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tfw your cheerleader crush calls you a loser and steals your lunch with her chad jock bf
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Iunno, the cheating girlfriend story made the op seem pathetic enough to not be fake, but it op deleted it so it's probably fake. Mea culpa In penance, have a story about a sexual harasser: AITA to avoid a blind guy in my class ? quote:(First sorry for my English)
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Apr 18, 2019 18:31
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quote:But 3 months ago he sent me a long letter. but how?
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Apr 18, 2019 18:35
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She should print out that letter and hand it to everyone in class.
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Apr 18, 2019 18:35
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:I [31f] said to my husband [30m] that I wouldn't have moved countries for him like he did for me, and it hurt him. What should I do now? I suddenly feel like I got off easy, somehow.
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Apr 18, 2019 18:36
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:wow this is what relationships with 3d girls are really like... makes you think...
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Apr 18, 2019 18:37
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DemoneeHo posted:Iunno, the cheating girlfriend story made the op seem pathetic enough to not be fake, but it op deleted it so it's probably fake. Mea culpa And he’s not even really blind!
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Apr 18, 2019 18:38
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I agree that people constantly calling out stories as fake is annoying, but the ultra Christian Vegas hen party one just had me rolling my eyes, from the 7:15am church service to the old-timey descriptions of booze and drugs it was WAAAAAAY too on the nose to read as real. Then again I don't live in the US and don't know any mad Evangelical Christians, so I'm willing to believe people like this do actually exist if enough of y'all think it's real
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Apr 18, 2019 18:38
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Fatkraken posted:I agree that people constantly calling out stories as fake is annoying, but the ultra Christian Vegas hen party one just had me rolling my eyes, from the 7:15am church service to the old-timey descriptions of booze and drugs it was WAAAAAAY too on the nose to read as real. hahahahahaha
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Apr 18, 2019 18:40
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I've lived in the Bible Belt for 20 years (please kill me), and that list isn't completely unbelievable. I've known several people I 100% believe would do something like that.
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Apr 18, 2019 18:42
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ive absolutely known people who would do that too. evangelical christianity has a way of convincing you that you're absolutely correct to do things like that
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Apr 18, 2019 18:43
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There are conservative Christians who would do some of that stuff, but they still wouldn't put vodka and tequila in quotes
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Apr 18, 2019 18:46
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:I [31f] said to my husband [30m] that I wouldn't have moved countries for him like he did for me, and it hurt him. What should I do now? 
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Apr 18, 2019 19:01
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"Everyone send me $50 each for groceries" was what put it over the line for me, but honestly the writers of both that one and the restaurant guy went way overboard painting their antagonists as awful in literally every way but leaving out any humanizing details, because those people don't exist and are cartoonish exaggerations. There's no conflict because they just want the readers to dogpile on the universally agreed upon Bad Person. But again let's not derail into debate on fake or not because of two bad writers, lets have more broken morons who can't do the blatantly obvious, from today's Dear Prudence: quote:Dear Prudence, quote:Dear Prudence,
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Apr 18, 2019 19:06
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My sister is taking a year to cool off and reevaluate her life, with my blessing, so lay off. Thanks but no thanks, I'm flattered but not interested. Said no one who ever posted to reddit with their problems.
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Apr 18, 2019 19:15
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You can't really say "thanks but no thanks" to someone who just stares at you or makes sexual jokes. You can really only say that in response to a clear move, which he carefully hasn't made because he knows she would say no.
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Apr 18, 2019 19:23
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Anne Whateley posted:You can't really say "thanks but no thanks" to someone who just stares at you or makes sexual jokes. You can really only say that in response to a clear move, which he carefully hasn't made because he knows she would say no. exactly the situation for which everyone should practice until they can master the five-minute belch
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Apr 18, 2019 19:34
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R/relationships: Friend, I’m picking up some vibes from you that I don’t reciprocate
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Apr 18, 2019 19:44
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You can absolutely say thanks but no thanks. Just don't make it a response to one of the guy's jokes or stares. He knows what he's doing and she hasn't told him to stop yet. If the guy has any sense, he'll laugh it off and feign ignorance once he's actually called out.
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Fatkraken posted:I agree that people constantly calling out stories as fake is annoying, but the ultra Christian Vegas hen party one just had me rolling my eyes, from the 7:15am church service to the old-timey descriptions of booze and drugs it was WAAAAAAY too on the nose to read as real. I live in the Houston area, in a suburb that people basically move to if they're afraid of non-white people. About 75% of my high school was exactly like that person. Like I said: I've met enough horrible people that I'm not gonna wring my hands and call "fake" at a story about someone being a horrible person unless something specifically trips red flags for me. Common decency is not overly common, and a lot of the stories that make people in here start going "lmao fake, no way that's real" just kind of make me go "yeah, that tracks" as a result.
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Apr 18, 2019 19:49
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The whole "I moved for you... would you have moved for me?" question really depends on where the people are from. If one person lives somewhere nice with lots of opportunities and a non-xenophobic culture and the other lives in a racist poo poo-hole that can make a huge difference over expectations on who should be uprooting and moving. Like, it was really a lot of adjustment and work for my wife to uproot from Russia and move to Canada, but she already was a fluent speaker and was pretty done with life Russia and the political direction it was taking under Putin. Yeah, I absolutely would not have moved to Russia for her and she never expected me to because who the gently caress would want to move TO Russia?
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Apr 18, 2019 19:50
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Gone Fashing posted:alright it's annoying when people call stories fake but that one about the cheating girlfriend is 100% made up The writer took direct inspiration from this video. 100%.
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Apr 18, 2019 19:55
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DemoneeHo posted:Iunno, the cheating girlfriend story made the op seem pathetic enough to not be fake, but it op deleted it so it's probably fake. Mea culpa So there's this thing about disabled men--
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Apr 18, 2019 20:06
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Baronjutter posted:The whole "I moved for you... would you have moved for me?" question really depends on where the people are from. If one person lives somewhere nice with lots of opportunities and a non-xenophobic culture and the other lives in a racist poo poo-hole that can make a huge difference over expectations on who should be uprooting and moving. That would be a good reason why one person wouldn't want to move from one country to meet up with their spouse living in another country. But that's a different situation than what the OP is talking about. From what I can tell, both OP and her husband were already living together in the same country, and moved together as a unit because of OP's job. The hypothetical is less about where they move, but instead about would you follow your loved one to another country.
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Apr 18, 2019 20:11
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Baronjutter posted:The whole "I moved for you... would you have moved for me?" question really depends on where the people are from. If one person lives somewhere nice with lots of opportunities and a non-xenophobic culture and the other lives in a racist poo poo-hole that can make a huge difference over expectations on who should be uprooting and moving. That isn't really a reason she mentions, though, so it seems silly to imply it in this context, since I can't imagine she wouldn't mention it if he lived in Antarctica or something. She basically acknowledges that she would've been in the same situation as him if she'd moved, and she didn't care enough about him to go through with it.
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Apr 18, 2019 20:13
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It's like people haven't even heard of lying
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Yes honey I would've done anything for you. I would've moved to the moon. It's a good thing that it worked out the other way though, because you were perfectly happy moving here, and we are happy, and we both love each other an equal amount
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Apr 18, 2019 20:14
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r/sex The ethics of a bbw/ssbbw/belly fetish and my behavior. u/GimmeThatBBW quote:I'm into big girls, and their big bodies, especially their bellies. The thing is a lot of the community that embraces these things is also into gaining and feeding, which I find very unethical and I think it pretty much amounts to suicide and assisted suicide.
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Apr 18, 2019 20:14
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Pick posted:Yes honey I would've done anything for you. I would've moved to the moon. It's a good thing that it worked out the other way though, because you were perfectly happy moving here, and we are happy, and we both love each other an equal amount Has anyone ever tried to talk to or be pleasant towards this person? Jfc.
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CheesyDog posted:r/sex Oh drat, they got Super Saiyan BBWs now?
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Pick posted:Yes honey I would've done anything for you. I would've moved to the moon. It's a good thing that it worked out the other way though, because you were perfectly happy moving here, and we are happy, and we both love each other an equal amount Do I love you? I'm glad you asked, because I have spent a long time think up my answer to that question and HONOR compels me to be completely and totally honest with you. Yes, I love you, but I don't love you as much as you love me. For example, I would not be willing to be significantly inconvenienced on your behalf. Also, you need to know that I support you and your career, up to a point, that point being roughly somewhere between what we've got going on here and if you were to ask me to move somewhere else with you for your job, which although you haven't done, I need you to know I wouldn't do, because it's so totally important to be honest with you. Wait, why are you packing a bag?
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AITA for offering to pay for my nephew’s tuition but not my girlfriend’s son? Full disclosure: I’m on the spectrum so I’ve spent my life second guessing if my actions are justified or need correction. Internet is great as an unbiased party. So I’ve got a very lucrative job and I make quite a lot of money compared to other 30 year olds. My nephew who just turned 19 just got into a very, very prestigious university that costs ~50k a year in tuition. They’ve got aid for only 15k and he would need to take out loans to cover the remainder. I want to pay this for him because 1) it’s not a lot of money for me and 2) my sister basically raised me and my younger brother after our mother passed away. She got pregnant early, and sacrificed her career to raise her son and her siblings. I owe a lot of my success to her. The issue: I’ve got a girlfriend of nearly 2 years. She also has a son who’s 15 and she’s been very unhappy ever since I said I’ll pay for my nephews schooling. Last week, after nearly a month of the cold shoulder for no reason, she says she’s mad I’ve offered to pay so much for my nephew but has promised nothing for her own son. My logic is this: I’m not close to her son as he lives with his dad 80% of the year. Her son has never liked me either (he thinks I’m weird) and rarely responds even when I talk to him. I don’t feel that I’m responsible for him at all. I respect my gf’s relationship with her ex but I’ve never been involved in any kind of parenting. My girlfriend is upset because she thinks I should take on a more fatherly role instead of trying to support my nephew. Her son should come first and that includes financial support. I’m really confused because I’ve never gotten the sense I should be, but now I wonder if I’ve missed signs and really messed up.
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AITA for disliking the culture I was raised in and not identifying with it? I’m a 23 y/o male who was raised in southern Louisiana, and I grew to dislike every aspect of culture in southern Louisiana. This lead to me deciding to go to university in Houston, TX because I had been there plenty of time before and I loved the diversity of the city. Well, I’ve recently graduated and apparently getting a college degree doesn’t mean you’ll have a career started right away. You know, companies wanting you to have 7 years of experience for an entry level position that you are more than qualified for.....things like that. So I’ve had to move back home to the place I can not stand. I DON’T MEAN MY PARENTS. I absolutely love my mom and step dad, they are extremely generous and extremely supportive. I just can not stand the area of which I grew up. A lot of my family however, are diehard southerners. Confederate flag, southern pride stickers, constant homophobic slurs if you do anything that doesn’t involve getting your hands covered in mud.... all of that. I find it extremely weird, and I’m thankful I never succumbed to the culture I was raised in. Here is where the AITA comes in. I was with that set of family, and told them that I was trying to get a job in a bigger city out of state. They asked why, to which I responded, “ I don’t like Louisiana”. I was met by 3 family members telling me I shouldn’t say things like that, and that I should respect where I was brought up. I also over heard my uncle say “Houston turned him into a city loving rear end in a top hat”. In my opinion I became more of a man living in Houston, and that most of my useful life experience came from living in Houston.
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drat this guy needs to talk to the goon a few posts up who has learned to see through the bullshit by living in Houston unlike the naive simpletons that post alongside him
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Apr 18, 2019 20:28
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for offering to pay for my nephew’s tuition but not my girlfriend’s son? NTA also the GFs kid is still a few years away so why don’t you wait and see if he even gets into a school before getting all pissy?
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Smirking_Serpent posted:AITA for disliking the culture I was raised in and not identifying with it?
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Apr 18, 2019 20:31
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MarcusSA posted:NTA also the GFs kid is still a few years away so why don’t you wait and see if he even gets into a school before getting all pissy? Under the best of circumstances, a single woman with a teenage child probably and understandably prioritizes the willingness and ability of a partner to ease the financial burden of child rearing. Considering this guy's apparently some kind of high roller, she's probably frustrated to find out there are some hard limits to what he is willing to spend in that regard. Given that he apparently has at least a somewhat off-putting personality, if the kid's reaction is any indication, I wonder if she even sees anything in him. She might just not be able to keep up the charade as well if her interest in him is primarily material.
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Mr. Lobe posted:Under the best of circumstances, a single woman with a teenage child probably and understandably prioritizes the willingness and ability of a partner to ease the financial burden of child rearing. Considering this guy's apparently some kind of high roller, she's probably frustrated to find out there are some hard limits to what he is willing to spend in that regard. Given that he apparently has at least a somewhat off-putting personality, if the kid's reaction is any indication, I wonder if she even sees anything in him. If her reaction to the revelation that a person she's been going out with for two years isn't willing to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars on a child he has no responsibility to and never sees is to get extremely angry and frustrated, perhaps she is the rear end in a top hat
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Dazerbeams posted:You can absolutely say thanks but no thanks. Just don't make it a response to one of the guy's jokes or stares. He knows what he's doing and she hasn't told him to stop yet. If the guy has any sense, he'll laugh it off and feign ignorance once he's actually called out. quote:If this were in a vacuum, I’d say something like, “Friend, I’m picking up some vibes from you that I don’t reciprocate” and leave it at that, but that seems too fraught at this time (he’d probably act stupefied and might even throw me under the bus with his wife). As it is, I’m not sure what to do—continue to make plans just with her? Try to find new friends? Say something to one or both of them? I should also mention he’s a beloved local politician in our small Midwestern town, and our paths will likely continue to cross professionally and in the community.
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Mr. Lobe posted:Under the best of circumstances, a single woman with a teenage child probably and understandably prioritizes the willingness and ability of a partner to ease the financial burden of child rearing. Considering this guy's apparently some kind of high roller, she's probably frustrated to find out there are some hard limits to what he is willing to spend in that regard. Given that he apparently has at least a somewhat off-putting personality, if the kid's reaction is any indication, I wonder if she even sees anything in him. Maybe    ? Also I mean if the kid really is with the dad 80% of the time why does none of the responsibility fall on him? Like she just expected this dude to fork over cash?
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