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DragQueenofAngmar posted:shazaaaaaaaam it def wasn't a joke
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Dazerbeams posted:If a guy did this, it would be considered sleazy and gross. When a gal does it, she’s sexually liberated and worldly. Is this a hot take? Because there is a very large gender gap in how men and women are seen on a sexual level right? Men are considered masculine and virile if they have many partners and it is seen as a positive trait, whereas women are seen as sluts and easy and it is a negative trait (societally speaking, not me I don’t give a poo poo). So yes a woman owning her sexuality and a group of housemates sharing a “sex map” doesn’t indeed take some of the ownership of their sexuality back and so is a more liberated view.
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Dr. S.O. Feelgood posted:There’s a rather famous case of a high school teacher loving one of her students, going to jail for a few years and then resuming the relationship with the student once she got out and he was 18. I think they got married and have kids now. I think the student was a bit older than 13 at the time though. I read some article about them a while ago and it was basically “well, it’s a weird situation but they seem happy together You're thinking of Mary Kay Letourneau. The student was indeed 13 at the time, she gave birth to their child while awaiting sentencing, then after serving a few months in jail she was caught meeting with him again in violation of her plea bargain. Sent back to prison for 7 years, gave birth to their second child 8 months after returning to custody, released in 2004 and married him in 2005. Geoj fucked around with this message at 23:34 on Apr 8, 2019 |
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” which is mega hosed up, personally speaking.
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I can't imagine the guy that is upset about it rather than going "Hey, looks like you and I have some catching up to do!" Good excuse for planning a vacation and having sex in as many countries as possible.
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OMGVBFLOL posted:iirc yeah people get very Master Race very quickly when given the chance, so much so that sperm banks auto-reject anyone who has red hair, is under 6 feet tall, is black, etc because their stuff is just going to sit on the shelf, never chosen I'm pretty sure black couples who want a sperm donor kid are usually going to prefer the black dude's sperm tbh
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Apr 8, 2019 22:14
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Flatmate should just randomly start pinning random US cities, scorched earth
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Apr 8, 2019 22:15
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perhaps it is weird and gross for someone of any gender to have a sex tourism map, especially where your current exclusive partner can see it and think about it on a regular basis. just spitballing here
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Apr 8, 2019 22:18
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regardless of gender there's nothing lamer than someone who tries to do sex tourism scorekeeping but doesn't have the balls to commit to a proper trophy room
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charity rereg posted:It's loving wild how people just come in here and write fanfiction about how it must be the man's fault. every time. every loving time. More like every time the woman happens to be the lovely person that people devil’s advocate for, someone comes in to go OMG WOMEN CAN BE lovely TOO. Yes, we know. The person you’re replying to didn’t suggest otherwise. It’s actually getting sort of annoying because literally the only ones bringing up gender are the “men aren’t always the bad guyssss” brigade defending themselves against no one.
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A sex world map that you keep in your living room is exactly the kind of thing you would expect a bunch of dumb college kids to think is cool. She's apparently 23 though so she's getting a bit old for that excuse.
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Oh people are fine with her sex tourism map and pins but when I get a map of the world tattooed on my entire body and have their names burned in it's weird? loving double standards.
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Admiral Ray posted:Oh people are fine with her sex tourism map and pins but when I get a map of the world tattooed on my entire body and have their names burned in it's weird? loving double standards. Please tell me Florida is on your wang
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Errant Gin Monks posted:Is this a hot take? Because there is a very large gender gap in how men and women are seen on a sexual level right? Men are considered masculine and virile if they have many partners and it is seen as a positive trait, whereas women are seen as sluts and easy and it is a negative trait (societally speaking, not me I don’t give a poo poo). It’s cool and good that she had fun but she made a goddamn shrine of her exploits. Just because women have had a history of being slut shamed doesn’t making glorifying sex tourism to be any less gross.
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Dazerbeams posted:It’s cool and good that she had fun but she made a goddamn shrine of her exploits. Just because women have had a history of being slut shamed doesn’t making glorifying sex tourism to be any less gross. going on vacations with your SO and having sex with them there is not sex tourism, it's just regular tourism
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Sex tourism doesn't mean "had sex with my boyfriend while we were on vacation," which is what the pins apparently represent
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I hope her dad takes away her GPS and makes her write an essay on sex tourism
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My hot take is that you’d be hard pressed to find anyone of either gender being ok with seeing a reminder of their partners past sexual experiences up on the wall.
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Keeping a visual record of all the places you and an ex had sex is weird, too.
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Anne Whateley posted:Sex tourism doesn't mean "had sex with my boyfriend while we were on vacation," which is what the pins apparently represent I think you are definitely reading that wrong. It means they hooked up in these places and not with their s/o.
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Apr 8, 2019 22:41
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Lotta goons with only one pin in their sex map itt
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Listen, people slept with other people before you got together, it's normal and you need to get over and accept that. You're just going to have to get used to my TV cycling through a photo-album of everyone I've slept with and the accompanying sex-review vlog I made that day, otherwise you're robbing me of my agency.
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MarcusSA posted:I think you are definitely reading that wrong. It means they hooked up in these places and not with their s/o. the OP explicitly talks about comparing himself with her exes and their ability to travel and gently caress
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MarcusSA posted:I think you are definitely reading that wrong. It means they hooked up in these places and not with their s/o. He explicitly says it was her exes she pinned out and that it’s a shared map for all the girls in the apartment. Edit: gently caress beaten
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That's still really loving weird
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UZR IS BULLSHIT posted:Lotta goons with only one pin in their sex map itt 3 pins but the map is just a floorplan of my old flat.
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Apr 8, 2019 22:47
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In terms of successful? student teacher romances, Emmanuel Macron had sex with his teacher and now she’s the First Lady of France.
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UZR IS BULLSHIT posted:Lotta goons with only one pin in their sex map itt I have TWO pins in my sex map, tyvm.
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Apr 8, 2019 22:54
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Mine is color coded with different coloured pins for vaginal, anal, oral and hand jobs. But after my last vacation I need a new pin colour for foot jobs, any ideas?
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i have one pin in my map, because i don't do sex tourism like a monster.
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Turtlicious posted:i have one pin in my map, because i don't do sex tourism like a monster. Is it just your wank sock pinned to a notice board?
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I don't know why I am surprised that goons can't conceive of getting laid on vacation
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Errant Gin Monks posted:He explicitly says it was her exes she pinned out and that it’s a shared map for all the girls in the apartment. Ok ok my bad and still weird!
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CheesyDog posted:I don't know why I am surprised that goons can't conceive of getting laid on vacation
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I may have skimmed over the ex vs stranger detail but it's still weird and gross to mark it down. Are you all that desperate to let others know that you're a sex haver?
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I'm sure it's nice for them to live with all of their best friends whose parents paid for them to study abroad in college, but my roommates and I just have a subway map, we are also kind of playing a modified version of Monopoly on it
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*staring wistfully at my unpinned map of Middle Earth*
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:shazaaaaaaaam "My kid feels abandoned and expressed such in a joke, should I cut him off for this feeling?"
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I wanna hang a map of the world in my house. Then I'm gonna put pins into all the locations that I've hosed. But first, I'm gonna have to gently caress at the top two corners of the map so it won't fall down. [concept: mitch hedberg] ChickenOfTomorrow fucked around with this message at 07:29 on Aug 5, 2019 |
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First "sex tourism" meant gross fat english dudes going to Thailand to engage in underage prostitution. Then it became any gross western person traveling to a developing country to buy sex. Then it became any western person having sex with anyone while on vacation anywhere with a lower GDP per capita. Now it's "had any sort of sex with anyone while not at home" Also abandoned kid has some legitimate feelings. My friend's ex who vowed to be a total 50/50 co-parent got a modest and totally optional promotion which involved moving to Germany basically forever. Saying you put your kid first literally means putting them ahead of your career. "Sorry son, daddy can make $1500 more a year living in germany, unless you can match or beat this job offer I am not violating any corporate ethics advancing my career" Baronjutter fucked around with this message at 23:30 on Apr 8, 2019 |
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