GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:

zakharov posted:

*throws 2-year old in jail* HOPE YOU ROT IN THERE YOU PIECE OF poo poo

Ligament posted:

meet your new cell mate



don't do the crime if you can't do the time

Ligament posted:

don't do the cryme if you can't do the time

zakharov posted:

That said the guy talks about guns "being around" like it's a fact of life and that makes me think it's a cultural disconnect. I'm 32 and held a real gun once in my life.

zakharov posted:

That said the guy talks about guns "being around" like it's a fact of life and that makes me think it's a cultural disconnect. I'm 32 and held a real gun once in my life.

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For the last year and a half I’ve been dating a girl I met through a friend. We get along extremely well- we both love movies, the same music, stand up comedians, I’m an avid filmmaker and she likes to edit- everything has been great. She’s not from around here and we decided to fly out and have me meet her family for the first time. It’s been going relatively well in my opinion, but tonight we decided to watch their favorite movie: The Fourth Kind. For those that don’t know, it’s an alien abduction movie that tries to act like all of the events are 110% true. I’d never seen it so they wanted to show me. Halfway through the movie her dad said something along the lines of “I wonder why this wasn’t a big deal when it happened?” To which I said “well the movie is fake- them saying the events were real is a bunch of poo poo.” Apparently for the last 10 or so years they’ve believed that the movie was true. The whole family immediately freaked out at me- her dad kicked me out of the house and now I’m waiting to fly back home a week and a half early. I’ve tried to call my girlfriend but she hasn’t said anything to me yet. What should I do to remedy the situation?

chemtrail huffer posted:

I (28M) ruined my girlfriends (23F) family’s favorite movie and now they hate me

chemtrail huffer posted:

I (28M) ruined my girlfriends (23F) family’s favorite movie and now they hate me

chemtrail huffer posted:

I (28M) ruined my girlfriends (23F) family’s favorite movie and now they hate me

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u/promisltell33
I really like my boyfriend but one thing kind of makes me think hes a bit... idk, immature? He has a big group of friends in his neighborhood that he has been friends with for a really long time. Its like an extended group of maybe 30 people, with about 8-10 of them being closer friends. He hangs out with them, a lot.

Like he sometimes just hangs out on his stoop with friends and shares a few beers, or he goes to the park with them to hang out and just do basically nothing, or he goes bike riding with them or goes to parties and bars with them etc. But most of the time they're just basically doing nothing, maybe watching television or listening to music or just talking, occasionally go out for coffee or something. We live in a dense, urban area in Brooklyn (Im from michigan) and it seems as if they all live relatively close and can meet up super easy. Its just weird, they hang out almost every day typically, maybe once every two days more often. Some of his friends are in their mid to late 20s and still skateboard. My boyfriend sometimes skateboards too, albeit not really often, he mostly bikes. It honestly, more than anything, reminds me of how people were in college, just constantly hanging out with each other in big groups. I never really did that stuff, I had a long term boyfriend back then.

Am I wrong to think that at his age, its a bit immature to still be doing stuff like that all the time? All of my friends back home are married, have careers, have kids, own homes etc and are genuinely adults meanwhile he still 'hangs out' constantly with his friends like hes some 18 year old or something. When I want to catch up with one of my friends when I go back home we meet up, get dinner or something. Like a professional, adult setting. We don't just 'hang out' constantly like we're teenagers or something and do nothing.

He also smokes pot and drinks a bit more than he should, but that's not really an issue, I smoke a tiny tiny bit too and his drinking isn't really bad at all. But still.

The thing is, he is relatively well off with his job, but his job also gives him a tremendous amount of free time. His friends are mostly struggling in one way or another, some live with their parents still.

Idk if I am just overreacting, or if this is specifically an urban versus suburban thing where people spend more time socializing in urban areas or something. Its weird to me that he does this. I like his friends, but I can't help but think hes a tiny bit immature in that regard. It doesn't directly bother me, but sometimes it just makes me think about his whole personality ya know? I mean he is 27 and is still hanging out on stoops, drinking beer, playing video games and stuff.

Am I just too like preppy or something for this? I cant tell if maybe I just live in a bubble and this is how most people his age are.

Just to be clear, I don't want to break up with him, I like him a LOT and its been a little over 15 months of dating.

Tl;DR - - My boyfriend still hangs out with his friends a lot and it makes me think hes immature.

chemtrail huffer posted:

I (28M) ruined my girlfriends (23F) family’s favorite movie and now they hate me

Milotic posted:

I think this man needs to as well:

My boyfriend (27M) still 'hangs out' with his friends really often. Am I (29F) acting ridiculous or is this kind of immature?

CheesyDog posted:

that baby is too white to get jail time for a gun crime

loquacius posted:

wait, they just, like... talk and enjoy each other's company, without concurrently consuming a professional adult dinner??? How completely childish

loquacius posted:

I totally agree that that child was clearly not properly educated on how dangerous guns are to handle. He managed to get a concealed-carry license anyway somehow, though.

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this is specifically an urban versus suburban thing where people spend more time socializing in urban areas or something

kdrudy posted:

My boyfriend has real friends he enjoys spending time with and not just acquaintances to catch up with and then ignore every few years, why is he so immature?

kdrudy posted:

My boyfriend has real friends he enjoys spending time with and not just acquaintances to catch up with and then ignore every few years, why is he so immature?

Taima posted:

2) The gun story with the kid just seems way too loving convenient. So this unknown dude packs heat at their house, no one notices? The kid somehow grabs the gun off the dude without him even waking up???? Fires the loving gun at his sibling, almost killing her, leaving a bullet hole in their house, and the parents don't even call the cops..? The dude with the gun isn't even remorseful. Okkk

Warbadger posted:

Clearly the solution to an adult fuckwit doing irresponsible things with a gun is for others to teach a 2 year old to be responsible with them.

^Guns are fine and good, actually being super easy to keep around in a 100% safe way with minimal effort. But that, like so many other potentially dangerous things, assumes you don't do idiot things with them like leaving a loaded gun out for a 2 year old to play with.

Taima posted:

3) The story about the guy hanging out with his friends is written exactly like someone who hates women would write the story. The OP goes out of her way to mention how the boyfriend is loving RAD in every single way. So he has tons of free time and makes good money, word? So he goes over for beers, and is social a lot, and is otherwise amazing? Meanwhile the woman is fulfilling the dumbest MGTOW stereotype ever by insisting that the only way that anyone should have relationships is in a formal dinner environment? This is some MTGOW fan fiction poo poo.

chemtrail huffer posted:

I (28M) ruined my girlfriends (23F) family’s favorite movie and now they hate me

PetraCore posted:

A two year old isn't going to UNDERSTAND a lecture on gun safety. You can't teach a two year old to be responsible with a gun.

Haifisch posted:

The second redditor I quoted kept parroting "you need to teach them not to touch any guns they see & to go find an adult", as if a two year old would never let their curiosity get the better of them. Or they might just forget, or think they're being helpful by bringing the gun to an adult, or...