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Leon Einstein posted:Where does it say she was sleeping? ah, you're right, i misinterpreted the mention of lying on her back with her stomach out, thought she said she was napping not just lying down
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Not /relationships but fits there 100%quote:(MA) Hospital placed a wire in my arm to track me, without my knowledge or consent. Photo included for proof. I have called multiple law offices but no one is returning my calls. Somebody please, please help me.
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Dec 30, 2017 14:57
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tater_salad posted:Not /relationships but fits there 100% This is sad because they have paranoid schizophrenia. Poor thing. Glad they called the ambulance!
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IAmNotYourRealDad posted:This is sad because they have paranoid schizophrenia. Poor thing. Glad they called the ambulance! Right I agree 100%
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tater_salad posted:Not /relationships but fits there 100% poo poo on reddit as much as you want, but the people in that thread were really excellent. They worked to calm and reassure the guy, there were only 3ish posts that were deleted by mods. There were EE people assuring them that it wasn’t possible, people talking about that they had the same tendon as in the picture etc... I’m glad someone is getting the help they need and it’s kinda an uplifting thing to read first post in the morning.
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Dec 30, 2017 15:48
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IAmNotYourRealDad posted:This is sad because they have paranoid schizophrenia. Poor thing. Glad they called the ambulance! I'm honestly impressed that person managed to write up such a coherent post while having an episode.
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Dec 30, 2017 15:49
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Oh hey, it's a client. (not mine, I don't work in MA) I'm glad they went to the hospital to get more help. 
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Dec 30, 2017 16:32
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Reminds me of the Carbon Monoxide ones. Scary stuff. quote:My (33M) Sis-in-law (41F) is coming to our house because hers is haunted.
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Dec 30, 2017 16:39
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Did a search for Carbon Monoxide and this one popped up...quote:Me (32F) had to move in with family, things go missing
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Dec 30, 2017 16:41
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Pick posted:Me [24 /F] with my husband [35M], married 5 yrs. I feel like a slave.Relationships quote:He also frequently says that im the only good thing in his life and he'd kill himself if I ever left You should definitely leave anyone that says this.
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Admiral Ray posted:You should definitely leave anyone that says this. Yeah it's practically a giveaway.
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Dec 30, 2017 18:53
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Is it wrong that I [25F] want to break up with him [36M] because he doesn't make enough money?quote:We've been dating for a few months now and have settled into a relationship. I really like him and feel like we have good chemistry, but I asked myself today if I could see him as someone I'd want to marry and honestly he's not- simply because he doesn't make enough money. I know how shallow and fickle that is, but I grew up poor and I've worked extremely hard to build a high-paying career for myself, and the idea of committing myself to someone that makes far less than me and putting me in danger of being in that position again honestly scares me. I also don't want to be the provider in this relationship- especially as he's over 10 years my senior- it just makes me uncomfortable. Is it wrong to break up with someone on this basis alone? He has no goals to ever get a high earning job or climb a ladder, because he does really love his job and I admire that, but it has a very low salary and it worries me a lot. How should I deal with this situation? Failed musician? Barista? Guess.
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La Brea Carpet posted:Is it wrong that I [25F] want to break up with him [36M] because he doesn't make enough money? Stories of self-sabotage are my muse. Reading into the comments it looks like they've only been dating a few months anyway. This lady needs dump this impoverished no good loser and find her a corporate attorney or surgeon to ignore her as she spirals into alcoholism and benzo abuse.
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La Brea Carpet posted:Is it wrong that I [25F] want to break up with him [36M] because he doesn't make enough money?  so he can find someone better.
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man if there's only one lady orc no wonder he softballs a proposition for sex to will smith
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La Brea Carpet posted:Is it wrong that I [25F] want to break up with him [36M] because he doesn't make enough money? Wasn’t expecting that one. That chick should gently caress off so dude can find a non-fickle non-garbage woman to date. My parents were both teachers and they provided for us just fine and they had insanely good health insurance/dental. (And they had a schedule where they could come to all of my soccer matches/track meets)
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It turns out what baby boomers got isn't the same as what millennials get, though. Your parents or grandparents could've had HS diplomas and worked at factories and still raised a family just fine, not so much anymore. I think this part goes a long way quote:I grew up poor and . . . putting me in danger of being in that position again honestly scares me
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Dec 30, 2017 19:20
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Pick posted:Me [24 /F] with my husband [35M], married 5 yrs. I feel like a slave.Relationships bad news honey - you've hit the magic 5 year mark - he's now "accustomed to a certain lifestyle" and thanks to the magic of feminism you can be ordered to pay him alimony until he dies if you divorce 
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Dec 30, 2017 19:36
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La Brea Carpet posted:Is it wrong that I [25F] want to break up with him [36M] because he doesn't make enough money? Why are you dating a dude 11 years older than you with no financial prospects. Its a buyers market for women, dont get hung up on the cute home with character.
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Dec 30, 2017 19:40
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Pick posted:... that's the wrong thread but that's ok. When that happens to me I always immediately cop to it and cover my tracks, but one day I hope to be brave enough to let them stand without explanation, like the guy who kept posting his fitness log in the abortion thread.
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Dec 30, 2017 19:41
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fruit on the bottom posted:When that happens to me I always immediately cop to it and cover my tracks, but one day I hope to be brave enough to let them stand without explanation, like the guy who kept posting his fitness log in the abortion thread. To be fair theyre all losing weight
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Dec 30, 2017 19:42
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maskenfreiheit posted:bad news honey - you've hit the magic 5 year mark - he's now "accustomed to a certain lifestyle" and thanks to the magic of feminism you can be ordered to pay him alimony until he dies if you divorce Btw, there are literally only 400,000 people in the entire US receiving alimony. Someone getting all worked up about it is a good sign they're hanging out in MRA circles.
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maskenfreiheit posted:bad news honey - you've hit the magic 5 year mark - he's now "accustomed to a certain lifestyle" and thanks to the magic of feminism you can be ordered to pay him alimony until he dies if you divorce Yeah, but he said he’ll kill himself if she leaves, so problem solved!
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Barudak posted:To be fair theyre all losing weight 
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Pick posted:... that's the wrong thread but that's ok. It was pretty apropos. I totally forgot the other thread and scrolled up to find the post I missed.
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Dec 30, 2017 19:49
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Pick posted:I (33F) went to sleep a year ago with my wonderful new husband (40M). I woke up next to a stranger in his body. I can't be two people. The answer is simple. Theres a stranger in your house; it took a while to figure out. He can't be who he says he is, it's gotta be someone else. Cuz he wouldn't touch you like that, and he wouldn't treat you like he does. He would adore you. He wouldn't ignore you. So I'm convinced, there's a stranger in your house.
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Anne Whateley posted:It turns out what baby boomers got isn't the same as what millennials get, though. Your parents or grandparents could've had HS diplomas and worked at factories and still raised a family just fine, not so much anymore.
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Pick posted:My [26F] boyfriend [30M] just found out the reason behind his snoring and I am terrified My then girlfriend and now wife is the reason I found out I have sleep apnea as well (almost this exact situation in fact) and I can’t stop thanking her for it, six years later. Seriously, a CPAP machine has changed my life.
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Pick posted:man if there's only one lady orc no wonder he softballs a proposition for sex to will smith LOL. I was like,"gently caress! How the hell did I manage to post that in the wrong thread?" I'm using the app, so don't have multiple tabs open. Centaur riot cop was awesome.
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Classical Muzak posted:My then girlfriend and now wife is the reason I found out I have sleep apnea as well (almost this exact situation in fact) and I can’t stop thanking her for it, six years later. Seriously, a CPAP machine has changed my life. My dad used to snore so badly it terrified my friends when I had a sleepover for my 12th birthday. He’s had a CPAP for about 7 or 8 years now and same, it made a world of difference (beyond just the snoring).
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Anne Whateley posted:I can't find any states that award permanent alimony after only 5 years, and permanent alimony is super rare regardless of marriage duration. I was being hyperbolic. It typically ends if they marry again. But at the 5 year mark he probably could get alimony especially if he spun his nonwork as depression that requires treatment For the record alimony is a good thing but a lot of case law got turned sideways when courts started ruling men can get it. There was an interesting piece in I think NYT talking about it recently
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Most alimony is time-limited regardless of remarriage. Most states require 10 or 15 years of marriage before the possibility of anything. The Supreme Court ruled against gender bias in alimony in the 1970s.
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Dec 30, 2017 20:35
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Almost every alimony situation I personally know of is hot garbage, regardless of gender. The one I hate the most is this lady who was the sole breadwinner for her loser, able-bodied husband for almost ten years while he did nothing but lift weights and hang at the coffee shop and after she finally divorced him she has to pay him out for the rest of his life. He still doesn't work and lives in a trailer out of state solely on the money she earns at her job as a public servant as a woman in her 50s. He's the sole reason she can't retire.
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La Brea Carpet posted:Is it wrong that I [25F] want to break up with him [36M] because he doesn't make enough money? "I love educating children and inspiring the next genera-" BUT MONEY I wish I knew what area they were in. Teacher salaries and benefits often get trashed but in some areas, they can make pretty solid money and I would so love for him to be making 50k+. flick my Mr. Bean fucked around with this message at 21:20 on Dec 30, 2017 |
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Dec 30, 2017 21:13
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Yeah I'm of the mind alimony is complete bullshit. You shouldn't be legally obligated to take care of a capable adult like that.
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money money money always sunny in the rich man's world woooOOOooooOOOoo h oh oh! WooooOOoooOOoo o oh oh!
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If I suggested my husband give up his career and do nothing but lift weights to look hot for me and then dumped him after 20 years, I think it'd be fair if he were awarded alimony. If all he was going to do was lift weights anyway, well, I got a bad deal in that marriage.
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Scathach posted:Yeah I'm of the mind alimony is complete bullshit. You shouldn't be legally obligated to take care of a capable adult like that. Ok, picture this. You get married. You have a high paying job, and you love your wife. You tell her to pursue her passion - art, writing, whatever. You're a team, and you can bring in enough that you're comfortable, especially since you're both childfree. 10 years later, he gets restless. He decides to divorce. She has 10 years of no job history, little to no assets. If you throw in kids it's especially bleak. This can create situations where the wife stays in unpleasant, even abusive situations because the alternative is starvation. But flip the genders around and *poof*. Maybe alimony isn't a good idea  http://abcnews.go.com/Business/role-reversal-wives-angry-paying-alimony/story?id=8662940 Though to be clear, I was mostly LOLing that the woman stayed in a lovely marriage so long... you won't get perpetual alimony after 5 years but you'll get some most likely, and if she'd been quicker that wouldn't be the case
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Yeah alimony generally protects a woman whose job was home-maker, caretaker, and/or mother. There are edge cases.
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