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Absurd Alhazred posted:This one is eerie What kind of closure does this dude need? Seriously. Your wife left for 6 months with no word to anyone except your nanny. Then she had some kind of sociopathic break and doesn't regard you or your kids with normal love and affection. Just divorce her and recommend therapy. 
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:What kind of closure does this dude need? Seriously. Your wife left for 6 months with no word to anyone except your nanny. Then she had some kind of sociopathic break and doesn't regard you or your kids with normal love and affection. Just divorce her and recommend therapy. but marshal and lilly stayed together!!#!!
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Why can't people just type poo poo instead of poop like loving adults.
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maskenfreiheit posted:Showed up to my SO's place with poop in my pants. Thinking about breaking it off cos of the way they treated me. lol (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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Anyone have a link to that old article written by the guy who talked his girlfriend into polyamory and she left him after she got pregnant
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maskenfreiheit posted:Me [20 F] with my boyfriend [23 M] of two years, we had a dumb poop-related fight this morning and I'm wondering who is in the wrong here. I was hoping this was gonna be about poop knife etiquette. You should always hang your poop knife on the right side of the toilet. If a left handed person lives in the house, you are required by decorum to have two poop knives. One for each side.
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Whorelord posted:Why can't people just type poo poo instead of poop like loving adults. I took a poo poo in my ex-girlfriend's bed. Can I get in legal trouble for this? quote:Ok so this happened yesterday and I've been freaking out about it since.
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maskenfreiheit posted:I took a poo poo in my ex-girlfriend's bed. Can I get in legal trouble for this? I immediately respect him more.
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Haifisch posted:I [42 M] with a woman I've been dating [39 F] just had the worst sexual experience ever and I'm trying to figure out why someone would do this That's a massive drivel of pointless words over what should have been "I dated a batshit insane woman 2 or 3 times who has very weird ideas about sex and relationships." No one wanted to read this!
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maskenfreiheit posted:Me [20 F] with my boyfriend [23 M] of two years, we had a dumb poop-related fight this morning and I'm wondering who is in the wrong here. Even in our most screaming, knock down, drag out fights, I've never called my wife a b-word, let alone the c-word. The c-word is basically scorched earth, I am done with being in a relationship territory. This is  , for those confused.I'm not sure why anyone would put up with that level of disrespect on a day to day basis. I mean, once someone has seriously let you know in no uncertain terms that they want you to stop something, you do. If you care about them even a little bit. I guess the time to fix this was the first time it happened, because now he knows there are no consequences.
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:That's a massive drivel of pointless words over what should have been "I dated a batshit insane woman 2 or 3 times who has very weird ideas about sex and relationships." No one wanted to read this! How can I [late 20s f] get my boyfriend [early 30s] to stop drinking and driving? quote:Hi all!
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maskenfreiheit posted:2) the "i'm about to take a poo poo position" involves putting your feet up on the tub https://youtu.be/YbYWhdLO43Q?t=34
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My[M25] Girlfriend [F26] wants me to let her look at my poop...quote:
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Should we [20s, M/F] say something to our roommate about his eating habits? [20M]quote:I changed all names because abbreviations started to confuse me.
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He probably just won a contest for a lifetime supply of cheeze-its, the problem will solve itself in a 30 days.
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Haifisch posted:Should we [20s, M/F] say something to our roommate about his eating habits? [20M] Carl might be depressed as gently caress. People’s eating habits can go weird if you get to a point where you don’t care and basic day to day things feel like too much effort. E: dudeness posted:He probably just won a contest for a lifetime supply of cheeze-its, the problem will solve itself in a 30 days. LOL
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Jan 14, 2018 03:19
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This is excretable behavior. I hope all these people with lovely partners end up dumping them. Eliminating that kind of human waste would feel amazing. These relationships sound crappy anyway, it's just time to flush them out of your life. Poop.
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girl pants posted:This is excretable behavior. I hope all these people with lovely partners end up dumping them. Eliminating that kind of human waste would feel amazing. These relationships sound crappy anyway, it's just time to flush them out of your life. 
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My [15M] brother [17M] asked our brothers girlfriend's son [I think he's 2 or 3] why his mother did not make him a burrito instead of a sandwich because she's Hispanic. Brother [24M] is pissed off with us both.quote:My brother is pissed off with us both at the moment. My brothers and his girlfriend just moved in together. They met in college, and she had a child with another guy before they started dating. He's not in the kids life from what I understand. My brother is white and she's Hispanic.  quote:[–]Stranger0nReddit 42 points 7 months ago
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Haifisch posted:My [15M] brother [17M] asked our brothers girlfriend's son [I think he's 2 or 3] why his mother did not make him a burrito instead of a sandwich because she's Hispanic. Brother [24M] is pissed off with us both. 
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(Non-Romantic) Sister (mid-20s) keeps getting lovely tattoosquote:UPDATE: Thank you everyone for the advice. I think the route we are going to take is to give her the drawing but explain that it will not look good if she goes to her tattoo artist. We have a few other artists we will show to her and if she picks one of them, we will pay the difference of what she was going to spend at her artist. I'm still going to suggest she tag along on my next one to meet with him since I think he would be a good fit and would do the style she wants well. Again thank you all for your advice.
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We just got home from a big fancy birthday dinner for my brother’s aunt and like 30% of the conversations were stories about poops and farts. It made me think of y’all.
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Bamabalacha posted:We just got home from a big fancy birthday dinner for my brother’s aunt and like 30% of the conversations were stories about poops and farts. lv u 2 bb <3 My parents [45M/F] think that I [19F] need psychological help because of my obsession with a fictional character. quote:So, I'm obsessed with Harley Quinn. Me, being uninformed with comics, had only found out about her during the Suicide Squad hype, and curiously watched Batman: The Animated Series. It was from then on I became enamored with her character.
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I (21f) feel lied to that my boyfriend (24m) is JUST telling me he is bisexualquote:I have nothing against the LGBT community but I feel that he should've told me in the beginning. Just like his preference is girls who date guys and guys who date guys. My preference is guys who date girls ONLY. I feel disgusted and lied to and so humiliated. We've been together 2 years and he is just telling me. Like who does that? I am going to break up with him but I need a way to figure out how to do it without sounding like a huge A hole or homophobe. I just. Thankfully, the comments are tearing into her: quote:"Who does that” OP posted:I'm not gonna berate him, I still haven't berated him. I'm just gonna try and end things in the nicest most non-judgemental way possible quote:Do you know what the word "non-judgemental" means? OP posted:I mean when I break up with him, I'm gonna attempt to not gonna make him feel bad about anything. quote:You're literally breaking up with him because of his sexuality. Something he can't control. You should examine your biphobia and your homophobia because you reek of it.
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Am I [M25] standing by while my girlfriend [F25] goes on a date with her ex [M27]? My girlfriend and her ex dated for 3 years before breaking up because he moved out of state for school. The break up really hurt my girlfriend and she begged to get back together but he declined. Almost a year later we met and started dating. Soon after that he came back for a break, and she asked if she could meet up with him and get closure. I said no. Over the last two years, they texted occasionally but she always told me about it and it was always minor, like birthday wishes. Recently, he did a rotation near us and invited her to dinner. She asked me, and this time I was hesitant but said yes. Immediately afterwards she came over to my place and told me how much she loved me. She said she had idealized him in her head during the breakup and, after seeing him, realized he was just okay and that her relationship and life was much better with me. A couple days later he sent her an casual instagram DM. This was weird because they never texted casually, but they started to after that. I’ve seen the messages and they could be read as flirty or as friendly. For example, he goes to school in the midwest so she teased him about corn fields and he teased her back. Once she mentioned that she was creeped out while home alone and he offered to Facetime, but she said it was okay and told me about it. He’s coming back again for break and they made plans to hang out again. This time she made them first and told me about them after, but she did tell me about them. She misses his dog so they’re going to walk the dog through the neighborhood and get brunch. I’m having a really hard time here. I feel like she’s been honest and upfront about everything, but like… that sounds like a date right? A super convenient date for him since it starts and ends at his house, and he could easily invite her in. But at the same time it’s a pretty casual hang out, not a bar or fancy dinner place, and if it was just a random guy friend I wouldn’t see a problem. How do I draw boundaries here? tl;dr: having trouble drawing boundaries as my gf tries to befriend her ex again. Current issue is that she plans to get lunch and walk his dog with him, which sounds like a date to me.
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Absurd Alhazred posted:I (21f) feel lied to that my boyfriend (24m) is JUST telling me he is bisexual I like how she phrases it as "lying" as if it's a relevant omission. Would a brunette be mad to find out 2 years into her relationship the guy also found blonde chicks attractive.
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A lovely sibling twofer: I (27/f) want to skip my brother's (30/m) wedding to go to my friend's (30/f) wedding quote:'m sorry if this is long but the background is important I think: I am 3 years younger than my brother, Jim and we are the only 2 children in our immediate family. My entire life Jim has not liked me. I guess I always thought we would grow closer as we got older but that doesn't seem like it's going to happen. Literally, one of my first memories is Jim yelling that he didn't want to play with me because he wanted a brother and not a stupid sister. Okay- just kid's stuff. My parents chose the neighborhood we grew up in because there were a lot of kids and we were basically turned loose in the morning and could come back at night. Jim went out of his way to get me actively excluded from this group of kids. And not in an annoying, younger sister wants to tag along kind of way- he went to all the girls my age and told them things like I picked my nose and ate it and that I never showered and I was gross and told all the boys my age that if they played with me they would never be allowed to play with him and his friends. Because out town was small, these were also all the kids I went to school with so I was pretty alone at school to. The only person who was ever kind to me was Ashley. She had 3 older brothers that were total All-American, perfect athletes that were all older than Jim so she was untouchable in our neighborhood and could do whatever she wanted without getting messed with. When Jim tried to tell her I was gross and stupid she said I wasn't and would hang out with me. Pretty much, Ashley took me under her wing, hung out with me and, as we got older, would eat lunch with me in school, walk home with me, etc. When she graduated before me, we stayed close and have been best friends for most of our lives. We live in different cities across the country from each other and have since she left for college but we facetime literally 3 or 4 times a week, visit each other a couple times a year, we made it to each other's college graduations and I was the first person she told about her engagement after her family. By contrast, my brother left our town for a college 30 minutes away and literally the only texts I ever got from him were "mom says i should tell you happy birthday" (actually that was on my facebook wall) and "don't tell me you're thinking about coming here" when I asked him about scheduling a college tour of his school because it had a good program I was interested in. I [22/F] found out why my step-sister [25/F] doesn't talk to me quote:My parents divorced when I was 7, and I found out later that my dad had been cheating on my mom for the duration of their 9 year marriage, and 2 years of dating. My mom had a lot of trouble trusting men afterwards, and didn't date until I was 10, when she met my stepdad. I met him after they'd been dating for 6 months, and met his daughter Nina, who was 13 at the time, a month later. They moved in after a year together, he proposed 6 months later, and they were married by the end of the year. Nina was always really awkward. Her parents had divorced when she was 6, and her mom had cut contact and moved across the Atlantic. I had trouble without order when I was a kid, so my mom had a lot of rules- make your bed before you go to school, you can't go out if you haven't done chores, homework must be done before supper, you have to read something each day, etc. My stepdad thought the rules were good- Nina didn't respect him. For much of her life, he'd had no authority over her. When she was a kid, he worked most of the time and her mom doled out punishments and policies. Once she was gone, Nina had a hard time believing that the guy who was just around for playtime had anything hard to say. When he told Nina she was grounded, it held no weight. When her phone got taken, it was for 10 minutes, tops. My mom changed that in an instant. If Nina didn't make her bed, she wasn't allowed to go out with friends until she made it. If she snuck out, her phone was put in the family safe. If she didn't do her homework, my mom would sit with her at the dining table and they wouldn't leave until it was done- their record time for sitting there was 5 hours.
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Absurd Alhazred posted:I (21f) feel lied to that my boyfriend (24m) is JUST telling me he is bisexual
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Absurd Alhazred posted:A lovely sibling twofer: The second one I can potentially understand more from a weird one sided sibling rivalry that came about in an awkward merger of two families, I think the step-sister is still being a shithead but I can sort of understand why a childhood grudge spiraled so hard. The first one is just confusing, why exactly does the dude hate the OP so much. There's not even a bad reason given.
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ArbitraryC posted:The second one I can potentially understand more from a weird one sided sibling rivalry that came about in an awkward merger of two families, I think the step-sister is still being a shithead but I can sort of understand why a childhood grudge spiraled so hard. I think he hates women.  My (20/F) boyfriend (24/M) of 10 months says I’m not allowed to masturbate anymore because it’s selfish of me and makes him feel unwanted. quote:I moved in with him last month and we started having sex multiple times a day. From what I can tell he’s happy about our sex life. Yesterday I was masturbating because I thought my boyfriend was going to be away for the whole day. He surprised me by coming home early and caught me in the act. My boyfriend got mad at me and said I was being selfish by trying to pleasure myself. He said it made him feel unwanted knowing that I’d choose touching myself over having sex with him. I have a counter-offer: break up with him, giving him a real reason to feel unwanted. What a shithead.
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Absurd Alhazred posted:I think he hates women. Whatever reason he has I doubt it warrants his comments about or treatment of the OP but like there must be something in their history that flips the switch between him being a likable person to everyone else and a monster specifically towards her. Everything about the post is just so cartoonishly evil that I'd pay a fair chunk of change just to hear whatever it is he thinks is his side of the story.
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ArbitraryC posted:The part that stands out to me as particularly odd is that the soon to be wife has been friendly with the OP, wants to include her, and sounds like an overall good person. Whatever grudge the dude has against the OP has clearly not been vocalized or explained to his fiancee and she seems to be none the wiser to the situation, to the point of wanting to include her in the bridal party. Or he's hiding it very well from his fiance, like he'd managed to hide his disdain from his mother. Orrr you could again invent the worst about a woman who is posting about lovely behavior on r/relationships, we could always do that yet again.
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He wanted a brother. It doesn't make much sense to me but he outright stated it so I'd go with it. Maybe he really feels having a sister affected him negatively.
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girl pants posted:lv u 2 bb <3 The obsession over Harley Quinn is the worst.
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Absurd Alhazred posted:Or he's hiding it very well from his fiance, like he'd managed to hide his disdain from his mother. What part of "Whatever reason he has I doubt it warrants his comments about or treatment of the OP" sounds like I'm inventing the worst about her? I'm just genuinely curious why he seemingly hates her for no reason and his bitter toxic personality seems to begin and end with only her. Like the other story I don't agree with the step sister at all but I can make the connection between her being resentful about the step mom's parenting and putting it all on that OP. It's absolutely wrong but there's a clear irrational reason for the animosity.
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Jeza posted:If you aren't mutual poop observers, how can you say you're in a stable and loving relationship? 
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My Girlfriend [24F] of 9 years says that she hates my beard and that she’s not attracted to me [24M] at all with it. Every other person I know says that it looks great.quote:If you would like to see images of beard vs no beard take a look at the other post on my account. My previous post was removed for having links Maybe it's time to break up and date one of the many other people who like your beard/might have a non-lovely relationship with you?
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Absurd Alhazred posted:I (21f) feel lied to that my boyfriend (24m) is JUST telling me he is bisexual Does she say how long her BF has known he was bisexual? Sometimes you don't figure that poo poo out until adulthood when you might already be in a long term relationship and your SO is the first person you come out to after you've settled on things internally. At least, it was that way for me. Even if he's known for a long time, it can still be difficult to tell others, especially if you think they might have a bad reaction.
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