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If you say its a turn off and ask them to stop it, but then gently caress them anyway, you're not sending the message its a turn off and you don't like it. The correct response is the honest reply of "No, that baby talk made me dry as the Sahara." and not gently caress them.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 16:12 |
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# ? Jun 6, 2024 02:14 |
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Jfc that's one of the grossest stories posted in a long while.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 16:26 |
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my new seduction technique just isn't for philistines I guess
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 17:25 |
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ArbitraryC posted:Yeah I mean my opinion on this topic is difficult to express, it's not that I feel like there's anything wrong with casual sex it's just that my experience has show me that people who stray too far from the average, in either direction, tend to either make for for p bad partners or tend to be overly accepting of bad partners. I think you'll find there are bajillions of internet people willing to point out how too little experience is bad so i didn't really find the need to dwell on it too hard, I just also have noticed that the flipside to this has become a bit unacceptable to address without people accusing you of being a bad person so I was trying to be as neutral as possible in saying that I would personally find it a bit of a red flag. This is pretty spot-on with how I feel, too, but like you said it's difficult to discuss without sounding overly judgemental. A friend of mine once sent me a Jazebel article about a girl telling people to get off her back for having 40+ partners a year. I think she sent it to me to legitimize her current escapade of one-night stands. My response was "that lifestyle deffo isn't for me, but you do you and be safe" but she still accused me a slutshaming. I guess she wanted me to glorify the author as some pinnacle of modern feminism? It wasn't a very fun conversation. That friend ended up contracting an STI because she didn't use protection and then cheated on her next boyfriend three times before he finally broke up with her.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 20:01 |
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Propaganda Hour posted:This is pretty spot-on with how I feel, too, but like you said it's difficult to discuss without sounding overly judgemental. A friend of mine once sent me a Jazebel article about a girl telling people to get off her back for having 40+ partners a year. I think she sent it to me to legitimize her current escapade of one-night stands. My response was "that lifestyle deffo isn't for me, but you do you and be safe" but she still accused me a slutshaming. I guess she wanted me to glorify the author as some pinnacle of modern feminism? It wasn't a very fun conversation. That friend ended up contracting an STI because she didn't use protection and then cheated on her next boyfriend three times before he finally broke up with her. The first mistake was listening to anyone who tells you that you doing whatever gently caress-all thing you want is a progressive statement of any kind.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 20:27 |
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Over 40 partners a year just tells me she likes sex and hates people.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 20:30 |
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You can't fill the gaping emptiness inside you with sperm.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 20:30 |
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Pick posted:You can't fill the gaping emptiness inside you with sperm. Pfft, sounds like something a quitter would say
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 20:32 |
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Pick posted:You can't fill the gaping emptiness inside you with sperm. That sounds like a challenge tbh
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 20:32 |
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Pick posted:You can't fill the gaping emptiness inside you with sperm. they said man couldn't fly to the moon once, too
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 20:34 |
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more than a dozen partners in a year is too much imo because at that point random sex is your hobby and it's a pretty bad/destructive hobby
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 20:37 |
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What a loving idiot: My wife (39f) and I (40m) had a threesome with her friend (32f) and now she will not speak to me. quote:u/whatcanido101
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 20:39 |
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Let's have a new and emotionally fraught sexual experience without discussing boundaries first! This will be good
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 20:42 |
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Milotic posted:What a loving idiot: I feel bad for Steph ; (
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 20:43 |
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OctaMurk posted:I feel bad for Steph ; ( I don't, they're stupid bastards.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 21:00 |
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boner confessor posted:more than a dozen partners in a year is too much imo because at that point random sex is your hobby and it's a pretty bad/destructive hobby What if it's a fun outlet for your spreadsheet addiction?
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 21:00 |
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Milotic posted:What a loving idiot: I like how he can't even just own up to the fact that the reasons his wife is mad are entirely accurate. He writes so passively like it was just one huge coincidence he spent the entire threesome neglecting her and even cuddled with her over the wife after they went to bed.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 21:04 |
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Pick posted:You can't fill the gaping emptiness inside you with sperm.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 21:14 |
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Milotic posted:What a loving idiot: Local man discovers One Weird Trick to cheating on his wife! Spouses hate him!
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 21:18 |
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On top of that dude being a dumb poo poo, I take issue with the way he squandered a threesome
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 21:24 |
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For real tho you gently caress the other woman and just roll over to sleep when you can't get it up again? Eat (Clapping hands emoji) your wife's (Clapping hands emoji) pussy!
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 21:30 |
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Welp, my dick isn't working so I guess all the sex stuff is done for the night. If only there were sex acts that don't require an erect penis. Shucks.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 21:34 |
that's still a tree in the forest. give your SO the first poke.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 21:35 |
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HoAssHo posted:Welp, my dick isn't working so I guess all the sex stuff is done for the night. If only there were sex acts that don't require an erect penis. Shucks. Yeah, I'm sure fingerblasting his despondent wife for 10 minutes was gonna salvage this sinking ship.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 21:35 |
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The error seems to have been both in principle, and in execution.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 21:45 |
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Gumbel2Gumbel posted:Over 40 partners a year just tells me she likes sex and hates people. It's one of those things where I don't think there's any problem with the act in theory but the practice just doesn't work out, which you should be able to figure out with a couple minutes' thought. Like, sure, if it's OK to have sex 40 times with 1 person in a year then logically having sex 40 times with 40 different people shouldn't really be so different. But at some point the logistics just stop working unless you start cutting some corners that... probably shouldn't be cut. It's not immoral so much as it's just a bad idea.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 21:45 |
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Look, Philberto, youre a nic- ok guy, but I got a quota to hit so how about you stop faffing about deciding what you want for dinner we leave here and go do the humpty hump in a burger king bathroom so i can make my 8'oclock?
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 21:49 |
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Straight White Shark posted:It's one of those things where I don't think there's any problem with the act in theory but the practice just doesn't work out, which you should be able to figure out with a couple minutes' thought. Like, sure, if it's OK to have sex 40 times with 1 person in a year then logically having sex 40 times with 40 different people shouldn't really be so different. But at some point the logistics just stop working unless you start cutting some corners that... probably shouldn't be cut. It's not immoral so much as it's just a bad idea. In practice sex generally is part of, like, a kind of emotional intimacy you're definitely not sharing with 40 people concurrently, and if you're passionlessly humping your way through hookup after hookup that probably speaks to either a compulsive disorder or an underlying inability to actually connect with others. pump-and-dumping vague acquaintances just isn't that much fun. A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 21:54 on Jun 28, 2017 |
# ? Jun 28, 2017 21:51 |
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Are you trying to tell me the Emperor should have no heirs???
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 21:54 |
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:In practice sex generally is part of, like, a kind of emotional intimacy you're definitely not sharing with 40 people concurrently, and if you're passionlessly humping your way through hookup after hookup that probably speaks to either a compulsive disorder or an underlying inability to actually connect with others. pump-and-dumping vague acquaintances just isn't that much fun. generally people in a slutty phase who aren't grappling with some psychological issue are just engaging in pointless belt-notching. it's the same thing as people who try to travel to as many different countries as possible just to tick them off the list
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 21:57 |
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yeah but exploring new countries is fun and getting awkwardly jerked off by a succession of lonely chicks you don't like is awful
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 21:59 |
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:yeah but exploring new countries is fun and getting awkwardly jerked off by a succession of lonely chicks you don't like is awful I dont think these are two different activities.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 22:03 |
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HoAssHo posted:Welp, my dick isn't working so I guess all the sex stuff is done for the night. If only there were sex acts that don't require an erect penis. Shucks. ...wait, what?
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 22:04 |
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boner confessor posted:generally people in a slutty phase who aren't grappling with some psychological issue are just engaging in pointless belt-notching. it's the same thing as people who try to travel to as many different countries as possible just to tick them off the list To be fair, some of them are just desperately trying to create one magical passionate whirlwind experience and are just numbly feeding quarters into the sl the holy poopacy fucked around with this message at 22:10 on Jun 28, 2017 |
# ? Jun 28, 2017 22:05 |
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:yeah but exploring new countries is fun and getting awkwardly jerked off by a succession of lonely chicks you don't like is awful there's a difference between a romantic fling exploring paris and planning out the optimal route to hit every south american nation so you can get back home before your budget runs out really it's just an imbalance in quality vs quantity of collected experiences
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 22:07 |
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let's see if I can get a quickie at the bus stop in Peru I can catch the 11:30 and have all afternoon to find someone to blow me in Ecuador, then it's on to Medellin for the donkey show
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 22:10 |
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Me [64 M] with my kids 23F, 21M, 19M, 18M and soon to be ex-wife 50F (24 years). I've been cheating for almost 20 years and am about to divorce, best way to tell my kids?quote:I'll provide some background information first before. My wife and I have been married for 24 years. The start of our relationship was very romantic and compatible. We had and still have many of the same hobbies we were very affectionate with each other and had a very fulfilling sex life. Sadly, this changed shortly after the birth of our last son. Clearly, I was more than willing to wait the full 8 weeks for my wife to heal after giving birth.
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 22:10 |
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haaa he almost kept the woe-is-me act up and then fumbled at the last sentence
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 22:13 |
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Pac-Manioc Root posted:The error seems to have been both in principle, and in execution. lol
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 22:13 |
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# ? Jun 6, 2024 02:14 |
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paul mccartney is going to slap the poo poo out of that guy
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# ? Jun 28, 2017 22:14 |