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OwlFancier)
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Did Starmer call for a ceasefire at some scotlab event? If so he'll have the opposite position within 48 hours when he encounters the English media.
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 22:12 |
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# ? Jun 3, 2024 02:49 |
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OwlFancier posted:You could make an argument of magnitude between sustained hostility and momentary instances of unkindness, but the issue there is that what I experienced was consistent momentary unkindness from everyone around me, which builds an atmosphere of sustained hostility. But the accusations weren’t about “everyone around [the person]”. Just one specific user
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 22:12 |
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look since i accidentally caused all this drama by saying i post less in a thread because i find a couple of other posters and an IK a bit lovely, it behooves me to say LOL
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 22:15 |
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crispix posted:look since i accidentally caused all this drama by saying i post less in a thread because i find a couple of other posters and an IK a bit lovely, it behooves me to say LOL I agree with you. the previous idiot king was much better.
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 22:16 |
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you high strung bastards are all right!
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 22:19 |
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crispix posted:look since i accidentally caused all this drama by saying i post less in a thread because i find a couple of other posters and an IK a bit lovely, it behooves me to say LOL tbh I stopped reading that thread too but it was only because nothing in it was ever interesting ever
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 22:19 |
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Escobarbarian posted:But the accusations weren’t about “everyone around [the person]”. Just one specific user The suggestion was that reading someone saying something lovely about you could be a remarkably unpleasant experience if you are already having a difficult time of things. It did not in any way suggest that a single post in isolation would make somebody kill themselves and you should read it again if you think that's what it said. It explicitly acknowledges other contributing factors and I think additionally, that it is a sign of a developed sense of empathy that somebody would feel conflicted witnessing someone being lovely towards someone else who then went on to take their own life. That's a very normal and good thing to feel. It's the sort of thing that should give anybody pause.
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 22:21 |
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How The gently caress Is Cyberbullying Real
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 22:24 |
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crispix posted:look since i accidentally caused all this drama by saying i post less in a thread because i find a couple of other posters and an IK a bit lovely, it behooves me to say LOL They certainly managed to prove you wrong, didn't they?
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 22:26 |
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Wolfsbane posted:They certainly managed to prove you wrong, didn't they? How so?
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 22:29 |
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Escobarbarian posted:This is an insanely lovely post btw. If someone is feeling suicidally depressed some rando internet post is not going to make a difference one way or the other. Don’t be a jackass Your reasoning seems to be that if it didn't tip them over the edge, it's an unreasonable thing to be concerned or sad about. Can we at least agree that it very much is, and it's acceptable to say 'hey I wonder if that affected that person more' without it turning into accusations of accusations of murder? Yeah I'll admit I hosed up in my wording because I made an assumption. But it bothers me to see an appeal to empathy like that treat with such open disdain. And it's deeply weird to use such hyperbolic language as 'jackass' and 'insanely lovely post' over someone having the audacity to be empathetic over a sad situation.
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 22:30 |
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oh ok fair enough
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 22:37 |
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OwlFancier posted:Personally, random internet posts have occasionally had a rather heavy impact on my mental health and this is a strange attitude to take. That one line post about the toddler thing from earlier today messed me up for about half an hour, absolutely horrible
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 22:38 |
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Escobarbarian posted:tbh I stopped reading that thread too but it was only because nothing in it was ever interesting ever If it helps I recently joined that thread and started complaining about the price of croissants
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 22:50 |
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I don't mind it if people get mad at me on here, it's just nice to be noticed
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 22:52 |
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Chubby Henparty posted:That one line post about the toddler thing from earlier today messed me up for about half an hour, absolutely horrible The news story about that made me cry when I saw it channel 4 news a few weeks ago, not least because I have a toddler the same age
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 22:53 |
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Microplastics posted:The news story about that made me cry when I saw it channel 4 news a few weeks ago, not least because I have a toddler the same age you'd already had to deal with the whole croissants thing too
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 22:54 |
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Microplastics posted:If it helps I recently joined that thread and started complaining about the price of croissants At last a cause people can get behind to bring about real change.
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 23:00 |
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the simplest solution is to just not make nasty posts
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 23:00 |
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Chubby Henparty posted:That one line post about the toddler thing from earlier today messed me up for about half an hour, absolutely horrible It messes me up a little bit every day because i can't stop thinking about it and how my son would do the exact same thing if it happened to us.
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 23:02 |
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Bobby Deluxe posted:Just since you chose to drag this back up (and in such a hyperbolic way as well!), I've tried a few times now to word a good reply about how the quote you're criticising is wondering about the effect that reading those posts would have on someone in a fragile mental state, and how even if none of those things caused a suicide, it's still lovely to say those things to someone who's open about how bad their mental health is. I truly believe that an individual’s suicidal ideation goes so much further than someone making a handful of posts being amused by someone’s privilege. Of course I am only one person but having felt those thoughts myself I cannot comprehend some rando on SA affecting them one way or the other, regardless of the person’s self-esteem at the time, and I truly think making a post suggesting it could is gross. But hey, the person who made the initial post also feels the same way, so
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 23:05 |
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Lt. Danger posted:the simplest solution is to just not make nasty posts Ok so, to talk about something definitely not nasty at all (hi everyone I mostly lurk but sometimes ask stupid question, what's up): I read some article about the leasehold system in the UK recently and that poo poo is bleakly hilarious. However, the government has solemnly promised to actually do something about it to make things better. Obviously this will never happen, because have you like, seen this government... or will it? Is there any news about the leasehold reform? Apparently 1st Feb was some kind of deadline for the latest info, though I couldn't actually find this latest info anywhere. I guess the government just did gently caress all and skipped the info and the media don't give a poo poo?
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 23:06 |
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announcement on what the reform bill will look like is 'expected' next month, apparently (in the final section of this article)
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 23:17 |
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https://www.jewishnews.co.uk/top-london-boys-school-refuses-talk-by-former-student-israeli-government-spokesman-eylon-levy/quote:Top London boys’ school says no to talk by former pupil, Israeli spokesman Eylon Levy
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 23:19 |
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While Keith called for a ceasefire in Scotland today, he happened to meet with Blinken last night while he was on his pro-genocide world tour https://twitter.com/SecBlinken/status/1758963219752743192 e: Both are (ex?) members of the Trilateral Commission https://declassifieduk.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/PDF1_compressed.pdf fuctifino fucked around with this message at 23:39 on Feb 18, 2024 |
# ? Feb 18, 2024 23:36 |
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I bet America says every relationship is special and we're just the idiots who believe it.
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# ? Feb 18, 2024 23:37 |
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Azza Bamboo posted:I bet America says every relationship is special and we're just the idiots who believe it. no we promise ur v special 2 me bb
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# ? Feb 19, 2024 00:07 |
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Jaeluni Asjil posted:https://www.jewishnews.co.uk/top-london-boys-school-refuses-talk-by-former-student-israeli-government-spokesman-eylon-levy/ It's rare to get such a strong combination of the "I have been cancelled" and "I'm not mad, you're mad" memes. Kudos, also, for playing the "I have been cancelled" card when you're literally a spokesperson for a government. That man has gumption.
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# ? Feb 19, 2024 01:24 |
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Soylent Yellow posted:I'm not worried about dogs, I'm more concerned about ferrets. I've just been out for a walk, and came across an escaped ferret. Little poo poo bit the hell out of me when I picked it up. Had to walk home holding it behind the head in a deathgrip to stop it from having another chew. The little twat was practically red by the time I got it home. surprised it didn't just ooze between your fingers, that's generally how ferret anatomy works
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# ? Feb 19, 2024 01:49 |
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Azza Bamboo posted:I bet America says every relationship is special and we're just the idiots who believe it. It was special, 80 years ago when we still had an empire.....
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# ? Feb 19, 2024 05:41 |
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jaete posted:Ok so, to talk about something definitely not nasty at all (hi everyone I mostly lurk but sometimes ask stupid question, what's up): I heard it got watered down to being effectively meaningless but I can't remember where I heard that so I'll be interested to see what it actually says. Just had an offer accepted on a house yesterday and one of my red lines in the whole house hunting process was "no leaseholds".
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# ? Feb 19, 2024 08:03 |
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You basically can't be in Israeli government without having an enormous reserve of bald-faced brazenness. Israeli politicians are the smuggest pieces of poo poo on earth.
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# ? Feb 19, 2024 08:09 |
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jaete posted:Ok so, to talk about something definitely not nasty at all (hi everyone I mostly lurk but sometimes ask stupid question, what's up): Wait until you read about rentcharges, although the government did at least ban new ones in 1977. My friend has one on his house and it’s a nightmare.
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# ? Feb 19, 2024 08:29 |
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Pantsmaster Bill posted:Wait until you read about rentcharges, although the government did at least ban new ones in 1977. My friend has one on his house and it’s a nightmare. A friend of mine has extra insurance in case the local parish ever tries to invoke it's right to make people pay for church repairs.
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# ? Feb 19, 2024 08:47 |
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Angrymog posted:A friend of mine has extra insurance in case the local parish ever tries to invoke it's right to make people pay for church repairs. I took out that. It was a one off £32 I think when I bought my flat. Unrelated: the SA phone app had signed me out this morning. Never happened before I was wondering why? Jaeluni Asjil fucked around with this message at 09:04 on Feb 19, 2024 |
# ? Feb 19, 2024 09:02 |
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The sign in cookie is good for a year from what I remember
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# ? Feb 19, 2024 09:15 |
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Maugrim posted:Just had an offer accepted on a house yesterday and one of my red lines in the whole house hunting process was "no leaseholds". Enjoy mulling over 'chancel insurance'
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# ? Feb 19, 2024 09:20 |
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If they're going to make ridiculous demands then the best option is to make equally ridiculous counterclaims, like that you will be fully happy to give all money for repairs to the local Methodist chapel because you don't recognize the legitimacy of the Anglican church. If they press it further then start accusing them of blasphemy and orangery.
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# ? Feb 19, 2024 09:40 |
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Guavanaut posted:If they're going to make ridiculous demands then the best option is to make equally ridiculous counterclaims, like that you will be fully happy to give all money for repairs to the local Methodist chapel because you don't recognize the legitimacy of the Anglican church. One of the houses we viewed had an orangery which was quite nice. However it was also riddled with asbestos and very obviously a place an eccentric had lived in for their entire life and then died.
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# ? Feb 19, 2024 09:55 |
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# ? Jun 3, 2024 02:49 |
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History Comes Inside! posted:DWP would disagree Department of Work and Predators.
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# ? Feb 19, 2024 09:56 |