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Pick posted:oh. oh yeah. absolutely. like i am super surprised that this isn't commonly understood in the context of me, pick. dont kill yourself, it's against the rules Caganer fucked around with this message at 02:00 on Apr 7, 2018 |
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why do you save my quotes. i don't even think about what i am typing, why do you. why does anyone? e: haha wow look at that, mmm, savor it. that's great. i'm no avshalom but i am a can of worms for the fish of the internet
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Beachcomber posted:I don't think anyone has noticed that a trip to Hawaii is just as much a gift to himself as the bowling ball was. I don't think anyone's saying her giant fit is a good thing. She clearly went off the rails. They might however be saying that you don't get gag gifts unless you are goddamn loving sure of their reception and that the person will get the joke. There is NO good end for a gag gift that your target won't understand or appreciate. Either you make them mad, disappointed, or you get a polite response that you goddamn well know is just a polite response and not an appreciation of the gift... because they clearly don't get the joke. Put thought into gifts, not just normal gifts but also gag gifts.
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saw this today and thought of uquote:My partner works at a hospital. Last week they told me about a cancer case they’d seen that was, in their words, horrifying. it's a childfree post
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Dienes posted:Its not an /r/relationships but its so batshit and on-theme I feel it fits the thread. This just showed up in the funny images thread :
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Mirthless posted:saw this today and thought of u i don't want kids, but i never use the phrase childfree because i don't like the connotations. i'm more of a sarah silverman style childfree. (my existence is pain and i refuse to pass on this curse) anyways, here's some content BF(46m) threatening suicide if I (31f) leave him. quote:I've been with him for 6 months. He has become very controlling of me. He picks fights when I go out with girl-friends. I send him pictures and he claims there are other guys in the images. If I don't text or call him every 30 minutes, he becomes angry and turns everything around like it's my fault. I can't take it. Last time I tried to break it off, he tried to commit suicide. He was found by his son and rushed to the hospital. He barely survived it. So he's not bluffing.
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Caganer posted:i don't want kids, but i never use the phrase childfree because i don't like the connotations. i'm more of a sarah silverman style childfree. (my existence is pain and i refuse to pass on this curse) kill yourself on his porch!
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Pick posted:kill yourself on his porch! i think i told this story before, but i had a gf threaten to kill herself if i dumped her in hs. she also texted pics of her self harm to me which was pretty cutting edge at the time (i had to pay like a dollar a pic to receive them on my motorola razr) anyways i told her mom and she got help and it came out she'd been being molested by her creepy older neighbor after we broke up. she told all her friends i dumped her for not putting out and the feminism brigage all hated me the rest of high school no good deed goes unpunished
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# ? Apr 7, 2018 02:23 |
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i like to play the hard tough, but if someone is legit "i'll kill myself without you" and it isn't coming off as a manipulation tactic but a cry for help, it's very distressing
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Caganer posted:i like to play the hard tough, but if someone is legit "i'll kill myself without you" and it isn't coming off as a manipulation tactic but a cry for help, it's very distressing
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PetraCore posted:Yeah and that's when you help them check into someplace for their mental health or call a wellness check on them, imo, depending on whether or not they're willing to get help. Ofc if they aren't willing to get help a wellness check only does so much but it can at least disrupt immediate plans for suicide long enough for them to reconsider. yup, and that's when they twist this into you being an evil person who was pissed they wouldn't gently caress you and get bullied incessantly for years.
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Caganer posted:i like to play the hard tough, but if someone is legit "i'll kill myself without you" and it isn't coming off as a manipulation tactic but a cry for help, it's very distressing I imagine being trapped in a relationship with someone who is holding themselves hostage is also distressing.
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Dienes posted:I imagine being trapped in a relationship with someone who is holding themselves hostage is also distressing. that sounds like a woman, dienes. there will be no thought of them, here. their feelings. their "feelings".
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Dienes posted:I imagine being trapped in a relationship with someone who is holding themselves hostage is also distressing. tbh i dumped her because she was way more insane than me, and also didn't seem to have a good reason for it. i'd dealt with years of physical abuse and had my best friend die at 9 catcher in the rye style. she... grew up in a rich house and her parents had an amicable divorce
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and, uh, was molested
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:and, uh, was molested common misconception, catcher in the rye guy was not molested. read the book!
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Caganer posted:i don't want kids, but i never use the phrase childfree because i don't like the connotations. i'm more of a sarah silverman style childfree. (my existence is pain and i refuse to pass on this curse) quote:Last time I tried to break it off, he tried to commit suicide. He was found by his son and rushed to the hospital. He barely survived it. So he's not bluffing. and don't look back.
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when i get close to women, they often tell me i can tell them anything. i think they assume i've been molested or saw something explode in iraq or syria or something. it's more complicated than that, and people hate complicated. if you can't say what broke your brain in under 2 sentences, people will lose interest.
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PetraCore posted:Yeah and that's when you help them check into someplace for their mental health or call a wellness check on them, imo, depending on whether or not they're willing to get help. Ofc if they aren't willing to get help a wellness check only does so much but it can at least disrupt immediate plans for suicide long enough for them to reconsider. At least a wellness check will almost always turn into a 72-hr hold with mandatory medication, mandatory therapy, and continuing counseling about healthcare/insurance/therapy after their release. I had to do that to someone I knew and it helped a lot, even here in bumfuck USA.
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Scathach posted:At least a wellness check will almost always turn into a 72-hr hold with mandatory medication, mandatory therapy, and or she tells her friends you "violated her confidentiality" to "retaliate for not sleeping with you" and you spend your senior year a social pariah. i should have let the bitch bleed out
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haha whoa man, that's something there , that you said
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:haha whoa man, that's something there , that you said humans are very good at recognizing patterns once you notice being nice or evil gives the same result, you tend to become much more results oriented most people are incredibly entitled and don't realize their actions have consequences
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Pick posted:kill yourself on his porch! Content ! Found on Facebook, Help! My Wife Just Had a Baby. How Should I Tell Her I Want an Open Relationship? quote:Q. How to ask for an open relationship: I’ve been with my wife for eight years, married for three, and we recently had a baby. I love my wife, and I adore our baby girl, but while I love my wife, I’m not “in love” with her anymore, and I’m no longer attracted to her physically.
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Caganer posted:yup, and that's when they twist this into you being an evil person who was pissed they wouldn't gently caress you and get bullied incessantly for years. Scathach posted:At least a wellness check will almost always turn into a 72-hr hold with mandatory medication, mandatory therapy, and
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mllaneza posted:
it's perfectly valid to ask. she can choose to say yes or no. or she can be slut shamey and he can leave her to raise the kid alone to teach her the value of being open minded.
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c'mon cags, i managed to have a good relationship with a mother whose parenting involved taking inspiration from sophie's choice and is still got over it* *she'd also routinely point out that sophie then continues to be in an abused relationship and allow it, out of grief, but eventually cajoles her abusive husband into murder-suicide or something? i choose not to read into it too much
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PetraCore posted:Yup! Someone with severe and untreated mental issues isn't going to suddenly be cured, but interrupting someone's immediate suicidal path and at least making resources available to them can help a lot. they can examine, give a diagnosis, and try out some meds and observe for a week or two. getting them onto meds and a diagnosis can be hugely important
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Pick posted:c'mon cags, i managed to have a good relationship with a mother whose parenting involved taking inspiration from sophie's choice and is still got over it* JK but man you think she'd get the hint that Sophie's choice hosed up Sophie.
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Pick posted:c'mon cags, i managed to have a good relationship with a mother whose parenting involved taking inspiration from sophie's choice and is still got over it* ok? not sure how that relates to anything at hand but that's never stopped you from sharing before.
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PetraCore posted:She was covertly floating the idea of a murder suicide at you but then got better. no the sophie's choice part was deciding which of my stuffed animals i would choose to be buuuurned if I was bad
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Pick posted:no the sophie's choice part was deciding which of my stuffed animals i would choose to be buuuurned if I was bad if you weren't such a bougie consumerist, this would not have been stressful bernie would have won
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the animals were my friends
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Pick posted:no the sophie's choice part was deciding which of my stuffed animals i would choose to be buuuurned if I was bad Blink once if your middle name is Sophie, pick. You're among friends here, sort of. This is a safe place, mostly.
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Pick posted:c'mon cags, i managed to have a good relationship with a mother whose parenting involved taking inspiration from sophie's choice and is still got over it* Pick I have some bad news
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Pick posted:the animals were my friends the things you own end up owning you
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PetraCore posted:Yes. There are no safe places, you learn to enjoy life by riding the high of being in unsafe situations .
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that's harsh imo. even JC usually got the choice to take their place
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