wasn't a bunch of bullshit. A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 05:16 on Jun 13, 2017 |
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Jun 13, 2017 05:09
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Stop talking about the loving student loan contract. It's dull as hell. Me [35M] with my wife [36F] of two years, I'm in a wheelchair and I can't tell if I'm the butt of a weird joke with her friends (30-35, M/F) quote:Using a throwaway here. I met my now wife when I was 30 years. I was working as an EMT and she was a law student. We lived in the same apartment complex and got along really well. About a year into our relationship I was involved in a car accident that left me paralyzed (almost full use of my hands and arms, no use of my legs). Since we had only been dating a year, I assumed she would move on to someone else, but to my delight she stayed with me and we got married two years ago. "My wife and her friends have an in-joke about men who kind of look like me. ARE THEY MAKING FUN OF MY WHEELCHAIR? IT'S BECAUSE I'M A CRIPPLE ISN'T IT?"
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Jun 13, 2017 07:05
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Lareine posted:Stop talking about the loving student loan contract. It's dull as hell.
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Jun 13, 2017 08:33
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Nah actually it's kinda hosed up
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Jun 13, 2017 09:00
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Maybe he just has one of those generic NPC faces
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Jun 13, 2017 09:01
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She sounds like a good person and usually good people have good friends so yeah they're probably making jokes about him like they do any in their group trying to keep the 'normal' dynamic and including her. Yeah they might be huge assholes that are using this as a way to mock him but until further proof I'm going to go with they're the type that make these jokes and they are doing their best not to treat him differently.
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Jun 13, 2017 09:34
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The joke is the dude could never do these things because he's stuck in a wheelchair. They're absolutely mocking him.
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Jun 13, 2017 13:38
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He probably just looks like every other dude with a beard, undercut, and nerd glasses, and that is the joke.
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Jun 13, 2017 13:42
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Like, you could amass "dozens" of pictures of men who look like that in like, four hours at the mall. It's kinda funny. Come to think of it, the friend that my friends and I usually say people look like also has glasses and a beard. It's really fashionable right now. Especially if she's going to school.
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Jun 13, 2017 13:52
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PHIZ KALIFA posted:The joke is the dude could never do these things because he's stuck in a wheelchair. They're absolutely mocking him. She should really be standing up for him here
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Jun 13, 2017 14:22
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Maybe he's a basic bitch and being in a wheelchair is irrelevant. "Lol, look at ur generic man getting a latte." Maybe they're chronicling his exo-wheelchair adventures he has while nobody is watching. Maybe they just hate the disabled. Group chat poo poo can get deep into some in-joke secret twin language strangeness sometimes. Communication in short form punctuated by pictures and video links with X number of people in the same headspace can do that. OctaMurk posted:She should really be standing up for him here She already is! 
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Jun 13, 2017 14:23
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PHIZ KALIFA posted:The joke is the dude could never do these things because he's stuck in a wheelchair. They're absolutely mocking him. Seriously people can be poo poo but it's a bit of a stretch to assume this woman that's still with this guy tolerates friends that go 'haha look at this guy standing because your boyfriend can't do that'.
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Darkhold posted:Yeah they might be huge assholes that are using this as a way to mock him but until further proof I'm going to go with they're the type that make these jokes and they are doing their best not to treat him differently.
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toiletbrush posted:If they were really mocking him they'd probably be harsher than a man smoking a cigarette or with his hands around another woman, but really it's just really tame 'your husbands secret life' type stuff. What makes it a bit shady is the fact it's an in-joke she's sort of trying to keep secret. If he was part of the group chat and they made those jokes it probably wouldn't bother him at all. I dunno, it's kinda embarrassing to get caught out for anything like that on the spot. At least they weren't comparing sex spreadsheets, in THAT group chat, at least.
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toiletbrush posted:If they were really mocking him they'd probably be harsher than a man smoking a cigarette or with his hands around another woman, but really it's just really tame 'your husbands secret life' type stuff. What makes it a bit shady is the fact it's an in-joke she's sort of trying to keep secret. If he was part of the group chat and they made those jokes it probably wouldn't bother him at all. Dude went from zero to IT'S ABOUT MY LEGS ISN'T IT? ISN'T IT? SAY YOU HATE ME FOR MY LEGS in about a microsecond so it's actually not shocking at all that his wife would avoid giving him an exhaustive report on the subtleties of her interactions with the friend he hates it's not super cryptic, this is an incredibly common joke people make that isn't actually funny but friends do it anyway as an excuse to stay in touch, it's one of those habits of people who form longstanding relationships with other humans that they like, and is sort of weird to explain to an outsider fishing for sinister secret meanings exactly because there isn't much of any meaning behind it. I guess think of it as le epic i'm gay meme if that helps you relate. A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 16:27 on Jun 13, 2017 |
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Lareine posted:Stop talking about the loving student loan contract. It's dull as hell. I think I found a picture of that guy 
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Jun 13, 2017 16:54
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Yeah wheelchair guy is overreacting, basically everyone I know does the same thing. poo poo, my boyfriend and I even do it with the dog. (We call them doppelpuppies)
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OP's husband spotted https://youtu.be/rwLEnDku_Uw
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Pvt.Scott posted:OP's husband spotted Haha I loving knew someone would link that.
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MF_James posted:Haha I loving knew someone would link that. It's the only cool part of that terrible movie. That dude rules.
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I [29/F] used the wrong pronouns for an old friend and now have been exiled from our group of friends.quote:My old high school friends and I meet up once a year over memorial day weekend in our hometown. Most of my friend group still lives there, or lives in cities an hour or so away. They meet up more frequently and are still pretty involved in each others lives. Another friend and I live across the country so we only see them the one time a year. This year we decided to rent a cabin overnight at a local lake. The newly submitted section is always a fun trip
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You already hosed up tripped their victim complex trap-card. Just give up and embrace your new role as Hitler crossed with Satan because you're forever garbage in their hosed up self-obsessed eyes.
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Jun 13, 2017 18:25
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That dude is probably twisting the situation pretty hard.
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Jun 13, 2017 18:28
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a little from column a, a little from column b
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Yeah that only needed to work in a mention of dyed hair to hit every "angry redditor screaming about ess jay dubyers" bingo square
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Listen, I know hes one o them faggoty types that gets your sissy rear end whirrin up but-- Course I called him that, he smokes poles like itll get you into heaven! He wants to be a she? Fuckin hell fine, she's one o them faggoty types...
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CharlestheHammer posted:That dude is probably twisting the situation pretty hard. What dude? The dude from the story? Because the OP is a FEMALE YOU SHITLORD My (26F) BF (25M) is too afraid to drive quote:My BF and I will be moving 6 hours of car away soon. We don't have a lot of things to move and will be able to physically move everything ourselves. The problem is figuring out how to move everything (transportation). We don't have a car. Non-drivers suck, both the OP who is 26 without her license and her 25 year old boyfriend who hasn't driven in 3 years and is too scared to.
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Lol just lol keeping in touch with highschool friends.
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