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It was totally because she embarrassed him by being a 26yo calling it 'appies' in front of the waitress. Edit: Inadvertent page snipe? Fine. 🎁⛄🎄APPIE XMAS SPECIAL!🎄⛄🎁 daddys 🤷♂️sleigh bells🔔 👂🎵 are ringing 😙😃 with his stocking FULL💯 🙈🙊 of appiez💦💦 ready👍😌 to climb down 👇my princess👑👠 chimney😲👈 before i pray🙏🛐 my xmas 🌟eve prayer👑⛪ Dear heavenly 😇father 🕇🛐🕇thank you😘 for providing 🤗 me with daddiez💜 appiez 💦💦 they are SO😥😣 tasty🍕🙃🙃 that i like to mix🍲 my egg🥚 nog 🙈🙊🙈to make noggy🥛🥂 appiez!🍼🍼 but! 😲 before 👈👈i could finish😣😏 my prayer 🛐✴ my daddy 🤠grabbed me by my princess👑👝 hair 😚👠👑 and said😶😯 you are on daddiez👮♂️ NAUGHTY👿👅 list📃😫 this year! 📅🗓️But ❗⚠️❗i know 😌 only naughty💋 princesses💍💐 get daddiez🕶️ appies⛽ 😂💦 he pulled out his giant😣😍✔️ xmass tree 🍆🎄🍆 and made me reach far😫 far🙄 up⬆️🔝 to kiss💋👄💄 the angel 😇😇 up top🍆🍄 but 😮it was all drippy 😰😋 with xmas appies!!💦💦 he said🗣️ i think🤔🤗 i need to unwrap🎀 my present now🎁🎀🎁 he pulled😗 down my pants 😶😋🙄 and saw😎👀 my little👌 pink wink🐷🍑🍑 and whispered🙊 😙 merry Christmas⛄🎁🎄 daddy☺ and then he filled😣😩 my stocking 😞😆😀with his very own ooy😰 gooy😰😰 appie nogg💦🍑🥛 and now⏰ my little😉 pinky🌸 is a warm🌋🤗christmas 🎄sticky💧 appiez 💦date 😍🍯🍮pie 😃💦💦 merry xmas to all my appie daddiez 🎄💦🎄 Dienes fucked around with this message at 16:09 on May 28, 2018 |
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for repeatedly saying appies
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quote:He ended up getting really mad, called me a r*tard and childish, and said that grown ups don’t split the bill, and they don’t offer to pay for anything unless they can pay for all of it (which I did anyways). I’m with girl pants being dumbfounded at this bit. Splitting the bill was one of the most goddamn infuriating thing with groups I’d go out with for during conferences though it only happened at places that said ‘no separate checks’. The bill would almost always come up either a few dollars short or with insufficient tip, then a debate would start over ‘did you add tax and gratuity?’ And you had your general suspects as to who was underpaying, and the protests would begin! ‘Jeff got the chicken, I only got a salad, why should we both have to add $2 more for tip when his was more expensive?!’ poo poo’s infuriating.
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May 28, 2018 16:23
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LadyPictureShow posted:I’m with girl pants being dumbfounded at this bit. Splitting the bill was one of the most goddamn infuriating thing with groups I’d go out with for during conferences though it only happened at places that said ‘no separate checks’. http://hitchhikers.wikia.com/wiki/Bistromatics
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May 28, 2018 16:44
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I don't really understand how adults get worked up over it either way, with the exception of broke rear end college students. Everyone I know just splits evenly and we occasional treat each other and there is reciprocity with that part. A few dollars is not worth fighting over if you are friends with someone, and it is also not worth taking advantage of a friend for.
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May 28, 2018 16:47
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Bobby Digital posted:
jesus loving christ how could you even say that and be OK with yourself afterward
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I kept reading the word as apples and assumed it was like baked apples or something? I can't even comprehend appies Husband [30m] turns very violent when he plays videogames. Last night was the final straw, don't know what to do from here? I am [25f] .Husband and I have three children (3,1, and 5 weeks). He has started to become very obsessed with video games, especially this one game called fortnite. He'll ignore everyone and play for hours and hours. Its like he turns into a completely different person when he's playing, screaming bloody murder throughout the whole house and scaring the hell out of the kids. Waking the baby. Whenever I try to tell him to keep it down he will scream at me to leave him alone. Frankly I don't like to be around him because the way he starts acting freaks me out. He'll always apologize after these outbursts, but then it'll happen again the same or next day. Yesterday night was the breaking point for me. I put the kids to bed, and began nursing the newborn. He was playing the game in the living room. It was pretty quiet at first (other than the occasional yelling) then suddenly out of nowhere he began yelling. I heard something break. When I went downstairs, the TV was shattered on the ground. He was having a complete rage, parading around and throwing things around, cursing, yelling. It was terrifying. He didn't even seem to care that we were down there, seeing everything, almost hitting us. Over all the loudness I kept telling him to stop, to be quiet. When he wouldn't I went upstairs (the kids were up at this time), and started packing the kids' stuff. He tried to pull us back in the house, begging us not to leave, but we were pretty shaken up. We left, and went over my sisters house. Haven't talked to him all morning. He's called and texted a few times, but I need some time to think. I really need him to stop getting so emotionally involved with these games. He broke a ton of stuff in our house, and I'm pretty sure our babies are afraid of him by now. I don't want to constantly have to feel like I'm walking on eggshells around him. I'm not sure how to handle this situation or what to even say to him when I decide to call him back? All of this stress I really don't need right now, the baby is draining everything out of me. tl;dr: Husband rages and turns very violent when playing videogames, it scares the kids and I, and last night was the final straw. Not sure how to handle these problems
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May 28, 2018 17:12
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If your partner does something which terrifies your children and refuses to stop - leave. Hope this lady stays the hell away from her lunatic spouse and his increasingly violent outbursts.
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May 28, 2018 17:16
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He plays Fortnite and is a grown man so clearly he has some sort of mental disorder to begin with.
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May 28, 2018 17:29
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imagine having violent tantrums over video games when you're 30 years old lmao
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May 28, 2018 17:31
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Smirking_Serpent posted:I kept reading the word as apples and assumed it was like baked apples or something? I can't even comprehend appies You go back and the next thing he'll hit is you or your children.
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May 28, 2018 17:31
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Admiral Ray posted:You go back and the next thing he'll hit is you or your children. Can you imagine this manchild's response if one of the kids spilled something on a controller left on a table, or played a match on his log-in and dropped his rank? Get out now, lady.
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May 28, 2018 17:33
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Keep your children well away from their father. This one is kind of “huh”. Help me 45[M] have a better relationship with my daughter 24[F]. quote:u/indian_dadthrow2 Props to the younger sister for working out the system - get your parents to pay for it, and then do what the heck you want when you graduate.
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May 28, 2018 18:02
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Milotic posted:Keep your children well away from their father. This one is kind of “huh”. Western parents don't pay for their children's college? I mean, not necessarily by rule, but that is definitely a thing that happens.
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May 28, 2018 18:13
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Med school is 375K???!!!
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May 28, 2018 18:16
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:Med school is 375K???!!! About 90-100k per year for people starting this year. Tuition is about 60-70k of that the rest is living expenses as all schools forbid you to work if you're enrolled.
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May 28, 2018 18:18
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fruit on the bottom posted:I just use “pal” I was really disappointed you weren't in the last game, you would have been great on the orca case.
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May 28, 2018 18:18
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Smirking_Serpent posted:I kept reading the word as apples and assumed it was like baked apples or something? I can't even comprehend appies Smirking_Serpent posted:Husband [30m] turns very violent when he plays videogames. Last night was the final straw, don't know what to do from here? seriously though lady get the gently caress out and never look back
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May 28, 2018 18:19
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:Med school is 375K???!!! Hell yeah
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May 28, 2018 18:19
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:Med school is 375K???!!! Yes.
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May 28, 2018 18:21
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Milotic posted:Keep your children well away from their father. This one is kind of “huh”. I don't even know what he wants to resolve. He obviously doesn't have to pay for her education, but I'd be pretty miffed if my parents were that controlling.
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May 28, 2018 18:23
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La Brea Carpet posted:About 90-100k per year for people starting this year. Tuition is about 60-70k of that the rest is living expenses as all schools forbid you to work if you're enrolled.
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May 28, 2018 18:25
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Milotic posted:Keep your children well away from their father. This one is kind of “huh”. Wait, I just realized: She went "I don't want to visit you for a week because you're playing favorites with the more traditional kids" and he said "Then fine, I won't pay anything", so she reluctantly visited him and he's SHOCKED that she's not loving it? That she's mad at him for it? What a prick. Eezee posted:I don't even know what he wants to resolve. He obviously doesn't have to pay for her education, but I'd be pretty miffed if my parents were that controlling. He wants to force her to have a good relationship with him despite his controlling shittiness.
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:That's insane, I would have figured 40-50K/year max and even that is absurd. Tution in the US is out of control. It is and it locks people in. Doctors are now also being paid less, because they can be, because they can't realistically change careers once they're licensed because of costs incurred.
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May 28, 2018 18:28
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Midnight Voyager posted:Wait, I just realized: She went "I don't want to visit you for a week because you're playing favorites with the more traditional kids" and he said "Then fine, I won't pay anything", so she reluctantly visited him and he's SHOCKED that she's not loving it? That she's mad at him for it? What a prick. I dated a Palestinian girl from a traditional family for 7 years. This is literally the same relationship she had with her dad, and after we broke up she finally broke coop but still relapses into that poo poo, and it's weird as gently caress and I'm glad I got out of it.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:I kept reading the word as apples and assumed it was like baked apples or something? I can't even comprehend appies 
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therobit posted:I don't really understand how adults get worked up over it either way, with the exception of broke rear end college students. Everyone I know just splits evenly and we occasional treat each other and there is reciprocity with that part. A few dollars is not worth fighting over if you are friends with someone, and it is also not worth taking advantage of a friend for. We were broke-rear end college students at the time. Mostly everybody except two holdouts were fine with an even split (even if you were the one living high on the hog and ordered a soda, whereas some only got water). Some people get worked up over an extra buck or two
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May 28, 2018 18:33
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Yeah I know things are hard out there but I for one am thankful to be out of the "okay I paid $14 you paid $19" phase of restaurant-eating.
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May 28, 2018 18:36
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Bobby Digital posted:
I read that as "apples" because my mind refused to acknowledge it any other way
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May 28, 2018 18:39
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I had a similar conversation with an (extremely crazy) former friend of mine who was also Indian and also constantly complained about her filthy rich controlling parents who paid for her grad school with a ton of conditions. I sat her down and explained that if she wants to be free, her power is her presence in their lives and that she would need to pay her own way with scholarships or loans and deny them access to her life until they came around to her westernized life, which they might not. But if she wanted that sweet gravy train with all that sweet cash and tuition and rent and BMW, she needed to find the balance of what she could tolerate and keep strict boundaries about what she shared with her parents and how far she could push them since they would control her means of living. Naturally she’s still driving the BMW and talking about how they ruined her life.
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May 28, 2018 18:41
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Mocking Bird posted:Naturally she’s still driving the BMW and talking about how they ruined her life.
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La Brea Carpet posted:About 90-100k per year for people starting this year. Tuition is about 60-70k of that the rest is living expenses as all schools forbid you to work if you're enrolled. drat really? I started school in 2010 and it was 45k a year for tuition and most people considered my school to be on the high end. I got a couple of scholarships and graduated with almost exactly 200k in loan debt. A couple of female friends of mine worked during the preclinical years, despite the official no-no, slinging beers at a local hooters equivalent and came out even further ahead than me.
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I have a bunch of indian friends, including ones from the same extended family, and their relationships with their parents are strange. The expectations are higher by default for sure. It's hard for me to put myself in their position because my parents are cool with me making my own decisions 100% but I feel like, if they weren't and put me in that position, I'd be doing my best to grift them rather than actually following any rules.
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Death to appies girl. Death to the boyfriend.
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:I have a bunch of indian friends, including ones from the same extended family, and their relationships with their parents are strange. The expectations are higher by default for sure. It's hard for me to put myself in their position because my parents are cool with me making my own decisions 100% but I feel like, if they weren't and put me in that position, I'd be doing my best to grift them rather than actually following any rules. that's definitely how my ex's family worked
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Mocking Bird posted:friend of mine i'd be a former friend too if you were condescending enough to ~~sit me down and explain~~ my life to me lol
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Goddamn it's not even like they're trying to marry her off to a stranger, just don't act and dress like a harlot and don't eat beef* *My understanding of traditional Indian culture is tenuous at best.
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quote:I don't think she will not want to see me only once every few years. I have always favoured her with her mom, her life choices , her studies, etc. We are still very close, at least I would like to believe it. quote:I have never treated her poorly. I have treated all three as going adults since they were 14. I have never said "Stop. Don't do this. Otherwise I won't give you money" or "Do this. Here is a dollar." FUCKIN REALLY NOW
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InediblePenguin posted:i'd be a former friend too if you were condescending enough to ~~sit me down and explain~~ my life to me lol How about “sat her down and explained” I couldn’t be her friend anymore if all she wanted to do was act psycho and blame it on her relationship with her toxic parents when called on her poo poo, and if she didn’t change something (whether that be her behavior or her relationship with them) she’d be alone as hell, which is what ended up happening Sorry if that was unclear
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"I have been a handsy parent so when she threatened to not visit us for a week(she has 4 weeks off), " Does this mean violence,or intending to be a physical presence in raising her as oppose to loving off except birthdays and holidays?
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value-brand cereal posted:"I have been a handsy parent so when she threatened to not visit us for a week(she has 4 weeks off), " it probably means having your fingers in literally every part of her life from the time she wakes up to the time she goes to sleep, and then after that too, literally sacrificing your own sanity to make sure your kids live up to the perfect virgin ideal you created for them in your head 20-30 years ago
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