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Id wig right out if I found that cat as the proverbial cherry on top of all that like I'd probably end up in jail or something Holy poo poo
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boner confessor posted:yeah i can understand why people would want to punish her severely but on the other hand both her parents died and she moved directly into their house full of all of their sentimental things, so Yeah my sympathy ended with the cat thing though
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Feb 13, 2018 20:00
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Like I don't think a continued relationship is feasible. Get her mental help? sure. But she's going to be seeing that dead cat every time she looks at her sister.
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Feb 13, 2018 20:12
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Apparently she was too consumed with grief to do the very minimal care it takes to keep a cat alive yet still somehow managed to purchase and begin renovations on a second house. I'm not buying it. Also my day is kind of ruined now thinking about that poor cat lonely and freezing to death THANKS LADY
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Feb 13, 2018 20:19
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Once again some stupid cat detail steals the show itt.
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Feb 13, 2018 20:20
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I guarantee that house she moved into is an empty shell with no renovations at most, doesn't exist at worst. As for the cat, she probably couldn't find it anymore and thought it ran away
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Feb 13, 2018 20:22
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And it wasn't just any cat, it was a cat she gave to her  But she really needs to not take it personally or get too emotional. Sister is mentally ill and awful and can't really be talked to or reasoned with, she's in full denial mode. So just bear down and fix the house, sell it, do what must legally be done regardless of the relationship drama that potentially comes out of it. "The house wasn't that much of a mess! You're just trying to take my half of the house money!" is a big potential drama, so good-brain sister needs to document the hell out of everything. Photos, official quotes from cleaners and contractors, there needs to be an airtight case.
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Feb 13, 2018 20:23
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The saddest part is the cat snuggling up in the sister's clothes because they smelled like her. Btw if you're ever pet sitting, borrowing someone's pajamas wearing/leaving them near wherever you're sleeping is a great way for pets to get used to you since even washed you'll still smell like their owner.
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Feb 13, 2018 20:23
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and that cat had a small picture of the younger sister in its paw
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Feb 13, 2018 20:26
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Baronjutter posted:And it wasn't just any cat, it was a cat she gave to her
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Feb 13, 2018 20:31
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datajugend posted:and that cat had a small picture of the younger sister in its paw lol
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Feb 13, 2018 20:41
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Dumping people who friendzone me (self.confessions)quote:Soo, I got rejected the other day, and she says she wants to me friends. The only problem is that I don't want to be her friend, I wanted to date her. Nice Guy confessing to doing the actually normal thing because the creep choice seems natural to him lol.
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Feb 13, 2018 20:59
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Respected her wishes? What a tool!
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Feb 13, 2018 21:02
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Earlier in the thread, three people asked me to extrapolate on why I had security escort my in-laws out of the hospital when my daughter was born. I didn't answer cause thinking about it frustrated me at the time but I'm going to now by writing my own r/relationships post, free of charge! That way I can pretend it's actual content and I'm not making GBS threads up the thread. My MiL[50sF] faked a suicide attempt and outed my mother's [53F] painful secret she kept for over thirty years quote:My mother-in-law has what I suspect to be BPD but she refuses to be honest with psychiatrists so they can't accurately diagnose her. Instead, she claims she enjoys manipulating them into believing that she's a victim of her mentally unstable daughter. 
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Feb 13, 2018 21:05
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She revealed this while you were all in the hospital? Or just showed up there a long time later trying to act like nothing happened?
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Feb 13, 2018 21:09
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Al Borland Corp. posted:She revealed this while you were all in the hospital? Or just showed up there a long time later trying to act like nothing happened? She revealed it anywhere between a year and six months prior to the hospital. I'm not sure exactly but I can figure out that based on where we were living during both situations. Then she showed up at the hospital because her, her best friend, and my father-in-law all staked out different hospitals waiting to see someone they recognized so they could find us.
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Yeah there's a whole lot of information missing between that story's conclusion and her being escorted from the hospital. e: I see you edited in some color
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Feb 13, 2018 21:17
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Andy Dufresne posted:Yeah there's a whole lot of information missing between that story's conclusion and her being escorted from the hospital. Just trying to clarify. It's surprisingly hard to write it out sensibly when some details are clear, some are fuzzy, and I don't want to ramble on and start listing out characters like the awful r/relationship posts. Chapter One: The Suicide... My mom [63F] is mad at me [21F] for losing "too much" weight.Non-Romantic quote:Hi all, Comments reveal, of course, the mom used to be thin but is obese now. flick my Mr. Bean fucked around with this message at 21:27 on Feb 13, 2018 |
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Feb 13, 2018 21:24
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Al Borland Corp. posted:That cat night have still been alive until she opened the door to the house You son of a bitch. You made me laugh about a cat death. Bored fucked around with this message at 21:59 on Feb 13, 2018 |
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Feb 13, 2018 21:33
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Fatties getting enraged when friends and family successfully become healthier flies in the face of a lot of their delusions and rationalizations and makes them jealous and angry. I've seen it happen with fat friends who basically get ostracized from their other fat friends because of it. It's really pathetic and reminds me of how the incel "community" will treat someone who finally gets a date.
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Feb 13, 2018 21:35
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Palpek posted:Dumping people who friendzone me (self.confessions) That's right, men and women can't be friends because that "thing" that always comes up. I'm not sure what happens if either party involved is gay or asexual in this scenario, but I'm gonna go with it!
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Feb 13, 2018 21:35
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Midnight Voyager posted:Finding out that a cat died alone and unloved of cold and potential starvation when her sister shrugs and says it was given to a friend is not going to help either. That isn't poo poo you can just get out of your brain. gently caress the cat. Help the sister anyway.
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Feb 13, 2018 21:36
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Bored posted:Did you post about the suicide threat in E/N? Cause I remember that part of the story from SA somewhere. I like that she invited an audience over to witness her bullshit. Some of those people absolutely know how awful she is. Nope, but I did bring it up in a different GBS thread that had something to do with crazy relatives like a year ago. I didn't mention the marriage though because the tone of the thread was fairly lighthearted with people talking about their hoarder grandma or something and I didn't want to suddenly be like "lol yeah so about domestic abuse"
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tactlessbastard posted:gently caress the cat. Help the sister anyway. You'll find on the internet there is no higher crime than doing anything negative towards a cat for any reason.
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Feb 13, 2018 21:38
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Baronjutter posted:You'll find on the internet there is no higher crime than doing anything negative towards a cat for any reason. dogs, however *cracks knuckles*
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That cat night have still been alive until she opened the door to the house
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boner confessor posted:dogs, however *cracks knuckles* Backing you up on this for when people who don't remember the joke get angry. Punch that fuckin' mutt right through the floor.
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Vargatron posted:That's right, men and women can't be friends because that "thing" that always comes up. I'm not sure what happens if either party involved is gay or asexual in this scenario, but I'm gonna go with it! They can be friends, but seriously, if you start out wanting a sexual relationship with someone it's probably in your own best interests to not stay for a friendship if they say no. Especially if there isn't a prior friendship.
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Vargatron posted:That's right, men and women can't be friends because that "thing" that always comes up. I'm not sure what happens if either party involved is gay or asexual in this scenario, but I'm gonna go with it! If he thinks he's going to have trouble getting over her romantically, then no, he shouldn't try and be friends with her. What the gently caress is your problem?
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Ziv Zulander posted:If he thinks he's going to have trouble getting over her romantically, then no, he shouldn't try and be friends with her. What the gently caress is your problem? I was being sarcastic.
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I think the guy wants reddit to give him permission to poo poo all over her because she wouldn’t gently caress him.
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:Nope, but I did bring it up in a different GBS thread that had something to do with crazy relatives like a year ago. I didn't mention the marriage though because the tone of the thread was fairly lighthearted with people talking about their hoarder grandma or something and I didn't want to suddenly be like "lol yeah so about domestic abuse" According to the app, you don't have pm's, so I gotta poo poo up the thread with serious stuff. Good on you for making her face actual consequences for her actions. And your SO is awesome for not feeding into her mother's drama. Unfortunately, my crazy stepmom's kids all believe her lies about me and themselves, somehow. Except for the youngest who has somehow remembers the past abuse of all the girls in the household clearly. Unfortunately, unlike your wife, she has not severed with my father or stepmother so I can't keep in contact with her. I miss little Kate. Sure, she's an adult now, but she's still my little sister, who was hilariously impossible to wake for school, in my head. I'm super impressed with your wife for being able to not only identify the awfulness of her mom, when she has been raised in that quagmire, but to cut her mom out so that you and the kids don't have to deal with that crap.
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Clark Nova posted:I think the guy wants reddit to give him permission to poo poo all over her because she wouldn’t gently caress him. Uh he already asked her about doing thay and she turned him down???
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Clark Nova posted:I think the guy wants reddit to give him permission to poo poo all over her because she wouldn’t gently caress him. Permission granted
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Gf[23] is going to a one on one dinner with her ex of 3 years and is planning it out.quote:So basically the gist is that my Gf of 8 months is pretty much taking her ex out to dinner. She said it's so they can catch up and see how's he doing and hopefully if he's ready then they can be friends. To be honest I'm not sure how to feel about this... Also keep in mind that her ex also through her a big suprised bday before he chose to go move on with his life. However now out of no where my gf wants to take him one on one to a dinner and everything. Also she's the one that dumped him  Found the buried lede in a post by the same user one month earlier: Gf[22] been dating about 7 months now. Told me round September that I'm a rebound and has started to see and talk to her ex again they dated for 3 years quote:So the jist is around September my current gf went to see her ex who she dated for 3 years and basically said she regrets breaking up with him and not only that but said that I am a rebound. So at first I told her to atleast try and make it work since she kinda owes me that... So she has been trying and I have introduced her to my family however. I also posted photos of me and her on Instagram. However it seems that even after all this I still haven't met her family nor has she even posted a photo of me or anything on snapchat. And not only that but a few weeks ago she has started to talk to her ex and they've been hanging out once a week going out to eat and drive around. And like I'm not sure what to do I usually text her once in a while and see what she's up to. And she has met my family. So I'm not sure what I should do... What does this all mean?
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tactlessbastard posted:gently caress the cat. Help the sister anyway. You missed the other reply where I said to help the sister, but that the relationship will probably be harmed anyway because you can't erase traumatic memories from your brain. she can help her sister without having to act like nothing happened and ignore her own feelings,
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Sister’s cat is survived by 15 siblings 39 children and 383 grandchildren. It was three weeks from retirement. Let’s all take a moment out of our day to paws and reflect on its tragic passing.
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Doggles posted:Gf[23] is going to a one on one dinner with her ex of 3 years and is planning it out. Not so much a rebound as physical therapy
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Pvt.Scott posted:Sister’s cat is survived by 15 siblings 39 children and 383 grandchildren. It was three weeks from retirement. Let’s all take a moment out of our day to paws and reflect on its tragic passing. Honestly if she only left behind one mummified kitty carcass she’s not a very impressive hoarder
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Skutter posted:I [18 F] am being harassed, alienated, and vilified in school by peers and several teachers because I drew a picture of Jesus [2018 M] as an anime character He's only 2017 his birthday isn't til December! 
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