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How do I tell my parents my boyfriend may go to prison?quote:I (23) have been dating my boyfriend(33) for only 7months, although early stages we are both mad for each other and have talked about future plans including living together, having children, getting married etc...however, on our 2nd date he disclosed how he's under investigation for voyeurism at his old workplace and this is why his last relationship ended (a yr ago), resulting in separation from his 2 children (under 5). He has since fought to see them but she is adamant he wont be involved due to his voyeurism and now being put on the sex offenders list. I said from day 1 that there are worse things he could have done and worse things ive experienced and therefore I gave him a chance and ended up loving him. This man is the most genuine, caring and most connected person ive been with and ive had brutal emotionally and physically abusive relationships.I know he wouldnt lay a finger on me.
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Pinecone Sample posted:AITA for telling a woman she looked like a pint of melted rocky road ice cream
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Aug 30, 2019 03:30
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hawowanlawow posted:the enemy of my enemy is not my friend is really baby's first political lesson and should not be a difficult one The enemy of my enemy is next.
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Aug 30, 2019 03:31
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Pinecone Sample posted:How do I tell my parents my boyfriend may go to prison? Holy poo poo the call's coming from inside your naivety! Get out! Also, I think she means exhibitionism instead of voyeurism. I would love to see her face when she hears what he's actually charged with at his trial, or more likely what moronic bullshit excuse she buys as to why she can't attend his trial.
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Aug 30, 2019 03:33
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MagusofStars posted:This location makes perfect sense. Grocery store parking lots are loving insane, far more so than other lots. One time a crazy cat lady was shoveling all kinds of tissues and filth out of her car, just littering in a grocery store parking lot, and I decided to yell really loudly, "you're disgusting, ma'am, you don't belong in society, you cretin" for some reason, I must have been in a bad mood about something She came at me to grab me, but I guess I made a scene and the grocery store manager was out there and grappled with her so I just left
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Aug 30, 2019 03:37
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Admiralty Flag posted:Holy poo poo the call's coming from inside your naivety! Get out! I figured he was recording in the loo or something like that, oi
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Pinecone Sample posted:I figured he was recording in the loo or something like that, oi That's what I guessed for 'voyeurism resulting in sex offender registry status'. How can I (36f) balance my need for security with his (40m) naturally outgoing personality after infidelity? quote:My husband is a naturally very friendly and outgoing person. He loves to be the centre of attention. Adores attention in fact. I am the very opposite, as a shy, quiet introvert. 'Whoops! Sorry sweetie, guess I just forgot to tell her to stop sending me nudes!' Someone in the comments knows the OP! quote:I spoke with him. He said you promised you’d forgiven him and that he wasn’t signed up to live under a microscope forever because he cheated. He’d have left you at that time if he knew that was going to be the deal.
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My boyfriend (26M) won’t stop going to his ex girlfriend to get his hair cut.quote:On mobile and at my wits end, sorry if this is a jumbled mess. How does his hair look, though
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Aug 30, 2019 04:09
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not only do hymens break all the time before a person has sex, but judging by pretty much any erotica I've read involving a virgin, and my own first time having sex, men in general have no loving clue where the hymen even is to begin with lol
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Aug 30, 2019 04:11
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I just assumed her fiances dad was pushing for Prima Nocte
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Pinecone Sample posted:I figured he was recording in the loo or something like that, oi How could I be an  , exposed to the underbelly of Internet sordidness for twelve long years, and not even have that thought cross my mind?Plus you actually have to be convicted of a crime to get on the registry, if I'm not mistaken, so this isn't a first offense.
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Aug 30, 2019 04:18
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Imagine watching Anubis weigh your life against "stayed with sex crime child custody losing boyfriend because we dated for seven months"
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Aug 30, 2019 04:24
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Barudak posted:Imagine watching Anubis weigh your life against "stayed with sex crime child custody losing boyfriend because we dated for seven months" Ammit gonna eat that bitch
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Aug 30, 2019 04:41
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You know Anubis is standing there, feather in hand, asking "bird, eye, wiggly arm, eye" and shes like oh yeah, I got this in the bag while Anubis just sighs.
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Admiralty Flag posted:How could I be an She says "mum" so I'm guessing you can end up on the sex offender registry for watching loo videos without a television licence
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Need advice on dealing with daughter's infidelity. TL;DR: Daughter cheated on her husband, hasn't confessed, and I'm not sure what to do I recently learned that my daughter (37) cheated on her husband (40) of 15 years (together 18). She cheated with a guy they both know and hang out with and that is still regularly in their lives (although she is adamant that the affair is over and their was never an emotional component). Whatever her reasons, cheating was an illegitimate response and it sickens me that she has done this. They have 4 kids (ages 4 -17). My son-in-law doesn't have a clue and I'm fairly certain he would explode if he found out. He might try to hurt the guy or himself. My daughter is remorseful, but apparently not enough to stop it from happening a "couple of times" or to confess. She seems to be unsure whether she wants to try and fix her marriage or divorce. She's my daughter and although I hate what she's done, I have to help her figure out what to do now. I've told her in the past to get into IC and MC, but she hasn't done it. Even if she starts today, the damage is done. At this point, she seems to want to just rugsweep her infidelity it and hope that her husband never finds out. However, she has already told her married best friend about it (who seems to have ghosted her) and her best friend probably told her own husband (who is also good friend of my son-in-law). It seems just a matter of time before my son-in-law finds out. I need to talk to my daughter, but I'm not sure about the best advice to give. The right thing to do would be to tell her to confess (in public, with a bag already packed) and accept the consequences. But the chances are that she won't do that. At least not now. Meanwhile, I have to pretend that everything is normal with my son-in-law. I can't say how I'll react if her affair partner comes around when I'm at their house, but there's no way I'll be able to fake my disdain for him and what he's knowingly done to their marriage. What should I do?
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Keep your sticky beak out of it and don't encourage your daughter to get into situations where you acknowledge she faces violence?
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Aug 30, 2019 05:00
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AITA for being uncomfortable with my boyfriend joining a primarily female club? My boyfriend wants to join the airealist club. It's a club where you tie yourself to ropes and do cool tricks and stuff. The club is mostly female. My boyfriend said it looked fun and wanted to join. I told him how I felt, how it made me uncomfortable, as he'd be surrounded by girls in sports bras and tight Yoga pants. He said he didn't join for the girls and only because he wanted to learn, but I'm still not comfortable with him being in that situation. I feel like a complete rear end in a top hat and want to take back that I even said anything. Edit: I didn't tell him not to join the club, I just said it made me uncomfortable.
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Araenna posted:not only do hymens break all the time before a person has sex, but judging by pretty much any erotica I've read involving a virgin, and my own first time having sex, men in general have no loving clue where the hymen even is to begin with lol someone post the quote from the bad sex in fiction with the line that's like "he heard a soft snapping sound, like a balloon breaking"
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Aug 30, 2019 05:11
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Do you think your boyfriend doesnt have the right kind of areolas to join the club? I bet theyre magnificent, just utterly transcendent, and he shouldnt be held back by your negativity about them.
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Aug 30, 2019 05:27
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My boyfriend wants to join the airealist club. It's a club where you tie yourself to ropes and do cool tricks and stuff. The club is mostly female. My boyfriend said it looked fun and wanted to join. I told him how I felt, how it made me uncomfortable, as he'd be surrounded by girls in sports bras and tight Yoga pants. He said he didn't join for the girls and only because he wanted to learn, but I'm still not comfortable with him being in that situation. Anytime someone wants to learn circus tricks and/or magic tricks you need to be very suspicious of them, but for wildly different reasons than expressed here.
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Sagebrush posted:tell him it's okay as long as you can have your uncle check his butt for butt virginity to ensure he's never had any homosexual experiences. he has nothing to hide, right? 
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Xik posted:My (22f) fiance (25m) want his father to check my hymen tomorrow night before I get married. I'm always amazed by these, you can never tell if it's a religiously crazed islamic country or just the good ol' US
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Xik posted:My (22f) fiance (25m) want his father to check my hymen tomorrow night before I get married. FYI, loads of Muslims do this at the doctor's here and get a note.
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Taima posted:Anytime someone wants to learn circus tricks and/or magic tricks you need to be very suspicious of them, but for wildly different reasons than expressed here. Lol I agree. Also the music teacher one kinda sucks if you take it at face value. I mean it’s Reddit so we absolutely can’t but if we could! He should just go back to being her teacher and stop the outside stuff.
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My [31F] husband [37M] wants to change our open relationship agreement to something that scares me. My husband and I have an open relationship. We have been together for 8 years, married for 2, open for about 7 years to varying degrees. The openness kind of happened naturally and with appropriate discussions as our friends are quite progressive and open and often treat sex as a friend activity rather than always as a romantic activity. Our agreement is that we are romantically monogamous, but sexually open, provided we don't do anything the other would be uncomfortable with and that we would stop if the other needed at any point. However, over the last year and a half my mental health has been really bad, and over the time, as I went out less (and eventually not at all), my husband was continuing being open with current and new friends I don't really know. As I've been recovering in the last few months, particularly from bad physical medication reactions, our relationship needed to be rebuilt and I envoked our relationship clause because I felt really uncomfortable with him connecting with other people sexually when our relationship wasn't strong. He agreed, but the process has made him realise that stopping for any length of time is something that he can only do at the detriment of his own mental health, that being open is more a part of his identity than he realised, and that my asking him to stop makes him feel trapped and controlled. He has realised he can connect with friends more closely and bypass awkward social anxiety to become friends with people he otherwise wouldn't get a chance to, and when things are difficult between us, that's the time he needs friend connection and support the most. Because the relationships started with sex, they suffer when the sexual side is taken away and he is struggling to maintain these friendships, especially as they often hang out at parties where sex is happening. He likes this side of him and doesn't want to do without those connections because they are part of him and who he is, and he likes the progressive openness of the friends we meet this way (me too). I believe him that this is about him connecting with people, and that physical contact means more to him in terms of love languages and comfort and closeness. But I have no need for sex with other people - I like it when we do things with people together or around each other, but I don't feel any compulsion to do it more than it's just a bit of fun, and I've never done anything without him on my own or had any desire. I thought until now that he felt the same way as me, that the sex was a fun extra we had that we didn't NEED. In his ideal world, our revised agreement would be no rules, just trust that he would take my feelings into account when deciding whether or not to do something sexual with someone else - the thing is, he clearly has judged recent times as times he would need to, as he was hurting so much. I don't know if I could deal with him making a decision like that - weighing up our hurts and deciding his hurt meant sexual contact was needed from a friend, even though it would hurt me. It feels like it would break my heart even though I know it wouldn't be a romantic thing. We both love each other and want the other to be happy and together as in almost all other ways we are perfect for each other, but can it ever work when there is a mismatch of openness needs/feelings? Tl;dr my illness has made my husband realise his needs for openness are different than mine and he wants to change our open relationship agreement to something that scares me... can it still work?
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My [31F] husband [37M] wants to change our open relationship agreement to something that scares me. Jesus loving Christ....
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I [25F] said something really stupid to my GF [24F] by accident, now she doesn't believe I didn't mean itquote:Ok so I'm a dumbass. She's actually my first relationship and the first person I had sex with ever, and we are like ridiculously sexually compatible. We've been dating for 5 months now but we knew each other for 2 years as friends before that, and had already developed feelings for each other for a long while. So it definitely feels quite serious already.
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Pinecone Sample posted:Putting the microwave in your bedroom is a game changer because you can makes nachos in bed instead of eating your shredded cheese out of the bag. I’m far back here right now but  callback
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house of the dad posted:I have a big dick and I cry myself to sleep at night. This would be a great thread title. Not here but like in general.
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Ask A Manager needs our help:quote:I am a property manager at an office building and people have recently reported that there’s, well, a building masturbator. He apparently does his business several times a day while listening to music (?????) in a restroom that is open to everyone in the building. He has not been identified yet (and may never be).
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My [31F] husband [37M] wants to change our open relationship agreement to something that scares me.
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[MN] Was not hired for a job because I was told I'm not "really" a Millennialquote:Job wanted "Millennial sensibility" for online marketing. I was born in 1980 which some demographers consider Gen-X and some Gen-Y. I have plenty of experience marketing.
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MagusofStars posted:Imagine being such a sex addict that you cannot make or keep a friend unless you’re actively loving them. Maybe his only skill is sex, but is the most boring person on earth
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DemoneeHo posted:I do not believe this one for a second, but i have low standards I only know about this because of a Japanese Pop Culture course I took in college a couple of decades ago. I have no clue if the gun story is part of the series since I just remembered the name. I loving loved the Chronicles of Narnia when I was a kid. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Banana_Fish For people saying the story would make a great anime, it is an anime, or at least a manga. I think that was the same week I learned about the SpockXKirk fanart that was circulating Japan. We also learned about Beat Takeshi in that class, so it wasn't all yaoi. Edit: beaten lots. I'm wondering if the fan writer of that post plans to work in PizzaGate eventually. Bored fucked around with this message at 14:16 on Aug 30, 2019 |
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AITA for flirting with my teacher when she made it clear that she liked me?quote:Okay, so a little bit of back story first. Recently, I begun school again and I took a geography course. The class is very interesting and I sit with my friends but that’s not the point. I noticed that my geography teacher (Let’s call her Lucy) is being overtly nice and kind to me but not the other students. Obviously, I know she has a crush on me and I kind of have one on her too. quote:UPDATE
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Bored posted:I decided to Google this, since I was pretty sure the urine treatment for jellyfish stings theory was debunked. I was correct. This is a really late reply, but this pissed me off today because I was answering OkCupid questions and this came up "would you piss on your partner to help them". I knew it was bullshit but the only "no" answer available was something like "No I don't care about the pain of my partner"
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beautiful story from the people over at /r/NoStupidQuestions Do people actually eat rear end? quote:Like do people actually use their mouths and tongues on other people’s assholes. Seems kinda disgusting to me. Do people really find pleasure out of that? I see the whole millennials eat rear end meme and I can’t tell if it’s serious or not.
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Pinecone Sample posted:AITA for flirting with my teacher when she made it clear that she liked me? I know students complain about the costs of textbooks but this is exactly why you shouldn't save money by buying older editions of "Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Women's Interest Signals"
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Barudak posted:I know students complain about the costs of textbooks but this is exactly why you shouldn't save money by buying older editions of "Field Guide to Women's Interest Signals" At the start of that I thought it was a guy talking about going back to college after a break, so maybe like mid-20s and he's taking like geography 101 so it's a grad student teaching; but then I hit the second/third sentence...
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