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lazorexplosion
Mar 19, 2016

C-SPAN Caller posted:

What's the female equivalent weird internet term for attractive well-adjusted people or is it just slut/whore/bitch and they lack any originality.

On /r/incels they keep calling them 'female human organisms' or FHOs and 'prime young females' I don't even know if a troll came up with that or what the deal is there but :cripes:

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Skratte
Nov 11, 2010



quote:

My [22F] boyfriend [36M] is mad... all because I said Deadpool was hot.

This is probably the stupidest thing I've ever had to write.

So, last night, my boyfriend and I went to see Deadpool. It was amazing! I'm not much into comics, but he is. Somewhere in the movie I mentioned that I found Deadpool attractive in his suit (he's not that ugly outside of the suit, in my opinion). After that my boyfriend just got kinda, I don't know, weird. He was quiet and didn't touch me after that.

After the movie he was still keeping it up so I just went ahead and asked him what the deal was. Finally, he admitted that he wished I never mentioned finding Deadpool attractive. I tried telling him that was pretty dumb, considering I mostly meant the suit, and mentioned the fact that he could go on and on about how hot Scarlett Johansson is. He said it was different, because while he can't go gently caress Scar Jo, I could easily go out and meet someone in a Deadpool suit.

It sounds so unreal. I just told him whatever, if he was going to act like a child then I wasn't going to be hanging around him. I just went back to my apartment. It's been a couple hours and he hasn't texted me or responded to my snapchats. What the gently caress do I do?

tldr: Boyfriend is upset I thought Deadpool's suit was attractive. Does he think I'd go out and cheat on him with a cosplayer?

Ah, ten year difference manchildren, will you ever stop being funny

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost

Skratte posted:

Ah, ten year difference manchildren, will you ever stop being funny

tale as old as time

SIDS Vicious
Jan 1, 1970


Cumslut1895 posted:

that's a mirror

nah

Facebook Aunt
Oct 4, 2008

wiggle wiggle




underage at the vape shop posted:

Show us the ugliness you are talking about. Doesnt have to be you, but an example

"Beauty & The Beast: Ugly Face of Prejudice" has had some doozies.




















Though most people who complain about being ugly aren't nearly that bad. Hollywood ugly, not ugly ugly.

underage at the vape shop
May 11, 2011

by Cyrano4747

No one is denying medical conditions exist? But thats not what people are talking about.

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost

Facebook Aunt posted:

"Beauty & The Beast: Ugly Face of Prejudice" has had some doozies.




















Though most people who complain about being ugly aren't nearly that bad. Hollywood ugly, not ugly ugly.

And in every single case the person with facial disfigurement was way cooler than the insufferable dumbass they were forced to put up with

Cumslut1895
Feb 18, 2015

by FactsAreUseless

Facebook Aunt posted:

"Beauty & The Beast: Ugly Face of Prejudice" has had some doozies.




















Though most people who complain about being ugly aren't nearly that bad. Hollywood ugly, not ugly ugly.

look at all these lazy pieces of poo poo. why do their personalities suck so much?

Facebook Aunt
Oct 4, 2008

wiggle wiggle




underage at the vape shop posted:

No one is denying medical conditions exist? But thats not what people are talking about.

The thing is, over the internet we can't tell the people with physical problems from the ones with mental problems. Some people even have both.

But yeah, a lot of people who think they are ugly are merely average looking. Some of them were ugly for teenagers, because puberty can be cruel, but will be perfectly unremarkable by the time they are 40. They aren't ugly, they just aren't hotties.

Could be some distortion from media. The people on TV are, in general, better looking than average. And the people in porn are completely ridiculous.

Cumslut1895
Feb 18, 2015

by FactsAreUseless

Facebook Aunt posted:

The thing is, over the internet we can't tell the people with physical problems from the ones with mental problems. Some people even have both.

But yeah, a lot of people who think they are ugly are merely average looking. Some of them were ugly for teenagers, because puberty can be cruel, but will be perfectly unremarkable by the time they are 40. They aren't ugly, they just aren't hotties.

Could be some distortion from media. The people on TV are, in general, better looking than average. And the people in porn are completely ridiculous.

except by the time they're 40, they've missed out.

Troposphere
Jul 11, 2005


psycho killer
qu'est-ce que c'est?

Cumslut1895 posted:

except by the time they're 40, they've missed out.

lol dude just post your pic

Cumslut1895
Feb 18, 2015

by FactsAreUseless

Troposphere posted:

lol dude just post your pic

gently caress off.

underage at the vape shop
May 11, 2011

by Cyrano4747
Post your pic. Honestly if you post a pic in ylls asking for help to play to your strengths, they will be more than willing to help

Id go so far as to say theres not a person on Earth (obviously not including those with medical conditions etc) that is truly ugly.

Cumslut1895
Feb 18, 2015

by FactsAreUseless

underage at the vape shop posted:

Post your pic. Honestly if you post a pic in ylls asking for help to play to your strengths, they will be more than willing to help

Id go so far as to say theres not a person on Earth (obviously not including those with medical conditions etc) that is truly ugly.

that is a very stupid and privileged thing to say.

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost

underage at the vape shop posted:

Post your pic. Honestly if you post a pic in ylls asking for help to play to your strengths, they will be more than willing to help

Id go so far as to say theres not a person on Earth (obviously not including those with medical conditions etc) that is truly ugly.

dude, any of those people above look loving fine too so if they're reading this then let's have a loving beer sometime

Cumslut1895
Feb 18, 2015

by FactsAreUseless

Pick posted:

dude, any of those people above look loving fine too so if they're reading this then let's have a loving beer sometime

they just need to work on their personalities

Troposphere
Jul 11, 2005


psycho killer
qu'est-ce que c'est?

Cumslut1895 posted:

gently caress off.

*gazing at cumslut1895's rap sheet* ahhhh yes, this poster has Issues

Cumslut1895
Feb 18, 2015

by FactsAreUseless

Troposphere posted:

*gazing at cumslut1895's rap sheet* ahhhh yes, this poster has Issues

you got me: I'm black. I'm sorry. (not john pop tho)

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost
:siren: all people look okay because they're people and that's how they look, and terms like "deformity" are incredibly loaded for reasons that are often more cultural than physiological :siren:

Troposphere
Jul 11, 2005


psycho killer
qu'est-ce que c'est?

Cumslut1895 posted:

you got me: I'm black. I'm sorry. (not john pop tho)

it is more problematic what is inside your head, in the brain area-- the crazy parts

Cumslut1895
Feb 18, 2015

by FactsAreUseless

Pick posted:

:siren: all people look okay because they're people and that's how they look, and terms like "deformity" are incredibly loaded for reasons that are often more cultural than physiological :siren:

I'm going to go ahead and guess you don't look like one of those poor people posted earlier.

boner confessor
Apr 25, 2013

by R. Guyovich

underage at the vape shop posted:

You need to define single session because 6 drinks in a night isn't that much if you're at a party or going clubbing or w/e

it is comparatively, if you can drink 6 drinks in a night and not be wobbly then you're way on the high scale of tolerance and are probably an alkie in one way or another. if you're a young person who parties then you have plenty of time to change your ways, and probably will as you slow down in adulthood, but if you're an older person who can clear a six pack no problem then that's intro to chronic health problems 101

underage at the vape shop posted:

E: I feel like a dick reading on, it's great you dealt with your alcohol problems.

i haven't, i'm on drink #10 as i write this, but i know at least i've reached my upper limit of alcoholism and it's very unlikely i'll ever be the kind of person who has a breakfast bloody mary every day or ends up shithammered before the sun goes down on a weekend, let alone the chronic sad sack who spends all day every day drinking until they die. alcohol addiction is a spectrum, and most people who drink regularly exist on it whether it's the light i'm fat and dozy side or the awful cirrhosis and inevitable painful sad death side

e: if it helps to the current discussion i'm conventionally attractive and decently well spoken + charming

boner confessor fucked around with this message at 08:51 on Dec 16, 2016

underage at the vape shop
May 11, 2011

by Cyrano4747

Cumslut1895 posted:

that is a very stupid and privileged thing to say.

How so.

Bare in mind I have a big nose and my hair rapidly receded at age 19, I'm no model. I'm just perfectly secure in my average looks and skinny build. I even used to be fat, but I put in effort and lost 20kg at the beginning of the year

corn on the cop
Oct 12, 2012

Break what must be broken, once for all, that's all, and take the suffering on oneself.

― Corey Dostoyevsky
Do you idiots know how to drop arguments

Facebook Aunt
Oct 4, 2008

wiggle wiggle




corn on the cop posted:

Do you idiots know how to drop arguments

Do you know where you are right now?


:regd08:

Cumslut1895
Feb 18, 2015

by FactsAreUseless

underage at the vape shop posted:

How so.

Bare in mind I have a big nose and my hair rapidly receded at age 19, I'm no model. I'm just perfectly secure in my average looks and skinny build. I even used to be fat, but I put in effort and lost 20kg at the beginning of the year

boner confessor
Apr 25, 2013

by R. Guyovich

every other ugly person in this post has some genetic problem but lady on the left just has horrible burns. not fair


dude on the right has hosed up skin wart condition but at least he can dress himself unlike wannabe punk pharrell williams

boner confessor fucked around with this message at 09:02 on Dec 16, 2016

Cumslut1895
Feb 18, 2015

by FactsAreUseless

boner confessor posted:

every other ugly person in this post has some genetic problem but lady on the left just has horrible burns. not fair

she just needs confidence

nomad2020
Jan 30, 2007

I'm sure it'll buff right out.

The Whoreax
Sep 7, 2008
I speak for the wood.
the brokebrains are coming from inside the forum help

Facebook Aunt
Oct 4, 2008

wiggle wiggle




boner confessor posted:

every other ugly person in this post has some genetic problem but lady on the left just has horrible burns. not fair

She doesn't have burns, she has harlequin ichthyosis. She's lucky to have survived infancy.

underage at the vape shop
May 11, 2011

by Cyrano4747
What do you look like Mr Slut that you compare your features to those with medical conditions

Waterbed Wendy
Jan 29, 2009

underage at the vape shop posted:

What do you look like Mr Slut that you compare your features to those with medical conditions

He just keeps saying he is black over and over as if that for some reason is supposed to makes us go "oh black? say no more!"

Cumslut1895
Feb 18, 2015

by FactsAreUseless

Waterbed Wendy posted:

He just keeps saying he is black over and over as if that for some reason is supposed to makes us go "oh black? say no more!"

im black

Tiny Deer
Jan 16, 2012


I'm picking a post to quote at random to say: I'm sorry the world has hurt you so badly. I hope you have other things in your life that make you happy.

Cumslut1895
Feb 18, 2015

by FactsAreUseless

Tiny Deer posted:

I'm picking a post to quote at random to say: I'm sorry the world has hurt you so badly. I hope you have other things in your life that make you happy.

thank you, growing up jewish has been v. hard.

edit: that is not me obvs.

Problem Sleuth
Apr 12, 2011

WELCOME TO THE NEW FUTURE

Cumslut1895 posted:

thank you, growing up jewish has been v. hard.

edit: that is not me obvs.

you're trying really hard dude

Tolkien minority
Feb 14, 2012



I'm gonna be mad if u don't even lift

Pretty good
Apr 16, 2007



Cumslut1895 posted:

thank you, growing up jewish has been v. hard.

edit: that is not me obvs.
Jesus dude stop.

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Tolkien minority
Feb 14, 2012


My husband (30M) makes up stories and passes them off as "jokes"

quote:

UPDATE: Had a really good chat with the husband. He actually felt bad that I took it so poorly last night, he was just too proud to admit it was a bad joke at the time.
He admitted he's been under a lot of stress lately, we both have, and was a bit concerned because of the price of the tickets, which explains a lot. He agreed that sometimes his "jokes" aren't very funny but sometimes he just doesn't know how to talk to me because I seem more focused on our son than him. Same thing goes with some of his other relationships, he feels because of his new role as a parent he just doesn't know how to relate to his friends/family sometimes. We're going to look into getting some outside help and perspective - counseling - this weekend.

In the meantime, he told me to try to video the next time he makes a "joke" because he's convinced he's a lot more telling than he actually is. Thanks you all for the perspectives and advice!
My husband (30M) and I (31F) have been married for 3 years, dating for 5 years before that.
My husband has always had a dry sense of humor, one of the things I love about him, but lately he's been doing this thing were he makes up a story to see if anybody will believe it, and then will say: "Just kidding!"
And I'm loving over it. It's not funny and makes me (and others) feel stupid.

Example from last night: My friend and I got 4 tickets to Hamilton in San Francisco, so we were planning on doing a double-date thing with our husbands and I was telling him all about it.
Husband: That's so cool, I'm so glad you guys were able to get tickets! Did you know they are going to turn it into a movie?
Me: No! Really?
Husband: Yeah! It looks like Hugh Jackman is going to be Hamilton, and they are currently auditioning for the other parts.
Me: That's cool, I dunno about Hugh Jackman though.
Husband: Nah, he can totally pull it off.
Me: It's funny, I haven't heard anything about them making a movie, but now I'm super duper excited!
Husband: I'm just kidding.
Me: .... Wha?
Husband: There's no movie.
Me: ....
Husband: It's just a joke!
Me: Do you enjoy making people feel stupid? Why would you joke about that? It's like the "Boy Who Cried Wolf" ... nobody is going to believe what comes out of your mouth the more you make up stuff like that.
Husband: Oh my god, you are so sensitive. It's just a joke.
Me: Whatever.
Husband: Oh goody, now you are going to be in a bad mood the rest of the night.
Me: I don't even know how to respond to that. You made up a story and I believed you, and now you tell me it's a joke. How EXACTLY is that a joke?
Husband: Stop over-reacting. Sheesh!

Anyway, I let it go but it's really bothering me because he does stuff like this ALL THE TIME. I hate to throw out the word "gaslighting" but I honestly feel like he is a hair away.
We have a son (2) and I don't want him growing up confused and distrusting his own father.
I'm looking into counseling because I don't think he understands how damaging this behavior is, but does anybody have any suggestions or advice?

tl;dr: Husband makes up stories about stupid stuff and passes them off as "jokes." I'm over it.
i thought hugh jackman starring in hamilton was a pretty good joke :colbert:

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